Psy 409 A,
10/2/05
By Michelle Ching
An Understanding of Emotional
Intelligence
Dr. Leon James, Road Rage and Aggressive Driving.
Prometheus Books, Amherst:
New York 2000. Pgs. 111-119
Instructions
for this activity are found at:
http://www.soc.hawaii.edu/leonj/leonj/leonpsy23/409a-g23-oral.htm
Concept 1: I. Inner Power tools – techniques smart
drivers use to retrain their emotional intelligence. Provides a
means to restructure assessments of situations
1.
Venting
– mental mechanism for justifying aggression and amplifying it to epic
proportions leads to explosive impulsive actions
2.
Consequences – Deep regret, embarrassment,
financial loss, depression, injury, or death
B. Relaxation
techniques to reduce physical arousal
1. Consciously
breathing slowly and relaxing
C. Mental reappraisal of the situation
1.
Systematically
observing your thinking
Road rage – Irrational mental habits including anger and self-righteousness
A. Six components that can be
learned with practice
1.
Reappraising
a situation and look for alternative explanations
2.
Self-regulate
negative mood shifts
3.
Empathize
with “other side”
4.
Persist
in plan despite distracting frustrations
5.
Control
or neutralize aggressive impulses
6.
Think
with positive outcomes
|
Emotional
Intelligence Level |
State of
Feelings |
Sequence of
Thoughts |
Type of
Actions |
|
1 |
oppositional |
irrational |
Selfish,
reckless, impulsive and hostile; constantly expresses criticism; feels
insulted and insecure |
|
2 |
defensive |
logical |
Suspicious,
wary, and competitive, but prudent and restrained; expresses worries and
complaints |
|
3 |
supportive |
prosocial |
Helpful and
friendly; gives others the benefit of the doubt; expresses enjoyment and
optimism |
Related Web
Links: www.uwsp.edu/education/lwilson/learning/emot.htm
Daniel Goleman
http://www.answers.com/topic/road-rage
- Definition
http://www.nysgtsc.state.ny.us/aggr-ndx.htm
overview of aggressive driving
My Home Page:
http://www.soc.hawaii.edu/leon/409af2005/ching/home.htm
The G23 Class
Home Page: http://www.soc.hawaii.edu/leonj/leonj/leonpsy23/classhome-g23.htm