Psychology 409a- October 3rd, 2005

My Fourth Outline of Assigned Readings

By Kalena Luney

Decreasing Anger

 

Leon James and Diane Nahl (2000). Road Rage and Aggressive Driving: Steering Clear of Highway Warfare. (Amherst, N.Y.: Prometheus Books) Pages 120-132

 

Instructions for this activity are found at:

www.soc.hawaii.edu/leonj/leonj/leonpsy23/409a-g23-oral.htm

 

Instructor: Dr. Leon James

 

I.  What is your emotional territory?

a.)   emotional territory is all of the things you care about, no matter how big or

small.  If our emotions are involved, we become protective of our view.  By shrinking this territory, we would not see others actions as a personal attack on ourselves.

b.)   I get offended easily, however I can recognize that by shrinking the extent to

which I care about things, the less angry I would get when I feel the things I care about are getting attacked.

c.)   Shrinking this emotional territory seems like it would be disrespectful to

ourselves and that we might in fact be losing some of what we hold dear.  However, the effects it may have on our positive encounters may be worth it.

II.  How to reframe your negative thoughts

a.)   through self-witnessing, one can look at their thoughts and the potential

outcomes of those thoughts and by reframing those thoughts, can cope with the dangers and emotions affiliated with driving.

b.)   This is a way I deal with anger in my daily life.  I always let myself look at

positive and it makes the negative seem like not such a big deal.

c.)   This is important because if people become aware of their feelings and know

how to deal with them, they are less likely to act out on impulse, thus making the roads a safer place

III.  Changing your routine

a.)   take actions to avoid the stressors that usually initiate anger in yourself. 

Leave early, or take a different route to avoid the traffic if that is a stressor for you. 

b.)   I am always early because it is how I’ve learned to deal with anxiety.  I would

rather be two hours early then ten minutes late.  This way, I avoid any anxiety I would feel if I got stuck in traffic.

c.)   This would be an effective tool to combat road rage with because it relieves

stress and offers a solid action one can take to avoid anxiety.

 

Related Links:

www.aipsarmy.com/programdetails/d3.html

www.self-injury.net/stopping/how.php

www.mindtools.com/redpstv.html

 

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