Psychology 409a, November 23, 2005

My Seventh Outline of Assigned Readings

By Yu Takebayashi

Supportive Driving

 

James, Dr. Leon and Nahl, Dr. Diane.  “Road Rage and Aggressive Driving:  Steering Clear of Highway Warfare.”  Prometheus Books:  New York.  2000.  p167-177.

 

Instructions for this activity are found at:

www.soc.hawaii.edu/leonj/leonj/leonpsy23/409a-g23-oral.htm

Instructor:  Dr.  Leon James

 

Concept 1:  Communication between drivers

A.     Communication between drivers, or “motorist to motorist communication”, are the ways drivers interact with each other while on the road.  Since some previous ways of communication (waving at someone to let them know they can go) have been partially blamed in accidents, the National Motorists Association proposed seven “new” signals for drivers.

1.      Apology:  hold two fingers in a V position, palm out

2.      Slow down, danger ahead:  turn your headlights on and off, activate your brake lights or extend your left arm and motion downward

3.      Lane courtesy (please yield left lane):  turn the left directional light on and off, 4 to 6 blinks at a time

4.      Pull over for problem:  point in the direction of the problem, then signal “thumbs down”

5.      Light problem (check your lights):  open and close your hand touching the thumb and fingertips together

6.      Need assistance:  make the sign of a T by crossing one hand above the other

7.      I understand (Thank you):  use the well-understood thumbs up or “ok”

B.     This new system of signals could work but only if everyone was aware of them.  To do this, we would need to teach this in driver’s ed class or make it a law to know these signals.  If everyone was not aware of what these signals meant, if someone else did them it wouldn’t make any sense.  Worst case scenario:  it could be a gang sign and you might get shot if they didn’t know.

C.    I think having this type of set of signals wouldn’t work too well.  I don’t think people would go out of their way to learn them, and some people wouldn’t even know about them.  The only way I can see it working is if it was required by the law or driving test to know them.

Concept 2:  Training for Supportive Driving

A.     “If you adopt and practice a supportive driving style you’re protected from the road rage of other drivers because you’re committed to putting up the least sail in their angry wind.”  Having sympathy for other drivers and not assuming that they are just trying to ruin your day, are two important things in supportive driving.

B.     The example in the book talks about how the driver recognized that he was making assumptions and that it wasn’t the right thing to do.  Since he realized this, he is freed from all the negative emotions that come along with the assumption he was about to make.  If everyone practiced this type of attitude when driving, there would be a lot less cases of aggressive driving and road rage.

C.    I agree that thinking positively and not blaming people can help tremendously when driving.  But as I have experienced myself, and I’m sure many others have, it is very hard to keep your cool sometimes.  Like the book says, this is a process that you have to practice and even Dr. James who has been practicing this for awhile still has trouble sometimes.

Concept 3:  Three Levels of How People Drive

A.     There are three levels of how people drive:  oppositional driving, defensive driving, and supportive driving (the type of driving we should strive for).  Oppositional driving involves a culture of disrespect on highways, the trigger theory of anger, and an aggressive and hostile style.  Defensive driving involves treating all drivers the same way, maintaining a competitive attitude, and remaining vulnerable to anger and opposition.  Supportive driving involves a supportive attitude toward other drivers, tolerance of pluralism, and feeling integrated with the flow of traffic.

B.     Understanding what level of driving you participate in is the first step to becoming a better driver.  It will probably take awhile to get to the supportive driving level for most of us, but acknowledging is a big step to getting there.

C.    I personally think I’m at second level (defensive driving).  I’m not all that aggressive or hostile, but I still do feel competitive and feel insulted sometimes when people cut me off or pass me.  Now I have to work on the way I think and feel, to alter my bad habits of thinking in those ways.

My Homepage:

www.soc.hawaii.edu/leon/409af2005/takebayashi/home.htm

Class Homepage:

www.soc.hawaii.edu/leonj/leonj/leonpsy23/classhome-g23.htm

Related Weblinks:

http://www.soc.hawaii.edu/leonj/459f97/maryeliz/report2.html how drivers communicate with eachother

http://www.healthylife.net/body/DrivHazArt.html acquire a supportive driving attitude, don’t challenge aggressive drivers

http://www.arrivealive.co.za/roadrage.asp?mc=roadrage&nc=rrinterventions&title=rrinterventions supportive driving is better than oppositional or overly defensive driving