My Sixth Outline
Three-Step
Driver Self Improvement
This is a presentation of Road Rage and Aggressive Driving
By: Dr. Leon
James & Dr. Diane Nahl, Prometheus Books, 2000; Pgs. 133 Š 150
By Kyle
Santos
Instructions
for this oral presentation are found at:
www.soc.hawaii.edu/leonj/leonj/leonpsy22/g22-oral.htm
- Introduction
- Acknowledgment:
acknowledging you need a better understanding of the road rage syndrome.
- Witness:
Self witnessing your own aggressive acts and tendencies.
- Modify:
Changing your driving personality around what you witnessed.
- Acknowledgement
- The
first step to driving enlightenment is to acknowledge the issue.
i. You
must understand that you donÕt fully understand Road Rage and its role in your
life.
- Important
to understand that you are not always in control of your emotions.
- We
also become different people when we get behind the wheel.
i. We
stop being friendly and caring and become hostile and resentful.
- ItÕs
impossible to change something without first coming to terms with its
existence.
- Most
problems are subconscious, so we arenÕt really aware they exist most of
the time.
- Witnessing
- Next
step, observing the acts and tendencies you have.
- Important
to understanding what exactly needs to be changed.
- Can
be large issues
i. Speeding
ii. Drinking
and driving
iii. Running
red lights
iv. Profane
language aimed at other motorists
- Can
also be small details
i. Braking
style (hard, last-minute braking, or soft, smooth breaking)
ii. Breathing
Š shallow or deep
iii. Body
tension
- Witnessing
done through verbalizing thoughts and feelings
i. Create
a play-by-play depiction of whatÕs going on in your mind as you drive
- You
can use tape recorders to record what youÕre doing while you drive.
- This
is a very useful step. IÕm
sure we would all be completely shocked at what came out of your mouths
while we drove.
- Modify
- The
most obvious step is also a very difficult step
- Once
we know what the problems are, we need to work to fix them.
- Different
solutions exist for different problems, for different people.
i. If
you get angry because of traffic making you late, leave earlier.
ii. If
you find yourself speeding, consciously slow down and keep tabs of your current
speed.
iii. Avoid
anger at other drivers by repeating calming phrases and ides to yourself when
something bad happens.
- Modification
requires detailed inventory of your style and habits. You must be honest. You must be constructive.
i. Hyping
yourself up will only exacerbate the problem.
- Conclusion
- This
three step program is very intriguing and IÕm sure very helpful. Self-witnessing would shed some
light on many of our problems that result in extra stress and anxiety
when driving. Some people
hate to drive and driving should be an enjoyable activity. This program would certainly help
one get to the root of that problem.
Helpful Links:
http://www.soc.hawaii.edu/leonj/499f97/suzuki/dra/file1.html
http://drdriving.org
http://www.users.globalnet.co.uk/~ebdstudy/strategy/behave.htm
Homepage:
http://www.soc.hawaii.edu/leon/409af2005/santos/home.htm