Table 3

Two Stages of a Driving Personality Makeover Plan

 


Stage 1--Avoiding Being an Aggressive Driver
 


Affective Level
Overcoming my resistance to change

 

Cognitive Level
Learning to do rational analyses of traffic incidents

Sensorimotor Level
Acting out civil behavior

 

  • committing myself to inhibit or mitigate states of anger and retaliation
  • making it acceptable for passenger to complain or make suggestions
  • making it unacceptable for myself to ridicule or demean other drivers
  • activating higher motives within myself such as love of order and fair play, public spiritedness, charity, kindness to strangers

·          reasoning against  my attribution errors (It's always their fault.  It's never my fault)

·         counteracting my self-serving bias in how I view incidents

·         acquiring more socialized self-regulatory sentences I can say to myself

·         waving, smiling, signaling

·         not crowding, not rushing in, not swearing

·         not aggressing against passengers

·         pretending that I'm in a good mood even when not

 

 


Stage 2--Becoming a Supportive Driver
 

Affective Level
Maintaining a supportive orientation towards other drivers

 

Cognitive Level
Analyzing driving situations objectively

Sensorimotor Level
Behaving in a cooperative style

 

·        feeling responsible for errors and seeking opportunities to make reparations

·        feeling regret at my unfriendly behaviors and impulses

·        feeling good about behaving with civility or kindness

·        feeling appreciation when being given advice by passenger

·        being forgiving of others' mistakes and weaknesses

·        acknowledging and knowing my driving errors

·        planning and rehearsing the modification of those habits

·        analyzing other drivers' behaviors objectively or impartially

 

 

·        anticipating the needs of other drivers and being helpful to them

·        verbalizing nice sentiments

·        enjoying the ride and relaxing