1. The Dominance Phase
1. Laying it out
   1. Zone 1a (sensorimotor dominance)
      1. Starting at the bottom of the threefold self
      2. Where the husband is pleasured when and where he says
   2. Zone 2a (cognitive dominance)
      1. Husband's thougts are more important then the wife's thoughts
      2. Wife should be compliant to what he thinks
   3. Zone 3a (affective dominance)
      1. The wife is expected to cater to the husband's feelings at all times
      2. Her feelings do not count; she needs to "put them away"
2. The Establishment
1. Zone 3b-->2b-->1b
2. Means affective dominance has been established so its influences can be seen through the sensorimotor actions
3. Growth to the Equity Model is not possible unless the husband chooses
2. The Equity Phase
1. Laying it out
   1. Zone 4a (sensorimotor equity)
      1. Start to negotiate situation
      2. Husband may still try to instill his dominance
      3. Allows wife to have a "say"
   2. Zone 5a (cognitive equity)
      1. Husband realizes that the wife has rights too
      2. Husband may "act" like he respects her views
   3. Zone 6a (affective equity)
      1. Husband still feels that he needs to "voice" his independence
      2. Husband feels that "power" should be "equal"; if anything he may still need to feel some "control" over things
2. The Establishment
1. Zone 6b-->5b-->4b
2. Means affective equity has been established so it influences can be seen through the sensorimotor actions
3. Husband and wife routinely follow the above pattern
4. Growth to the Unity Model is not possible unless the husband becomes "enlightened spiritually and rationally"
3. The Unity Phase
   1. Laying it out
      1. Zone 7a (sensorimotor unity)
         1. Husband is receptive to wife's thoughts and inner feelings (pleasuring the wife)
         2. Disagreements do not occur
      2. Zone 8a (cognitive unity)
         1. Eliminates things of himself that are not compatible with his wife's views, etc.
         2. Aligning self with the wife's preferences (feelings)
      3. Zone 3a (affective unity)
         1. Feels that the relationship can go into eternity (after death)
         2. Realizes eternity together is a total union
   2. The Establishment
   1. Zone 9b-->8b-->7b
   2. Means affective unity has been established so it influences can be seen through the sensorimotor actions
   3. Husband has gotten used to the above pattern with the wife's help
   4. Feels that aligning self with his wife will help them to gain conjugial love

Tiffany Akiyama © Fall 2006