Outline 1
The Proper Care
and Feeding of Husbands
This is a
presentation of The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands, Dr. Laura
Schlessinger, Harper Collins Publishers Inc., 2004, pages 27-41
By Wing Kin Fan
Instructions for
this oral presentation are found at:
http://www.soc.hawaii.edu/leonj/leonj/leonpsy22/g22-oral.htm
1) Start treating your men better so your men will treat
you better, too.
a) It becomes more true that when two get married.
b) Men usually are not the one who are more active in terms of changing.
c) When women start treating men better, men can sense it.
d) Men are like mirrors; they reflect how women treat them.
Example: I think all guys are pretty much a mirror; we reflect how girls treat us.
When a girl treat me good, I have no reason to treat her bad. On the other hand, if a girl treat me bad, I don’t have to treat her good, neither. That’s how our society works. We work because we want the reward. I always tell my girlfriend that “love is just like an investment. The more you invest, the more interest you will get. However, if you keep withdraw it, one day it is going to be end. So before it comes to an end, you will need to invest more. And I will do the same thing to you.”
2) When a woman behaves sexily……….the man will even slay
the dragon for his
family.
a) Biologically, men are designed to detect sexy women.
b) All men like sexy women.
c) If a man knows there is a sexy woman, this man will become more energetic than ever.
d) Men will probably do anything in order to get a sexy woman.
e) Men will also do anything to contribute to a sexy woman.
Example: I think men are genetically designed to be attracted to sexy women. In
history, many emperors or leaders
got in deep trouble because of women.
In the story of Troy, Helen of the Troy was the main fuse between the
two empires. The prince paid a
very heavy price just because of one woman. Beethoven, a very famous musician, was tested that the cause
of his death was STD. Experts
studied his hair and found this cause.
I believe Beethoven got his STD from a woman, not from a man. So the point is, when a man found a
sexy woman, he will sacrifice himself just to contribute to this woman.
3) Men sometimes would like to do some “guy stuff”
without women’s presence.
Example: Men need some free time to do some “guy stuff” with other guys too. Just like talking about how good or bad their women are, men wouldn’t like women to join a conversation like that. Cards and pool are also women’s restrictions.
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