This is my first Outline
This is an outline of “The Proper Care and Feeding
of Husbands”
by Laura Schlessinger Page 96-109
a)
To improve relationship between wife and husband, wife needs to learn how to
take care of her own emotions!
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Do not bother when the husband
comes home for at least 30 minutes.
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Give husband time to unwind
his mind.
b)
Usually, the housewives are waiting for their husbands to come home, so the
wives can report what had happened. The wives also want to discuss about
certain family situation such as children’s grades, behaviors, and so on.
However, the husbands are usually too tired to talk. Therefore, wives irritate
the husbands. Then wives accused the husbands for not getting involved with
family matter enough.
c)
This is typical problem we can see in our society, but….
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Shouldn’t women have right to
express their emotions to husband?
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Why not the husband can be
listener? After all, when the wives need to talk about family matter, it is
husband’s matter too!
a) The wives need to let go
“stupid things”, and should accept the husband as
“men”. Forgiveness is key to the
happy marriage!
b) Typical complains:
The
husband often thinks that his wife is never grateful and satisfied with
him. The wife often thinks that her husband is
not sensitive and he never helps
with house chores. The negative thinking keeps
going and going….
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Husband becomes more
disgruntled.
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Wife becomes more frustrated.
c) Once gain, why only women need to become more
patient person?
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Doesn’t the marriage should be
two persons party?
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Should husbands always have
the right to control over the wives?
a) Be clear! Don’t just give hints to the husbands!
Let him know exactly what
is on your minds.
b) Anniversaries Example: Women always think that
“if he loves me, he will
remember about our anniversaries, and he will
surprised me with a diamond
ring!”. WRONG! The husbands usually don’t care
about special occasions as
much as the wives.
c) I agree
to this idea. I think that women love to play mind game with her
special someone. However, the easiest way to
communicate is to tell exactly
what is on women’s mind! Then, the men will know
for sure what women
want!
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