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As a budding, wanna be psychologist, I enjoy people watching--just observing as others walk through malls, airports, or restaurants. Often I try to predict people's relationships by watching their interactions. Are they married? Are they on their first date? Are they siblings? I also try to guess people's emotions. Happy? Dismayed? Angry? By observing their body language and facial expressions, it is sometimes easy to tell how they are feeling and what kind of relationship they have with others around them.
1. Introduction
On Your Mark....Get Set...Go!
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There were several different newsgroups from which I read messages from; they included:
1) alt.autos.camaro.firebird.rec.autos.driving
2) alt.autos.sport.nhra<
3) alt.listserv.dsshe-1
4) alt.general
5) rec.autos.driving
6) misc.transport.trucking
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I think newsgroups are used as a vessel to educate, socialize, opinionize and vent frustrations. However, I think it is mainly a way for people to share their ideas about different subject areas which they have strong opinions about in a safe, non-judgmental environment.
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The students of G5were assigned to do a report on Newsgroups. Entitled "The Social Psychology of Newsgroups," the students reported about the trials and tribulations of becoming newsgroup participants. Their reports were very informative and helpful to me. I read the reports of May Rose Isnec, Jay Sakoda, and Skye Nakayama.
2. How Newsgroups are Described in the Generational Curriculum
Seeing Through the Eyes of Others
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Both Jay and May Rose chose alt.tasteless.jokes.
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As I was reading the many newsgroups messages, I began to notice many different attitudes. Anger, indifference, and hope were a few of the attitudes I observed while reading the messages. The following are several of the more frequently and strongly expressed attitudes.
1. The I-Know Everything and You-Know-Nothing Attitude
Everyone seems to have their own theories on what has caused the road rage phenomenon and why it is being perpetuated. These people feel they are always right, and that it is their duty to tell others what they are doing wrong.. The I-Know-Everything-ers seem to dominate the scene--they have very strong opinions and are not afraid to scream them out for the world to see. Below are two of the I-Know-Everything-ers I came across.
Has anyone ever noticed that the best way to get someone to go faster is
to pass them? Maybe that's why someone in the left lane ends up going as
fast as the person that they were trying to pass? That's happened to me
many, many times. The truth of the whole "road rage" is that most of the
people on the road are irrational and powerless in their everyday lives.
When they are behind the wheel, they believe that they have the power and
can justify stupidity in any number of ways. How sad......
The whole "road rage"thing is a scam designed by a few greedy psychobabblers to garner some extra publicity. Needless to say, statists promote it as if it existed since doping so gives them an excuse to foist ever more expensive and restrictive government upon the people.
Some of the Newsgroups participants are put to sleep *yawn* by the whole road rage debate. They see no reason why people should spend their time contemplating trouble on the roads, the cause of this trouble, and what can be done about it. In general, these newsgroup-ers probably wait for others to solve a problem for them; they are content to watch as others take action. The following message is a classic example of the attitudes of these people:
>Subject: Re: Road Rage, The Final Chapter
Boring, boring, boring..................................................
Road rage grows as our highways become overcrowded and as the values of our society change. We, as a society, are becoming more concerned about "me, me, me" and less about the next guy; this attitude is slowly weakening the fibers that connect us. The "me-first" attitude allows people to shove aside the well-being of others and promotes self-advancement. Selfishness and complete disregard for the well being of others fuels the attitude of the "couldn't care less" group.
when I drive I just don't give a damn.
I literally do not care.
At traffic lights I use the "Starman Method": Green means go; red
means stop; yellow means go very fast. As a result, the light is
often already red when I get there. One day I'll pay the price, but
it's not a bad thing at all.
Speed limits? Turn signals? No one else bothers; why should I?
Granted, this ain't my method of choice, but it's not a bad one
either. And I must admit, should I get into a head-on, I wonder what
the other driver will think, seeing that the short, balding guy in
the car hurtling toward him is smiling broadly :-) Sure, it'll be
too bad for the other person(s), but then again no one particularly
cares that I hurt either.
4. Let's Solve the Problem!
It is refreshing to read that some people want to make positive changes in their driving environment and in the world. They have started to make an effort to ease the tensions which are built while driving. The following message is an affirmative response to someone else's suggestion for a more relaxed driving experience. The message provides hope for a growing problem and also suggests an attitude of tolerance and optimism in the newsgroup community.
Nancy wrote:
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> Try to turn on some quiet music and make good use of the time instead. I
> don't let it bother me. It gives me time to be alone with my thoughts and
> enjoy the music that I love. Responding to an angry driver only adds to the
> possibility that road rage will cause him to harm you or another driver in
> his way down the road. Let him/her go.
Probably the best advice that could be offered. Let the bastards go on
their way -- and bother someone else. . .
The negative attitudes drivers expose in newsgroups illustrates their feelings of helplessness, hopelessness, and irritation in their driving environment. Peole feel they are out of control when they are on the roads--they are at the mercy of drivers who are impatient and angry. They do not know what to do about the problem so they become angry and aggressive themselves. Instead of looking for a solution, they become entangled in the negativity.
If my philosophy is correct--that we are fast becoming a "me first" society--all of us will suffer because of it. If everyone wants to force himself to the front of the driving pack to reach his destination five seconds faster...I shudder to think of how this growing selfishness will affect society in other realms. Selfishness and angry band-aid solutions are reactions which will multiply in number and in strength in future generations...unless we relearn and reform.
The Congressional Testimony by Dr. Leon "Driving" James is very informative. In the written and verbal testimony he gave to Congress on July 17, 1997, Dr. James presents theories on the possible causes of road rage, how drivers can reform themselves, and what changes should be made for the future.
Dr. James also theorizes that defensive driving courses increase our volatility on the road; he believes the courses promote a negative mentality while driving. Although most people assume defensive driving makes travelling safer, Dr. James thinks defensive driving "teaches [drivers] to assume the worst." The bad attitude, he says, promotes aggressive driving.
1) Quality Driving Circles. In these "circles," drivers would meet and talk about problems they encounter on the road and ways to solve them. The rationality behind these circles is that people feel better after they talk about their problems; even if the problems on the road do not decrease, sympathetic ears and group support help alleviate anger on the road.
2) New Driver's Education. Dr. James believes Driver's Ed. must be reformed. The reformed Driver's Ed would teach emotional intelligence skills such as:
3) Children Against Road Rage (CARR). CARR is another vision of Dr. James--a program which would educate children and shape them into intelligent travelling citizens.
I also suggested earlier that our society is fast evolving into a "me-first, egocentric" society--a society which forgets that each individual must be a part of a whole to survive. We forget that we are all dependent upon one another for survival, that cooperation is essential to the advancement of the group...and the individual.
Dr. James provides three solutions to the "aggressive driving" problem. I think the suggestions, if followed correctly, would not only change the driving mentality, it would also reform our outlook on life.
Newsgroups are a faceless, somewhat nameless way for people to communicate on a chosen subject. They provide an environment for anyone and everyone to exchange and promote ideas. Everyone is welcome. Everyone is given an equal opportunity. Everyone is respected...well, almost everyone.
In general, newsgroups are a healthy way for people to communicate. For example, physical predjudice is eliminated from the newsgroup experience. Because face to face contact is not possible, unfair judgements can't be made based on the color of someone's skin.
However, stereotypes are still evident in the newsgroup community. People still have pre-conceived attitudes based on information they get from reading messages. For example, while reading the "aggressive driving" newsgroups, I noticed that drivers are categorized as being "problem-starters" if they drive in the left lane at a speed which is intolerable by another. In newsgroups, people still manage to clump and group others in an unflattering way.
As in the "real world," people in virtual communities are still heavily influenced by others around them. Group dissonance is evident in newsgroups. One bad seed can ruin the group's entire synthesis. For example, one person's negativity can blossom into a negativity that is felt by the entire group. On the other hand, the group can be led by someone whose prescence can change the mind set of the group in a positive, helpful way.
The socialization process is also evident in newsgroups. As more people become part of a virtual community, the way society communicates changes. It is evident that the attitudes of drivers are also socialized. People learn their attitudes from other drivers and also pass these attitudes--whether they be negative or positive--to their children and to anyone who rides with them.
Advice for future generations to investigate newsgroups and their attitudes? I believe that time, participation, and critical thinking are key.
3. Attitudes and Newsgroups
Show Me the Attitude!
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From: tbrightman@aol.com (TBrightman)
Date: 1997/09/17
Newsgroups: alt.autos
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From: gibson@prairienet.org
Date: 1997/09/20
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From: deepnhock@aol.com (DEEPNHOCK)
Date: 1997/09/14
Newsgroups: alt.autos.sport.nhra
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From: anon-14714@anon.twwells.com (Harvester of Sorrow)
Date: 1997/10/10
Newsgroups: alt.support.depression
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From: Arnold Daitch
Date: 1997/09/11
Newsgroups: atl.general
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4. Is There a Moral Crisis in Driving Attitudes?
Crash and Burn or Sunday Cruising?
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how to behave as passengers
how to develop and sustain a positive driving philosophy
how to use inner power techniques to manage emotions in traffic
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5. Conclusion
Tying it All Together
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