Psychology of Online Virtual Relationships:

*You Don't Know Me*

 
 
Table of Contents:
Past Generations:
 

Discussion Group on Virtual Relationships
False identities is something that is unavoidable in the virtual reality world, also known as the internet and "on line".  It is a fact, people want to be what they are not, and the internet is a perfect way to live a different life style and be a different person.  Everything from being better looking to being an opposite sex is possible in virtual reality.

Other things that happen are the complete opposite.  People often create an image that they are not. (In the "real world")  Often, to meet societies "norms" people act a certain way just to fit in.  These people can then show their true self in the virtual world, where they can't be noticed by their peers.

Some people actually can "come out of the closet" in a sense that, they will be free to state their opinions and act how they feel.  It may come to the point that they spend all of their free time on the net.  This can be devastating, to their family and friends, and to themselves.  Becoming addicted to the virtual world is becoming common.  I sometimes feel that I have to go on line or I'll be missing out on something.  When my computer went down I immediately wanted to go and buy a new computer while waiting to get my current computer fixed.  My excuse was, "I need a spare one just incase it breaks down again."

I admit, I'd feel lost without my computer.  How do I know?  Well, being without a computer for 3 days made me feel lost.  I didn't know what to do.  My friends teased me.  They told me things like:
I might have been funny to them, but to me it wasn't a joke.  I told them when my computer was fixed I was going to send them some viruses.  I didn't mean it, but the thought did cross my mind.
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Quentin Jones
This article was very confusing to me.  It tried to explain how the relationship between technology and on line behavior.  It mentions that the virtual community is a new form of community.  These virtual communities exist because we can't carry on the public discussions long enough.  Maybe it is in our programming that we as humans have to inhabit and/or control (take over) everything, and the virtual world is just another place/thing to conquer.

In conclusion to my opinions with this article, I found that Virtual communities exist because it is a world in which we can fully express our ideas, attitudes, and anger toward everything and anything.  Hey, if my name wasn't on this report and if I wasn't being graded (judged) upon my opinions to this article, who knows what I might have said about it.  I guess you'll never know...
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Titanic Chatrooms
The Titanic Chatrooms were very nice.  This was the first chat room I really ever participated in.  Form the Titanic Chat site I was able to choose from a variety of rooms.  The rooms that you can visit are from all parts of the ship.  As you enter a room a there are a few pictures of the ship from the movie.  I felt kind of cozy as memories of the movie popped into my head.  The people were basically chatting about the movie and what they liked about it and what they felt about it.  It was a very enjoyable experience to see what people were actually saying.  Everyone was fairly nice, especially after I told them I was from Hawaii.  We chatted for about 15 minutes about life in paradise and I left.  (I started to get a headache and got tired of typing.)  If it wasn't for that I would have stayed on.
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Beer Clubs
The Beer Club I visited was  called "The Beer Tour" it was formed for beer lovers that have a hard time getting the many different variety of beer to their local stores.  The members of this club gets 2 deliveries of different beer a Month.  They also receive newsletters and recipes for different beers.
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Music and Audio Forums
The Music & Audio Connection Recording Forum is formed to help people with questions about a variety of recording mediums.  From here you may post a question or answer a question.  I noticed that it takes as little as half an hour to get a response.  Like any thing else on the Internet we must use our judgment on what advice to follow.  I could give advice to someone without really knowing what I was talking about.  Just be careful on the advice given to you, maybe it might be better to wait until you get enough responses to your question and pick the most common, if you have no other choice.
 
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The Game Room
This gameroom is a store on the web.  They sell merchandise like Billiard tables, cues, poker tables, soda machines, popcorn carts, pinball machines etc.  I choose this game room because my hobbies are Billiards and Darts along with playing music.  They also sell antique jukeboxes and Replicas.   They also sell SLOT MACHINES some of them legal in all 50 states.
 
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The Internet C@fe Honolulu
The Internet Cafe in Honolulu was pretty well set up.  They had projected an image of Hawaii.  There was a section on Kikaida and how Hawaii's children loved the program.  Mentioned also, was the Miss Universe Pageant that was brought to the Islands for 1998.  A live camera is also set up inside of their shop, I guess so you can see who's there and what the place looks like, however, it was not working when I tried clicking on it.

The people who visit the internet cafe can order drinks and food while they surf the web. I'm not really sure but, I think most of these people do not have their own computer at home or that they are away from home. When they first opened up I visited it, and most of the people were looking at adult sites. I am not sure if it has changed since then.
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Past Generations:
Ashinaga (G5)
Asako Shingawa's report on Cyberspace and Mind helped me to understand the differences of being a citizen and a netizen.  When we are in the virtual realm we are not judged by the color of our skin, gender, or age.  This leaves only your true or false identity to be judged.  Why did I say true or false?  Well, in virtual reality we can be almost anything we want to be or we can show our true self.
The virtual existence is measured upon how active you are.  She mentions that you are not truly a netizen until you actively have your own home page, e-mail, and links to other pages.
I feel that her report has given me the energy to do my reports.  She was in a similar situation in entering this course.  She had hardly ever touched a computer, just like me.  I felt that I had to become an active Virtual Player by becoming a true netizen and doing my part in this Whole New World.
 
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Marini (G5)
Marini Singh's report helped me realize the fact that "Virtual presence begins with a click on a link."  A virtual presence occurs with communication.  It is mentioned how even when you decide not to click onto a link, it reflects your sprit.
While doing my research for this report, I kept it in my mind that, "If I don't click on the links then I won't be giving justice to the author of their sites.  I felt that all of the work put into their pages should be, at the least, enjoyed.  I tried to remember that, "Hey, I'm putting this link here for a reason.  Please click on it." well, that's how I feelSorry about that, I was just trying to make a point.
Anyway, I tried to design my reports so that the readers become more active thus, giving you a virtual presence.
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Shintani (G5)
Ryan Shintani's report on Cyberspace and Mind was very interesting.  A thought came to me while reading his report.  I realized that I am actually very involved in the internet.  Right now it is not really affecting anyone, but soon I shall be a link in another future student's report or reports.  Just the mere presence of this and all of my reports, I am affecting the internet.
The day that you put anything onto the internet you are adding a piece, a strand if you will, to the great big "Virtual WEB."  If one of the stands of the web are broken or cut off, then someone is being affected by this change, and so on.  For example, if one of my links were to stop working, all of the people reading my report will be affected by the change.  I notice it all the time while surfing the internet and you will too.  It's another certainty of life.  (the other, of course, is death)
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How This Research Affected Me
This research has broadened my views on Virtual Relationships.  It is very interesting, it seems that we are becoming more dependent on the computer then I ever imagined.  While doing these reports my computer at home died.  The mother board knocked out and I had to replace it.  Luckily all of my files were still there after I repaired it.  Funny thing though, as I was waiting for the part to come in, I realized that I felt so lost without my computer.  I never really thought that I could have such an attachment.  I felt sad and confused on how and when this change occurred.  Before taking this course I hardly ever touched my computer, I had it for about 2 years before taking this course.  Now I use it everyday, from browsing the WWW to checking my e-mail.  Wow!  I can't believe it.  I think I'm hooked.
 
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My Impressions and Reactions of My Classmates
My classmates reports are a work of art.  I know that a lot of time and effort was put into their reports.  I could almost see the blood, sweat, and tears that was put into their reports.  It's amazing how many different styles each individual had.  Everyone had wonderful pages it's pretty hard to believe that most of us had no idea on how to create a web page before taking this course.  All of the reports look as if it were done by professionals.  Congratulations fellow classmates on a job well done!; )
 
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Suggestions for Future Generations
If you are not computer literate and hardly ever touched computer, get ready for a change that will affect you forever.  Don't be afraid to take risks, explore and play with the computer.  Experiment with everything don't leave a stone unturned.  As I roamed the Virtual Realm I wondered...  "How did they do that" so I experimented and copied the some of the tricks with page design.  These Reports you see  went through a metamorphosis, it went through its own evolution, and so will yours.  But, to evolve you must change, some changes will not work and some will.  So good luck and most of all have fun.
 
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"The Future is In Your Hands"
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"You Don't Know Me"
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