The DEVELOPMENT of the THREEFOLD SELF:
I. We unthinkingly acquire
beneficial as well as harmful and irrational habits through our
ethnicity
& socialism.
II. We become aware that some
of our habits are harmful & irrational through moral
teachings and our innate rational conscience.
III. We either fight against
our harmful & irrational habits ( = DECONFIRM THEM)
or we let them be ( = CONFIRM THEM IN LIFE) with OPPOSITE EFFECTS.
| SPIRITUAL SELF
COMBATS BAD HABITS OR CONFIRMS THEM AS TRUE & GOOD |
III | CONFIRMING TRUTHS OF FAITH THROUGH LIFESTYLE BEHAVIORS |
| REFLECTIVE SELF
becomes aware that some of our habits are bad & some good |
II | INNATE & ACQUIRED RATIONAL CONSCIENCE |
| AUTOMATIC SELF
acquires GOOD & BAD HABITS (Baseline) |
I | COMPETITIVE ZERO - SUM FACE WORK RELATIONSHIPS
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1. OVERCOMING MY INTIMIDATION group exercise
Procedure:
i) done in a collective monad context;
ii) imagine volunteering to be interviewed in front of class
iii) identify and write down
the irrational sentences your AUTOMATIC SELF
thinks (STANDARDIZED IMAGININGS & ATTRIBUTIONS)
iv) Talk sides in the argument : which way are you choosing to go?
v) If COMBAT,
you VOLUNTEER;
If ACCEPTANCE
you DO NOT
vi) Rate yourself on +10 to -10 on self - esteem.
vii) contrast scores for volunteers vs. non volunteers.
viii) Conclusion:
Self Witnessing leads to combat & self modification towards pro sociality
& self growth.
| III. SPIRITUAL SELF | AFFECTIONS: (sample)
"I really want to volunteer." "Actually I enjoy it." "I hate being shy." "I'll just raise my hand." |
| II. REFLECTIVE SELF | REASONING: (sample)
"Trust the others." "Remember ATTRIBUTE ERRORS." "I'm facing a challenge and a great opportunity." |
| I. AUTOMATIC SELF | Attributions: (sample)
"I won't volunteer. Why make a fool of myself. They'll laugh at me. " |
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