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When I first started this I did not know much about traffic psychology. I just thought it was about controlling your anger on the road while driving. Now I see that it is much more than that. There are techniques that Dr. Driving suggests, like the AWM program to help you acknowledge that you are too aggressive on the road while driving and offer suggestions on how you can change your behavior. There are ways like not getting upset at the other driver for cutting you off and to make up a reason why they did it, like they were going to get off the freeway and they needed to get into this lane. I think that traffic psychology is very important because so many lives are taken on the roads and if people know about traffic psychology it could make the roads and your driving experience safer and happier.
This page has a good relation to traffic psychology because it will help people to notice their own behaviors while driving and see if they can identify themselves as someone who becomes an aggressive driver. It can help this person to control the anger to avoid accidents. It will help drivers to understand each other better.
This implies that I should take notice of my own driving personality and if I am one of these
drivers to change and read these pages. I don't think this applies to me because I don't become an
aggressive driver.
I think the relation to traffic psychology is to find out what causes people to be aggressive on the road and why people become particularly aggressive while driving. By identifying what makes people aggressive this will help drivers understand each other and hopefully make the roads a safer place to drive.
This implies to me that aggression will get you no where, except in an accident. If I am an aggressive driver, which I am not, to work on ways to change that aggressive behavior.
Its relation to traffic psychology is a kind of therapy. If aggressive drivers follow this program and practice this when they are driving a car then they will be on their way to a more happier driving experience. This will also make the roads a safer and happier place to drive.
Its implication to me is to follow this program also, to try it myself. By using this program I may discover that I do get upset in certain situations and I should take note of these situations and change them.
The relation to traffic psychology is that it will help make drivers more kind on the road. This will lead to more stress free driving and it will spill over into their personal lives as well. The techniques that they use to become a better and happier driver can also be used in their personal lives. If they are happier while driving then when they reach their destination they will also be happy and able to enjoy themselves. It will also make others feel that they are not alone with their road problems and hopefully make those people who recognize themselves change.
It implies to me that I should be more understanding while driving and not get upset if someone cuts me off and think of a reason why that person did it.
Its relation to traffic psychology is that it will make drivers in control of their emotions while driving instead of having their emotions rule them while on the road. By changing their driving personalities it will make the roads safer and their drive happier.
This implies to me that I should do a make-over on my driving personality and try to become a better driver by not getting upset when someone is tailgating me and not think of retaliation, but think of reasons why that driver is doing it.
1. Committment - sticking with the program.
2. Building your self-witnessing inventory - gathering your feelings, thoughts, and actions in traffic by using the tape recorder and taking notes.
3. Applying self-modification techniques - retraining your automatic driving habits such as tailgating.
By listening to yourself and seeing that you get upset when someone cuts you off you can then use the AWM program to change your behavior and be in control of your emotions.
By keeping a journal of your thoughts and what you say to yourself it will help you identify what gets you upset and you can work on dealing with the source of your anger. You can change what you say or do to relieve that negative emotion. Once you can get rid of that negativity you will be on your way to a more stress free driving experience.
This implies to me that I should do this and hear what I say to myself when the ride is over. I'm sure I'll hear things that I haven't noticed I say.
Its relation to traffic psychology is that it does work because these people have benefitted from the homepage and its techniques that it suggests. These people can now use the techniques and have a better, more stress free driving experience. And if you are a happier driver you will tend to drive better and also be a happier person!
I think that I should follow the techniques and give anyone I know who needs a driving personality make-over the address so that they too will change their old and bad habits.
The relation to traffic psychology is that it will give drivers some tips on how to be calmer and improve their driving emotions so that they won't be so angry all the time while driving. If they are calmer then they will be happier.
I should follow these tips also and share them with family and friends so that they too can have a hassle free ride.
This has a relation to traffic psychology in that it will make drivers think of how they can change by first seeing the problem. By actually thinking about it they can work on solving it. By solving the problem they can then achieve hassle free driving.
This implies that I should do this exercise to find out what bothers me and what I can do so that I won't get upset because I cannot change others' behaviors, only my own.
This is good for traffic psychology because you can give your suggestions and everyone can read and respond to the message. It will also make others think about their own driving habits.
Reading some of these messages is good because you get to see all kinds of view points from people all over the country and other countries as well.
The threads that Dr. Driving was active in is: Slay Your Driving Dragon, Dateline NBC Story, Embarrassing Moments When Driving, Road Rage, Speed Limits and Driving Skills, and Hey, Tailgaters...
I think what Dr. Driving is saying to drivers out there is to use other techniques instead of getting upset and aggressive to other drivers while on the road. His philosophy is that you should respect other drivers and focus on good driving behaviors. When people tailgate you instead of getting angry you should just switch lanes and get out of their way. Getting angry is understandable because it is "an infringement of our human rights," but by getting angry at other drivers you just make yourself upset, not the driver who is tailgating you. Instead Dr. Driving suggests that you use calming techniques to relieve your tension. Dr. Driving wants to focus on making you change your aggressive driving habits and learn to become a more rational driver by being courteous and respectful of others. Accept that you cannot change the behavior of others, only your own. If you want a driving personality make-over then use the AWM program. As Dr. Driving says... Drive With Aloha Spirit.
Other people who respond to these messages seem not to like it. I think the basis for their not liking Dr. Driving's suggestions is that they don't want to change. For any change to occur you have to be motivated to work at changing the unwanted behavior. They feel justified in their ways of driving and their negative emotions while in a car. In one message from Slay Your Driving Dragon one person said, "But really, Dr. why do you post as you do here? I can't see where what you have written has had any impact on me at all," Another person wrote, "For someone who purports to be an expert on anger and its potential danger, you sure have a knack for making people angry..." in Re: Slay Your Driving DragonSomeone from Re: Road Rage...has the same kind of philosophy as Dr. Driving when he wrote, "Today I was browsing a car magazine site and someone suggested a site to discuss bad driving .. why not have a site to discuss good driving instead?"
My reactions to the reactions that Dr. Driving receives is that these people don't want to change their driving behaviors. Most of the reactions to Dr. Driving have not agreed with him. I think that they don't believe in using calming techniques or focusing on good drivers, all they want to do is grumble and continue with their old habits and not accept the fact that they cannot change others' behaviors, only their own. By accepting this they can then focus on doing things to relieve their own stress while driving and they will be on their way to better driving experiences. I think that all Dr. Driving can do is to continue to send out his messages because there are people who follow his philosophy and have benefitted from it and are happier drivers because of it.
I chose The WWW Sppedtrap Registry because this site because it gives notice to the readers of speedtraps in their state or country even. When you first get to the site it gives a list of states and you can click on the one you want. Want to see Hawai`i's speedtraps?
I chose Advocates for Highway and Auto Safety because it lets you know of all the programs that promote safety on the roads. These programs and their advocates work toward getting laws changed and making new ones for safer roads.
The Driving School page gives a list of questions and answers from the California Department of Transportation's Driving School and some statements taken from insurance forms. This doesn't have much to do with speeding, but the answers are worth reading for a laugh.
This next site, NHSTA sets and enforces the performance standards for motor vehicles. I thought this was interesting because this affects everyone because these rules determine how your car will be built.
Speedtraps - What You Need To Know- v1.8 gives information about the RADAR, GATSO, and LADAR which are used to catch speeders. It gives a description of these devices and how they work. Also some information on other devices as well.
The Other Lane Is Always Faster gives the thought of a driver who switches lanes to go faster, but ends up going slower. I've had this feeling before so it was kinds funny to read it.
Rushing Around describes how people today are always on the go, rushing to get to their destination and as a result speeding on the roads. This rushing can often cause accidents.
This CARtoons page gives some cute cartoons dealing with traffic.
This next page, Driver Support Groups is for people who can't stay within the speed limits. This is taken from a previous traffic psychology generation.
P.A.S.T. is a page for speeding teens. When I first got to this page there were two pictures of two boys who were killed in a car accident where speeding was involved. They want to get their message out that "Speeding Kills...Dying Is Forever."
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