| Affective | Cognitive | Sensorimotor | |
| Spiritual Self | I'm glad that I can get along with people with the same interest and those without the same interest. | I have people in my life that I like, yet they have different interests than I do. Its kind of hard to find people who have the exact same interests than I do. | Just because you do not share the same interests as someone, it doesn't mean that they'll dislike you. |
| Reflective Self | I understand the different relationships I have with people. It doesn't matter whether or not we have the same interests or not. I'd like to have a variety of friends. Ones with same interests and ones with different interests. | I have friends who like things such as drinking and partying. I don't really care for thosse things yet I get along just fine with these people. | Even if we don't share the same interests as others, it doesn't mean that they'll dislike us. People find it challenging to get to know someone with different interests. |
| Automatic Self | I was able to recognize my relationship with people that I don't share the same interests with. I get an understanding of these relationships. I'm able to see that we can get along with anyone even if we don't share the same interests. | Not all people have common interests. I have friends with opposite interests but, yet we are friends. The passage brought to my attention some of the relationships I have with people. | It's true, not all people have the same interests as we do. If someone who was the complete opposite of me liked me, I would wonder what in me does he actually see. I would try to see what I have that he likes. What about me that he finds attractive. |