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| Affective
| Cognitive
| Sensorimotor
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| Spiritual Self
| Marriage is for life. Two should be fully joined physically,
mentally, and spiritually. God is #1 in the relationship but each other
second. Should be joined in God's love not just physical attraction.
| I believe that God knows my need and if I am patient, He will supply
the right woman for me. I will follow God's direction, not peer pressure.
| I believe when I am ready, I will have the peace & joy about it. I
will be ready to fully give of myself to my family.
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| Reflective Self
| When I marry, I want to be fairly financially stable, and mentally
prepared to enter marriage fully committed. I want a prosperous, loving,
caring marriage with God in it.
| Raising a family is a lot of reponsibility both mentally, physically,
and especially financially.
| I am not ready to raise children (which are inevitable in marriage.)
I would be unhappy and burdened down with children right now.
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| Automatic Self
| I know that right now I am too selfish to committ myself to one
person. I want to do what I want to do, when I want to do it.
| I am not ready to fully share joint attitudes, joint behaviors, and
especially joint property. In marriage, you have to share
willingly.
| Although I am 23 and I love my girlfriend, I am not ready to get
married yet.
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