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| Affective
| Cognitive
| Sensorimotor
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| Spiritual Self
| I value a relationship that has both loves: Eros (physical attraction)
Agape (willingly to give all). I value a life-long mate who recipricates
back to me.
| It has been said that one ought to marry ones best friend. One ought
to! God must be first or else it will fail through selfishness.
| I assume that my future wife will feel for me the way I feel for her.
It has to be more than just a sex drive.
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| Reflective Self
| My goal for a wife is to have one that can also be my best friend.
Someone that I can talk to about anything. (Or almost anything).
| A love relationship has to be based on something more than sex. There
has to be a better foundation than that. (On of understanding &
compassion)
| If my love for my wife is based on physical attractions only, in ten
years I won't be satisfied with the relationship.
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| Automatic Self
| I want a wife that will still be attractive to me even after many
years of marriage.
| When I was in high school, I was voted 'Biggest Flirt' because I
flirted with any pretty girl I saw. I had to have more than one girl to
satisfy me.
| I wonder if my wife will still be pleasing and attractive to me after
we have been married ten years (or more).
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