Comments by visitors expresses the thanks to Dr. Driving for changing and improving the lives of many people. The purpose of this page is provide readers with different success stories which generates the idea that it is a possible task to accomplish. For many people, change is very difficult because they enjoy living their life the way it is. This provides them with their own self-identity and freedom. When people begin to tell them that they need change, they may become hostile and aggressive. But, by reading how people wanted to change for the better, it made analyze my life to see how I could benefit from Dr. Driving's teachings. I think one of the comments that was mentioned stating that it is not a job for a driver to correct another drivers behavior implies to me because I feel that I and others have to take the initiative first to make any changes. I believe that when I am pressured to do something that I don't want to the more I tend to resist. In relation to Traffic Psychology, the techniques that Dr. Driving implies serves only as tools to help and guide people on the right track. These techniques can also be related to other aspects of one's life and if they choose the option for change in their driving personality then they are more likely to change other negative characteristics within their personality.
(9) Driving and Traffic Resources on the Internet
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Driving and Traffic Resources on the Internet contains links and briefs descriptions of what they are about. On this page, you can find information and topics that are discussed in newsgroups and what traffic psychologists are interested in. By using the World Wide Web, many browsers are able to look up terms, leave their comments or "driving confessions", or do a self-witnessing/self-modification exercise. This page serves as an educational site of topics related to traffic psychology. Some of the implications made on this page is that changing our driving personality with start with our ego first and then it will generate outward towards other drivers. I believe this is true because having good role models can create a healthy learning environment.
(10) Psychological Principles
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After clicking on Psychological Principles To Help Us Be Rational and Humane Drivers, you will find a list of some rules to live by in order to become healthy individuals. Dr. Driving lists up to 18 principles to follow while driving. The purpose of this page is to create rational mental guidelines. Our brains is one of the most powerful developments we have as humans and we are constantly gaining new knowledge with it. But, when we disregard these teachings, we become ignorant of what could change our lives that can be enriched and enjoyable. Some of the implications about my own driving personality is that we all make mistakes and I have the opportunity to do something about it. I can make the same mistake or learn from it and change my behaviors.
(11) Self-Witnessing Exercise
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Self-Witnessing Exercise: What's your driving pet peeve? contains writings of 11 Witnesses. All of them are answering the same questions but with different answers. This kind of self-observation helps a person to acknowledge any problems that they may have as a driver. Most of these exercises describe what makes them upset the most. The four steps these witnesses went through are as follows: 1. Write down one thing automobile drivers do that gets you upset. 2. What do you feel like doing about it at the time? 3. What do you usually do about it? 4. Are you satisfied with what you do or do you hope to change it? The purpose of this page is to allow the reader to do this exercise for themselves. I tried it out and here are my results: 1. The one thing that other automobile drivers do that gets me upset is tailgating 2. I feel like I have to speed up or just slamming on the brakes. 3. I usually maintain my speed or try to drive really slow so they can pass me. 4. I think I am satisfied with what I do because they usually pass by me pretty quick and later I see them disappear in the distance. I feel this is a pretty good technique because it gets me far away as possible from these drivers. By examing our own behaviors, we become consciously aware of the problems we may have and the areas we need to work on. This is also useful because I may not any problems in one area of my self but I may find many others by answering the same four questions. I feel that everybody should give this a try.
(12) Topical Index
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Index of Topics on Driving and Drivers is like any other index. This is very useful because it provides viewers with a list of alphabetical terms, names, and topics that they might be interested in. Because it uses key terms to choose from it makes your search easier and simpler. This page also contains many links to interesting reports, discussions, issues, ideas, principles, and home pages.
(13) Safety Issues
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Dr. Driving's Selection of Safety Issues brought up by drivers contains 9 parts ranging from issues like driving the speed limit, why I tailgate, road rage, driver education, and aloha sprit driving. This page is somewhat similar to that of the Problems and Solutions page discussed earlier. They contain questions/issues and responses from Dr. Driving. For the most part of this page, it contains comments from the rec.autos.driving newsgroups. The purpose of this page is to provide open discussions on any topic they want to talk about driving. In return, Dr. Driving supplies general principles associated with traffic psychology. For example, one advice for tailgate haters that you may find in here is "not to take it personally, especially since the tailgaters may have all sorts of reasons for doing it, or may not be aware of it, or is addicted to it, or whatever. It doesn't matter you see -- we don't have to find out or imagine it. The point is: How do I protect myself? Being a tailgate hater, I think this implies to me because I always try to figure out the safest way to get out of this situation. I know sometimes I tend to tailgate some other drivers and now I know the feeling of being tense and angry of having somebody follow you about two feet away. I tried changing my driving behaviors like keeping a good distance away from other drivers and not speeding and I feel that I enjoy driving more than usual and that people should always try to change for the better.
Alta Vista Search
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Dr. Driving's Philosophy
After reviewing these 13 items, there is an additional Menu item called "Submit" which will take you to an Alta Vista search in USENET after clicking on it. It takes a while for the computer to connect but once the page is completed, it will list 45 documents that has matched the query. This list consists of newsgroup postings from the rec.autos.driving newsgroup. The threads in which Dr. Driving was active in are: Slay your dragon, Speed Kills, Speed Limits and Driving Skills, Dateline NBC Story, Embarassing moments when Driving, Road Rage and hostility, and Hey, Tailgaters... . These threads provides many readers with a variety of topics to discuss and questions about Dr. Driving's philosophy.
After reading some postings, there seems to be a consistent message that Dr. Driving is sending out to the public. He talks about joining a Quality Driving Circle which is like a support group of driving friends who discuss driving incidents and to learn how to become more aware of their aggressive behaviors. I think Dr. Driving's philosophy is that you should respect other drivers and focus on social driving behaviors. Social driving behaviors are working together as a community where one person can help influence another person by becoming examples of healthy individuals. Within every situation, Dr. Driving wants each individual to question their behaviors. For example, you need to ask yourself- "Is this right? Is this fair? Am I being the kind of person I want to model for my children?". By doing this self-evaluation, you "prime yourself to be more tolerant, more humane, more rational, more like a true hero!!". One of the major points that Dr. Driving mentions is to be "positive" and use "facilitative driving" (not "defensive"). I feel that the messages Dr. Driving presents calls for active participation of always changing for the better. I think there are no limitations to kindness because there are many situations people face each day that tests one's ability to show some kind of humane behavior. But, in order to help others, we must first start working with ourselves.
Many people reacted with a lot of rage and hostility towards Dr. Driving's philosophy. Many of them felt that they didn't need any changes. In one message sent to Dr. Driving, it says "OH, JESUS, LEON! Now there's DRAGONS? What the hell have you been SMOKING out there? Why don't you just get into your car, pick a compass direction, and take a 100-mile trip? [GLUB!] It's not like the Pacific isn't polluted enough, but at least it'll keep your insipid kind from ever polluting the Midwest".
It seems to me that most of the complaints are from people with total outrage and have not yet grasp an understanding of the "Aloha Spirit". These people who are not really open to change appears to have some form of selfish behaviors. They are highly defensive and seem to be only thinking about themselves.
Many people dispute his philosophy when they haven't given it a chance to try it out for themselves. If these people consider their driving personalities as one of the best, then why are they such angry and frustrated individuals? I would hate to drive on the roads with a reckless driver but there are many ways to avoid them also. If their philosophy is to speed and be ahead of everyone else, then that is their choice but at least I have a better chance of getting to my destination in one piece. I remember my father telling me once about running red lights, "That it only takes a few seconds of waiting as compared to getting a ticket or into an accident". Which consequence shall you choose?
My reactions to the reactions that Dr. Driving receives is that these people are turning away a good opportunity to become "rational" human beings. Dr. Driving's philosophy only pertains to a small part of our lives. Because his only focus is on our driving personalities, it allows many individuals to take that first step of living a healthier lifestyle. By following his teachings, we can learn more about ourselves and others. From this first step of change, Dr. Driving's philosophy generates easily to other aspects of our lives. We can learn to become better parents, workers, educators, and so forth. I feel that they should at least try to let "positive" behaviors to develop because it takes time for a person to change. I think that Dr. Driving has handled this situation very well because he provides a different alternative and approach towards solving their problems without getting angry himself. He should continue to send out his positive feedbacks because there are many drivers who are thankful and happier by following Dr. Driving's philosophy.
My Favorite Traffic Psychology Resources: Finding the Answers
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Aggression and Violence Among Drivers
What causes traffic violence? Find out about topics like the Comic Book Driver Mentality, Need for Better Moral Training, Six Ways to Avoid Traffic Violence, and the National Drive the Limit Day.
Drivers Anonymous
Find out about community groups getting together and talk about issues relating to Traffic.
Driving School
I thought this was funny because this contains quotes from the Toronto news of actual statements found on insurance forms and were written by drivers who were attempting to describe details of an accident in as few words as possible.
Self witnessing exercises
Answer these questions to find out what your pet driving peeve is.
Slaying Your Driving Dragon
How do we know if we have a driving dragon inside? Click Here to find out some symptoms.
Traffic flow Psychology
Read about disorderly merging.
Traffic Psychology in Other Places
Take a look at previous Generations of other traffic psychology classes.
Three Step Program for a Healthier, More Zestful Traffic Life
Simple and short rules to follow in your daily life.
What is Traffic Psychology?
This provides complete details involved with this topic.
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