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Road Rage is something that we never talk about until someone gets into an accident. That's when we start to acknowledge that maybe we should start addressing feelings that we encounter while on the road. Even when we do finally confess our feelings of rage on the road, we tend to blame it on other drivers, saying that they're reckless and ignorant. Perhaps we should stop blaming others and instead, see what we can do about it ourselves. For example, ask yourself what can I do to relieve tension felt while on the road? Also, weigh the pros and cons and you will see that you have nothing to lose by being a safe driver. In my report, I will discuss ethical driving as proposed by Dr. Driving and I will try to shed some insight into the field with my own opinions.
I have to admit that I don't always practice what I preach, but I have to admit that I am starting to act more conscientiously. To tell you the truth, I have never been an outwardly aggressive driver, but given a challenge, I tend to be malicious. When I first started researching on traffic psychology, I didn't know that the field was so advanced and excepted as a legitimate field. I always thought that if it was discussed, it was just to joke over the matter. Now, I regard it as an important field which could use more attention. Afterall, accidents are nothing to laugh over and until we find the means of alerting everyone, we have to keep trying by addressing the issue.
Part A:
Inner Power at the Wheel,
Book Chapters
- Dr. Driving presents his table of contents presenting four interactive
links, as well as cartoons and vignettes. He briefly discusses road rage
by explaining this phenomena in terms of what it is and how it affects
people daily. In order to understand exactly how it can affect us, he
presents the cartoons and vignettes mentioned earlier, providing a
comical, yet totally realistic look at how road rage can affect you on a
personal level.
- In relation to traffic psychology, "Book Chapters" presents a message
to the reader who may not be familiar with the concept of traffic
psychology. This message speaks of the workings of road rage as being a
very real issue which affects everyone universally. As well as a brief
summary, Dr. Driving also presents solutions to the problems of dealing
with road rage.
- On a personal level, I feel that instead of outright ignoring
the ethics of Dr. Driving, as was my first reaction, I should
really listen to him. This is really the first step in terms of reform.
Then can I internalize the information, and then slowly start
incorporating these ethics in order to relate them to myself.
Media Interviews with
Dr. Driving About Road Rage, Impatience, and Hostility
- This is an interview based on FAQ regarding "how to handle"
circumstances. Dr. Driving also introduces the reader to the concept of
"AWM"(acknowledge, witness, modify). He presents this in response to a
study presented by AAA on the dangers of driving. People ask him
questions regarding stressful situations on the road and Dr. Driving
provides them with rational solutions, such as maintaining a sense of calm
in any situation.
- "Media Interviews" explains how to handle yourself when you
are faced with a difficult situation in which it affects you personally.
By incorporating the concepts of "acknowledge, witness, modify", you
follow a three-step program that enables you to find the cause of the
problem, see yourself doing it, and changing that behavior.
- I felt that the information provided told me to be non-aggressive,
civilized, and most of all, don't take anything that someone else does
personally! Also, a lot of the time, you are faced with a
problem on the road thinking that there is nothing you can do
about the driving antics of another...well most of time, there is
something you can do about it and Dr. Driving helps shed some light on
this.
Three-Step Program for
a Healthier, More Zestful Traffic Life
- This "Three-step Program" sheds some light on the fact that a lot of
the faults that we often blame on other drivers has a lot to do with our
inability's to deal with such problems ourselves. In other words, in
order to feel better about others' actions on the road, you must learn how
to feel better about yourself first.
- This program deals with traffic psychology on a more personal level,
allowing us to incorporate the ethics of Dr. Driving within ourselves.
This way, it's not so much what everyone else is doing wrong, but what
you're lacking, in terms of dealing with stressful incidents that you may
encounter on the road.
- By incorporating these steps into your daily driving pattern, it
will help you cope when dealing with crazies on the road. Also, the
message that I got was that I am not superior on the road in relation to
anyone else. In fact, no one is...If everyone consciously tried to make
an effort at improving their driving skills, the road would be a much
safer place.
Dr. Driving Says...Problems
and Solutions
- Dr. Driving presents a place of haven for people burning with
questions on what to do when stuck in a road rage predicament with another
person on the road. Most importantly, his replies often incorporate his
theory on the "9 Zones of a Driving personality". In his 9 zones, which
he goes into more depth later, he speaks of characteristics including
altruism and kindness.
- The problems and solutions presented are personal, the scenarios are
real, and Dr. Driving presents productive ways of dealing with these
incidents. Also, along with the problems being personal, he incorporates
his 9 zones in order to classify each person in their own category, rather
than clumping everyone together, which would make it so much harder to
relate to the situations.
- The implications that I got for myself was that first of all,
find out what kind of driving personality I hold, witness
myself, then finally, change my behavior if it seems to be destructive to
myself or others on the road. By targeting the behavior, you can cut down
on its likelihood of emerging again.
Introductory Statement
About Dr. Driving Says...
- This section allows you to apply makeover skills if you happen to be a
person who seeks "inner power at the wheel", as quoted by Dr.James. He
provides a summary of his book also entitled "Inner Power at the
Wheel" which asks the reader questions on how they see themselves when
driving on the road. If you relate as being an aggressive or a hostile
driver, he provides incite into changing into a more calm driver instead.
- This prescribed makeover allows you to make the metamorphosis from
within yourself. Afterall, if everyone started to make a change from
within themselves rather than relying on others to modify their behavior,
people wouldn't always have to blame others for everything.
- This section allowed me to admit that I don't always drive
to the best of my abilities. Well, this is a big step, being that I along
with a lot of other people, usually don't sit down and evaluate their own
driving. By doing this, you know what your weaknesses are, as well as
your strengths. in this sense, you not only critique yourself, but reward
yourself as well.
About the Authors Leon
James and Diane Nahl
- This section gives us some insight into the authors credentials as
well as implying the growing world of traffic psychology and its relation
to the internet. It's amazing that only some years ago, traffic
psychology was virtually nonexistent, compared to the present where people
are actually specializing in it.
- "About the Authors..." tells about Leon James and Diane Nahl as being
some of the forefounders of traffic psychology. This field has really
gained a lot of popularity in the shortest amount of time. It is crucial
for more professionals to enter this field because essentially, this is the
wave of the future.
- This section made me realize how very seriously traffic
psychology is being taken now, as opposed to a little while back, when it
was a joke that you modify your behavior and show some compassion to those
on the road. It makes me feel that I should at least listen to what Dr.
Driving says and try to implement his sayings into my actions.
Chart of 9 Zones of Your
Driving Personality
- The "Chart of 9 Zones" gives the driver a character description of what
sort of person he or she is depending on zones, domains, phases, names, and
descriptions of positive and negative behaviors that this person portrays
while on the road. This chart is subdivided into three categories based on
the issues of safety issues, self-control issues, and social responsibility
issues. If you are a bad driver, it is most likely that you start at the
bottom of the chart at zone 1 and succeed upward till you reach zone 9.
Once you reach the 9th zone, you are now considered a socially responsible
driver.
- In order to make any type of progress in the realm of traffic
psychology, you must first admit to yourself what sort of driver you are.
Whether you are a bad driver or a fairly good driver, you must always keep
in mind that there is always room for improvement. By implementing these
skills at an earlier age in life, you will substantially cut down on the
levels of stress experienced on the road.
- I learned from this section that I must try to understand the type of
person I am in order to pinpoint my faults as well as my skills.
Thereby, I will be consciously making an effort to reduce the
occurrences of accidents, even if it is a person at a time.
Comments by
Visitors
- This section provides drivers to ask questions regarding idiots often
encountered on the road, as well as current safety issues. Dr. Driving's
words of wisdom spread the message that yes, you are more than likely to
encounter the occasional idiot on the road, but really, what can you do
about it? You can't scold each person outrightly by shouting obscenities at
them or flicking them off. Instead, what you can do is try to modify your
behavior in response to someone that may get in your way. This way, you can
save yourself the energy of trying to come up with an appropriate means of
revenge which only wastes that much of your time and energy.
- This section relates to traffic psychology in the sense that readers who
face the same dilemmas and worries can vent their frustration in a healthy
fashion. While venting, others can laugh at the realness of the situations
and learn what to do about it at the same time.
- I personally enjoyed this page due to the fact that it allowed me to
laugh and know that road rage is indeed universal. At the same time, Dr.
Driving provided some sound advice on how to handle the severity of stress,
as is often felt.
Driving and Traffic
Resources on the Internet
- In "Driving and Traffic Resources on the Internet", Dr. Driving lists
many different links concerning all aspects of driving, whether it be speed
limit issues, or the most recent statistics provided by AAA. Here, people
can browse all the subjects and find which ones interest them the most. By
doing so, you can take an active part in an aspect of driving, even if you
are not always the best driver. By sparking an interest in one specific
field, it may allow you to explore other fields as well.
- The resources provided allow people to widen their horizon to the
knowledge of safety issues facing road rage. Basically, you can educate
drivers on the issues of driving, and then if they want to go out and do
something about it, your mission has been completed because they are
initiating the first step by themselves.
- This section provided me with information on the specifics
of driving statistics; in a sense, it gave me intellectual insight into the
vast realm of traffic psychology. Rather than merely preaching the benefits
of "good" driving, the resources provided allowed for an awareness among
readers that there is so much more to road rage than meets the eye.
Psychological Principles
to Help Us Be Rational and Humane Drivers
- Dr. Driving presents useful advice on making the most of your driving
experience when someone on the road is preventing you from doing so. In the
long list of examples cited, Dr. Driving spreads his message in all of them,
conveying the idea of spreading aloha in the way you drive. To some that
don't know this term, aloha is an expression of love, therefore conveyed on
the road.
- This section allows you to learn the necessary tactics involved in
driving like a rational and humane person. Of course it is not easy, and
so Dr. Driving provides you with words of wisdom to encourage anyone who has
ever faced a tough predicament on the road.
- I learned that
essentially, you should
be mellow, always take your time, and remember to think rationally. If at
any time you feel that stress is creeping up on you, follow the steps of Dr.
Driving and you will not go wrong.
Self-Witnessing
Exercise, What's Your Pet Driving Peeve?
- This exercise lists a series of questions posed in the form of
"witnesses". Of the 11 witnesses, each one asks you a series of questions
concerning your driving personality on the road, and how you choose to deal
with unpleasant situations. By answering these questions as accurately as
you can, you enable yourself to learn more about yourself. Also, by sitting
down and answering questions about yourself, you tend to look deeper into
the whole picture, for example, what you felt at a given time, how it
affected you etc.
- This exercise is an open-ended questionnaire that allows you to
introspect about yourself and your driving habits as well as your pet
peeves. Usually in a moment of crisis, you realize the stressful feelings
which are invoked, but may not necessarily know what specifically triggered
those feelings. By analyzing specific situations that leave you feeling hot
under the collar, you can learn about what to do in order alleviate future
stress incidents from bothering you again.
- Alleviating the problem of road rage is so much more than
simply knowing how to deal with idiots on the road. Instead,
although we don't realize it, it has a lot more to do with how we
deal with it ourselves.
Index of Topics on Driving
and Drivers
- The "Index of Topics" allows people to link to all sorts of sites with
one thing in common-->how to drive. By exploring these sites, you can gain
other peoples' incites into the topics of stereotypes of gender in driving,
safety issues, and violence in drivers, just to name a few. In other words,
you can search the world wide web of traffic psychology on this one page.
- The element of traffic psychology is that by providing a thread through
all sorts of different links associated with driving, you can form a
universal bond with others on the road, even if they live on the other side
of the globe from you.
- This section seems to send the message that people should get to know
one another, along with their opinions, and how they deal with road rage,
etc.
By wanting to learn more about other peoples opinions, you keep an open mind
as to what other people may be able to teach you, while also taking into
account that a lot of
people feel the same way that you do.
Dr. Driving's Selection of
Safety Issues Brought up by Drivers
- In this chapter, Dr. Driving shares his opinions on the issues of left
lane vs. right lane driving, tailgating, and social responsibility. Several
people have written in to share their feelings on these issues that we deal
with on a day to day basis. As basic as these problems may be, and no
matter how often you encounter them, each situation you run into always
leaves you feeling steamed. Thus, readers are able to vent on these issues
which bring a lot people stress.
- This section allows people to vent
their problems, no matter how common they are to all of us on an everyday
basis. I feel that venting about personal mishaps allows us to release the
tension that we often feel on the road, when we are unable to express these
emotions given the very moment and situation of the problem.
- The implication of this page is that you should vent when you feel
the need to, just don't do it on the road by flicking someone off. Instead,
release feelings of tension by making animal noises, as Dr. Driving has said
before. Later, when you feel the need to release in a big way, write in to
Dr. Driving, and you'll find more often than not that millions of others
will sympathize with what you have to say.
Part B:
Re: Slay Your Driving Jan. 11, 1997
- Dr. Driving responds to a reader who states that although Dr. Driving
is an advisor on controlling road rage, he seems to make them more angry
instead. Dr. Driving's reply is that angry feelings
are often internalized, therefore in a situation of anxiety, you may start to feel mad, but if you actually sat down and tried to analyze why you were so mad, you would see that it was in fact yourself who got you so mad in the first place.
- Responses made by others state that Dr.Driving has a knack for making
people mad when in fact it is his job to soothe angry drivers. People
can't seem to see beyond the message of what Dr. Driving is actually
saying. In fact, this is the point that Dr. Driving is making by stating that other people don't make you mad, you yourself do.
- Dr. Driving should listen to what the readers say as being a valid statement, afterall, you can't just say that someone else is wrong in their opinion just because it differs from your own. Also, if they don't seem to agree with your viewpoint, don't try to force your message down their throat; simply let them know that they can look at it from another point of view without necessarily converting to Dr. Driving's views.
Re: Speed Kills - You Be the Judge Jan. 16,1997
- Dr. Driving's message is once again that we make ourselves mad no matter how irrational another driver may be on the road. Afterall, although a person may do something stupid to trigger your emotions, the more you think about it, the more you make yourself mad. Thus, once you feel yourself getting hot under the collar, realize that you are turning your anger inward. At that point, stop and let that anger go...do anything from mooing like a cow to singing at the top of your lungs.
- A reader has sent in a situation of a driver engaging in "lack of analysis and lack of courtesy" driving. Specifically, how does one respond when people commit irrational driving errors on the road? Also, what do you do when someone puts you in danger? The reader also raises the idea of a point system, indicating that you lose points every time you commit a heinous driving faux pas.
- I have to say that it is very hard to rationalize someone else's nonsensical driving habits in a way that allows you to simply forget and maintain a good sense of driving. On the other hand, what can you possible lose by maintaining your cool? Nothing at all. In fact, by getting mad and letting it affect your driving, you are putting your life as well as others at risk; while simply forgetting the incident will most likely allow you to feel relieved.
Re: Speed Limits and Driving Skills Re: All-Too-Believable Jan. 16,1997
- Dr. Driving's message is to look at yourself and assess whether or not
you are a humane driver...if not, form a group of driving buddies and
discuss your feelings and try to become the person that you would find to
be more healthy. Also, when you say that others are morons or idiots, ask yourself why you are saying that and how it affects yourself as well as others on the road. Dr. Driving also asks what you can do in order to be a role model for your children as well as others who witness your driving.
- John Paramore wrote:
"Laws can define behavioral expectations but they won't
have any great effect on an ignorant nose-picker who makes thoughtless
mistakes." He is saying that sometimes no matter what you do, there is
always an inconsiderate jerk that puts your life in jeopardy by being rude and thoughtless.
- Again, I have to say that some people are just nasty and rude that
it's hard to let something that they do just role off your back. For example, how do you handle it when a careless driver nearly rear ends you because they happen to be looking at the sky distractedly? I would find this very hard to let go of, especially by singing a song to myself. I would suggest to Dr. Driving that you find a means for drivers to get revenge, or possibly give them a taste of their own medicine without hurting anyone or putting them in danger.
Re: Dateline NBC Story Jan.20,1997
- Dr. Driving's message is that before labeling anyone as a idiot or moron, realize that they are not there to defend themselves. Specifically, you can label peoples actions as being stupid without labeling the person themselves as being stupid. This way you incorporate the idea of fairness, as well as being rationale and humane. Afterall, haven't you ever done anything stupid without meaning to do it? I think that we all have and wouldn't appreciate it if someone were to call us idiots.
- Tigress writes "Oh, the save the idiots at the expense of the masses
freedom, huh?
The reason why there are such idiots out there is because we limit too
much." Obviously, she doesn't accept Dr.
Driving's cheery philosophy of accepting other drivers when they happen to commit a driving offense, whether it be intentional or unintentional. She is stating that we are being too lenient with the idiots on the road by saying that it's okay to everything that they do.
- I would say to Tigress first of all, that she resolve her temper within herself. She seems to be a very angry person looking to blame the internal flames of herself onto others by hoping that they do something wrong. Perhaps she should put herself into a situation where she acted stupidly on the road before and think if she really meant to do it recklessly or could she have been in a hurry? By putting yourself into a similar situation, you will soon realize that everyone has done something stupid without meaning to.
Re: Slay Your Driving Dragon Dec.25,1996
- Dr. Driving is commenting on the lack of driver's education provided
here in the U.S. and feels that to make up in the lacking, we ought to
teach ourselves the ethics of driving. By telling ourselves that we must do something about our own driving behaviors, we are shifting away from trying to lay the blame on others. Therefore, society as a whole would stop blaming the so-called idiots and morons, and alleviate the overall tension and hostility being felt by everyone.
- John Weir quotes " We provide
a pathetic example to the world when we let 16yr old drivers take
control of a lethal weapon with so little training, especially the
emergency situation training. There aren't too many outside of our
country that will look upon our driving institutions with any
respect until this is changed." First of all, I have to say that I agree with him when he talks about the disregard which our society has in dealing with road rage awareness. If anything, a car can be just as dangerous as a lethal weapon if used in the wrong way.
- First of all, a bravo must be sent out to John Weir for his insight into the problems of driving in society. It seems that no one has ever really listened to Dr. Driving without criticizing what he had to say. Instead this responder not only incorporates what Dr. Driving says, but gives his own insight as well. I think it's a very good idea to start putting more emphasis on the dangers behind driving.
Re: Slay Your Driving Dragon Dec.25,1996
- Dr. Driving embarks on the notion of "facilitative driving" as being
compassionate, positive driving. He says that if we all consciously made an effort to drive compassionately, meaning that we allow forgiveness when others make mistakes, those poor drivers will start to want to learn to become better drivers. He also says that by doing so, will only improve conditions on the road.
- Chuck Tomlinson writes "It seems to me that "facilitative driving"
means smiling as you allow
obnoxious and/or clueless drivers to endanger other drivers with their
recklessness! No, thanks. I'll continue to practice "courteous
driving",
where my courtesy does *not* extend to the people who are endangering my
well-being (and others'). I have to say that when it comes to
endangering people, I really can't see myself being a compassionate driver
as well! I think that the majority of people would feel the same, given that them or a member of their family were being put in danger by another's carelessness.
- Dr. Driving should acknowledge that when people jeopardize others, the
victim in the situation should have the right to be mad. I think that Dr. Driving should think about this and devise a method in which people can rightfully express their anger in a justified means. It's somewhat impossible to expect people to be understanding when they were nearly killed by that person.
Re: Slaying Your Driving Dragon Jan. 2,1997
- Dr. Driving is using "dragon" as a metaphor of the inner demons that
hinder most peoples driving. He says by conquering your dragon, which is an extension of your anger, you will let go of what is holding you back from becoming a better driver.
- Wow, I would quote some of the stuff that C.R. Krieger said, but
it's rather nasty...What he basically says is that the "dragon" is a
stupid metaphor for people, and that inner dragons are not what causes
road rage. Given his statement, it really seems that he takes offense when Dr. Driving says that we must conquer our own demons in order to resolve other issues on the road. Although the saying is not meant to be a personal insult to anyone's driving, he seems to be taking it a bit too personally. Perhaps he is one of the few on the road who like to drive recklessly and perhaps that is why he is taking it so personally.
- First of all I say to Dr. Driving, accept it...people are bound to feel differently. Just try to send
your positive message and hope that people at least hear what you're
saying. You can't expect people to change their feelings overnight. On the other hand, to the reader I say, don't take it personally and why are you getting so offended? It seems that he knows his faults and therefore he is getting so angered by Dr. Driving's comments.
Re: Speed Limits and Driving Skills Re: All-Too Believable Jan. 3,1997
- Dr. Driving says that if we all learn to drive better, society would be a happier and more economically sound place. Specifically, the less accidents we have on the road, and thus less energy we waste, driving would not be as feared or unenjoyable. He also says that we would be able to raise the speed limit as well, therefore ensuring happiness in everyone.
- Since there were no readers' responses, I will provide my own. In terms of what Dr. Driving said about being able to raise the speed limit if everyone were to drive conscientiously, I agree wholeheartedly. I have to admit that I've never thought about it from this perspective, but by incorporating safer driving practices and raising the speed limit, everyone would be much happier.
- As advice to Dr. Driving I say yes. I think it's a simple plan and if everyone acted upon it together, this world would be a much happier place. On the other hand, you would really have to incorporate the importance of safety in driving. Otherwise, we would have a bunch of speeding idiots on the road. I see this issue as similar to teaching kids in a classroom; if everyone doesn't move to the next level together, you can't move at all.
Re: Hey, Tailgaters... Jan. 20,1997
- Dr. Driving gives advice on how to protect yourself from tailgaters. He says that safety is an important element meaning that instead of slamming on your brakes when you find someone tailing you, you should move out of the tailgaters way. By giving in to your anger you put yourself at risk when you challenge the tailgater to rear end you in order to teach him a lesson.
- Novusvox wrote, "The next time you try to "hurry me" along when it is obvious I can't go
any faster because of the long line of cars in front of me, I'm going
to slam on my brakes. Hope you've got good insurance, assholes. " He seems angered at the tailgater, on the other hand, it seems that he's not fixing or resolving anything by shouting insults at anyone. He should move out of the way instead of challenging every guy who happens to be in a hurry on the road.
- Well, in response to what Dr. Driving is saying, I also agree that you
should get yourself out of harms way in any situation, and most of all,
don't irritate them even more! I can't help it though...I also have to admit that if someone's
tailgating me, sometimes I just block them just to
give them the message that they're irritating me. Even though I may not be putting anyone in harms way, I realize that I'm aggravating the situation instead of resolving it. To Dr. Driving I say keep sending the message of peace...
- Welcome to the Road
Rage Quiz...I picked this site because I thought it took a comedic look
at road rage and all its glory. Also, you can take the quiz yourself to
find out how well you rate when it comes to road rage.
- Red Zone '95...This link
provides a hysterical look at what could be a real road rage experience.
- Peter Russell's "What
colour are you
driving
today?"...This is an another self-assessment page that categorizes you
in terms of what color driver you are on the road.
- Are
You in Love with Your Car?...If you have a love/hate relationship with
your car/traffic jams, this is the link to go to. They give you information
on what is being done socially as well as environmentally.
- Daily Record
Sunday Mail "GIRL, 16, DROVE
CRASH CAR AT 110MPH"...This is only one of many real life
stories dealing with road rage as recorded in the Daily Record.
- Harrogate Group of
Advanced Motorists...This is an organization that collects new
information monthly, on various topics of traffic psychology.
- AA Motoring
Update...This is a news bulletin provided by AA on the deadly statistics
of driving on the road.
- Car - Auto - Traffic Accident
Family Web Site...This is a link that provides you with information on
how to deal with stress when it comes to car accidents.
- AAA Foundation's
Road Rage News Release and Report Summary...This site lists all the
vital statistics of aggressive drivers on the road.
- CORNHILL TAKES A
TOUGH STANCE ON
"ROAD RAGE"...Cornhill Insurance says that they will start
imposing tough convictions on aggressive drivers that have got into an
accident.
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