MESSAGE FROM DR. JAMES
Message no. 9
Thursday, January 2, 2003 11:14am
Subject Instructions for discussion topics
Instructions:
(i) You are to search for things on both sides of each
issue.
(ii) You are to search for a variety of sources or
levels of content, not just one type--e.g., articles and
reports, books, journals, magazines, online discussions,
product descriptions, pamphlets, movie scripts,
archives, song lyrics, etc. etc.)
(iii) For this Bibliography report you are to answer a
minimum of 6 research questions to be selected from the
list below.
1. Television characters and sexism
It has been claimed that the proportion of male
characters on television makes children's programs
sexist. What evidence or opinions can you find for and
against this claim?
2. Commercials and cartoons
Is there any connection between the images of
appropriate male and female behavior in cartoons and the
types of products advertised in the commercials which
accompany them? What relationships can be found between
different programs and the products which sponsor them?
3. Conflicts of adolescent girls
What are some of the possible conflicts between cultural
scripts and authentic selves of adolescent girls? What
evidence or opinions can you find on this issue?
4. Sexist jokes and men
Why do many men find sexist jokes about women amusing?
Do men benefit form this type of humor? What evidence or
opinions can you find for this topic.
5. Coca-Cola with aspirin
Combining Coca-Cola and aspirin will get you high. Find
evidence and opinion for and against this claim.
6. Talents of successful people
Many successful people are no more talented than
unsuccessful people. Find evidence and opinion for and
against this claim.
7. Instant gratification without patience
Someone stated that today we live in a culture of
instant gratification, where the attributes of patience
and determination are hard to find. Find evidence and
opinion for and against this claim.
8. Helping yourself by helping others
ãThe best way to help yourself is to help others.ä What
type of people believe this principle of life? Where is
this statement being used, by whom, and for what
purpose? What has been written about this belief?
9. Success is hanging on
ãSuccess is largely hanging on after others have let
go.ä Is there evidence for this claim? In what context
do people say this?
10. Judged by what we finish
ãKeep your promises. We are judged by what we finish,
not by what we start.ä Find evidence and opinions for or
against this advice.
11. Kicked while down
ãPeople always remember two things: who kicked you when
you were down, and who helped you up.ä Find evidence and
opinions for or against this claim. Who tends to say
this?
12. Woman and man's role
It has been said about relationships that a womanâs role
is to help her man to improve himself, and wise is the
man who cooperates. Find evidence and opinions for or
against this claim. Who tends to be for, who against?
Why?
13. Driving without compassion
Aggressive driving has been attributed by some people to
traffic congestion and time pressure, while others
believe that it is the result of lack of compassion and
caring for one another on the road. Explore what is
being said on both sides of the issue.
14. Optimism and self-efficacy
One view is that itâs good to believe in yourself and in
positive outcomes (e.g., self-efficacy and optimism),
but there are those who disagree (e.g., pessimism,
cynicism). Which belief is expressed where, by whom, and
how?
15. Other approved topics
Make up your own research question, email it to Dr.
James at leon@hawaii.edu and ask if itâs OK. If
approved, you can then use it as one of the Research
Questions.
+++++++++++++++++++++++++++++ The above is taken from
the Instructions for your bibliography Report located
at:
www.soc.hawaii.edu/leonj/leonj/leonpsy18/g18bibliography.html
Message no. 11
Monday, January 20, 2003 9:40am
Subject Television Characters and Sexism
Personally I think that the claim of male characters on
television making children's programs sexist could be
true for the current generation but not necessarily
through the years of television. I can remember when I
was young watching girl shows such as 'My Little
Ponies,' 'Strawberry Shortcake,' and 'Rainbow Bright.'
These shows did have male characters in them but they
were directed towards girls. On the other hand, males of
my generation recall watching such cartoons as
'Transformers,' 'G.I. Joe,' and 'HeMan,' and of course
both sexes occasionally watched eachothers chartoons.
Today there is still a division of what girls and boys
watch, but through controversy sexism is always brought
up in every cartoon which in my conclusion is inevitable
because humans are a sex and will forever be involved in
sexism.
Two interesting articles I found on the internet were
"Kids TV: A guide for the perplexed"
http://www.enterstageright.com/archive/articles/0896kidtv.htm,by Steve Sailer, and "Smurfy Sexism: Created with a
biased hand"
http://www.english.wayne.edu/~calice/Ferguson/smurf.html, byMariruth Graham. Take a breif look at the articles. The
first article gives examples of different shows and the
sexims involved, and the second points out the
stereotypes of women in the well known cartoon 'The
Smurfs.' In the first article Steve Sailer brings up the
point that most Disney movies are focused towards the
female audience, which is a strong contradictory point
to for the claim of male characters making programs
sexist. However Mariruth Graham takes a look at the
classic cartoon which only contains one female and she
reports that "Smurfette's physical characteristics draw
her as a stereotype which promotes sexism because of the
prejudice messages the writers illustrate." Both
articles take a look at sexism on cartoons and have good
supporting evidence. Alltogether, I remain with the
conculsion that there will always be controversy on
sexism because we are sex.
Message no. 13
Monday, January 20, 2003 5:03pm
Subject Coca_Cola and aspirin
The question, "Will Coca-Cola and aspirin get you high?"
just sounds false. These are one of the many urban
legends that circulate among people, mainly teenagers,
such as "If you make a silly face and get slapped hard
on the back, you'll stay like that forever" or "if you
step on a crack, you'll break your mother's back."
However, taking aspirin alone is a risk for some people,
depending on thier sensitivity to certain medicines.
Sometimes it's hard to judge if the statement is true or
not because some urban legends seem so real. There's
one urban legend that appeared on MTV about eating too
much poppy seeds will show positive for, I believe, a
heroin test. MTV actually had a girl test it and it did
show positive.
For the statement, "Coca-Cola and aspirin will get you
high" is false according to an article on
http://www.snopes.com/cokelore/aspirin.asp by Barbaraand David P. Mikkelson. It states that there are other,
supposedly affects, of ingesting Coca-Cola and aspirin:
it's an aphrodisiac, it's a great way to get high, it
causes instant death, and it cures headaches. These
beliefs have been around for awhile. Barbara and David
says that the belief might of originated in the 1930's
when a doctor from Illinois wrote to the Journal of the
American Medical Association to warn that teenagers were
dissolving aspirin in Coca-Cola to create an
intoxicating beverage. The article then briefly
explains the other supposed affects of taking aspirin
with Coca-Cola. Towards the end of the article, it has
a "sightings" of the belief and says that the belief of
combination of Coke and aspirin forms an intoxicant
comes up in the 1978 film "Grease".
Message no. 35[Branch from no. 13]
Thursday, January 23, 2003 2:13pm
Subject Re: Coca_Cola and aspirin
I actually watched that episode on MTV about Urban
legends. When the girl went to get checked up for any
drug substances in her body. Her results came back
positive. Now that is really scary. I'm going to stay
far away from poppy seeds. I also heard that if you
drink soda with pop rocks then youre going to explode.
theres a lot of weird stuff going around and they only
way to know if it is true is to try it for yourself.
Message no. 105[Branch from no. 35]
Thursday, January 30, 2003 9:40pm
Subject Re: Coca_Cola and aspirin
no...the other way to find out if they're true...is to
trick someone else into trying it...
"here, have some pop rocks, they're good" "oh, and by
the way, try drinking this...NO...its not soda...would i
do that to you?"
BOOM!!!
Message no. 33
Thursday, January 23, 2003 12:11pm
Subject Coke & Aspirin
This just made me laugh when I read this. I have never
heard this before. I knew this had to be an urban
legend. There is no way that taking an aspirin and
washing it down with a Coke-Cola could get someone high.
Think of all the millions of people around the world
that drink Coke. Now think of all the millions of
people who take aspirin. That means there are millions
of people putting this combination into their stomachs.
Everyone around you in daily life is not high. I can
not count the number of times I have combined these two.
But I did some research. Just as I had suspected this
is not true. It was interesting how many other stories
were out there about Coke. This reminds me of the urban
legend when I was a kid. We were told that if you ate a
package of "Pop-Rocks" and drank a "Pepsi" your stomach
would blow up inside of you. We never combined these
two when I was a kid. This just sounds like another
updated for the new generation urban legend. But I did
find a lot of proof of this on the internet.
www.naplesnews.com/02/09/marco/d81179a.htm
www.snopes.com/cokelore/aspirin.asp
www.geocities.com/muslimtruth.Coca_Cola_Proof.html
Message no. 415[Branch from no. 33]
Wednesday, February 26, 2003 1:35pm
Subject Re: Coke & Aspirin
This made me wonder if this is actually true. I tried
taking coke and aspirin together to see if it really
does make you high. In this experimentation I was ready
for anything. Nothing happened whatsoever? I even tried
aspirin with pepsi, nothing happened there too. I was a
little disappointed, but I just let it go. I went to
look at Heather's three sites and found out they were
not true. This is why I tried it first before looking
anything up. I had to laugh to when this bogus
information turned out to be untrue. The only thing that
I can think of that this combination might produce is a
jolt of caffiene or a development of an ulcer.
Message no. 57
Friday, January 24, 2003 3:47pm
Subject TV characters and sexism
I was specifically searching for information on the
claim that the porportion of male characters on TV make
children's shows sexist. I started off by using Lycos as
my search engine. After having little to no luck I
decided to broaden my range of searching to sexism and
cartoons (I figure cartoons are the main programs
children watch). I was having a little more luck using
terms such as: cartoons sexism; tv programs sexism;
sexist tv. I decided to try the search engine MSN. MSN
was a lot easier to use. Using the same key words I was
able to acess more information pertaining to this topic.
Here are a few web sites I used in my search:
http://www.sesameworkshop.org/sesamestreet/?scrollerId=zoehttp://www.bluedojo.com/papers/sexism/ http://www.english.wayne.edu/~calice/Ferguson/smurf.html
Much to my suprise I found valid information that can be
evidence to the claim that cartoons are sexist. I found
that many cartoons have no or a very limited number of
female characters on them. Ex.(A couple of my favorite
cartoons growing up) Seseame Street-Zoe Smurfs -
smurfette I found that not only are many of these
childrens programs sexist, but they are also very
stereotypical. The evidence I found against this topic
is was very limited, but there is good news for todays
children.We are now in the days of Power Puff Girls!
This cartoon demenstrates girl power (well, it's a good
place to start).There are also a number of new cartoons
that have come out in recent years that have more female
characters, but I'm not sure when or if females
characters can catch up to the male cartoon population.
Message no. 146[Branch from no. 57]
Monday, February 3, 2003 7:45pm
Subject Re: TV characters and sexism
although i agree that the power puff girls is a good
place to start with repairing the sexist-laden
children's shows, are we aware of how stinkin' bratty
this show is? i don't remember what study i read, but
it monitored the behavior of girls before and after a
not-completely-unrealistic amount of watching power puff
girls and documented their lowered respect for authority
and i can't remember what else, but general increased
overall abnoxiousness. although i think 'girl power'
shows are great, i wouldn't let my girls watch power
puffs cause frankly, i don't want abnoxious kids.
Message no. 65
Friday, January 24, 2003 5:00pm
Subject Viewers demand for sexism on television
I was looking for television characters and sexism and
searched in msn.com under the phrase "television and
sexism". I then got several results and looked under
the link that said "Sexism and Culture". The link took
me to www.bludedojo.com/papers/sexism.
This article was called "Sexism and Culture in
Television" which stated that our culture demands for
sexism. Sexism makes the show more believable. For an
example, male characters believably exemplify strength
and endurance much more than female characters could.
Men are more qualified to play some parts than women are
for this reason.
An example the writer used was the show, Walker: Texas
Ranger. The character of the Texas Ranger had to be
played by a male character to make the "kick-butt"
scenes more believeable. Having a woman do Tae Kwan Do
and wiping out all the bad guys would not believeable.
The writer also said that to include a female character
as a hero is to change society's way of thinking. Many
times, shows flop because they try too hard to push
women to play characters of heroes. We need to slowly
do this and slowly have society adapt.
Message no. 143[Branch from no. 65]
Monday, February 3, 2003 7:17pm
Subject Re: Viewers demand for sexism on television
it makes sense why networks would support sexism. i'm
not saying i support this, but as far as the general
viewer, i understand the point being made. people
generally watch tv as a form of entertainment and
escapism. after a long day of work do you think Joe
Factory wants to question his ideology by watching a
superheroine save the world, or do you think he wants to
live vicariously through the hero and save HER? my
guess is the latter. cable channels like USA have made
shows like La Femme Nikita for a long time now, and
there are those incredible cheesy Xena-type shows, but
those are more sexploitation than superhero, i think. i
do think it's a good sign however, that ABC's Alias is
doing so well, with a strong female CIA lead character,
that it's likely we'll see more atypical characters in
the future.
Message no. 416[Branch from no. 65]
Wednesday, February 26, 2003 1:45pm
Subject Re: Viewers demand for sexism on television
In the matter of sexism on television, I believe that
the topics or characters on the shows put these types of
people on to attract the public to watch them. An
example of this would be the t.v. show Baywatch. Have
you ever seen any life gaurds that look as good as these
characters, no. Sexism is the number one thing that
television exploits. Sexism on television is a must as
well as a story line. Men as well as women are succumbed
to these types of exposure. Women are portrayed to be
the beautiful and erotic helpless person, and the man is
portrayed to be the tough, strong, and heroic character.
This degrades both male and female. I checked out the
site that Ly checked out which was, www.bludejojo.com,
and sure enough it shows that our culture demands this
type of out look.
Message no. 206
Friday, February 7, 2003 10:30am
Subject Coca cola and aspirin
I wanted to find out if there was any truth to this
rumor that I had heard previously in high school. To
search, I used Google.com. with the words: Coca Cola and
aspirin. Many, many website matches appeared. One of
them was very informative:
www.snopes.com/cokelore/aspirin.asp Basically, this
website derailed this claim as false. It listed the
four most common rumors about Coke and aspirin: 1) it is
an aphrodisiac 2) it is a good way to get high 3) it
causes instant death 4) it cures headaches This website
even documents places in which girls are taught to be
aware of their cokes and not to let some boy slip an
aspirin in their drinks or they will fall for him
instantly. This website even sites the start of these
rumors. A doctor from Illinois published an article in
the "Journal of the American Medical Association" in
1930 stating that the mixture of Coca cola and aspirin
resulting in an intoxicating high. Personally, I find
it hard to believe this rumor. However, I can see how
teenage kids would fall for any one of these rumors
based on their desire to be adult and get high.
Message no. 683
Friday, April 4, 2003 12:04am
Subject woman in war
i looked in google using women in war. i thought this
relevant due to our war with Iraq.
http://womenshistory.about.com/cs/militarywar/this is a site that has many links to it about the
history of women and the roles they play in war. The
roles of the women in the military has changed. They
used to disguise themselves so that they were able to
fight. But for most they found themselves in the role as
servicers. For example they would sew or do other
traditional women things. The times have changed but
not all that much. Women are still not allowed on the
frontlines. They are only able to fly and bring
supplies to the front lines but not fight. Should they
be able to have that option or should the role of women
in war be as they have been and support the men where
they can?
1. TELEVISION CHARACTERS AND SEXISM
Message no. 12
Monday, January 20, 2003 9:44am
Subject Cartoon Characters
Personally I think that the claim of male
characters on television making children's programs
sexist could be true for the current generation but not
necessarily through the years of television. I can
remember when I was young watching girl shows such as
'My Little Ponies,' 'Strawberry Shortcake,' and 'Rainbow
Bright.' These shows did have male characters in them
but they were directed towards girls. On the other hand,
males of my generation recall watching such cartoons as
'Transformers,' 'G.I. Joe,' and 'HeMan,' and of course
both sexes occasionally watched eachothers chartoons.
Today there is still a division of what girls and boys
watch, but through controversy sexism is always brought
up in every cartoon which in my conclusion is inevitable
because humans are a sex and will forever be involved in
sexism.
Two interesting articles I found on the internet were
"Kids TV: A guide for the perplexed"
http://www.enterstageright.com/archive/articles/0896kidtv.htm,by Steve Sailer, and "Smurfy Sexism: Created with a
biased hand"
http://www.english.wayne.edu/~calice/Ferguson/smurf.html, byMariruth Graham. Take a breif look at the articles. The
first article gives examples of different shows and the
sexims involved, and the second points out the
stereotypes of women in the well known cartoon 'The
Smurfs.' In the first article Steve Sailer brings up the
point that most Disney movies are focused towards the
female audience, which is a strong contradictory point
to for the claim of male characters making programs
sexist. However Mariruth Graham takes a look at the
classic cartoon which only contains one female and she
reports that "Smurfette's physical characteristics draw
her as a stereotype which promotes sexism because of the
prejudice messages the writers illustrate." Both
articles take a look at sexism on cartoons and have good
supporting evidence. Alltogether, I remain with the
conculsion that there will always be controversy on
sexism because we are sex.
Message no. 14[Branch from no. 12]
Tuesday, January 21, 2003 9:24am
Subject Re: Cartoon Characters
I agree that cartoon shows have always been divided for
the sexes and will probably continue to be in the
future. While some cartoons for girls do have the girls
being heroes such as "Sailor Moon" or "Powerpuff Girls"
the shows still have the female heroes in skirts and
pastel colors, a trademark for little girls and
clothing. Other cartoons do have strong female
characters but for the most part the females tend to be
the ones who need saving or are the observers. I think
one way things may change is if there are more female
cartoonists that create strong and independent female
characters for young girls to watch. Maybe with a slow
transition of strong female characters such as the
leading female role on "Alias", we will see a move
towards female characters as leaders not followers.
Message no. 15[Branch from no. 12]
Tuesday, January 21, 2003 12:22pm
Subject Re: Cartoon Characters
I also read the Smurfette article and I agree that
sexism will never be completely eliminated in our
culture because the media, mainly television is so much
a part of our lives. T.V. reflects our culture and
culture affects T.V.
It seems that in a way sexism on television exists
because of the viewers demand for male dominated
characters who belittle and poke fun of female
characters. Viewers laugh and don't think twice about
it. Just this morning, while listening to the radio,
the dj made female sexist jokes while eveone in the back
just laughed.
Atleast now, there ae more and more shows that have
female lead characters that are intelligent and capable
of holding their own instead of waiting for a guy to
rescue them. In this way, I do think we are headed in
the right direction.
Message no. 44[Branch from no. 12]
Thursday, January 23, 2003 8:13pm
Subject Re: Cartoon Characters
I agree on the idea that television will be involved
sexism forever. When I was a little kid, I tended to
watch cartoons that were made for boys. It's just
because I simply wanted to be a boy and those boy
characters gave me the idea of what a hero is.
In the current situation, those TV programes in which
male characters overbumber females' and actually that
has effects on children in terms of gender stereotypes.
I wonder if that's caused by the number of people who
prefer those programs, or the number of male workers
behind the scene.
Message no. 179[Branch from no. 12]
Wednesday, February 5, 2003 8:51pm
Subject Re: Cartoon Characters
Interesting research, although I strongly disagree with
the article by Steve Sailer suggesting that Disney
movies are geared primarily towards a female audience. I
personally was an avid fan of Disney movies when I was
younger, and I have many male friends that can relate.
The reason being that Disney tends to draw its female
characters as the typical supermodel, with perfect
bodily proportions and highly attractive facial
features. The animators of Disney are obviously aware of
the effect of attractive females on the male populus; to
believe otherwise would be preposterous. Insofar as the
sexism in cartoons, I do believe that there are more
male-oriented cartoons, but I suppose this occurs only
because there is a greater tendency for males to watch
cartoons than females, although I have seen no empirical
data to support this opinion.
Message no. 204[Branch from no. 12]
Friday, February 7, 2003 9:59am
Subject Re: Cartoon Characters
After reading this response to the topic of sexism in
television characters, I tend to agree with the author:
sexism is inherent in human nature because of social
norms associated with a very early part of our lives.
The example about the cartoon "The Smurfs" shows this
through the use of its only female character, Smurfette.
Because she is the only female, it is easy to se the
traits the creator gives her that may be considered
sexist. In my own experience, I watched many male-based
cartoons as a child. I enjoyed "GI Joe," "HeMan," and
""Transformers" all of which are directed at young male
audiences and perpetuate the male bias that we are
talking about. I looked down on 'girlie' shows such as
"My Little Pony" and others because of the girl
targetted attitudes of the shows. This shows my bias,
and demonstrates that the creators of these cartoons
specifically made their cartoons for a certain audience,
be it male or female.
Message no. 460[Branch from no. 12]
Saturday, March 1, 2003 1:56pm
Subject Re: Cartoon Characters
I also looked up a few things about cartoons being
sexist. The Smurfs are probably the most sexist
cartoon. I love the smurfs, but I hate sexism. When I
was a kid I did not see this cartoon as sexist. Only
now that I am an adult and look back can I see this. I
think we need to remember that it is also somewhat
appropiate. Now let me explain. Men are visually
stimulated. So how did they illustrate this in the
smurfs - smurfette. She always wore a dress, high
heels, and long following blonde hair. This is what men
like to see. Now look at how the male characters were
illustrated. Women generally do not choose a male
partner on appearance. They look a little more into the
man, his character and employment. They all had jobs
and were pretty much identified by their jobs (handy
smurf) or their personality (brainy smurf). This is
what women look for in a male partner. So even though
the smurfs were a sexist cartoon, I believe it just
mirrored our society.
Message no. 16
Tuesday, January 21, 2003 1:13pm
Subject Research message: T.V Characters and Sexism
I wasn't really looking for a specific aspect of this
topic. I just wanted to look at the general sites that
were offered concerning this topic.
I used AOL as my search engine and I used the search
terms: television characters, sexism. I had no problem
finding articles related to this topic.
I found an article called "The Portrayal of Women on
Television" by Paul Harper at this address:
http://www.aber.ac.uk/media/Students/pth9601He mentions the fact that although women and men are
about equal in the population, men outnumber women on
televison He mentions that television is sexist because
it reinforces prejudice sex-role stereotypes. These
would include the idea that women are supposed to look
very pretty, be domestic, have children and then look
after them while the man goes out to work.
Men basically have all the lead roles and are given
action-adventure roles while the majority of women are
in soap operas and situation comedies.
Message no. 19[Branch from no. 16]
Wednesday, January 22, 2003 12:21am
Subject Re: Research message: T.V Characters and Sexism
Hello...Just to let you know that I clicked on the link
of that article, but the the page wasn't found.
I agree that most men are the ones who portrayed in
those stereotypically masculine roles and the women are
the ones who are stereotypically portrayed in feminine
roles such as cooking, babysitting, crying over a
man...etc.
Although these sexist roles still exist, there has been
some major improvement over the years. Remember "Leave
it Beaver", "Brady Bunch", and those other corny TV
shows in which the women were just typical housewives
who subjected themselves to be the lower counterpart in
the household. Fortunately things are changing on
television and in our culture. Women on TV now can also
"beat up the bad guys" and be the heros. Thank God for
the movie "Charlie's Angels" and the TV cartoon
"Powerpuff Girls"!
Message no. 37[Branch from no. 19]
Thursday, January 23, 2003 2:22pm
Subject Re: Research message: T.V Characters and Sexism
Back in days women were seen as housewives. Women were
expected to stay home to take care of the children, cook
wonderful meals, and look good for their husbands.
However, we are in a different century and time. Women
are now playing different roles in our society. We are
not just housewives we are professional working women.
Message no. 24[Branch from no. 16]
Wednesday, January 22, 2003 7:00pm
Subject Re: Research message: T.V Characters and Sexism
I agree with what you said about tv shows reinforcing
gender stereotypes. The typical scenario is a man who
works to put food on the table for his family, while his
wife stays home and cares for the kids. That is sooo old
school. But I guess we are seeing more women in the work
force in tv shows such as Ally McBeal(yikes), and also
in reality which is a step in the right direction. We
are also seeing more agressive women emerge in shows
such as Buffy the Vampire Slayer and Xena(double yikes).
These shows portray women as being independent and more
assertive beings, rather than weak and feeble. And
although I would personally rather watch Real TV, I'm
sure other women out there appreciate these shows that
give us more power.
Message no. 47[Branch from no. 24]
Friday, January 24, 2003 1:26am
Subject Re: Research message: T.V Characters and Sexism
This message is in response to TV characters and Sexism
posted by Katherine Gimeno.
I agree with Katherine about how she mentions that
television reinforces prejudice sex-role stereotypes.
But I feel that television programs and movies are
starting a gradual trend in the oppsite direction, with
women taking on the lead roles. Deni stated in the
previous message about how women are showing up with
leading roles in shows such as Ally McBeal, Buffy the
Vampire Slayer and Xena. In the movie Ever After,
starring Drew Barrymore, which is a creative, realistic
remake of the Cinderella Story. Danielle, played by
Drew Barrymore, is a resourceful young woman who does
not display the typical passive femine characterstics.
An example of this takes place at the end of the movie
Danielle is being held captive. But instead of the
prince coming in to save the day, Danielle escapes from
her shackles, holds a sword to her captors neck and
demands to be set free. Just when she is leaving the
castle her prince comes riding up on his horse and tells
Danielle that he came to save her. This is just one of
the many movies that are now portraying women as strong,
and resourceful. As opposed to the traditional view
that women are helpless and always in need of a man to
come and rescue them.
Message no. 26[Branch from no. 16]
Wednesday, January 22, 2003 8:44pm
Subject Re: Research message: T.V Characters and Sexism
I agree with the writer of the original message and the
2 others that have responded so far that women are
delving into roles that would have never been open to
them before. I am optimistic that this trend will
continue, but I think it's important to put things into
perspective.
First of all, no woman could currently demand the huge
sums that Arnold Schwarzenegger, Vin Diesel, Keanu
Reeves, and the like can and do receive for the movies
they star in.
In addition, the actresses chosen to star in these "new
roles" add a troubling dimension. One of the movies
mentioned was "Charlie's Angels". Its stars (Cameron
Diaz, Drew Barrymore, and Lucy Liu) with their flawless
faces and figures, triumph over the villains with
martial arts and sexuality. This only reinforces the
constant bombardment that women and girls receive which
says that they must be stunningly beautiful in order to
succeed in life. While I see nothing wrong with them
using their sexuality to dominate their opponents, the
unnecessary overt sexuality in the movie affects girls
just as Cosmo does. I also think some of the movie's
dialogue makes them look stupid. And we musn't
forget...their boss is a man.
Another example of women breaking out of stereotypical
roles is Jennifer Garner in "Alias". I agree that it is
a groundbreaking role, but do you think she (just like
Charlie's Angels) was chosen for that role because of
her martial arts skills?
I agree wholeheartedly that the media is moving in the
right direction. But we can't be lulled into
complacence -- as far as "Alias" is from "Leave it to
Beaver" is how far things are from being equal.
Message no. 67[Branch from no. 16]
Friday, January 24, 2003 5:24pm
Subject Re: Research message: T.V Characters and Sexism
I want to start off by saying that I am not a proponent
of sexism nor am I a "sexist pig" of the traditional
sense, but I am admittedly at odds with accepting
equality between male and female gender roles. The
current trend in media programming has been a wave of
so-called empowerment. While this wave is a movement
away from the social norm, the line between gender roles
still remain quite clear.
Women should be afforded every opprotunity that their
male counterparts have. There's no doubt about that.
This message isn't about women's rights and
opprotunities. My concern is gender roles, afterall
where better to learn about gender roles than T.V.? It
seems to me that women, as a whole, are not satisfied
with society's portrayal of female gender roles on
television. What then is the ultimate female gender
role? What would appease the female masses?
I hope that complete equality is not the outcome women
are looking for in gender roles. Part of the allure of
women is their differences from men, in the media as
well as in real life. To blur those differences would in
turn rob women of their inherent beauty. I don't know
maybe I am a pig afterall.
Message no. 138[Branch from no. 16]
Monday, February 3, 2003 3:51pm
Subject Re: Research message: T.V Characters and Sexism
I think it's important, when looking for where and how
certain groups are exploited, to examine what does the
dominating group want? Here we're talking about women
and, while the ideal woman's profile has shifted some
since the good ol' days, her two most important
characteristics to be fulfilled remain good looks and
being subervient. Even though women may be more
empowered on television, the question remains is whether
they still must answer to a man. In terms of Buffy and
Xena and ass kicking women, they are sex objects and
they serve a purpose in that respect. They are not
leading any kind of movement of empowerment. The last
thing we should be doing is patting our patriarchy on
the back because we've evolved from "Leave It To
Beaver." With every role we observe a person in, we
need to ask ourselves if we could see the opposite sex
playing an almost identical part. It's so much deeper
than that. Pick a popular network and watch it from 8pm
to 10pm and tally up the number of times a woman was
portrayed sexually versus a man. Tally up how many
aggressive acts against women take place versus men.
Then come back to this discussion and let's go from
there.
Message no. 18
Wednesday, January 22, 2003 12:11am
Subject Sexism and Culture in Television
I specifically searched for Sexism and Culture in
Television and how does culture affect sexism. I used
the search phrases 'Sexism in Television' and 'Culture
and Sexism'. I didn't encounter any problems during my
online search. I used the www.google.com as my search
engine.
In this short research, I found that not only can
culture affect television, but television can also
affect our culture. We can learn to alter our culture to
change the thinking of the people our society. The
reason why sexist shows even exist is because there
still seems to be a demand for them. Sexist shows are
dominated by male characters. There is little
improvement in the past few years with movies such as
'Charlie's Angels' and other movies that portray women
just as heroic and strong as men. There are also some
TV programs such as 'Powerpuff girls' and 'TV shows that
are incorporating females in positive lead roles that
are helping to create the equilibrium among of males and
females. Incorporating females into positive lead roles
will cause some changes in society.
We need more nonsexist TV programs and movies. We need
less of 'Howard Stern', 'Who Wants to Marry a
Millionare', and those TV shows that portray women as
being weak, battered, abused, and bored housewives.
It's the year 2003 and yet television shows and movies
still need more improvement on creating a sense of
equality among males and females.
In this research, I used the online article "Sexism and
Culture in Television" by Jim Winn. The article can be
found at
http://www.bluedojo.cm/papers/sexism/
Message no. 23[Branch from no. 18]
Wednesday, January 22, 2003 6:57pm
Subject Re: Sexism and Culture in Television
I tried the link to the address, but it didn't work. I
agree that we need more shows the portray women in a
brighter light. I've watched "Joe Millionaire" and the
main thing that it points out is that american women are
gold diggers. Personally I think it's a funny show,
because you can tell why women are portrayed that way on
television just by watching some of the women on that
show. Another show that's out right now that does give a
woman "power" but is still sexist is "The Bachelorette".
This is american culture.
Message no. 83[Branch from no. 18]
Monday, January 27, 2003 6:52pm
Subject Re: Sexism and Culture in Television
This is in response to Marissa Kuroda on Sexism and
culture in television. I agree that there is a demand
for sexism in television shows because that is what gets
to viewer interested. I really have no first hand
experiences with other cultures and what they have on
television verses what we see here in America. I wonder
is if Japan, Australia, and Germany for example have the
same amount of sexism as the America. I would guess that
because there is so much oppression in South Africa on
women that perhaps that is a reason why there are less
women in their television productions.
Message no. 648[Branch from no. 18]
Tuesday, April 1, 2003 9:27pm
Subject Re: Sexism and Culture in Television
I think that the reason why sexist television exists is
actually quite simple. That is what sells. As sick and
perverted as it is...sexist television is what
entertains and sells. Even women seem to still watch
this sexist television, in spite of their constant
protests against it.
simple and sick equasion...yet totally real:
sexist TV = ratings = $$ for network officials
Message no. 25
Wednesday, January 22, 2003 7:24pm
Subject Kid's shows and sexism
I used the yahoo search engine for the topic of tv
characters and sexism. The terms I used in my search
were sexism, children, and tv. I had no problems with
this search.
http://ibelgique.ifrance.com/sociomedia/THE%20INFLUENCE%20OF%20TELEVISION%20ON%20CHILDREN.htm
On this site the author mentions that the Public
Broadcasting System(PBS), which features children's
programming, has consistently shown substantially more
males than females on their programs. She also mentioned
something kind of disturbing that I never really noticed
before. She pointed out that the Muppets were
overwhelmingly male characters with the exception of
maybe 1 or 2 including Miss Piggy, who is voiced by a
man. Also, it isn't very comforting to know that they
made the female a fat pig. I never really liked the
Muppets anyways...but I was totally into Scooby Doo and
the Flintstones :)
Message no. 27[Branch from no. 25]
Wednesday, January 22, 2003 8:57pm
Subject Re: Kid's shows and sexism
This is a comment message for Deni Ramiro on
"Television characters and sexism":
I have noticed that much of children's programs are
dominated by male characters and though I was
surprised at first, I am enlightened that you pointed
out the fact that The Muppets only casted 1 or 2 female
characters and that Ms. Piggy was voiced by a man.
Besides The Muppets, I also thought of Sesame Street
and the cartoon series Winne the Pooh. Look at the more
prominent characters on the shows--Big Bird, Elmo,
Oscar the Grouch, the Count, Bert and Ernie, and the
Cookie Monster on Sesame Street; Winnie the Pooh,
Piglet, Eeyore, and Tigger--they're all males!
Although we can think of many more examples that
illustrate how sexist these programs are, we cannot
deny their popularity. (Have you noticed the different
kinds of Elmo dolls they come up with each year?) Would
it really make a difference if these shows added more
female characters? I think not; probably because they
have already established themselves and have had
reliable numbers of followers throughout the years.
But then again, these shows/characters were made at
least twenty years ago and I have begun to notice that
there are more children's shows that have females in
the limelight now. Yes, the PowerPuff girls, Kim
Possible (who has a male side-kick), Penny Proud (from
the Proud Family), Sailor Moon, etc.
There will always be evidence for children's programs
being sexist and while steps are being taken to
alleviate that, all I can wonder is, "Do kids even
care?" It's not a matter of them noticing how sexist
shows are. Afterall, I would think that these shows'
creative groups put in a lot of time and thought into
them, testing out different ideas they hope would
attract children and keep their attention for a long
time. If the children "get hooked on them," then
congratulations to the masterminds. They did their
jobs, even if the shows are sexist.
Message no. 31[Branch from no. 25]
Thursday, January 23, 2003 8:18am
Subject Re: Kid's shows and sexism
I didn't realize that PBC consistently shown more males
than females on their programs, either. How
interesting! In any case, I belive that television has
a great influence on children regarding their attitudes
toward gender roles. Television could provide
stereotyped and biased messages to children about the
gender role. As I was grew up in Japan, I remember
there were many "hero" types of Kid's TV shows. (Kikaida
is one of them) But I didn't like them because all the
heros were boy charactors.
Message no. 34[Branch from no. 31]
Thursday, January 23, 2003 2:11pm
Subject Re: Kid's shows and sexism
This is a comment message to Emiko Kaylor's comment
message on "Kid's shows and sexism":
That's true! I definitely agree with you that television
has a big influence on children's attitudes toward
gender roles. Television already provides stereotyped
and biased messages to children about these roles.
Unfortunately, I don't think there will be major changes
in television soon to make children's programs less
sexist.
Society as a whole places such emphasis on the gender
roles that even if children's programs became less
sexist, family, friends, and peers would still
perpetuate gender roles.
Message no. 99[Branch from no. 34]
Wednesday, January 29, 2003 7:26pm
Subject Re: Kid's shows and sexism
I agree that television plays an important role in
shaping children's attitudes toward gender roles, but I
think family and school have an even greater influence
on their concept of gender roles. Say for example, if a
little boy cries, mommy will say "boys don't cry", or
his siblings might tell him "only girls cry".
Television is, most of time, reflecting what reality is,
so maybe it'll be fair to say that television is being
influenced by what real life is.
Message no. 46[Branch from no. 25]
Thursday, January 23, 2003 9:25pm
Subject Re: Kid's shows and sexism
After reading your message, I thought to myself, "That's
right! The muppets did have mainly male characters!"
It is something I never noticed before. I watch a lot
of cartoons with my daughter (she's almost two, so I
regulate what she watches)and notice the ones that she
watches have mostly male characters also (Rolie Polie
Olie and Stanley on the Disney Channel). Both of the
shows have male characters as their main character. The
only other females are usually younger siblings or their
mother.
It does make me wonder why male characters are dominant
even in cartoons, because they can make the character
any way or any sex that it wants to, but it chose to
have mainly male characters. For children though, I
don't think that it has too much affect on them, but as
they are older, I am sure that they learn to identify
with the characters.
Message no. 60[Branch from no. 25]
Friday, January 24, 2003 4:21pm
Subject Re: Kid's shows and sexism
I agree strongly with you that sexism exists in our
childrens TV programs. Your right, there are few female
cartoon characters (at least compared to the amount of
male characters)! And of the few female characters, most
if not all seem to fall victim to the harsh stereotypes
that are put on women today. It's sad, but what do you
expect? We live in a world where men dominate
everything!Of course sexism has slithered its way into
the childrens TV programs, with the sole purpose of
currupting the minds of the todays youth.
Message no. 93[Branch from no. 25]
Tuesday, January 28, 2003 6:32pm
Subject Re: Kid's shows and sexism
I found Deni's website link very interesting. The
author, Susan D. Witt says, "Television sends forceful
and compelling messages to children about the
societally-approved roles for boys and girls and men and
women. These messages are often sterotyped, biased, and
outdated yet continue to persist and influence the
behavior of children. As children continue to develop
and grow, they are exposed to more and more of gender
biases and sterotypes and thus children perpetuate
similiar unfair attitudes and behaviors."
I think that Witt helps explain WHY there may sexism in
television. Society accepts them. I accept them. Such
sexist ideas have been past down from generation to
generation.
I also think shows about "superwomen" heros like zena,
and charlie's angels help break the typical women
profession. However, those shows are still sexist.
Zena wears tight fitted clothes and Charlies angels
actresses are young and sexy. I guess they have to do
this in order to appeal to both sexes.
Message no. 118[Branch from no. 25]
Friday, January 31, 2003 2:46pm
Subject Re: Kid's shows and sexism
The television shows for kids have powerful messages in
them. although children are not able to understand the
messages they do tend to imitate them. For example i
never noticed the number of male to male ratio. it
never crossed my mind, but if you look back on the
programming and start picking out things then you start
to see a difference. wheather people are actually
affected by these cartoons or shows we will never know.
but what we do know is that many behaviors that a child
sees on tv are imitaded and can have life long effects.
Message no. 132[Branch from no. 25]
Sunday, February 2, 2003 10:33am
Subject Re: Kid's shows and sexism
Last year I did a report on children's media and I found
that from birth children learn a significant amount of
gender typing from the media. Programs still continue
to underrepresent females, to display males and females
in stereotyped activities, and portray female's bodies
different from males.
Message no. 59
Friday, January 24, 2003 4:01pm
Subject TV sexism
I was specifically searching for information on the
claim that the porportion of male characters on TV make
children's shows sexist. I started off by using Lycos as
my search engine. After having little to no luck I
decided to broaden my range of searching to sexism and
cartoons (I figure cartoons are the main programs
children watch). I was having a little more luck using
terms such as: cartoons sexism; tv programs sexism;
sexist tv. I decided to try the search engine MSN. MSN
was a lot easier to use. Using the same key words I was
able to acess more information pertaining to this topic.
Here are a few web sites I used in my search:
http://www.sesameworkshop.org/sesamestreet/?scrollerId=zoehttp://www.bluedojo.com/papers/sexism/ http://www.english.wayne.edu/~calice/Ferguson/smurf.html
Much to my suprise I found valid information that can be
evidence to the claim that cartoons are sexist. I found
that many cartoons have no or a very limited number of
female characters on them. Ex.(A couple of my favorite
cartoons growing up) Seseame Street-Zoe Smurfs -
smurfette I found that not only are many of these
childrens programs sexist, but they are also very
stereotypical. The evidence I found against this topic
is was very limited, but there is good news for todays
children.We are now in the days of Power Puff Girls!
This cartoon demenstrates girl power (well, it's a good
place to start).There are also a number of new cartoons
that have come out in recent years that have more female
characters, but I'm not sure when or if females
characters can catch up to the male cartoon population.
Message no. 104[Branch from no. 59]
Thursday, January 30, 2003 3:45pm
Subject Re: TV sexism
Aloha Tamara, I remember watching Seseme street all the
time when I was younger and truly enjoyed it (Grover was
my boy). I didn't realize the absence of women though,
there weren't many puppets who were girls but I do
remember a lot of the human actors being female. Big
Bird was always a mystery to me to which gender he
represented. I watched a special program the other night
which revealed some very interesting facets of Seseme
Street such as: Oscar being a grouch and everyone
treating him like he was a mean guy. He lived in a
trash can for crying out loud, anyone would be grouchy
if they lived in a trash can. It gave evidence of
underlying motives of some people concerning the
mistreatment of homeless people. He was a rather dirct
stereotype of a grumpy homeless guy.Another theory
proposed was that The Count was a pimp! Always dressed
in a suit, and continually counting(his money), that
cookie monster is a druggy, his eyes aren't cukoo just
from regular old cookies (those cookies are laced!),and
that Snuffalupagus was always stoned evidenced by his
slow and slurry speech. There were others but I can't
remember them right now. I don't know how watching that
program affected me because I'm not mean to homeless
people, not a druggy and definitly not a pimp. I think
it may have just prepared and warmed up my young mind to
the millions of sterotypical representations I will
encounter throughout the rest of my television viewing.
I will not and do not blame Snufalupagus for any habits
I may have aquired from him. He's a good guy! Bye.
Message no. 66
Friday, January 24, 2003 5:10pm
Subject Research message: Television and sexism
I was looking for television characters and sexism and
searched in msn.com under the phrase "television and
sexism". I then got several results and looked under
the link that said "Sexism and Culture". The link took
me to www.bludedojo.com/papers/sexism.
This article was called "Sexism and Culture in
Television" which stated that our culture demands for
sexism. Sexism makes the show more believable. For an
example, male characters believably exemplify strength
and endurance much more than female characters could.
Men are more qualified to play some parts than women are
for this reason.
An example the writer used was the show, Walker: Texas
Ranger. The character of the Texas Ranger had to be
played by a male character to make the "kick-butt"
scenes more believeable. Having a woman do Tae Kwan Do
and wiping out all the bad guys would not believeable.
The writer also said that to include a female character
as a hero is to change society's way of thinking. Many
times, shows flop because they try too hard to push
women to play characters of heroes. We need to slowly
do this and slowly have society adapt.
Message no. 68[Branch from no. 66]
Friday, January 24, 2003 6:52pm
Subject Re: Research message: Television and sexism
This was an interesting post inasmuch as it comes
from a different stance than most of the others in this
category. Having looked through the other posts, it
seems clear that most people would agree television is
sexist. This would seem to suggest that progress can be
made not by filling what would be a male role with a
female, or blindly adding female parts, but rather by
looking more realisticlly at the role anyone should be
playing. That is, sexism works both ways. I liked
that the walker texas ranger example was given, though
to be fair, Chuck Norris is not, himself, particularly
believable, so would any other actress/actor do more
harm? What comes out of this post for me, though it
is not really the point, is that sexism on television,
as elsewhere, is a problem with which we need to deal,
but that it is important to do so carefully.
Message no. 96[Branch from no. 66]
Wednesday, January 29, 2003 12:12pm
Subject Re: Research message: Television and sexism
Reply to research message:
It is true that television tends to only make men the
hero. There are a couple of shows that have done pretty
well, for instance the shows "Xena the warrior princess"
and "Alias." Both shows have women defeating the bad
guys. Of course there is also sexism in these two shows
because the women sometimes are playing more of a sexual
figure than a hero. I'm not sure if it's discrimination
towards women, but in general, any type of show that
gives women the power and title of a hero will always
glorify her as a woman that is sexually alluring. This
is what our society expects.
Message no. 74
Sunday, January 26, 2003 5:37pm
Subject Research Message: the impact of television
a). After I searched the articles about television
characters' influence on children, I started looking for
the opposite opinion or evidence against ghe claim that
male characters on television makes children's program
sexist. Unfortunately, I could not find any research
findings or evidences that proved the opposite opinion.
However, there was the research that showed, viewing
television has the strong influence on children in terms
of gender-role as children, but not adult role.
b). TV characters influence on children, TV impact of
sexism on children, psychological impact of TV
characters, relationship: TV characters and sexism, no
impact: viewing television,
c). The problems occured when the articles mentioned the
specific cartoons, and dramas. Although, I've been here
for three years, I've not get accustomed with TV
programs here ,yet. That means, the only articles I was
motivated to read were the conclusions or results of the
surveies and researches.
d). I used "Google" and "Ask jeeves".
e).
http://www.english.wayne.edu/~calice/Ferguson/smurf.html http://www.thefword.org.uk/review/tv/ally.live?skin=textonly http://www.richmond.edu/~psych/tvgenethab.html http://www.studentcentral.co.uk/coursework/essay/2717.html http://www.aber.ac.uk/media/Student/pth9601.htmlf). Basically what I found was the facts that those TV
programs creat sex/gender role streotyping and TV
characters are overnumbered by men. I found the
interesting graphs as follows.
Gender representation of sport articles in the "The
Times" .
the number of articles Percent(%) of total Men
2632 88.5 Women 291
10.9 Mixed 15 0.6
Message no. 82
Monday, January 27, 2003 5:17pm
Subject Research Message
I used MSN.com again to find information on television
characters and sexism. The phrase used was television
characters and sexist children programs. The website is:
http://www2.lewisu.edu/~gazianjo/influence_of_television_on_child.htmThe author Susan Witt in "The influence of television on
children's gender role socialization," states that since
the 1950's, about two thirds of the characters on
television programs are male. And also that children's
programs on PBS showed fewer females than males.
The article also states that sexism is even among the
Muppets, because most of the muppet characters have male
names or male voices.
Message no. 85
Monday, January 27, 2003 8:12pm
Subject Future of Kids' Stereotypes Looks Bleak
I used Yahoo to help with my search and when I typed in
'gender roles' for another topic, I was given so many
sites that some of them ended up working for this
discussion as well. Www.apa.org/releases/cartoon.html
is an interesting site because it shows stark statistics
in today's programming with a sexist agenda geared
toward children. While the percentage of female cartoon
characters may have increased slightly, their 'station'
really has not changed. They are still the nurtures and
the men are still the violent warriors. Not only is
this detrimental for young girls, teaching such traits
as co-dependance in lieu of self-reliance, but it only
furthers the the already rampant violent nature in
television and all the dangers which accompanies it. If
the nature of stereotypical programming has changed so
little over the past twenty years (of the past forty
years which have been critical in the civil right
movement), it seems like wasted energy to expect any
difference in programming for our children to come. I
was not actually looking to find proof of children's
stereotypes when I began this search, but with what I
have read, and being that childrens' minds are the most
influential, then it's easy to believe that similar
predispositions filter through adult-aimed airwaves.
Message no. 194[Branch from no. 85]
Thursday, February 6, 2003 6:46pm
Subject Re: Future of Kids' Stereotypes Looks Bleak
I agree that male cartoon characters are usually
portrayed as the more violent characters and the females
are the nurturers. Even if the females are portrayed
as superheroes, their sex appeal is maximized. I think
that children receive these messages and try to act in
the same ways. Little boys and girls definitely have
gender roles and play behavior from a young age, which
is probably highly influenced by the television they
watch. The future of these children is concerning
when females learn to be dependent on males from the
stereotypes they see on television.
Message no. 395[Branch from no. 85]
Sunday, February 23, 2003 3:43pm
Subject Re: Future of Kids' Stereotypes Looks Bleak
i believe that roles in television play a big role in
how children develop. The visions we see on tv give an
example of the values that our society has. We see
women as care givers and men as violent warriors. until
we change how society views women and men in general i
foresee no changes in the programming of tv shows for
children.
Message no. 150
Monday, February 3, 2003 11:09pm
Subject Research message: "Male Characters on Television"
For this research topic I was interested in finding out
what influence the dominance of male characters has on
the development of children. I used MSN with the search
terms "male characters on television". I came up with
the following sites:
www2.lewisu.edu/~gazianjo/influence_of_television_on_child.htm
and
www.ifrance.com/sociomedia/THE%20INFLUENCE%20OF%20TELEVISION%20ON%20CH.
The search itself went well and basically what I found
was what one might guess about male characters on
television. For one, they make up the majority of
television programming. And two, women's roles are
defined by their relationships with men. It was that
second finding that I found profound. One of the web
sites actually broke down the average hours spent by
children in front of the tv and how that related to the
male and female stereotypes they learn.
Message no. 151
Monday, February 3, 2003 11:26pm
Subject Research message: "Sexist Jokes and Men"
For this week's topic I focused on how sexist jokes
might affect men and women. I used MSN with the search
phrase "sexist jokes" which produced an endless list of
joke sites. I then tried "sexist jokes and men" which
produced much of the same. Third time was a charm though
with the phrase "sexist jokes towards women". I found an
article called "An Analysis of Sexist Humor" at the
following website:
newmedia.cgu.edu/comedy/projects/teitgesera/stfinal.htm
This article attempts to give reasons why either men or
women might find humor in jokes that degrade the
opposite sex. It did it in an interesting way though.
The author actually gave examples of several sexist
jokes interjected with literature on it's possible
causes and effects.
Message no. 184
Wednesday, February 5, 2003 11:19pm
Subject culture and television
The topic I was looking for was culture and television.
I used the yahoo.com search engine I had no problems
finding this site. The phrases I used was sexism in
television, culture.
http://bluedojo.com/papers/sexism/The things I learned from this article was that
television and our culture are directly linked. These
are two things that go hand in hand. Television
influences the values of our society and the values of
society are shown to us through the television. The
values of our society are evident through the media and
television shows. Our society is a male dominated
culture in which females are trying to make a name for
themselves. This is evident through the television
shows as we see more women on t.v. that are playing
stronger roles. Although they are no where they should
be time is changing and with it is our culture and
television programming.
Message no. 402[Branch from no. 184]
Sunday, February 23, 2003 5:41pm
Subject Re: culture and television
I liked the article you've chosen. It completely
explains how our society influcences teleivsion. I
agree with you that television and culture go hand in
hand. It's interesting to see that there are more shows
with stronger women, but I still think there needs to
more. Many shows that are male dominated portray women
as helpless and needy. They should put strong female
characters in these shows so it can seem more realistic.
I also agree with you that as society changes our
television shows will also change.
Message no. 185
Wednesday, February 5, 2003 11:28pm
Subject culture and television
The topic I was looking for was culture and television.
I used the yahoo.com search engine I had no problems
finding this site. The phrases I used was sexism in
television, culture.
http://bluedojo.com/papers/sexism/The things I learned from this article was that
television and our culture are directly linked. These
are two things that go hand in hand. Television
influences the values of our society and the values of
society are shown to us through the television. Our
culture as many others is male dominated and we see that
in our programming. As our society changes where women
are becoming stronger and stronger and we see this as
roles in comedy shows. The women are no where near
balanced but they are letting themselves be known and
society, culture and television programming will change
with time.
Message no. 467[Branch from no. 185]
Sunday, March 2, 2003 12:10pm
Subject Re: culture and television
I found your posting interesting as well as sadly true.
What can we really expect from T.V.? We live in a male
dominated culture that views woman as sex objects, and
our TV programming is a direct reflectoin of it. Sad but
true.
Message no. 613[Branch from no. 185]
Wednesday, March 26, 2003 7:27pm
Subject Re: culture and television
I think that it is really good that women are becoming
more stronger in television programs. Women need to
have a stronger role these days because television
really influences are children and society. Children
should learn that women and men are both equal and
capable of fufilling the same role, therefore, the media
should recognize women as also having a superior and
more powerful role.
Message no. 227
Saturday, February 8, 2003 9:58pm
Subject televison and sexism
For this research I was searching for anything that had
to do with television characters and sexism. The search
terms I used was television and sexism. I did not have
any problems with this search because there were a lot
of information on this topic. The search engine that I
used to find my information was google. The web address
for the site I found is:
http://bluedojo.com/papers/sexism/In this article I found that the media has a lot of
gender typing. Television programs still continue to
underrepresent females and to display males and females
in stereotyped activities. Current television programs
have more leading characters played by males than
females. I am appaled after reading this article. I
feel that the media reflects how women are displayed in
reality: they are often dominated by men and given
different expectations. Even though women today have
professional careers, they are still steretyped to play
the role as housewife and caregiver. The media also
reflects how women are seen to be more superficial than
intelligent. In the media and reality a woman's
appearance and beauty seems to be more important than
their intelligence, which then begins to affect their
self-image.
Message no. 272
Thursday, February 13, 2003 9:42pm
Subject Women behind the scenes
Once again I had to default my attempts to use other
search engines and again utilized ol'faithful Yahoo.com.
I wanted to find feminists points of view so the search
words I used were: television, sexism, representation,
and feminist. There were plenty of articles but the ones
I picked are listed below:
www.frontpagemag.com/articles/printable.asp?ID=119
www.aber.ac.uk/media/students/pth9601.html
I have been aware of stereotypical representation of
gender roles portrayed on television so it was no
surprise being told this by both websites. There were
intersting factoids which did enlighten my comprehension
such as: the number of women working behind the scenes
is greatly misrepresented by those who work on it, that
only 6.2% of film directors last year were women, on
primetime tv women account for 28% of the roles, they
get only 38% of screen actor guild roles and that there
is a drastic decline of women acting beyond their
forties. This is all detailed in the first website along
with some positive trends such as: the chairperson of
Universal Pictures and the CEO of Paramount Pictures are
both women and other powerful positions are held by
women at ABC, CBS, FOX and UPN. It seems as if women are
well represented behind the sceens but not well
on-screen.The second website just offered an essay on
the representation of stereotypical gender roles on
television. It gave evidence such as the representation
of women as being emotional, fearful and compassionate
while male actors were told to be strong, hard working
and aggressive. It is my contention that these
characteristics are such common attributes given to
actors throughout the years that it has gone virtually
unnoticed to the common television viewer through
habituation, so that when a role comes up which defies
these traditional gender roles people quickly notice. I
also feel that these representations are so widely
accepted because of biological as well as envirornmental
influences. Men are strong and bring home the bread
while women are supportive and loving and are the reward
which makes the man's life worth living. These values
are instilled at a young age and have been for many
generations.
Message no. 303
Sunday, February 16, 2003 9:39am
Subject Reply to LoveC's "Cartoon Characters"
I remember growing up and watching smurfs as one of my
favorite morning shows. I never really thought about
smurfette as some sex symbol, but I'll admit that when I
grew older and would chance upon the show I would think
that smurfette must really get it, being the only female
in a mushroom village of males.
I think cartoons back in the day had more of a
wholesome story line to it; in cartoons for today's
generation its all about explosions and kung-fu
fighting, minus the plot. This lack of story line does
more damage to the budding mind than a little blue chick.
Message no. 305
Sunday, February 16, 2003 10:25am
Subject The Female Character
I figure that every person has their own opinion
about this topic, if they've taken the time to think
about it. But, I decided to search for opinions in the
academic field about the role that the female has in
today's television. I typed in gender role + television
in Google.
In the American Psychology Association's website,
www.apa.org/releases/cartoon/html, the article talked
about the majority of male characters who all held some
type of powerful, prestigious position in the story
line; while the few female characters were subserviate
helpers.
I found some information worth noting in the
American Academy of Pediatrics website,
www.aap.org/advocacy/ sign298.htm. This long article
stated that the few women who get a strong role in a
show, usually are portrayed as the invincible type.
Also, that as people and especially children watch more
and more television gender role stereotype behavior will
increase.
I'm not sure of my statistics, but I remember boys
being more into television and cartoons than girls were;
even during our generation' childhood,when there were a
lot of cartoons and shows directed toward the female
audience. I think it's just that the television has to
target the largest audience. If males are watching more
t.v. than girls, which seems obvious because of the male
orientation of television, than girls are going to take
a back seat to the hero's of the story.
Message no. 420
Wednesday, February 26, 2003 7:27pm
Subject Impact of TV on gender roles
I was interested to see if male characters still
dominated the television programs or if female
characters have changed in any way. I search using
Yahoo, under the media section. I tried using Google
first, but I just didnât like the outcomes. Using
Yahoo, I had no major problems, only for that fact that
I had to look for a good website. I used the phrase ãTV
and gender roles.
The website that was good and one that I could agree
with was
maskin.bxscience.edu/tat/50s/50swomencurrent.html. The
author says how slowly over the years, the negative
representations of women have slowly been developing.
From a stereotyped women of being in a domestic setting,
the ãheroineä of the home, whose only ambition was to be
a good mother and dutiful wife, made a transition to
women being intelligent, independent, and self-reliant
to solve problems. Some movies that show these new
characteristics are ãCharlieâs Angelsä, ãAlly McBealä,
and ãMurphy Brownä.
There's alot of movies that depicted women with having
the same attributes as men, and that's how it should be.
Message no. 774[Branch from no. 420]
Thursday, April 10, 2003 12:08am
Subject Re: Impact of TV on gender roles
My thoughts about gender roles and how they have
changed.
The biggest event that changed American women's lives
was WWII. During WWII, women were invited to work
outside of home, otherwise "forbidden". Many of these
women were called to help with the developments of war
because many men were enlisted in the service
(machinery, factory labor, welding) all jobs, that men
only performed before the war.
After the war ended, women were expected to go back to
being the housewife and mother. But often this was not
the case.
Women were seeking equal rights and liberation which was
slowly entering the hearts of all americans homes.
The main question that I want to raise is that with the
new freedoms and rights of women and the rise of mothers
entering the workforce, do you think it is better that
mother's work? Don't you think that mother's should
stay home and take care of the kids rather then relying
on babysitters and so on?
Message no. 454
Friday, February 28, 2003 10:03pm
Subject TV sexism does and does not exist?
The search engine I used was MSN. First the key words I
used were: television and sexism to find an article that
supported this view. The site I found was:
http://www.bluedojo.com/papers/sexism/ This article saysthat television affects culture and culture affects
television because they have both become intertwined. I
thought an interesting view on why there is sexism on TV
was "sexism exists on television only because it exists
in our culture." I think this article had many valid
points such as there is sexism because many viewers want
to see sex on TV. An interesting way to eliminate or
lessen sexism on TV suggested by the author is to
incorporate strong females in shows. I found a humorous
article in support that Bugs Bunny is not a sexist
character. I used MNS, search words Television is not
sexist. The address is:
http://www.capitolhillblue.com/Aug1999/082399/bugs082399.htmA Canadian woman was upset over an episode where bugs
bunny escapes a witch with magic powder and walks off
into the sunset with a beautiful female rabbit and he
comments, "Ah sure, I know! But aren't they all witches
inside?'' The Canadian Broadcasting Standards Council
had rejected her complaint and request to apologize to
all female viewers. Saying that the female character
was actually portrayed in a "strong light."
Message no. 458
Saturday, March 1, 2003 1:31pm
Subject TV Characters & Sexism
After researching this extensively for my bibliography
report I have a few questions. I thought b/c our
society is in the 21st century I was not going to find a
big difference. Wow - was I wrong. I thought for sure
that the kiddie cartoons would be less sexist. Boy was
I wrong. I found that the proportion of male characters
outnumbers the female characters by 4:1 ratio. This
comes from a website that is from the APA. Check it
out:
http://www.apa.org/releases/cartoon.html.When I was a kid we watched the Smurfs. Now looking
back at this cartoon, it is probably more sexist than
any other cartoon. In smurfville, there is only 1
female, named smurfette. All the other male charcters
are label with a job in their title like: brainy smurf,
handy smurf, papa smurf and jokey smurf. And she always
is wearing a dress and high heels with blonde hair. Now
if that is not the typical man's dream image of a woman
I do not know what is. I found 2 seperate articles on
this.
http://www.mushroomvillage.com/smurfs-article014.html http://www.engl.virginia.edu/courses/enwr1013/public_html/Mariruth/mpg5a2.htmlThis website stated that since the 1980's cartoonists
have been trying to draw characters as genderless as
possible,
http://www.eye.net/eye/issue/issue_01.21.93/NEWS/nec0121.htm
In my search I used google as my search engine. This
search was a little more difficult. I played a lot with
the terms; sexist, cartoon characters, male cartoon
characters, and female cartoon characters. When I used
the terms female and male cartoon characters I got the
results I was looking for.
Message no. 534[Branch from no. 458]
Thursday, March 13, 2003 9:54pm
Subject Re: TV Characters & Sexism
It is true that the smurf's contain a high level of
sexism within the show but then again look at all of the
cartoons that were made in the 60's and 70's. Scooby
Doo for example is a prime candidate for this
discussion. Notice how whenever anything goes wrong
that it is always Fred who has to make the courageous
rescue or that when something else goes wrong and
someone needs to be rescued that it is always one of the
girls who is in distress. This is a reinforcement that
girls should always be the damsell in distress and that
they have no means of powering themselves through the
situation. It is also true that the number of male
characters on the show do ration at 4 to 1 and even
someimes more than that. The thing that is most
disturbing about these staticstics is that these
programs provide a sexist view through the actions and
relations of the characters, incorporated with the gross
ratios. Since we are now in an age that promotes
equality between the sexes, it is inevitable that we
find discrepencies throught everything we obsevrve. But
the shocking thing is the prevelance at which these
infraction occur. Only in shows whos direct content was
meant not for the show to offend will not, because
almost all of these shows carry with them some form of
societal meaning at the time in which they were made.
This means the only way to solve this is to get rid of
all of the shows we watch now and create new, PC,
television programing.
Message no. 674[Branch from no. 458]
Thursday, April 3, 2003 9:11pm
Subject Re: TV Characters & Sexism
i agree that when looking back on television shows that
we used to love we see things in a different light. Its
funny how we do not become aware of things until we get
much older. It teaches us a good lesson of how we thing
of things now and how will we see these things when we
look back on them in 10 years.
Message no. 616
Wednesday, March 26, 2003 10:12pm
Subject Children's programs
My focus was to see if there is sexism in children's
programs due to the domination of male characters. I
used the same search engine for both articles
http:///www.skworm.com and phrase: male character's inchildren's programs; for both articles. No problems
occured, and I got results right away.
I found a paper written about how television is thought
to influence gender roles for children. It discusses
how even a show such as the Muppets displays sexism by
using all male voices for the characters. The paper
also found that Saturday morning cartoons had more males
in the shows and they played most of the lead roles.
But it states that boys are given precendence over girls
because boys make up 53% of the Saturday viewing
audience.
http://www.ibelgique.ifrance.com/sociomedia/THE%20INFLUENCE%20OF%20TELEVISION%20ON%20CHILDREN.htm
Another article I found was a contrast to the first. It
seems like a review for Katha Pollitt's essay on "The
Smurfette Principle," which is about a bunch of males
with only one female. Pollitt disagrees with children's
television shows because of sexism. The review goes on
to say that Pollitt doesn't have any evidence or
statistics as to why "kids pick up on the sexism in the
children's culture." Another thing the review states is
that Pollitt doesn't want to end sexism in children's
programs, but instead wants to promote female dominance.
http://www.bluedojo.com/papers/sexism
The articles both show different sides to the conflict
and pose good reasons to support either, so you be the
judge.
Message no. 675[Branch from no. 616]
Thursday, April 3, 2003 9:15pm
Subject Re: Children's programs
in our society the sexist roles are taught to us at a
you ng age. Television influences the values of our
society and the values of society are shown to us
through the television. Thevalues of our society are
evident through the media and television shows. Our
society is a male dominated culture in which females are
trying to make a name for themselves. This is evident
through the television shows as we see more women on
t.v. that are playing stronger roles. Although they are
no where they should be time is changing and with it is
our culture and television programming.
Message no. 631
Saturday, March 29, 2003 3:51pm
Subject Television characters and sexism
I looked up sexist television characters on
www.yahoo.com. I found an article at this website:
http://www.bluedojo.com/papers/sexism/ This articletalks about a connection between our culture and sexism
on television and how there is a demand for sexist
television shows. There are books that can be
referenced that give more information on the topic. It
also talks about how males are mostly portrayed as the
heroes in childrenâs television and females are the ones
that need to be saved. It goes on to say that more
studies need to be done to say for sure that these
sexist television programs are affecting children. This
could be done through cross-cultural studies. This
article shows both sides of the argument. Sexist
television shows may be affecting children, but on the
other hand, men are genetically different which may be
why they are portrayed as the stronger sex, more capable
of being the ones to ãsaveä others or the world in the
television shows. The other good article I found is at
http://www.fortunecity.com/meltingpot/kamimura/130/thesis/litrev.html.This mainly has to do with commercials, but also brings
up good points on the subject.
Message no. 688
Friday, April 4, 2003 12:40am
Subject tv sexism
using the terms tv sexism i found a site on google
explaining about current issues in television sexism and
its depiction of male and female roles.
http://www.worldsocialism.org/spgb/feb98/tv.htmlThe article is looking at a television station in canada
called bbc2. its trying to show how women in television
are pushed in the backgrounds and given roles that show
off traditional female roles. This causes a problem in
societies because it doesnt get the traditional
perception out of the heads of the countries youth. If
each generation keeps making the mistakes of the past
then nothing will ever change. The traditional roles
are sold to us on television then we expect these things
out of woman as the norm. Is there a way to change?
sure by redefining the role of woman to encompass more
skills and abilities and not portray them as housewives
who love nothing better than to cook and clean.
Message no. 691
Friday, April 4, 2003 7:07am
Subject Males and females on TV, sexism?
I researched what the possible effects of having a
disproportionatly large amount of male characters on TV.
I used Msn and Google, Google provided me with one more
response than Msn.
I first searched for "male television characters", but
this did not give me responsed that I desired, so I
added sexism, and "Male television characters"+sexism
produced better results.
The site:
http://otal.umd.edu/~vg/jpf96/jp08/bionic2.html was asummary of a television show and the messages it
conveyed, including sexism. The second site
http://www.findarticles.com/cf_0/m2294/5-6_40/55082333/print.jhtmlI found was an article discussing a study on TV
characters, male and female, and the effect of
characters on the audience.
The males and the females on the first show analyzed
both held sterotypical roles; even when the female was
supposedly a superhero character the male usually
stepped in to help or take credit. This show could lead
children to falsely conclude that women always need a
mans help in certain areas. The study from the second
site said that "...older children and young adolescents
spend almost 25% of their awake time watching
television" The fact that so much of this age groups
time is spent watching TV is a good indicator that much
of what the younger age groups beleive about the world,
and men and women is based on what the TV decided to
show them. The study reveals that "...relatively few
prime-time TV characters were overweight (12%) and
under-represented the proportion of overweight
individuals in the general population...", which
certainly leads many young girls to percieve their own
body image as unnacptable; they "need" to be like the
girls they see on TV.
Message no. 729
Sunday, April 6, 2003 2:35pm
Subject National Organization for Women
while looking for this topic, i stumbled accross this
site:
http://www.now.org/nnt/summer-2000/falllineup.htmlit is of the NOW (National Organization for Women). it
details the major primetime tv networks and how they
help, or don't help, the cause of equal rights and non
sexist (feminine) tv shows.
this may be my own synical view, but i just find it
funny that there are people out there who devote their
entire days to watching TV (okay, maybe just their
entire nights, since it was primetime) to make sure that
the shows are not sexist, and that they address female
views as well. i repeat, people...ITS ENTERTAINMENT!!!
have we gotten so self serving that we forget to step
back and look at what teh real purpose is? forcing tv
networks to create shows that are pleasing to
"feminists" but end up bombing on the "ratings" is
rediculous. i agree that we need to be conscious of TV
content and make sure it is non-offensive, and
representative of actual people. HOWEVER...we also need
to realize that if it isn't entertaining, or informative
in the case of the news, it shouldn't belong on
TV...plain and simple.
RELAX!!!
Message no. 748
Monday, April 7, 2003 8:42pm
Subject sexist society
I did my search today on the topic of television
charcters and sexism. I used Google and found no
problems at all. The key words that I used were
"television characters and sexism". I instantly found a
web site that helped:
http://www.bluedojo.com/papers/sexism The article waswritten by Jim Winn and was entitled "Sexism and Culture
in Television". The paper was very interesting in that
it noted the symbiotic relationship between culture and
television. The reason that television characters and
programs are sexist is that our culture creates the need
for these programs and characters. However, television
also affects our views on sexism and, therefore can
alter our perceptions. Thus, both television and
culture contribute to the prolongation of sexism in our
society. Winn also gives examples of two television
programs with different lead characters. "Walker, Texas
Ranger" is the first show with a male lead character
(Chuck Norris). The author uses this show as an example
of why our culture demands sexist programs. Our public
would not believe a female lead character that beats up
all the bad guys like Chuckl Norris. The second show
features a female lead character--Katherine Janeway. It
is entitled "Star Trek: Voyager". Winn uses this show
as an example of how we can help to change our culture's
perspectives on sexism. By featuring more female lead
characters on television, we can help to change our
sexist society.
Message no. 787
Friday, April 11, 2003 3:01pm
Subject sexism and sexuality in advertising
A. Today I searched for new information about sexism in
advertising to add into my bibliography report.
B. The phases I used: sexism and advertising, sex in
ads, sexism
C. While I was searching for this topic, I found it
very difficult to find information to argue the other
side. Most of the information I've been reading only
argues one side: that sexism in ads can cause distorted
ideas about how a person should look.
D. The search engine I used was: Skworm.com I don't
care to use this search engine but I thought I may help
me find something new :)
E. The web address of one article I read:
www.personal.kent.edu/~glhanson/readings/advertising/womeninads.htm
F. One of the interesting things that I found while I
was reading this article titled, "sexism and sexuality
in advertising" By Michael F. Jacobsen and Laurie Anne
Mazur was that it gives a historical perspective of how
the ideas of an ideal women's body has changed within 80
years (1920-2003). I found this to be very useful
because it allows the readers to understand that "thin
was not in" which seems to be the ideal body type now.
However, no matter what year it is, apperance means a
lot in advertising.
Here are some of the quotes that I found in this article
to be beneficial for my bibliography report:
1. "many products are pitched with explicit sexual
imagery that borders on pornography.. such ideas of
women reinforces stereotypes of women as sex objects and
may contribute to violence against women.
2. "Everywhere we turn, advertisments tell us what it
means to be a desirable man or women"
Overall, I think this is an excellent webpage because it
allows the readers to get a sense how cultures and ideas
may change over short periods of time. Plus, I think
people often mistake life right now is and was the same
20 years ago.
Message no. 831
Tuesday, April 15, 2003 11:09am
Subject Television and the perpetuation of Gender-Role Stereotypes
I used the searching terms, "Gender ROle." I had no
problem finding the following site with Google searching
engine.
http://aap.org/advocacy/sign298.htmThis article written by Dr.Signorielli explains various
issues about the gender-role stereotypes on TV. For
instance, the image of women on TV are that of under
representative. The number of women and men characters
is uneven for paticular TV shows. Moreover, women are
likely to be younger than men on TV. TV can be a
positive force in a young children's life, but only if
that child is media-literate.
Message no. 859
Friday, April 18, 2003 5:54pm
Subject sexism and advertising
To add to my bibliography report I searched for new
information about sexism and advertising.
I used the search engine,
http://www.searchbug.comtyping in the phrase: sexism and advertising.
I enjoy using this search engine because it's easy and
it rewords the phrases you type in. For example, when I
typed in the word sexism and advertising, it came up
with new phrases such as problems with advertising. I
would highly recommend using this search engine. Plus,
I didn't encounter any problems while I was using this
search engine.
Here are some of the websites pertaining to this issue.
1.
http://www.umich.edu/~sapac/SIAcontacts.htm Thiswebsite provides contact information of brand names like
BEBE and DIOR. The purpose is to get people to write
and complain about their sexist advertisments.
2.
http://www.brisinst.org.au/resources/wynter_vivienne_shoes.htmlThis article dealt with Windson Smith shoes and his
sexist advertisments. Apparently, one of his ads was
considered distastful. And the Advertising Standard
Board (ABS) also found it to be distasteful so they had
one particular billboard taken down.
Message no. 994
Tuesday, May 6, 2003 10:48am
Subject smurf sexism
Childrens cartoons are daily supplement growing up in
America and around the world. One of the most popular
cartoons of my generation was the smurf. The idea of the
cartoon was simple a bunch of small blue people with
different personalities live together and face off
against the evil gargamel. Back then no one came to take
a look at what messages we were sending our children.
All the characters in the smurfs are men, except for
Smurfette who wore high heel shoes and a dress. The drew
the character to look very sexy. Other shows like He-man
and Gi-joe draw sexist barriers on how men and women
should act and behave. That is what can be seen as the
problems with these types of shows. It portrays men as
the aggresores and women as submissive and incapable of
taking care of them selves. Men also wore tight fitting
clothes and and women skimpy outfits. As a kid this has
a strong effect on out gender roles, and has the
possibility to inhibit men and women for stepping
outside of those means.
http://www.english.wayne.edu/~calice/Ferguson/smurf.html
2. COMMERICIALS AND CARTOONS
Message no. 89
Monday, January 27, 2003 9:25pm
Subject "Commercials"... or BRAINWASHING?
I searched in Yahoo using the phrase 'commercials during
cartoons' to find websites. I didn't really have a
specific topic in mind, but I figured that since
cartoons are pretty sexist (as I found in my TV-sexism
forum research), their commercial promoters would
probably be plugging pretty sexist toys. Pink and
pretty for the girls, dark and destructive for the boys.
And this proved true.
Two good, but very different, websites I found were
www.danielscablevision.com/pages/60tips.html and
www.geocities.com/carnival_isha/commercials.htm.
The first website lists a bunch of tips on how to
monitor your children's viewing by limiting their TV
time daily and interacting with them while they watch
TV. This helps proper absorption of fact rather than
fiction since oftentimes young children cannot decipher
for themselves and thus commercials that boast of
products with amazing abilities will have children
believing in no time. This also helps the parent
because do you want your child whining for a new toy
after they've been brainwashed? Probably not.
The second site is even more interesting because it has
bizarre facts such as 'American children see 20,000
commercials during their childhood.' It also mentions
the dangers of such stereotypes and expectations
children can form.
I personally, just don't think it's healthy to sacrifice
our children's minds to this mass-consumerism society.
Would kids clamor after so many brightly colored new
toys or junk food if they didn't see it on TV all the
time? Yeah, probably somewhat cause it's all around us.
But when I'm a parent, I'll want my kids to think for
themselves, not for Fisher-Price.
P.S. I had no trouble researching this topic.
Message no. 102[Branch from no. 89]
Thursday, January 30, 2003 2:33pm
Subject Re: "Commercials"... or BRAINWASHING?
I totally agree with Christina. I searched through the
search engine of yahoo and tried different ways of
finding information on coomercials during cartoons.
Commercials during cartoons, commercial brainwashing,
children's television, as well as a few others. I found
that without commercials advertising persuasive ways of
getting people to buy things, people would probably be
healthier and more in shape. Television is a main
source of corruption in our society. Children are very
subseptible to commercials and what they advertise.
They are subdued to violence, sex, and even to diseases
such as obesity and anerexia. In my opinion, this is why
children are beginning to learn adult subjects earlier
and earlier, such as the topic of sex. I also have found
that if there were no commercials during children's
cartoons, kids would not be subdued to toy advertising
and candy advertising. Without these commercials kids
would probably be much amarter and healthier. Parents
must be strongly cautioned towards what there children
watch on television. Parents should accompany there
child when watching television and explain to them
things that they might not understand. Parents also
should limit there child to an hour a day of television.
Television is one of the most influential things in
society to our children. We must monitor what our
children can and cannot watch. Everything you see in
commercials is directed to a certain sex and age group.
Commercials for children is seen as boys like cars as
well as girls like dolls. It is a part of our society.
Society chows us something and we, especially children,
think it is right.
Message no. 131[Branch from no. 89]
Sunday, February 2, 2003 12:35am
Subject Re: "Commercials"... or BRAINWASHING?
I agree that commercials advertising sexist toys do have
their downside, but we should be looking to other
sources to blame for the development of children's
attitudes also. I know that when I go shopping for my
five year old nephew I tend to buy toys that I would
have wanted to play with as a kid, regardless of the
advertising dollars spent on it's commercials. So
really I'm to blame for imposing my inclination towards
certain toys, sexist or not. In fact the last toy I
bought for him was a kick-ass remote controlled monster
truck which I play with more frequently than he.
Whether or not my liking for sexist toys was learned
from sexist commercials as a kid I'm not sure. I do
know that I expect my nephew to feel the same towards
the toys I buy for him and react negatively when he
doesn't.
Message no. 144[Branch from no. 131]
Monday, February 3, 2003 7:24pm
Subject Re: "Commercials"... or BRAINWASHING?
good call. that's typical of me too. and thus the
cycle of sexism repeats itself.
Message no. 276[Branch from no. 131]
Thursday, February 13, 2003 10:25pm
Subject Re: "Commercials"... or BRAINWASHING?
You know, I think thats interesting that you brought
that up. I never thought about that. My father did
that to me when I was little, and still does (just not
with toys).
I remember as a 5yr old (I'm an only child)...my dad
bought a Laser Tag set (one gun, and one vest)...and
guess who got to wear the vest...ME!! He'd chase me
around the house with the gun, and I'd have the vest
on...and I'd wonder to myself who the set was for, him
or me.
He still does it too, he'll buy things for my car that
he'd like to put in his, but realizes that "tricking
out" his truck is a lot less fun that my sporty little
car.
I agree with Miss Larson...good call!
Message no. 182[Branch from no. 89]
Wednesday, February 5, 2003 9:17pm
Subject Re: "Commercials"... or BRAINWASHING?
you know...i do know one example of what you said.
whether children would still beg for toys if they didn't
watch TV.
a child that i work with (i work with elementary
children at an afterschool/daycare/japanese language
school thing) is not allowed to watch television at
home, with the exception of educational TV...history
channel, discovery, etc.
however...i still hear him screaming for the newest rage
toy, or game or whatever...its amazing. the children
around him are enough of an influence that he still
falls victim to the mass-media produced
"brainwashing"...damn they're good!!
Message no. 340[Branch from no. 89]
Tuesday, February 18, 2003 11:26pm
Subject Re: "Commercials"... or BRAINWASHING?
I couldn't agree more. Concerning the first point on
monitoring children's viewing habits, it is becoming
incresingly important: kids are watching TV more than
ever, and TV is an all too easy way to entertain a child
while the overworked parent gets a break. Limiting
viewing time is essential. More sex and violence is
being marketed to kids than ever before. If something
inappropriate does come on while a child is watching, it
isn't necessarily bad if there is a responsible adult
there to discuss it with them if they have any
questions, or to set them straight if it's deemed a bad
influence. It gives the child and adult an opportunity
to discuss things that might not otherwise come up.
Now to the second point. Commercials (and cartoons
themselves) absolutely support gender stereotypes.
However, I think the advertisements children are exposed
to as adolescents are far more harmful than the ones
seen during early childhood. But perhaps this is where
the seeds are planted. The amount of commercials during
all TV programming is necessary for our digustingly
over-consumptive society. Kids are taught at a young
age that more is better, that possessions bring
happiness, and that unnecessary luxuries are indeed
necessary. This is what keeps the cycle going, and
parents feed the leviathon because they were raised the
same way.
Message no. 555[Branch from no. 340]
Saturday, March 15, 2003 5:28pm
Subject Re: "Commercials"... or BRAINWASHING?
I agree that parents should take it into their own hands
to monitor what their kids are watching. They should
also be there to discuss with them anything that doesn't
seem right on T.V. T.V. has been used as a baby-sitter
for kids and parents wonder why they may have behavior
problems. I don't think that T.V. is all to blaim for
children's gender preferences in toys. Boys are not
encouraged to play with girl toys and girls are not
encouraged to play with boy toys. They acquire these
gender differences from their parents as well as society
and T.V.
Message no. 589[Branch from no. 555]
Thursday, March 20, 2003 10:40pm
Subject Re: "Commercials"... or BRAINWASHING?
It is completly up to parents to monitor the television
viewing habit of their children, but in the end if you
allow your child to watch tv, they will see
advertisments directed towards them. Advertisments
which are a result of our culture, and that cannot be
avoided. The gender difference encontered from watching
television are also unavoidable, but what can you do.
Things are what they are because they are a certain way.
And that is the reason that people like things. If you
didn't agree with the catholic church on the way that
they handled the sex scandal, you could boycott the
church. But so much depends on the media, primarily
television, that at some time you are dgoing to have to
revert back to it, and when you do it will be the same
as it was when you boycotted it. It will always be a
lose-lose situation when you deal with it. The trick is
how long can you not deal with it?
Message no. 566[Branch from no. 89]
Wednesday, March 19, 2003 2:26am
Subject Re: "Commercials"... or BRAINWASHING?
I agree that it is not healthy to sacrifice our
children's minds to the mass consumerism of this
society, but these days everyone is so busy. My cousin
constantly buys his daughter anything to keep her
occupied. He found that as long as he has a Barney tape
going or some kind of cartoon going, she will usually
just sit there and keep quiet. It's funny because to me
it looks like he tries to use the TV media as a
babysitter, so that he can work on his business. He
even put a TV and DVD player in all his cars just so
that she can watch her shows while on the road.
Message no. 130
Saturday, February 1, 2003 11:39pm
Subject Princess Mononoke.
I looked for the reviews of the movie, Princess
Mononoke. I was simply curious about the interpretation
of the main character in the movie through people who
saw it as some sort of idealized model of woman in
Japan.
I used the title of the movie as the search terms and I
had no difficulty in finding the specific opinions in
the reviews.
Mostly I use "askjeeves.com" when I search, actually I
don't know many search engines.
http://www.nausicaa.net/miyazaki/mh/impressions4.html,this is Hayao Miyasaki's homepage. I would say, he is
one of the greatest and most famous anime director in
Japan and I belive that his name has been well known in
the world.
Personally, I like his films and I've been the big fan
of his movies. Most of his films have drawn many female
viewers to the anime genre and changed traditional
stereotype of female characters. The main character
represents the genuine role model of female; strong not
only mentally but also physically, independent, and
world saviour.
Japanese women see it as ideal and alternatives in
personality and lifestyle, and they have recognized that
they are no longer men's belongings.
Message no. 271[Branch from no. 130]
Thursday, February 13, 2003 9:16pm
Subject Re: Princess Mononoke.
Aloha Kyoko- I have not heard of Hayao Miyasaki but the
contributions he is making to global equal gender rights
is beneficial to say the least. It is my understanding
that the traditional Japanese wife is expected to be
obedient and submissive. For these women to realize
their own self worth through the artistic talent of
another gives Miyasaki the greatest compliment. I have
always enjoyed Japanese anime but always had a special
appreciation for the classics such as Voltron and
Robotech. Then need to bring those back with positive
themes because, through your post, I can see how great
the influence of cartoons have on individual people.Bye.
Message no. 195
Thursday, February 6, 2003 9:02pm
Subject Gender roles in cartoons and commercials
I was curious to see the connection between gender
based cartoons and commercials they aired with, but I
found articles about gender commercials. I had no
problems with these searches. I chose to use two
different search engines for a variety of articles.
My first search was on
http://www.searchbug.comusing these key words:commercials based on the cartoons
they air with. I found this article
http://transforums.tripod.com/id21.htm which states thatmany cartoons from the 80s such as: Transformers,
He-Man, She-ra, Care Bears, and Strawberry Shortcake
were created by toy companies to help with toy sales.
Basically the toy companies made cartoons out of their
own products making it like a half hour commercial.
These products were gender based and so the cartoons
"commercials" were aimed specifically at a certain
gender. My second search engine I used was
http://www.skworm.com with the key words:gender cartoonswith commercials. I found this site
http://www.resurrender.com/toypaper.html The article wasabout how big the gender gap was for tv commercials for
children's toys, and how children recognize different
toys by their brand names. Both these articles
show that commericals for kids are gender aimed and many
cartoons are created to boost toy sales.
Message no. 201[Branch from no. 195]
Friday, February 7, 2003 9:44am
Subject Re: Gender roles in cartoons and commercials
I agree with you that the gender gap in childrens
commercials is huge. But as we have learned the
children recognize the differences at an early age.
They show outward signs of how they deal with problems
and its much different between girls and boys. Even if
they havent watch much tv they still model after their
parents. By the time they do start watching cartoons
and enjoying them they have already been gender
socialized so boys dont want to play with girl toys and
vice versa
Message no. 214[Branch from no. 195]
Friday, February 7, 2003 3:06pm
Subject Re: Gender roles in cartoons and commercials
The information you researched was quite interesting,
especially the idea that many cartoons(including ones I
enjoyed as a child) are produced purely for advertising
purposes; for a particular product produced by the
cartoon developer. This is a highly effective process,
for both genders, as myself and my younger sister are
both proud owners of multiple toys from our favorite
cartoons.
Message no. 250
Wednesday, February 12, 2003 4:15pm
Subject children learn unhealthy methods of taking care of themselves
I used google to find information on commercials and
cartoons. It was really difficult for me to find
information on commercials and cartoons. When I finally
typed in exactly what I wanted to know: "what is
advertised during cartoons" I finally got something at
http://www.ext.vt.edu/pubs/family/348-008.htm#L1 Thiswebsite is called "Food, Kids and Television" and it is
design for caretakers and parents to gain awareness of
the harms of television programs and commercials.
Authors of the website state that at a very young age
children learn consumerism from commercials. The ones
during cartoons especially are harmful because they
advertise so much candy and other foods that are bad for
anybody's health, but especially young people who are
still developing. Authors call attention to the need for
parents to talk to their kids about the hidden messages
(in this case having to do with health). Not only that,
but this website also addresses the role that sexism
plays--the toys that are advertised during children's
programming like cartoons are very gender specific.
Message no. 265[Branch from no. 250]
Thursday, February 13, 2003 1:19pm
Subject Re: children learn unhealthy methods of taking care of themselves
you know, it's so true. kids are driven by
mass-consumerism as much as the rest of our culture.
interesting what you point out about kids' health
because recently i went getting drive-thru when i
noticed McD's now has 'supersize kids meals.' typical.
and so gross. this is why america is overweight.
absolutely no child needs a double-decker cheeseburger.
Message no. 299[Branch from no. 250]
Friday, February 14, 2003 4:57pm
Subject Re: children learn unhealthy methods of taking care of themselves
I agree that unhealthy foods are advertised all the time
but it sells the product---exactly what it's suppose to
do. Marketers are very smart and they do their job
well. In fact, business and psychology are very
similiar from this perspective. Psychologist and
economist are both looking to see what sells, the
choices people make and why, and what are the
reinforcements.
Nevertheless, even though a commercial does what it's
suppose to do it also invites problems. Because many
commercials are marketed a certain way (makes food look
good and people are having fun eating it) it makes me
feel like I'm missing out even though I know it's
unhealthy. But I don't care, I want it. Now, here is
where differences may arise between me, an adult, and
children. I am older and I have my OWN money to buy my
greasy cheeseburger and large fries and I am also more
educated about foods. So with this in mind, I'm
thinking that it's not the markerters fault that
children buy and want what the see on TV. Rather WHO is
buying these unhealthy foods and can it be a learned
thing- to eat unhealthy? I believe parents are partly
to blame for their kids "unhealthy" eating habits. If
parents like to eat Mcdonalds maybe their kids will too.
And if they see their parents eating/buying it all the
time I think their children will want to, too (social
learning). I'm not sure but I wouldn't be surprised if
a lot of unhealthy children have unhealthy parents.
First of all, kids can't buy their own food and I don't
think they go out and buy their own groceries to cook
"good" food. So like the article, I think it's a really
good idea for parents to educated their kids about
eating healthy.
Just some other information to think about. In a
magazine recently published, Hawaii was rated the fitest
or had the lowest rate of overweight people. And, I
heard on the news that six out of ten people in Hawaii
are overwight.
Message no. 321[Branch from no. 250]
Monday, February 17, 2003 12:14pm
Subject Re: children learn unhealthy methods of taking care of themselves
Commercials during childrenâs programs not only
advertise candy but also make it appealing by
transforming the world around them or by transforming
them physically into fruit or cartoons. And of course
the boys are supposed to play with Tonka trucks and the
girls with dolls. There are even commercials that will
target women and cleaning. What I do like about the
Disney channel is that they make an attempt to educate
about letters and numbers during commercial breaks.
This may be a reflection of junk food commercials during
cartoons but in the supermarket you almost have to trick
kids to eat healthy with colorful packaging or fun
shapes and even the candy sometimes is fruit shaped,
tricking the parent to believe it is healthy and the
child that healthy food tastes like sugar!
Message no. 590[Branch from no. 250]
Friday, March 21, 2003 7:13am
Subject Re: children learn unhealthy methods of taking care of themselves
I guess I never really thought about it, but it is
true...there is an unbelievable amount of commercials,
for candy and other junk food, that air during cartoons.
It's kind of funny if you think about it because we are
always nagging our children not eat too much candy, or
to finish their vegetables if they want some dessert.
But these advertisements, which clearly target children,
give mixed signals. The t.v. says it's okay to eat, but
mommy says no causing her to look like the bad guy just
because she cares about her child's health. Just that
little element alone probably adds to the pains of
parenting.
Message no. 257
Thursday, February 13, 2003 10:49am
Subject More gender stereotype in commercials than cartoons
I found this article in msn.com after typing in "effects
of commercials and cartoons on childre". I was led to
the site
http://vax.wcsu.edu/~mccarney/acad/bradway.html. It waseasy to find and I had no trouble with it.
This article was actually a research that was done by
Jacquely S. Bradway on commercials and television
programs that children watch. What was surprising to me
was that the article showed that there is more gender
stereotyping in commercials than in the television
programs that they watch. It said that the commercials
reflect the culture. Boys are to play with toys that
have to do with construction or building things while
girls play with dolls and housekeeping equipment.
Commercials with boys are also more fast paced than girl
commercials. They are louder, brighter, and more
active.
Gender stereotyping in commercials bring out gender
stereotyping in real life. Children are very affected
by these commercials. If a boy sees in a commercial
that a girl is playing something, he would never want to
go out and buy that toy. Same with real situations.
Building and construction becomes a "man's occupation",
while housekeeping is a woman's.
Message no. 335[Branch from no. 257]
Monday, February 17, 2003 9:54pm
Subject Re: More gender stereotype in commercials than cartoons
I do agree with you that some people still see that a
man's job is outside the home, while the woman's job is
inside the home. But I think ultimately it is the
parent's responsibility to explain and educate the
children properly. As I grew up I was told I could do
anything I wanted to do. I truely believe this.
Anyone, male or female, can do whatever makes them
happy. It is very important to talk with kids and
listen to the things they say. It is the parent's
responsibility to educate the child about gender
sterotyping. I can say that I see a big difference in
the cartoons and commercials that I saw as a kid and
them today. Much more sexual and violent content now.
Technology is at their fingertips. They see way more
than what I saw as a kid. I wonder how much childhood
will change in the next 20 years.
Message no. 336[Branch from no. 335]
Monday, February 17, 2003 9:58pm
Subject Re: More gender stereotype in commercials than cartoons
I have to agree with Heather because I took a childhood
course and we discussed the effect of television on
children today and the main point that was emphasized
during our discussion was that parents today are too
busy working that they tend to neglect talking to their
children about what they are watching and what children
think about what they are watching. In addition, we
also talked about how it is important to sit with your
children (especially if you are watching television
geared more toward adults) and explain to your children
what the program was about and why they portrayed it
that way.
Message no. 322
Monday, February 17, 2003 12:17pm
Subject gender roles in cartoons
I went to this
website:
http://www.apa.org/releases/cartoon.html. Thisis a article about two psychologist that studied
cartoons to see if they have changed at all...the answer
is no. They say that males are more dominant characters
in cartoons. They play the main characters and are more
well-rounded and show more masculine traits. While
there are some women main characters and some women are
portrayed in cartoons, they are not well-rounded, they
nag, they whine, they are bland characters. I thought
this was really interesting because I love to read the
funnies every sunday and now that I think about it the
findings of these two psychologists are true.
Message no. 324
Monday, February 17, 2003 12:25pm
Subject gender roles in cartoons
I went to this website:
http://www.oakland.edu/~kitchens/160a/fall98.html. It'sfunny because it basically says that children are not
complaining about gender roles in cartoons...only adults
are. And while the suggestion is wisely taken I can not
express to this person the extent of instruction that
children learn gender roles from commercials and
cartoons.
Message no. 325
Monday, February 17, 2003 12:35pm
Subject response to lu message #257
I never thought about how fast paced boys commercials
are until I read that article. Now that you think about
it girls commercials do have softer music and they are
more slow paced. Then you look at some action figure
for a boy and the music is fast and the boys are running
around.
Message no. 362
Thursday, February 20, 2003 5:53pm
Subject Cartoon influence?
When thinking of cartoons I don't think of Digimon or
Powerpuff girls, I think of Transformers, GIJoe and
He-man and the cartoon with the animals with different
t-shirts detailing their qualities (Shirt-tails?) anyway
-I think the cartoons in these modern times suck. I
don't see how the cartoons from my day are still not on
the air. I'm sure kids nowadays would fully appreciate
them if they were still being broadcasted. I finally
used a different search engine with Google. This google
thing works pretty well. I typed Cartoons, influence and
Transformers and the list was pretty long. I chose the
following articles:
www.moondancersdream.com/PAR.thirtyminutecommercial.htm
www.yojoe.com/faq/gifaq.shtml
The first article was a counter attack against those who
propose that cartoons of the eighties were mere thirty
minute commercials trying to influence young,nieve minds
into begging their parents for the toys they saw on TV.
The author states that these toys were flying off the
shelves before the cartoons were even conceptualized and
that the success of the toys caused the cartoons to be
produced. This guy was a real cartoon junky, citing
everything positive about cartoons and their
accomplishments (ex.Transformers Beast Wars getting an
Emmy)and did nothing to show him as unbiased due to not
detailing any ill effects of cartoons. The second
article was just filled with information on GIJoe. I
don't knoe how GIJoe got into this Transformer party but
this second favorite cartoon caught my attention just
like it did 15 years ago. Anything you wanted to know
about GIJoes can be found in this website along with
frequently asked questions. It also detailed how these
cartoons and others such as Jem were all made and
produced in Japan. Cartoons do have an overwhelming
influence on a young childs mind. I know for a fact that
I saw my first Transformer cartoon way before I got my
first Transformer toy and that it was due soley to the
cartoon that I needed Grimlock, Soundwave, Sabotage,
Sludge, Thundercracker and Megatron. If I saw these
toys in the store and I had no idea who they were or
where they were from I probably would not have asked my
mom continously,repeatively and irritatingly for them
without mercy. So yeah, I disagree with the first
article and do think that cartoons do serve a double
purpose for their creators, one is ratings and the other
is commercialization of their product.
Message no. 421
Wednesday, February 26, 2003 9:58pm
Subject The Media and Child Development
I watched a Saturday morning cartoon called
Pokëmon. This particular episode was called "Brock's
Heartbreak," and it was about the character "Brock,"
getting hit on by girl to the point where this girl
wants to marry him upon first sight. The usually
womanizing Brock is caught in a reverse situation where
he is the one who is hit on (instead of vice-versa).
During the course of the show, she also attempts to
marry two other people at first sight: namely one of the
lead villians of the show, James, and a doctor that
treats her at the end of the show. This girl's father
is a wealthy scientist that raises and studies Pokëmon,
and the villians push the idea of marriage in order to
steal her father's Pokëmon. The heros of this series,
Ash, Misty, and Brock reveal their true intentions and
rescue (or try to) this reluctant girl, Tamaku, from
marriage to "bad" people with the "wrong" intentions.
After the battle, Tamaku "falls-in-love" with the doctor
treating her. Misty reminds Brock that no-one can
compete with a Doctor (probably preaching some kind of
social-status value no-doubt). In the end, Tamaku's
scientist father tells the heros that she had previously
saw a wedding and was very enthusiastic about having her
own.
The Moral? Early marriage is dangerous for there
are many bad people in the world. Extra lessons could
be that love does not come over night (for everyone),
Social status does pay an important role in marriage
(so study hard kiddies and become an MD), and boys:
watch out for those finicky girls. These lessons are
important lessons for all ages, but I don't think half
of the world is listening to them anyway (proof? The
divorse rate is bad enough, and that doesn't even
include or compare to the amount of broken
relationships and unmarried mothers, etc.).
I would show this to any child, it has soft-core
violence, but weilds terrific values and entertaining
dialogues throughout it's plot. The ending was sort of
sad, but it had true-to-life reality (heartbreak) that
fits in quite well with preparing our children for the
twists and turns of life (warning them of impending
danger; or something like that).
Message no. 435[Branch from no. 421]
Thursday, February 27, 2003 7:09pm
Subject Re: The Media and Child Development
So Mark-- I read your review of the Pokemon cartoon. I
have not seen that one or any of them for that matter.
You made some interesting inferences but I must say,
based on what you reported as events in this episode, I
disagree with you. Here's my interpretation of the
cartoon: *This woman/girl wants to marry Brock and then
2 other people sends the message that a woman's love is
not genuine, but rather she wants somebody who's secure
(a doctor perhaps???). *Ash, Misty, and Brock rescue her
from a bad marriage--SHE HAS TO BE RESCUED??? Don't you
think this makes her look a little powerless? If she's
tricked into marriage and then has to be rescued out of
it, she's looks stupid and helpless. *This woman/girl's
father explains that she just saw a wedding so she's
enthusiastic about her own. Doesn't this perpetuate the
stereotype that all females--girls until they're
women--sit around planning their wedding day and waiting
passively for an assertive man to "rescue her?"
*Please help me understand how "boys: watch out for
those finicky girls" is an important lesson for all
ages? It's grossly one-sided to say the least. *P.S.
"Softcore violence" is not a "terrific value."
Message no. 440[Branch from no. 435]
Friday, February 28, 2003 12:19am
Subject Re: The Media and Child Development
Vanessa,
I did not post this to generalize, so I expected
you not to see it as such. A woman's love is genuine,
but not everyone's is, regardless of gender. Just as a
person must be careful regardless of whom she/he is
dating, etc. "Rather she wants somebody who's secure?"
A doctor perhaps, yeah social status does exist, most do
prefer to marry a doctor. Especially in Japan (where the
show was made, and no doubt it was made by a Japanese
National). *Ash, Misty, and Brock rescue her, period.
Don't YOU think this makes her look a little powerless?
"If she's tricked into marriage and then has to be
rescued out of it, she's looks stupid and helpless."
That's the whole point! Hopefully the CHILDREN can
understand that, being that they are regular watchers of
the show and know who the villans are by heart. It's
the children who get to point and the screen and say
"DANGER! DANGER! Don't do it!" They should feel good
knowing that they know what's right and what's wrong.
*Doesn't this perpetuate the stereotype that all
females--girls until they're women--sit around planning
their wedding day and waiting passively for an assertive
man to "rescue her?" --There's a stereotype? Nah,
that's not what my MOM taught me. Oh, you must be
confused with the movie Pretty Woman. I did NOT like
the way she was portrayed in it. But I'm not bold
enough to say that it doesn't happen. *Please help me
understand how "boys: watch out for those finicky girls"
is an important lesson for all ages. -- Ok, but soon
I'm going to start charging. lol. As a child grows up
(boys or girls alike, mind you), they have this
innocence about them. Sometimes they remain this way
until they get burned by some mean person. A warning
doesn't seem that bad around now, does it? Or are you
still hung up on the feminist issue? Ok, back to the
divorce rate: it's quite high. People are deciding that
they are right for each other, not right for each other,
right for each other, not right for each other... A lot
of people keep up the repetition but I don't have the
time to keep going. "Boys, watch out for only CERTAIN
girls," was what I was referring to. This means YOUR
PERCEPTION of things is grossly one-sided to say the
least. SHEESH! Look closely at my reply again, the only
feminist issues you see exist in your head. Remember
that you did not see the show, but still jumped to
conclusions. Hmmmm, yet you did reply to my reply. For
what it's worth, thanks. --Velocity *P.S. "Softcore
violence" is a "terrific value" for two reasons: 1.)
When you're fighting for the right cause, especially for
what you believe in (like justice). and 2.) Soft core is
not hard core, and presumably it has the right amount of
action without getting too aggressive (shooting water
versus shooting bullets from an AK-47).
Message no. 438
Thursday, February 27, 2003 9:40pm
Subject cartoons and gender roles
I was using the google search engine searching for
gender roles as they are portrayed in cartoon
characters. i had no problems finding an article on
gender roles and those roles in cartoons.
http://www.apa.org/releases/cartoon.htmlThis article was mainly about how cartoons portray the
traditonal gender and sex roles we have in society.
Things havent changed much from the 70s. Our youth is
still being exposed to the same images as generations
before. With the new age of broadcasting and tv
becoming more edgy and controvocial the images being
sent out are that much more powerful. Besides the
advances in the equal rights of people the traditional
images still stand strong in our society.
Message no. 459
Saturday, March 1, 2003 1:45pm
Subject Marketing to our Children
This was extremely interesting to research. It is
amazing how much advertising is marketed directly to our
children. I found a fantastic site that has ove 10
articles written about ads that target children. This
is huge business. Children see over 40,000 commercials
a year. Children influence about $500 BILLION in
spening a year. Marketers target children instead of
the parents who have the money b/c it is easier for your
kids to convince parents to buy something rather than
the tv commercials. The commercials that are being
played are for toys and junk food. If the advertisers
can convince the kids that every other kid has it,
children will pressure the parents.
In addition to marketing directly to children, the
commercials are gender biased. During girl cartoons you
will see more commercials for dolls, barbie's, make-up,
and stuffed animals. During the boys cartoons you will
see the commercials target the boys; cars, action
figures, and other male oriented toys.
Again I started using google as my search engine. This
search was a little more tricky. I used the terms:
advertising that targets children, commercials during
cartoons, advertising during cartoons, commercials. My
search was not going so well. So I started using the
advance search. I just mixed the words around until I
got waht I was looking for.
this is the best site I found:
http://www.commercialexploitation.comMessage no. 475[Branch from no. 459]
Monday, March 3, 2003 10:42pm
Subject Re: Marketing to our Children
Reply to Marketing to our children
I can't believe that children see over 40,000
commercials a year. No wonder it's such a big
industry!--I mean $500 billion dollars a year is a lot
of money for kids to be generating.
I also agree that advertisers can convince children to
pressure their parents to buy them toys or food. I can
remember asking my mom to buy me a cabbage patch doll.
I thought every girl had one except me and begged her
for it. Of course I got it. But, now I know. So if I
ever have kids I won't fall for their tricks. hehe.
Message no. 499
Friday, March 7, 2003 11:38am
Subject Child Psy./ TV violence
I found a place where they talk of the subject, perhaps
you all already seen this one but:
http://radio.atlantisrising.com/HillyRose/175_Gerald_Jones/175_Gerald_Jones.shtml"Why Children Need Fantasy, Super Heroes, and
Make-Believe Violence"
It was interesting to hear someone other than myself say
that letting children watch shows where they can define
or understand what is right or wrong in the content
actually helps them in their development.
Acknowledgement of what is right and wrong is another
key ingredient in the learning process. If you want to
teach children right that is. I'd imagine it probably
would be better if you watch the show with them and
speak some of those out loud for confirmation though.
Message no. 567[Branch from no. 499]
Wednesday, March 19, 2003 2:44am
Subject Re: Child Psy./ TV violence
I agree that allowing children to watch shows with
violence in it does not harm the child. If the child
wants to watch it, the parent should just let them watch
it, but must be sure to explain to the child the
difference between TV and real life. All throughout my
life my parents never restricted what I could and could
not watch. But when I was young they made sure to
explain to me about the difference between reality and
TV. By doing that it helped me to understand why I
shouldn't imitate the characters that I see on TV. For
instance why I shouldn't copy the Ninja Turtle's and
beat up people that made trouble to me.
Message no. 570[Branch from no. 567]
Wednesday, March 19, 2003 11:22am
Subject Re: Child Psy./ TV violence
Yes, yes! Many of us watched violent things when we
were young! You see, thats my whole point. If you sit
down with the child and explain what is good and what is
bad then no matter what terrible things (like rated R
movies that children tend to end up seeing) the child
"accidentally" sees, he/she can seperate what is good
and what is bad. Of course if you gradually yet
constantly remind the child of both what is good
behavior and what is bad behavior, they will listen. I
am a constant reminder of that [I knew right from wrong,
and I'm fine today] and (most of) us are too.
Accentuate the positive too, that is always a good
start.
P.S.: Thanks for agreeing with me Shawn, sometimes I
feel like I'm alone in this.
Message no. 588
Thursday, March 20, 2003 10:33pm
Subject The problem with modern society
Do we not look down upon those who threaten the well
being and saftey of our children and children in
general? Then why do we tolerate commercials aimed at
children which promote nothing good or wholesome, but
rather junk food and toys? the way thing are going now
that is all advertisments during childrens programing is
about. 96% of all advertisments during childrens
programing is for candy, pre-sweetened cereals, new toys
and soda. Only 4% of commercials are for breads and
grain, juice, or meat. you could say that it is
because that is what children like. But, do children
really like this stuff that much, or do we make them
like it? Just like when people say that if children
watch violent programing they will tend to be morre
violent than usual. Then what about watching shows for
candy and fast food? Does this not have the same
effect? you have to be stupid to say no. Then why do
we allow our children to be subjected to these types of
things when we know that this is a silent epidemic?
People want to wait until the problem is visable, and by
that time it is too late. When will you intervene?
When your child is 80 pounds over weight, or will you
wait until that child has his or her own child that is
now 80 pounds over weight? the cycle has begun and mass
media is the culprit. I used the google search engine to
find results on this topic. I typed in commercials and
childrens programing, but that didn't get too many
relavant hits, so i typed in advertisments during
childrens programing. here i got many better results.
www.isiswomen.org/pub/medvaw/repre.html
www.cycf.umn.edu/schoolage/programs/cc1024.html
Message no. 773[Branch from no. 588]
Wednesday, April 9, 2003 11:42pm
Subject Re: The problem with modern society
Reply message to Raul Sabat:
I think the main reason adults and society tolerate
commercials that are not "wholesome" has a lot to do
with the lack of information about how commercials can
effect a child.
I honeslty don't think many people are aware of how much
impact commercials can have. Another thing to note is
that adults don't give much credit to how smart children
are.
Message no. 591
Friday, March 21, 2003 7:35am
Subject commercials for kids
Using Yahoo, I did a search on the words " ." It took
me a little while to shuffle through some of the sites
that did not even pertain to this subject. But other
than that, I had no other problems. I found an article
entitled "COMMERCIALS ON KIDS SHOWS - WHAT'S THE
MESSAGE?" at:
http://lynnsgallery.com/toontalk/commercials.htmlAccording to this article, commercials that come on
during children's shows are discriminant in terms of sex
and race. It states that a majority of the characters
in commercials are white males. It also says that some
commercials do feature black children, but they rarely
have any speaking lines. One thing that the author
pointed out was a commercial that she had seen while
watching Saturday morning cartoons. It was a lego
commercial with a little boy playing Legos with his
grandmother. His grandma kicks his butt and everyone is
left wondering how she pulled that off...then at the end
of the commercial she reveals that she is really a HE.
Those are just a couple of examples of sexism and racism
pointed out by the author of this article.
Message no. 824[Branch from no. 591]
Monday, April 14, 2003 7:41pm
Subject Re: commercials for kids
In response to Deni........
What you found is really interesting, when I try to
think of how many children's commercials feature black
female kids, I can't think of any right off the bat
compared to white male kids. Latley, however, I've seen
much more Asians not only in commercials, but on t.v. in
generaL, which suggest an increasing awarenes to have a
better representation of the American population.
If you also listen to the voiceovers on the commericals
there are far more men than there are women. Women
voiceovers usually do house cleaning supplies or
feminine hygiene products, while men voiceovers are more
broad.
Message no. 601
Saturday, March 22, 2003 12:37pm
Subject roles children learn
The search engine I used was MSN. The key words I used
to search were gender roles in cartoon commercials. At
first I had a lot of difficulty because only cartoon
sites were presented. I came across an article about
how cartoons stereotype gender roles. The address is
http://www.apa.org/releases/cartoon.html It mainlydiscussed that in cartoons the men have more important
roles such as scientists and doctors while women are
nurses or beauties. Male characters also outnumber the
female characters. "Male characters are also still
portrayed as dominate, powerful and aggressive. Female
characters don't have any 'character' at all." Another
article I found on MSN is "Gender-Differentiated
Production Features in Toy Commercials". The address is
http://www.aber.ac.uk/media/Documents/short/toyads.htmlThis article discusses research that shows differences
in how toys are marketed to children including male
voices for boys commercials and female voices for girl's
commercials. And the commercial styles for boys were
more "masculine" while girls commercials were
"feminine."
Message no. 768[Branch from no. 601]
Wednesday, April 9, 2003 9:06pm
Subject Re: roles children learn
Can people say that if we didn't incorporate gender
roles into modern society that we would be better off?
i think it is horrible what people are doing to the
children by over projecting gender roles into hildren
programing, but then again there must be some basis to
hold these ideas together. I am not saying that
children need to learn about these things in these ways
or that they need to be brainwashed into thinkiing a
certain way about their genders, but it would be
impossible to have a completly fair and impartial
society in which people could avoid conflict as such.
Are we to say that the media society has to change
before real society can change or does real society have
to change before the media will change? I feel that it
is impossible for equality to occur because once one
aspect has been liberated, another will fall into the
hole, and then people will say that this new thing is
unfair, and that is just the way it is.
Message no. 686
Friday, April 4, 2003 12:25am
Subject commercials, how we are affected?
using google i looked under sex roles in commercials. i
found articles quite fast.
http://www.findarticles.com/cf_0/m2294/1999_Sept/58469479/p2/article.jhtml?term=gender%2Brole%2Badvertisingthe article is a journal article sent out to show the
roles of men in television. It focuses on the commercial
aspect of tv. it has statistical analysis showing how
many commercials the avg. american watches in one day.
Its rediculous. We are affected by everything we see on
tv. The article shows how commercials try to reflect
the values of our society. Like television program it
uses the values and laws of society to socialize in to
all thinking the same way. Sex roles are a by product
of this. The more we see some one acting a certain way
we begin to make generalizaions that, thats how things
are and thats how they are done.
Message no. 721
Sunday, April 6, 2003 1:43am
Subject advertising during cartoons
I was attempting to find information on between
advertising during cartoons, I can remember as a child
watching hours of cartoons and gazing longingly at the
newest Transformer or GI Joe and insisting to my dear
mum that I HAD to have it.
I used Google to search for advertising+during+cartoons
and found a few interesting articles, one of them pretty
much summed up all the others.
http://www.childrennow.org/newsroom/news-02/cam-ra-4-16-02.htmThis article discusses advertising in cartoons and its
effects on children.
The article claims that 13 Billion dollars are spent
each year marketing food and drinks to children and
their parents. And this doesnt even mention money spent
on advertising toys and other things, i'm guessing that
just as much if not more is spent on toys during
cartoons. I still watch occasionally and it seems like
they are just a big toy ad with some cartoons thrown in
between. The advertising is not for healthy food by any
means, "...only 2 percent of all advertising by food
manufacturers is for fruits, vegetables, grains or beans
-- foods that the government and health professionals
encourage." So basically advertisers just want a bunch
of fat kids watching cartoons all day, and they are
doing a good job of it, "These days, about 14 percent of
U.S. children and youth are too heavy..."
Unfortunately much of the blame lies with the parents,
its up to them to stop buying every fancy fattening food
product their spoiled child desires.
Message no. 731
Sunday, April 6, 2003 2:56pm
Subject i remember that!
i was researching this topic on the internet and found
this neat site:
http://www.memorabletv.com/childrenstv.htmit has a listing of all the different children's tv
shows throughout history. it was funny when i would
look at some of them and remember them. but, one of the
things that i would also remember was the different
commercials that came with them.
its amazing the gates that were opened up by just the
discription of the show. i remember old army recruiting
commercials, toys, movies, commercials for other tv
shows...clothes. it then dawned on me that these
advertisers are good. they have the ability to affect
children far into their adult lives, the way they have
mine...and i hope that these advertisers are aware of
this, and are responsible with this power.
Message no. 942[Branch from no. 731]
Thursday, May 1, 2003 9:26pm
Subject Re: i remember that!
Yes, it does bring back memories to think of all the
cartoons that I watched when I was growing up. I do
agree with you that tv does influcence kids, and
advertisers need to be more careful on how they
advertise. Of course they are going to try to make the
most appealing commercials to sell the most products.
They are clearly taking advantage of children at this
age.
Message no. 778
Thursday, April 10, 2003 4:05pm
Subject Children' s programming
I wasn't really lokking for anything specific, I just
entered the basic search terms, "children's programming"
and looked for ideas to search for something more
specific on Vivisimo.com. The final search terms I
used was "cartoon character's children's programming,
modeling." www.cqcm.org/juror/juryman4.htm This site
called Coalition for Quality Children's Media lists
criteria for accepting/rejecting titles of children's
programming like:
NO gratuitous violence or sexual behavior NO physical or
verbal abuse NO racial, gender, cultural or religious
bias NO condescension toward children NO unsafe
behaviorRemember to adhere closely to KIDS FIRST!®
baseline criteria when evaluating a product. No
gratuitous violence or sexual behavior
Message no. 871
Monday, April 21, 2003 10:52pm
Subject using sterotypes in advertising
I searched for a connection between boys and girls
cartoons and the commercials they aired with. I used
the search engine:
http://www.skworm.com; using thephrase:commercials for girls and boys cartoons. There
were no problems in the search.
I found the article "Media effect on girls: body and
gender identity."
http://www.khlim.be/saw/onaantrekkelijk/achtergronden/mediaeffects.htmlIn the article it says that children's cartoon
characters displayed sterotypical characteristics. Boys
were violent, and girls were concerned with their
appearance, domestic, and interested in boys. As for
the girls commercials 50% were about physical
attractiveness, but the boys commercials didn't display
any of this. Also 50% of the boys in commercials aimed
towards them showed them acting aggressively, while the
girls commercials had none of this.
There is a connection between commercials and cartoons.
Advertisers will try to aim for a specific gender and
use sterotypes to try to sell their products to them.
Message no. 978
Monday, May 5, 2003 10:26am
Subject Racism and sexism
This article i found while looking for commercials and
sexism. The article is about the racist and sexist
views we see on television everyday. This is a huge
problem in our country although we do allow it and do
nothing about it. I think americans like thier sex
roles and race roles out there in the open. Because the
changes are so small and insignificant it looks like
nothing has been getting done at all to regulate
commercials and the sexist and bias views they portray.
Message no. 1045
Thursday, May 8, 2003 11:54am
Subject cartoons=reflection of reality?
I used Google for this search and typed in
"cartoons"+"sexism". I had no problem finding an article
on that topic.
One of the articles hit was titled "Sexism and Culture
in Television" (
http://www.bluedojo.com/papers/sexism/).In this article, the author Jim Winn first states that
television shows are sexist because of the viewers'
demand for them. It also seems that most viewers would
like to have sexist shows that are dominated by male
characters. Therefore, some shows are sexist not because
of the producer but because of the viewer themselves.
Another point that Winn brought up in his paper is that
to a certain extent, television also affects our culture
while being affected by it. The author states that every
attempt to incorporate females into television shows
will positively cause some changes in our society,
regardless of whether the change is big or small.
I agree that television and culture are intertwined with
each other and they both have influences over each
other. Becaus of this relationship, sexism exists on
television only because it exists in our culture.
3. CONFLICTS OF ADOLESCENT GIRLS
Message no. 17
Tuesday, January 21, 2003 7:02pm
Subject Residential Adolescent Girls Program
In my search I was looking for anything that related to
conflicts that adolescent girls would have. The search
terms I used were, conflicts in adolescent girls. There
were no specific problems with this search. There were
other interesting sites that dealt with intellect and
problem solving. The web address of the article I
looked at is: www.wellspring.org The web address
discussing the difference in how girls and boys resolve
conflicts is:
http://averroes.cec.junta-andalucia.es/vertie/motivadores/adolesce.htmIt is commonly know that many adolescent girls suffer
from anorexia and bulimia, but what interested me about
this site was that they explained how they treat these
disorders along with substance abuse and attachment
issues. The media has focused largely on what these
disorders are and spend less time discussing the
treatment process that follows. I think this is a very
important area to focus on and should receive more
attention.
Message no. 42[Branch from no. 17]
Thursday, January 23, 2003 7:56pm
Subject Re: Residential Adolescent Girls Program
I like the fact that you addressed the fact that we hear
a lot about WHAT these disorders are, but not a lot
about how to TREAT them. When you look back at the 70s,
when this disorder was becoming a big part in hollywood,
and first starting to get some attention, we have come a
long way in being able to talk about it. At first
society almost had a "shhh...if you ignore it, its not
happening" attitude towards it, but its nice to see that
since the mid 90s we have finally been able to discuss
it with young women and bring the fact that it IS a
disorder to some light. Next step...talking about
treatment.
I do also think that its sad that with as much as we DO
put into education about this and similar disorders,
that we still have it happening. Refering back to my
discussion topic, this partly has to do with the "thin"
look that is going around modelling and hollywood as
"beautiful." I would like to say, as attractive as some
of these women are...THIN IS NOT ALWAYS BETTER!!! If we
could get the media to help inform our impressionable
young teen girls about this, and help instill some self
confidence back into society...we may be able to start
PREVENTING these disorders, as opposed to mourning those
who've been victimized by it...
Message no. 341[Branch from no. 17]
Tuesday, February 18, 2003 11:49pm
Subject Re: Residential Adolescent Girls Program
The study cited what I think is an obvious but often
overlooked fact of the difference between male and
female relationships. Referencing my own relationships
with my friends, the most insight I can give is that
guys just don't talk about thos kinds of things. By
"those kinds of things" I mean hurt feelings, problems
with girlfriends, etc. Males and females support each
other in completely different but equally effective ways
-- but I think only psychology students would realize
this. Girls offer each other their attentive listening,
shoulders to cry on, advice, and a good time (e.g. a
girls' night out) to free their minds of unpleasant
thoughts.
Guys offer each other ego protection. Without
confidence, men have a hard time. Whether this is the
result of a stereotype or not, it's true. Guys offer
each other excuses and rationalizations to each other
about their problems, and then go out and get wasted
with each other to make themselves feel better. No
pillow talk, no sappy music, just ego rebuilding. While
it may not be as healthy as expressing their feelings,
it's a reality.
How this related to depression, eating disorders, and
the like is very complicated. There is doubtless a
strong connection with the media, but it is possible
that the way women and men cope with social distress
affects their rates of mental disorders. However, it is
hard for me to swallow that a healthier way of dealing
with conflict (as women do) actually causes more mental
disorder.
Message no. 21
Wednesday, January 22, 2003 5:06pm
Subject Conflicts of adolescent girls
Adolescent girls constantly experience their bodies
changing. Many allow the culture to define who they
should be and what they should look like. In this site,
a clinical psychologist points out several conflicts
that adolescent girls may encounter. For instance, the
early adolescent emotional system is unstable; most
early adolescents cannot think abstractly; schools treat
girls and boys differently; the social pressure from
family and peers and so on.
http://www.astc.org/resource/youth/ybook6.htmMessage no. 39[Branch from no. 21]
Thursday, January 23, 2003 2:55pm
Subject Re: Conflicts of adolescent girls
I think this was a good article because it gave an in
depth look on what kinds of issues teenage girls are
experiencing. I especially think that at this stage in
life girls are very emotional, and they do take the
smallest thing and totally blow it out of proportion.
The way adolescent girls view themeselves definitely has
a lot to do with today's media. Countries like America
value attractiveness. This is why teenage girls without
a strong self-identity will try to be the "image" our
cultrue admires. When we change the way women are
portrayed in the media, we should see more girls feeling
positive about their own selves.
Message no. 53[Branch from no. 21]
Friday, January 24, 2003 2:51pm
Subject Re: Conflicts of adolescent girls
I think that this is a very interesting article. I
actually recieved this book, Reviving Ophelia, as a gift
when I was in high school. This book helped me to
understand some of the difficulties that I had to face
as a teenager. Mary Phipher is an amazing woman. She
is helping many adolescent girls understand themselves
in a more positive way. I think adolescent girls today
have a very difficult time, especially with body imaage.
The media portrays such a negative image on how a woman
is suppose to look. So many young girls today are
starving to be thin just so they can fulfil the
superficial acceptance of society.
Message no. 84[Branch from no. 21]
Monday, January 27, 2003 7:10pm
Subject Re: Conflicts of adolescent girls
This was a good article. It brought up that 'peers are
everything' in adolecent girls. As we have read, females
need peer groups, and peer groups during adolecence are
the same groups that offer drugs, alcohol and sexual
advances. It is not surprising that peer goups are
everything in adolecence and from this it is obvious
that there will be conflics between culture scrips and
authentic selves. Also during adolecence girls are
constantly experiencing body changes and it seems that
because women are birthgivers their body changes are
more extreem than males, therefore there can not be a
comparison between female and male puberty changes.
Lastly, this great change is also reason for girls to
find social groups that understand their changes.
Message no. 413[Branch from no. 84]
Tuesday, February 25, 2003 4:13pm
Subject Re: Conflicts of adolescent girls
After re-reding my post, I realized that I did not state
the article that I got my information from. But after
giving my presentation in class, I realized that the
article I used by Charles Darwin was relative as well.
Therefore, coorelated material on my research can be
found in "Gender Differences in Vulnerability to social
stress: A Darwinian Perspective," revised by Alfonso
Troisi. It can be found on reserves at the Sinclair
Library, or in pdf format at
http://reserves.sinclair.hawaii.edu/E_reserves/Wall_PSY324_3.pdf.Message no. 94[Branch from no. 21]
Wednesday, January 29, 2003 12:01am
Subject Re: Conflicts of adolescent girls
I agree that one's culture can be a big influence on the
way adolescents grow up in society. American society
tends to focus on looks. Good looking people are
treated better in this society. This puts a tremendous
amount of pressure especially on adolescent girls. The
media also plays a big role on influencing these
adolescent girls to be gorgeous and flawless.
Adolescent girls are trying harder and harder to be like
sexy women.
Many young girls experience conflicts with their body
images. American society values thin women. In other
words, thin is in. The value of being thin in America
leads to further problems such as eating disorders and
body image disorders.
Message no. 207[Branch from no. 21]
Friday, February 7, 2003 11:12am
Subject Re: Conflicts of adolescent girls
The article was very good. I think the book is
something I will pick up and read for myself and
hopefully I can recommend it to some teenage girls that
I know. I agree that adolescent is a tough age to go
through. There are so many questions and so many things
going on. I think that during those years, it is
important that they have people that are stable in their
life to guide them and to accept them for who they are.
Teenage girls often turn to the media to define who they
are suppose to be and often times, it has horrible
consequences.
Message no. 40
Thursday, January 23, 2003 5:47pm
Subject Culture or biology? What
I wanted to focus on what may influence teenage girls
Message no. 41
Thursday, January 23, 2003 7:04pm
Subject Biology or culture? What is the bigger influence?
I wanted to focus on how biology and culture influence a
teenage girl's sense of self-worth.
The search terms I used were: culture and conflict with
teenage girls; how culture affects adolescent girls.
There weren't any problems with these searches. I used
the search engine Skworm (
http://www.skworm.com)This article "How Seventeen undermines young women" by
Kimberly Phillips describes how culture affects girls.
The popular teen magazine "Seventeen" was used as an
example of how today's popular culture makes an impact
on teenage girl's lives. It stated that "Seventeen"
mainly focused on one's appearance, and how to attract
guys. It didn't have many articles on serious issues
girls may be experiencing. This article's focus is on
how culture does influence people's lives.
www.beautyworlds.com/seventeenundermines.htm
The other article "Author:Biology more than culture
affects teen girls" by Sarah Myrick, emphasizes that
biology is the main cause of a teen girl's awkward stage
in life. It mentions that culture plays a small role in
influencing a teen.
www.s-t.com/daily/02-02/02-17-02/e01li129.htm
Both these articles make a good point, but the two
apsects go hand in hand. Therefore one shouldn't focus
on one aspect more than the other.
Message no. 45[Branch from no. 41]
Thursday, January 23, 2003 8:16pm
Subject Re: Biology or culture? What is the bigger influence?
I agree with you that biology and culture have a huge
impact on girls' feelings of self-worth and that neither
of the two should be given more importance than the
other. It's the whole nature vs. nurture debate.
Although the issue still has two sides, I think that
more people are slowly learning that the two are
inseparable. Like you said, the two go hand in hand.
I like how you presented two articles that have
differing views. It just goes to show that there is not
one definite answer.
Message no. 76[Branch from no. 41]
Sunday, January 26, 2003 7:43pm
Subject Re: Biology or culture? What is the bigger influence?
This is regarding "Biology or culture? What is the
bigger influence?
I agree with the articles in taking culture as the big
influence in affecting teenager girls sense of
self-worth. If you look in the media and in girls
magazines, there's always a picture of a pretty, skinny
girl. You'll never see a chubby, pretty girl, or a
skinny, ugly girl. It's always a pretty, skinny girl
with perfect hair and skin complexion. Looking at these
magazines is always the same. Just the other day I was
standing in line at a store and a young girl, with her
mother, picked up a magazine and said, "Hey mom, I want
my hair to look like this". It's sad to think that
young girls want to look like people in the magazine,
but you can't help it. I'll admit it, when I was
younger (and still now occasionally) I wished the same
think. I think it's a phase that every girl will go
through, and maybe some guys, in life whether they'll
admit it or not.
Message no. 191[Branch from no. 41]
Thursday, February 6, 2003 5:21pm
Subject Re: Biology or culture? What is the bigger influence?
I too, would have to agree that biology and culture
interact with each other. But personally, I think that
culture has a bigger influence on the way we think.
One reason is because culture has a HUGE impact on the
way we see ourselves. For instance, in most magazines
like glamour or seventeen, the girls are seen as pretty
and beautiful. We see that their hair and makeup is
flawless and wonder why can't I look like that.
Well wouldn't you agree that anyone can look good
now-a-days with technology/medicine? Girls can get
boob-jobs, liposuction, botox anything that can make
them look better or similair to the people in the
magazines. And why? Maybe because media tells/shows us
what THEY THINK beautiful is. And I capatalized (they
think) because we all think differently. And that is
just my point. We are influenced on what they think is
pretty and it affects us as individuals in society.
Message no. 55
Friday, January 24, 2003 3:29pm
Subject suicidal behavior in adolescent girls
For this week's research message, I was searching for
anything that was related to conflicts that adolescent
girls would have today. The search phrase that I used
was conflicts in adolescent girls. The information I
needed came up at my first attempt. Therefore, I had no
problems with this search. The search engine I used to
find the information ws google. The web address of the
article is:
http://www.cpa-apc.org/Publications/Archives/CJP/2002/june/briefCommunicationPinhas.aspIn this article I found that the suicide rate in
adolescents has rose since the 1960 and 1980. I was
shocked to find that the suicide rate for young females
were much higher compared with young men. Young women
are at greater risks for attempting suicide because they
are exposed to different expectations than young men,
which causes gender-role conflict. Adolescent girls also
have more pressure about body image and appearance than
adolescent boys. This may cause the young woman to feel
insecure or depressed.
Message no. 58[Branch from no. 55]
Friday, January 24, 2003 3:53pm
Subject Re: suicidal behavior in adolescent girls
This is a comment message for Gail Baracao on "Suicidal
behavior in adolescent girls":
I read the article you recommended and I found it to be
an interesting study.
As for your comment "Adolescent girls also have more
pressure about body image and appearance than adolescent
boys. This may cause the young woman to feel insecure
or depressed," I agree with you saying that women are
led to feel insecure or depressed because of society's
perceived ideal body image. I'm not a guy, but I would
think that they probably have just as much pressue
about pursuing the ideal male body image. Just as how
female models are "thin," male models have that certain
"build." However, I can understand where you are coming
from. Maybe we just know more females than males who
are affected by this pressure. Maybe just being females
make us tend to "highlight' our side of the story more
than the males. Maybe if more males admitted that they
too get affected from peer/society's pressure to look
like the advertised models, then we would get a
different perspective.
Guys, what are your comments?
Message no. 71[Branch from no. 55]
Sunday, January 26, 2003 12:37am
Subject Re: suicidal behavior in adolescent girls
I was just wondering if the suicide rate you looked up
pertains to the United States as a whole or just to
Hawaii. I'm from the Northern Marianas and the suicide
rates down there are higher for males than for females,
but it has to do more with the culture. Back home males
are often taught not to show any emotion or just to keep
it inside because that is what they are taught so males
end up killing themselves as a form of expression that
they cannot handle the pressure of their problems.
Message no. 90[Branch from no. 55]
Tuesday, January 28, 2003 2:00am
Subject Re: suicidal behavior in adolescent girls
The media definately has a large part to play in the
misconceptions young women place upon themselves in
todays society. The pressure to fit a certain mold is
perpetuated daily in magazines, television commercials,
etc. My question is, can we point the finger to just one
culprit when it comes to suicidal behavior? I don't want
to down play the pressure the media puts on adolescent
girls, but I think it's important to realize that there
may be underlying factors to consider. I grew up being
the "fatboy" in elementary and intermediate school, so I
know how it feels to be ridiculed for your appearance
but not once did I ever think about killing myself for
that. As strong as the influence of the media is I feel
one's upbringing far outpasses it.
Message no. 388[Branch from no. 90]
Saturday, February 22, 2003 2:22pm
Subject Re: suicidal behavior in adolescent girls
This is in regards to Sean Arakaki's reply to Suicidal
Behavior in Adolescent Girls. I totally agree with what
you said about the media not being the only influence in
today's society. There are a lot of issues that need to
be examined as well. For instance one's culture is an
important factor. There are some cultures that think
big is beautiful and healthy, and view slenderness as a
sign of poverty. Unfortunately, practically every
American girl does not agree with this view. It's tough
living in a world where there is so much emphasis on
body image and beauty. People may say that inner beauty
is all that counts, but I don't see any evidence
supporting that statement.
Message no. 129[Branch from no. 55]
Saturday, February 1, 2003 11:12pm
Subject Re: suicidal behavior in adolescent girls
reply to Gail Baracao's message:suicidal behavior.
After I read the message, I checked the suicidal rate in
the US and Japan, just to see the difference. I'm so
surprised that the US has higher rate than Japan.
In our traddition, there is the tendency or already
legend?, we value on th virtue of suicide; however, the
time when suicide was idealized, there were only two
choices people had: suicide to maintain pride or live
with disgrace.
I personally don't have that chouice and I won't.
Message no. 200[Branch from no. 55]
Friday, February 7, 2003 7:44am
Subject Re: suicidal behavior in adolescent girls
I think one of the reasons that suicide rates have gone
up is that there is a whole other world that adolescent
have to deal with today rather than in 1960. I have
seen studies that were done in the 1960's compared to
more recent studies. The studies asked teenagers what
they had to be concerned with - what were their worries?
In the 1960's it was like; being late for class, am I
going to be asked out on a date, or who is going to
drive to the drive in. The more recent studies show
that teenagers worry about; nuclear war, physical
appearance, and paying rent. These types of issues seem
to be much more "real life" than in the 1960's. Kids
now days have a lot more difficult issues to deal with.
This could be some of the reason the suicide rate has
gone up.
Message no. 535[Branch from no. 55]
Thursday, March 13, 2003 10:17pm
Subject Re: suicidal behavior in adolescent girls
One reason, other than culture and biology that may have
influenced the suicide rate of adolesent girls is the
idea that girls handle problems and conflicts
differently than do boys. So it may be hard for many to
realte to the conditions under which girls precieve
things. I read on one site about an experiment in which
researchers watched a group of girls and a group of boys
and observed their discussion habits about some problem.
It turned out that girls would rather resolve a
conflict, while boys would rather forget about them.
When girls encounter a problem they tend to worry about
it, and in return they feel that it is best to reslove
the issue. This was beacuse the girls were more
supportive of each other and also that they possesed
better communication skills and were less likely to
withdrawl and or avoid their friends whom they had
problems with. Boys on the other hand tend to try to
avoid the problem for as long as possible, and hope that
all will be forgotten. This means that when a girl has
no one to turn to that she may selfdestruct due to the
fact that she was once so reliant on social support.
Another thing may be that since there is a whole new
spectrum of things for girls to worry abut today that
they have no one to turn to about all of the problems
that they have since their parents didn't experienca any
of the problems which they are experiencing today.
Message no. 87
Monday, January 27, 2003 9:00pm
Subject G is for Girl
I found a great website through Yahoo by typing
'conflicts with adolescent girls' in the subject
heading. Www.apa.org/pilcyf/adolesgirls.html#tee is an
all-encompassing site by an organization called
Children, Youth and Families (which I had never heard of
before).
Every risk facing young women today was covered there in
depth. Actual questions on topics such as emotions,
society, sex, health and many other issues were raised
by anonymous girls and then explored and answered by
experts.
I guess it really has been a while since I was an
adolescent girl (despite the fact that sometimes we
20-somethings still feel like it!) and the questions
these youth had about issues such as rape, abuse and
other red-letter topics shocked me. I wasn't thinking
about rape when I was 14 and it hurts to think that
early-awareness really is that prevalent for a
self-defense necessity.
The initial reason I wanted to be a Psychology major was
to become a high school counselor. I've since explored
other options, but this website I found really has
elicited my compassion and I'm wondering if maybe
high-school counseling really is the right area for me.
Message no. 100[Branch from no. 87]
Wednesday, January 29, 2003 8:44pm
Subject Re: G is for Girl
This is a response message to Christina Larson's "G is
for Girl".
I tried the link that you suggested but the APA homepage
popped up instead...do you mind double-checking the
link? It sounds like an awesome website.
I'm not sure how the situation is here in Hawaii, but in
Hong Kong (where I'm from), two or three high-schools
share one counselor. It seems to me that students in
Hong Kong are very reluctant to go see a counselor, coz
both the kids and their parents think that seeing a
counselor means you're "problematic". I guess it's
normal for an adolescent girl to have conflicts, as long
as she can talk to someone she trusts. By just talking
is therapeutic, I think.
Message no. 114[Branch from no. 87]
Friday, January 31, 2003 2:09pm
Subject Re: G is for Girl
This is a reply to Christina:
I know what you mean about having to think back to
adolescents and wondering what conflicts they are facing
today. I grew up all over, but mainly in Hawaii and
when I was doing this search I was wondering what WERE
the problems that teenage girls have today (besides the
eating disorders, suicide attempts, and the social
conflicts). I haven't been around any teenagers lately
so when I did my search I was not sure what I was
looking for until I stumbled on depression. I don't
remember any of my classmates being depressed at that
age and I thought it was interesting to see the evidence
behind this. I do remember our middle school counselors
having a rough time, but when I was that age, I thought
they were seeing the counselor because they were being
delinquent (the idea of depression never occurred to
me).
Message no. 270[Branch from no. 87]
Thursday, February 13, 2003 8:47pm
Subject Re: G is for Girl
Aloha Christina- It is both shocking and sad that these
young girls have to think about such cruel behaviors
which could be inflicted upon them. In a perfect world
they would be thinking about their first kisses not
about rape prevention. I don't have first hand knowledge
on this subject but if female adolescence is just as
riddled with uncertainty and transition as male
adolescence than I can whole-heartedly relate. These
girls have other issues they should be contending to and
it is depressing that abuse and rape take away from
that.Bye.
Message no. 401[Branch from no. 87]
Sunday, February 23, 2003 5:41pm
Subject Re: G is for Girl
I read your posting and I agree that adolescence is
hard, but I wonder why it seems to be harder for females
than males. Is it really harder or is that males are
less likely to talk about their uncomforable stage. It
seems that males would have the same pressures if not
more in school, sports, sex and ect. Are females just
more delicate? Or more open about their feelings of
discomfort. Does it have anything to do with how we were
raised, female vs. male?
Message no. 425[Branch from no. 87]
Thursday, February 27, 2003 2:06pm
Subject Re: G is for Girl
This is in reply to Christina's G is for Girl. I didn't
grow up a girl so I know I had a whole different set of
problems. It's good to know that there is support set
up to help adolescent girls in such a time of turmoil.
I wonder if there's anything like that for guys.
Although we probably wouldn't listen anyway. It's sad
to think that 14 year olds think about rape but it's
better than just having it happen--then the whole world
collapses around them.
Message no. 95
Wednesday, January 29, 2003 12:27am
Subject Conflicts of Teenage girls
I was searching for the conflicts of teenage adolescent
girls. I used the terms "Conflicts of Adolescent girls"
& "Teenage girls' conflicts". I didn't encounter any
problems. I used www.searchbug.com as my search engine.
It was a pretty good search engine, almost quite similar
to www.google.com.
The web address of the article I found was:
http://www.springfieldlibrary.org/nowread/apr01/In this article, it talks about "Ophelia" who is a
Shakespearean character from the play "Hamlet". As an
adolescent, Ophelia loses her sense of self. Mary Pipher
who is the author of the book "Reviving Ophelia" quotes
that "During adolescence, girls lose themselves." There
is a conflict between the true self and the false self.
Culture plays a big part of the conflicts that young
women face today. Many teenage girls are or had
experienced depression, eating disorders, body image
disorders, and attitude changes such as rebelling
against parents/authority figures. I think that teenage
girls experience conflicts in order to really find out
who they are and will become. When these conflicts go
away or are resolved, it enables these teenage girls to
be stronger.
Message no. 224[Branch from no. 95]
Friday, February 7, 2003 10:13pm
Subject Re: Conflicts of Teenage girls
I'd agree that attitude rebelling etc are common and
even, perhaps beneficial for teenage girls (and indeed,
for a lot of teenage boys as well.) But some of these
things - depression, eating disorders, and the like have
no apparent benefit, but rather are fairly serious
problems that seem to be ever more common in the
states. At any rate, this was an interesting
post/article.
Message no. 115
Friday, January 31, 2003 2:11pm
Subject Young Girls and Depression
When I started searching, I was trying to get familiar with what types of key words were
present in a different search engine, so I did a general search at first on Conflicts of adolescent
girls. I used three different search engines: EBSCO HOST, CNN online, and Google. I used different
search engines because the first two were giving me problems. The articles listed included
adolescents as a whole or problems of adolescents as a whole. So I figured I should use CNN since
they tend to be specific, but they were more focused with eating disorders and suicide issues.
So then I tried Google and it worked on my first try because I decided to narrow my search
so that I might have a better chance of getting a particular article. Here are the search
terms I used:
EBSCO HOST:
http://libweb.hawaii.edu/uhmlib/databases/multisubject.html#EBSCO (CLICK ON THE LINK FOR EBSCO)adolescent girls + conflicts
conflicts of adolescent girls
"adolescent girls" and conflicts
"adolescent girls" and problems
"adolescent girls" and depression not related need to change search
SU "adolescent girls" and SU depression only 3 results
CNN: WWW.CNN.COM
problems of adolescent girls 57 hits
girls and depression 136 hits
(more about drugs and eating disorders)
Google: www.google.com
young girls + depression (337,000)
-some topics on women-
adolescent girls + depression (71,000)
1. Women's Mental Health Program
DEPRESSION IN ADOLESCENT GIRLS
http://www.med.umich.edu/psych/amb/pated/wadol.htmThis website gives a short summary about the prevalence and
factors associated with adolescent girls and depression.
2.National Institute of Justice
Adolescent Girls: The Role of Depressionin the Development of Delinquency
http://www.ncjrs.org/pdffiles1/fs000244.pdfThis article talks about researching depression as a predisposition
for antisocial behavior that could lead to delinquency early in life. It gives
possible reasons why they think depression acts as a preliminary sign to antisocial
behavior and focuses on young white girls in the middle to upper classes.
Message no. 228[Branch from no. 115]
Saturday, February 8, 2003 10:09pm
Subject Re: Young Girls and Depression
I think it is very sad to see how much young girls today
are suffering from depression. I think girls today go
through more problems and conflicts than boys because
when they go through the puberty stage, many teenage
girls go through a self-image problem. I remember when
I was in high school, there were many girls who were
insecure about themselves, which caused them to have low
self-esteem. Pressure about school and college can also
put a great deal of stress on teenagers. I know
personally that I felt very stressed out and depressed
when I was getting ready to leave high school for
college.
Message no. 318[Branch from no. 115]
Monday, February 17, 2003 12:05pm
Subject Re: Young Girls and Depression
I thought the article was very interesting. The only
concern I have is that the solution to adolescent
depression is psychotherapy. While therapy is very
helpful what are we doing about the many outside
influences that crate depression in young girls such as
problems at home, society, school, and the media's view
of women? All these factors have a large impact on
adolescents and while teaching self esteem and
confidence will help a young girl, when they are
bombarded with images that make them question their self
worth and appearance or reside in a home that is torn
and unsupportive what can we expect from these girls but
depression or worse. Therapy is not just a quick fix
solution, we need to take a look at the whole picture
and try to make changes where necessary. Lets have more
models that actually represent the "average" female
body, less vides with women in bikinis and as trophies,
more programs that teach consequences and empowerment
not one night stands and popularity, and finally
magazines for teens that focus on individuality and self
love not how to get that guy in 10 days or how to loose
those thighs in 5 days!
Message no. 133
Sunday, February 2, 2003 11:03am
Subject Anorexia Nervosa
For this research, I was looking for anything to do with
conflicts of adolescent girls. The search terms I used
was adolescent girls and conflicts. I had no problems
in my search. The web address for my article is:
http://www-unix.oit.umass.edu/~excs597k/claudio/#Anorexia%20NervosaIn this article, I found that Anorexia Nervosa almost
exclusively affects adolescent white girls (95%). The
anorexic girl becomes obsessed about her weight and body
image. Even when she is noticibly thin and underweight,
she cannot stop from starving. Reseachers agree that
the number of patients with anorexia nervosa is
increasing. They also describe anorexia nervosa
patients' families to be warm and loving on the surface,
but are unable to deal with the conflicts within the
family.
Message no. 259[Branch from no. 133]
Thursday, February 13, 2003 11:20am
Subject Re: Anorexia Nervosa
This is in response to Gail Baracao on Anorexia.
I took a Psychology of Women class last semester and we
intensively dealt with this issue. It's amazing how
much the media influences the desire for young women to
be extremely thin. Television and magazines most
especially are the main catalyst for sending out the
message that to be overweight is unaccepatable.
One fact I remember hearing from class was that within
minutes of opening a magazine a girl immediately feels
inadequate with herself based on the thin, airbrushed
models.
I hear there's a new reality tv on Anorexics. Geez, what
is this world coming to, it's like they're glamorizing
their lives and only giving them attention, even though
it is negative attention.
Message no. 287[Branch from no. 133]
Friday, February 14, 2003 12:23pm
Subject Re: Anorexia Nervosa
I took a couple of minutes to browse the site that you
had posted. Most of the information was not new to me,
but what I found shocking was the age range in which
they say anorexia will develop in American girls. It is
sad to think that girls as young as 10 years old have
such a distorted perception of their bodies that it
drives them to starve themselves. It is sad to think
that anyone, of any age or ethnicity would do such a
thing. But then again I can understand how they feel.
With the media feeding our nation horseshit about what
is "beautiful" and "sexy" it is no wonder that girls
would want to live up to those sometimes unachievable
expectations.
Message no. 141
Monday, February 3, 2003 5:09pm
Subject Adolescent female bullies
The issue of bullying in schools is becoming
progressively more prominent. With female adolescents
in particular, we have seen for the first time
consistantly, lawsuites against children for assaulting
other children. I decided to explore this more with
yahoo.com search engine. I used the words "adolescent
girls" and "bullies" and found an awesome site:
http://www.youthwork.com/issuesbully.html The site isdesigned for adults to obtain information, but is
creatively designed for younger people to answer their
own questions. In addition to bullying, this website
addresses date rape, vioence in general, gangs, violence
prevention, and sexual abuse/assault. The section
specifically on bullying starts with a true story
written by a victim. It also includes tipsfor survving
being bullied, how to take action against bullies, and
even a little psychoanalysis as to where bully's
aggressive tendencies may come from. Even though middle
school was ten years ago and that's when I bore the
brunt of teasing, I definitly wish I had known then what
I know now. It's cliche and I guess you can say that
about pretty much anything, but it's true nonetheless.
Message no. 208
Friday, February 7, 2003 11:25am
Subject The Lost of Gifted Girls
I found an article called "Gifted Girls - Many Gifted
Girls, Few Eminent Women: Why?" in msn.com in the site
http://www.aboutourkids.org/articles/giftedgirls.html#right.This article talked about how there are many gifted
girls, but when they reach the age of adolescence, they
lose their giftedness. It is not because they are not
gifted anymore but because giftedness is not viewed as
being acceptable or "cool" in adolescent girls. At that
age, they lose their self-confidence and self-esteem.
Also other feelings of discouragement and hopelessness
arises at that age in which discourages them from
pursuing their gift.
Also, girls who are smart tend to downplay their
academic skills in order to fit in. They don't want to
be known as the geek of the school. In leadership
positions, girls don't want to pursue it because they
don't want to be known as bossy.
Message no. 218
Friday, February 7, 2003 4:59pm
Subject conflicts of adolenscent girls
A. I searching for information about conflicts that adolenscent girls may be encountering in today's society.
B. The search terms that I used:
1. adolenscent girls; conflits
2. conflicts of adolenscents girls in society
C. There were no problems while searching for this topic.
D. The ssearch engine I used was: Google.com
E. The web adresses:
1. www.cyc.net.org/ft-teengirlIs3.html
2. www.mainelygirls.org/reports/zones.html
F. On both websites I found a lot of information about problems that girls encounter. They both talked about
societies influences. They talked about poverty, family of color, school teachers, mothers, and friends and
how they may influences lives.
1. The cyc.net website was an article about working with adolenscent girls in treatment centres. The author
gives three case examples.
2. The mainlygirls website talks about cultivating hardiness zones. I personally liked what the author
had to say in her report. She talked about how girls need to learn to cultivate "hardiness" zones so
they can challenge the world when challenges arises. I also liked this article because of her perspective.
She looks at adolescent conflicts from many perspectives. For example, stress, that many girls experience
during their adolescent years. She says one way to look at the stress is loss of control in many areas in
their lives. When I read that, it makes a lot of sense. As a adolencent girl once, I felt like I had no control
of my life. I was controlled by my parents and in a sense, their control, at a time when I was trying
to create MY own identity was hard to do. At times, I felt I couldn't be who I was because my parents,
society, no driving license controlled what I could and couldn't do.
Message no. 235
Sunday, February 9, 2003 11:03pm
Subject Research message: "The Conflicts of Adolescent Girls"
For this week's session I wanted to find any literature
on the conflicts adolescent girls go through as a result
of media influence. I used Google.com with the search
phrase "pressure adolescent girls". This phrase produced
a book review of "Reviving Ophelia: Saving the Selves of
Adolescent Girls". Written by Mary Pipher a Ph.d in
psychology, this book chronicles the lives of several
case studies experiencing the pressures placed upon
Twenty-first century girls. This review can be found at
www.topwritecorner.com/reviews/review26.htm. My second
search phrase was "media adolescent girls" which
produced "Reflection of Girls in the Media" a study on
how media affects gender. This study actually mentioned
positive female role modles as well as gender-biased
stereotypes. This site can be found at
www.childrennow.org/media/mc97/ReflectSummary.html. The
only problems I ran into during this session was
figuring out what search phrase to use.
Message no. 241
Monday, February 10, 2003 9:00pm
Subject conflicts
A. I was searching for new information about conflicts
with adolescent girls.
B. I used this phrase: "conflicts of adolescent girls"
C. There seems to be no problem when looking for this
topic.
D. I used the search engine Google.
E. The sites I found were:
1.www.averroes.cec.juntaandalucia.es/vertie/motivadores/adolesce.html
2.www.cpa-apa.org/Publications/Archives/CJP/2002/june/briefComunicationPinhas.asp
F. The first website is about adolescent girls and boys
and how they resolve conflicts. A study was done on 30
adolscent females and 10 adolescent males. The
researchers observed best friends arguing about an issue
and watched how they deal with it. The results were
different styles between males and females and how they
handle conflicts. The females tried to resolve the
conflicts with their best friends by talking things out
while the males avoided talking things out.
The second website was published in the Canadian journal
of psychiatry. The title was gender-role conflicts and
suicidal behaviour in adolescent girls. The big
question that arises from this study is why girls are at
greater risk for attempted suicide. To sum up the
results, adolenscent females are learning about
themselves yet they are restricted and influenced by
societies, cultural, family, and peer expectaions of
what they should be like. In other words, there is so
much pressure on them.
One of the interesting things that the website mentioned
was that "girls are encouraged by society to identify
themsleves through relationships." I guess this might be
one explanation in why girls are more in tune to resolve
conflicts between others like the first website talks
about.
Message no. 258
Thursday, February 13, 2003 11:09am
Subject Teenage pregnancy
I used the search engine Infogrid to search for this
topic, however I found that the return results were too
broad and vague for me, so I decided to narrow down my
search to teenage pregnancy. I found this site:
http://www.15-25.com/education/sexeducation/teenagepreg.asp.using the search term teenage pregnancy.
The article lists commmonly asked questions that a young
girl might have concerning pregnancy like "Can I get
pregnant if I have my period?" or "He came outside my
vagina, will I get pregnant?"
It also assures the reader that she has options when she
does find out that she is pregnant. Options include
adoption, abortion, putting the baby in foster care
until she is ready to take care of it or just keeping
the baby. It also has the pros and cons to each major
decision.
I recommend this site not just to teenage girls, but to
anyone caught in an unplanned pregnancy.
Message no. 300[Branch from no. 258]
Saturday, February 15, 2003 2:04pm
Subject Re: Teenage pregnancy
I'm glad you pointed out teenage pregnancy because it
is an important issue for adolescent girls. They need to
know the consequences of such actions. At a time when
they are still trying to find out who they are, peer
pressure can have a big influence on them. They are so
vulnerable to making decisions based on what others are
doing or saying to them.
I work at a high school and I was helping out in a
freshmen class just last semester. In that class, there
were two girls pregnant. They both seemed smart; they
always did their work and participated in class. I
couldn't help but think how young they were and just
how much more they could have had going for them if
they didn't have a baby to worry about. But if I thought
they were young, I still remember when I was going to
middle school, a girl giving birth when she was in the
7th grade. Her boyfriend left her and this poses another
problem: there are many young fathers leaving their
girlfriends. If the girls have to face their situation
everyday, then the least the guys could do is face their
reality and cope with undertaking the responsibility of
helping take care of their child.
Even UH had a Condom Fair on Valentine's Day to make
people aware of safe sex and other such issues. I mean,
if college students still need to be reminded of safe
sex and related issues, what more for adolescents?
Message no. 288
Friday, February 14, 2003 12:53pm
Subject female adolescence
Before doing a search on this topic I already had known
that female teens are more susceptible to depression
than are male teens, and I just wanted to find out more
about why that is the case. I did not encounter any
problems with this search. I used yahoo and did a search
on the terms "female, adolescent, and conflict" and
found this site:
http://www.kidsource.com/kidsource/content2/girls.htmlFirst of all this article says that adolescence is a
time of significant decline in self-esteem especially in
girls. It explains that conflicts with self-concept,
academic achievement, self-image, and body-image are
some of the issues that are causing problems. This
article states that adults such as parents or teachers
are extremely influential during these years, and it
also provides a list of suggested strategies that they
can take in order to support adolescent girls during
these times through encouragement and reduction of
typical conflicts.
Message no. 315
Monday, February 17, 2003 11:50am
Subject how adolescent girls deal with it.
I read this article from:
http://averroes.cec.junta-andalucia.es/vertie/motivadores/adolesce.htm.This website talks about a study of adolescents. It
says that adolescent girls would rather talk to their
best friends than their parents and that adolescent
girls have better intimate relationships with their
friends. So their supportive network are their friends.
Message no. 317
Monday, February 17, 2003 12:03pm
Subject girls group
I went to this website:
http://www.eqtoday.com/archive/jpcgirls2.html. On thiswebsite they talk about this "girl group" that was
established for adolescent girls, so that they could
talk aobut their problems. In this group the girls
found different perspectives on problems and different
solutions for problems. They also talked about other
important day-to-day activities and things that were
important to them. I'm not sure what state this is done
in but, I think this group is a great idea.
Message no. 319
Monday, February 17, 2003 12:07pm
Subject response to emiko message #21
Yes. I agree with you and the website that girls are
treated very differently in schools then boys.
Sometimes the different treatment is good but, most of
the time it's bad. Administrators always insist that
girls behave a certain way and girls are monitored more.
When a girl does something wrong it's immediately
picked up on and when a boy does something bad...it's
just a boy thing.
Message no. 320
Monday, February 17, 2003 12:11pm
Subject response to marie message #41
I think the article is right to a certain extent but,
the author must also think about what seventeen stands
for. It's giving the typically adolescent girl what she
wants. It doesn't claim to be a serious magazine of
anysort. Also, just because the author picked up one
seventeen magazine and it did not hold a serious
article, that does not mean that the magazine does not
include them in.
Message no. 360
Thursday, February 20, 2003 3:55pm
Subject Korean and Romani girls
I have yet again utilized Yahoo.com and found that they
had a wide array of articles pertaining to this subject.
I wanted to know more about girls from other societies
so I chose an article detailing the conflicts of Korean
girls concerning commercialism and on Romani girls
concerning early marriage. The adresses are below:
www.makerere.ac.ug/womenstudies/full%20papers/kongo.html
and the one about Romani girls:
www.romove.cz/romove/teens.html
The first article related how Korean girls express
themselves by their clothes and appearence. This
expression is so important that it illicits a specific
pleasure which is driven by consumption. When they
become familiar with this pleasureable experiences they
realize the importance of money and the article contends
that they will do just about anything for the aquisition
of money. The author claims that there is not a real
negative viewpoint amoung Korean and Japanese females
concerning prostitution and that the money gained from
it justifies the means. I have never been to Korea but
my mom is full Korean and I know that her and her six
sisters are definately against prostituting oneself so I
don't know how accurate the authors' assumptions are.
Personally I think he's wrong in his comments concerning
the social outlook of Korean girls toward prostitution.
The article on the Romani girls was interesting. The
author comments that the end of a Romani girls childhood
and adolescence is when she starts her own family (no
matter what age). It is also claimed that these girls
are more ready for marriage socially compared to
biologically (avg. age of marriage=14-16). This is
because at the critical stage of adolescence, marked in
America by rebellion and defiance, these girls are
helping their mothers with her many children. This is
done to prepare the girl for her future husband. I came
away from this article feeling that a part of these
girls lives are stolen from them and that they are
forever detained in some sort of social prison. It could
be my biased Western world thinking but the fact remains
that these girls are never able to be fully
self-realized because of the constraints placed upon
them, first by their families then by their
adult(sometimes old men)husbands.
Message no. 404[Branch from no. 360]
Sunday, February 23, 2003 9:56pm
Subject Re: Korean and Romani girls
I thought that this was a very interesting article
because my mother is also full Korean. Although she is
into clothing and appearance, she would never agree to
prostitution. She always told me and my sister that we
should always respect our bodies and prostitution,
pornography, etc., is a way of disrespect. I also know
a lot of people from Korea, including my family, and
they all think that prostitution is disgusting. I do,
on the other hand, believe that many Korean people do
have a problem with being superficial. The Korean
people that I know love money and love to buy nice and
expensive things.
Message no. 406[Branch from no. 360]
Monday, February 24, 2003 3:31am
Subject Re: Korean and Romani girls
I found this topic interesting because I do not think
that it is just Korean girls that are overwhelmed by the
things that money can buy. I've seen a lot of really
good girls that I went to highschool with end up being
prostitutes. But it is not like these girls woke up one
day and thought to themselves, "Hey I really need money.
Maybe I should just sell my body so that I don't ever
have to worry about money." These girls had a lot of
family problems and eventually ran away from home. Then
met all the wrong guys, that introduced them into a very
appealing "party" lifestyle where they don't ever have
to worry about money. Many start off as waitresses,
work at hostess bars, then go on to be strippers, and if
they don't get all drugged out and die, they end up at
the massage parlors selling their bodies.
Message no. 400
Sunday, February 23, 2003 5:35pm
Subject Gender role conflict of adolescent girls
I'm researching for conflicts of adolescent girls. I
Used Yahoo and typed in the search terms: female
adolescent conflicts. I had no problem picking the match
I was most interested in, it read gender role conflict.
Here is the link I drew my following information from:
http://www.cpa-apc.org/Publications/Archives/CJP/2002/june/briefCommunicationPinhas.aspThe Canadian Journal of Psychiatry did a study that
examined how the gender-role conflict, influences the
suicidal behavior of adolescent girls. The study found
that the gender-role conflict plays an important part in
the suicidal behavior of adolescents. The study says the
suicide rate of young girls is 10.1% where as young men
is only 3.8%. Some of the reasons the female rate is so
much higher is, that adolescent girls suffer from more
depression and pychologial strssors, like difficulty
with family, peers, school or the law. I remember how
hard it is to go through adolescence and I agree that it
is a difficult time. Our bodies where changing, there
were lot's of pressure by peers, family and society. I
hated adolescence, thoes were the akward years where no
one seemed to understand.
Message no. 405
Sunday, February 23, 2003 10:11pm
Subject self mutilation
The specific aspect of the research topic I was
searching for was self mutilation. The search terms
that I used was teenage girls and self mutilation. I
did not have any problems while searching because the
first site that came up was what I wanted. The search
engine that I used was google. The web address of the
sete is:
http://www.observer.co.uk/focus/story/0,6903,718183,00.html.This article was interesting and sad because a lot of
young girls are cutting and hurting themselves. Girls
self mutilate themselves as a way of acting out or a cry
for help. It can also relieve pain they are feeling
emotionally. By cutting themselves, it makes them feel
like they are letting the paing they are feeling out.
This is dangerous because self-mutilation can sometimes
lead to death. I volunteered at Kahi Mohala when I was
sixteen years old and I read about a girl that died
because she bled to death after slicing and cutting her
arm numerous times.
Message no. 433[Branch from no. 405]
Thursday, February 27, 2003 6:29pm
Subject Re: self mutilation
I agree that this is a very important topic. Sometimes
adults forget how extreme every problem can seem to an
adolescent. Parents may ignore what they consider
trivial, but to an emotional girl it might seem like the
end of the world. I had a friend in high school who cut
herself for a long time because she said it made her
"feel something" instead of nothing. I think it happens
more than we realize and adults need to take kids
problems more seriously before they get to the extreme
of self mutilation or worse.
Message no. 412
Tuesday, February 25, 2003 5:03am
Subject Adolescent suiciide
In my search I was looking for anything that related to
reasons for suicide attempts in adolescent girls . The
search terms I used were, adolescent girls suicide.
There were no specific problems with this search. I
found this article using the search engine
www.google.com The web address of the article I looked
at is:
http://www.focusas.com/Suicide.htmlThis web article looks at the major risk factors of
suicide among young people today. One part of the
article that I found interesting explains how most
people think of potential suicides as sensitive, shy
people who are overwhelmed by life. When in fact the
cocky, obnoxious adolescent has exactly the potential
for suicide. This article closes off by saying that
parents must pay atteention to how their child acts and
notice any signs of long term depression.
Message no. 495[Branch from no. 412]
Friday, March 7, 2003 1:09am
Subject Re: Adolescent suiciide
This is such a sad subject to discuss. Teen suicide is
problem in Japan as well. I believe one main cause is
"Ijime" or nasty bully by school mates. The victims
often leave suicide notes in which they confess their
feelings of agony and anger against the ill-treatment
from bullies. In most cases, their family or teachers
are usually not aware of the situation. The solution
to this situation will be to have a good communication
between caregivers and teen children at all times.
Message no. 432
Thursday, February 27, 2003 6:18pm
Subject The EVIL of Sex
Adolescent girls experience sooo many conflicts that I
could post a three page message simply listing them, but
instead I am concentrating on the conflict between the
cultural script of sex and what adolescent girls
romanticize it to be. The onset of adolescence used to
be hailed at 13, when a child becomes a teenager and it
used to also be about when they entered puberty. Today
girls enter adolescence at a much earlier age because
they have the knowledge and are acting like an
adolescent at an earlier age. This is in part because
girls are reaching puberty at a younger age and because
they are engaging in adult behaviors such as sex (among
other things!) at very early ages. Sex is very
important to young girls, it affects how they dress,
act, talk, and think. The problem is that schools often
send no message or destructive messages to young girls
about sex and don't address the pre-formed ideas that
girls already have about it. This creates a conflict
for girls between what their peers say and what
authority says about sex, and during adolescence they
are much more likely to listen to their peers.
I used the a new search engine this time, skworm.com,
because it seemed that many of my classmates were having
success with it. I found a lot of information with my
search "conflict between adolescent girls and the
cultural mold," and my favorite site was
www.ed.uiuc.edu/EPS/PES-yearbook/1999/gosselin_body.asp
It's a well written essay examining, among many other
topics, the content of sex education classes and how
they conflict with the ideal that adolescents have about
sex. Though the literature she refers to is from the
70's and 80's, it is still valuable and some of this
curriculum is probably still taught today. The purpose
of many sex-ed classes was to show the destructive
outcomes of premarital heterosexual sex and to encourage
abstinance through fear. The three main themes that
were entertained were violence, victimization, and
morality. Classes that focused on violence concentrated
on the occurrances of rape and coersion when an
adolescent engages in sex. They portray sex as violent,
painful, and leading to STDs. Classes with the theme of
victimization focused on a girl's vulnerability. They
portray men as manipulators who only are with a girl to
use her for sex and then drop her. It also involves the
probability of becoming diseased because the man does
not care enough to protect the girl from it. The third
theme is morality which views chaste self control as
important. They stress that a girl should deny her own
desires to grow up healthy and chaste. The problem with
these three views of sexual education is that none of
them allow for healthy exploration and understanding of
a girl's own body and desires, which is a popular view
now. Sex is natural and girls will be curious about it.
For all of history sex has been romanticized by females
and it will continue to be. For sex-ed to be effective
and solve adolescent conflict it needs to address the
views that girls have toward sex instead of focusing on
destructive extremes.
Message no. 596[Branch from no. 432]
Friday, March 21, 2003 3:12pm
Subject Re: The EVIL of Sex
Once again I am going to say that parents have to be
responsible for their children. Why do we expect the
government to once again step into our lives and educate
kids on subjects that their parents should be? I do not
want the government in my life. These are issues that
people need to think about before having sex and
creating a child. This is the responsibility of being a
parent. We need to start educating our kids on using
their brains and thinking on their own. Kids are not
stupid. The school should have no part in this besides
giving the biological facts. Yes - puberty is coming a
lot earlier. So guess what - you need to talk to your
kids at a younger age. In high school we all know that
sex can lead to having babies. So why do so many
teenagers get pregnant? It starts with talking and
reasoning with your kids. Get off your asses and start
parenting. You choose to do an act that gave you a
baby. If you are not ready for being a parent, why are
you having kids? We have why too many options in todays
world. There is birth control, abortion, adoption, and
the morning after pill, to name a few. Use it!!! That
is what it is there for. I am getting so sick of paying
for others mistakes. If you are going to do an adult
act, then you are going to have to act as an adult. NO
EXCUSES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Message no. 503
Friday, March 7, 2003 2:01pm
Subject Pacific Islanders and Eating Disorders
I did a general search on what I could find on Pacific
Island adolescent girls. I used a search engine
mentioned by another person previously, www.skworm.com,
and it gave me good results, but i had to go back to the
search page to save the address because it displays your
results in frames.
Here were my search terms:
Pacific Islanders +adolescents (5,600 hits)
Pacific Islanders +adolescents + culture (2,140)
Pacific Islanders +adolescents + culture + girls (742
HITS)
Pacific Islanders +adolescents + culture + girls + self
(637 hits)
I found an eating disorder information sheet which
basically talks about different Pacific Island girls
that have eating disorders as well as giving tips to
parents about what they should do about it.
Here's the link if anyone wants to check it out, it's
pretty short.
www.4woman.gov/BodyImage/Bodywise/uf/Asian%20American%20Girls2.pdf
Message no. 520[Branch from no. 503]
Sunday, March 9, 2003 9:04pm
Subject Re: Pacific Islanders and Eating Disorders
I thought this was a good article because I have done a
lot of research on eating disorders and I, too, thought
eating disorders were most common amongst white girls.
I don't know about other asian american girls, but I
know that korean girls are highly self-conscious about
their body image. A lot korean girls are raised to
believe that thinness and beauty is very important. I
noticed that this culture do not even realize that they
have issues and a preoccupation with weight; they think
it is normal to semi-starve.
Message no. 595[Branch from no. 520]
Friday, March 21, 2003 2:57pm
Subject Re: Pacific Islanders and Eating Disorders
Is it just Korean girls? I would think not. I believe
this is a worldwide problem. Doesn't this idea of women
being thin = beauty exist everywhere? All over the
world (with the exception of a few cultures) being a
beautiful women does mean being thin. This is a world
wide problem. How sad to think that us women seem to be
programmed as young children to be thin. There are now
5 year olds that are on diets. How disgusting is this?
The last thing a 5 year old needs to be worried about is
their weight. At that point in their life, they need
more food and calories than as an adult. It is time for
women across the world to overlook this value (beauty =
thin) and be concerned about the type of person you are.
Do you have integrity? Are you trying to solve
problems rather than create them? Are you happy with
yourself? If the women across the world would come to
together and battle against these values being ingrained
in the mind of our kids, we would have a much better
place to live in. We could have more power over our
"man" world and make this place a better place to live
in.
Message no. 580
Thursday, March 20, 2003 11:58am
Subject Girls forced into Polygamy
I used the search terms 'strict parents, teeange girls'
to search for how teenage girls dealt with strict
parents, but I didn't really find anything specific. I
did run across an article about how teenage girls were
fleeing fundamenatlist sects to avoid being a wife to a
polygamist man. I found this article on MSN at
http://www.amarillonet.com/stories/082301/usn_toavoid.shtmlThe article talks about a girl named Caroline Cooke who
escaped from her polygamist community called
Fundamentalist Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day
Saints. The first thing she did was cut her knee-length
hair to an above-the-shoulder bob. She also traded her
full-length dresses for sleeveless shirts and shorts.
These were radical and symbolic moves for the
15-year-old who walked away from her family and her
religion, which encourages pioneer-style long hair and
long dresses for women. Cooke left because she feared
she soon would be married to a man three times her age
who already had more than a dozen wives.
It's sad that among the many other things a teenage girl
worries about, the girls from this community have to
worry about being forced to marry a man with a dozen or
more other wives. This goes back to the idea that a
woman is just a posession, subject to the wants and
needs of a man. These girls who've run away from their
communities must face being on their own because they
are no longer welcome in their families.
Message no. 583[Branch from no. 580]
Thursday, March 20, 2003 5:03pm
Subject Re: Girls forced into Polygamy
This story reminds me of how my parents were REALLY
STRICT with my older sister...she was really wild and
they tried everything to discipline her, but in the end
she went her way and my parents went another way...so
when I got older my parents realized that they were way
too harsh on my sister and they were worried about my
future because they didn't want me to end up like my
sister so they relaxed a bit.
I guess parents feel a need to be strict because they
feel that that's the only way they'll protect their
children, but I feel that it won't help parents nurture
their relationships with their children will be too
scared to speak up and let them know how they feel.
Message no. 592
Friday, March 21, 2003 11:12am
Subject alcohol use
A. Today's searching was on alcohol use amoung teenage
girls.
B. The search terms I used were: "Alcohol abuse in
girls" and "drinking underage"
C. I didn't encounter any searching problems. However,
there are so many articles about this topic that it's
very time consuming.
D. The search engine used was WebCrawler. I really
like this search engine because it also automatically
rewords the phrases you are looking for.
E. The website: www.health.org/govpubs/rpo993/
F. I found two interesting things on this website. The
first was "puberty tends to bring higher incidence of
depression amoung teenage girls, which can trigger
alcohol use. One study found symptoms of depression in
one in four girls, a rate that is 50% higher than in
boys". The second was that teenage girls are more
likley to drink to fit in with their friends than boys.
Message no. 612[Branch from no. 592]
Wednesday, March 26, 2003 7:23pm
Subject Re: alcohol use
I thought this article was kind of depressing because so
many girls go through depression and use alcohol. I
remember when I was in high school and almost all my
girlfriends were into drinking and smoking. I think
that most of them did it to "fit in" and also because of
peer pressure. It's funny now because now all my
friends are of legal age to drink and a lot of them keep
their drinking to a minimal amount. I think that in
high school a lot of girls drink to get drunk because
they think that they look cool, but when you are finally
of age to drink, it is not as exciting.
Message no. 593
Friday, March 21, 2003 11:35am
Subject weight problems
A. My search for today was on new information about how
the media's skinny females may produce negative thoughts
about how you see yourself when comparing them to you.
B. The search terms I used were: "media's influences
on girls weight" and "weight problems amoung girls"
C. While searching for today's topic, I found no
problems.
D. The search engine I used was www.findarticles.com I
would recommend this search engine because it has more
scholarly information.
E. The web address:
www.findarticles.com/cf_0/m2294/2000_May/65306527/
F. This article was published in Sex Roles: A Journal
of Research. The title was Television situation
Comedies: Female weight, Male negative comments, and
audience reactions.
One of the interesting things about this article was
that it studied 18 prime television situation comedies
(two eposides each) and it examined the body weights of
37 central female actors. The results were that the
females that were underweight were overpresented while
the heavier ones recieved negative comments about her.
Also in this article, I found that only 5% of female
characters were rated as "heavy" whereas 69% if female
characters were rated "thin".
The end of this article concludes that the message sent
to female viewers is that attractiviness means being
"thin".
Message no. 634[Branch from no. 593]
Sunday, March 30, 2003 12:56pm
Subject Re: weight problems
It was quite disturbing to read that 69% of females
rated on those shows were considered thin, while only 5
% were seen as heavy. The population of American's
growing overweight has increased therefore why do they
depict America as a nation full of skinny people? I
think the media should be more in tune with reality so
teenage girls won't have to think that they have to
comform to the false society that America's media
portrays. I liked your search topic, and I think that
America does communicate that attractiveness = thin.
Message no. 636
Sunday, March 30, 2003 9:42pm
Subject Are there any more positive role models on t.v.?
My search was based on the conflicts of teenage girls
influenced by the media. I used the search engine:
http://www.skworm.com I had no problems with the searchusing the phrase: teenage girls and their problems.
I found the site
http://www.childrennow.org/media/mc97/ReflectSummary.htmlThis was a study about gender and the media. At first
it says the media provides positive female role models
for girls. Many of the women on t.v. shows are shown as
independent and solve their own problems. The study
also found that the media reinforces the female
sterotype, and emphasizes the importance of a woman's
appearance.
This study shows that the media does provide somewhat of
a role model for girls, but it also makes girls see that
the media reinforces beauty and female stereotypes.
Message no. 669[Branch from no. 636]
Thursday, April 3, 2003 6:57pm
Subject Re: Are there any more positive role models on t.v.?
I looked at the site about gender and the media. I
thought this site contains many interesting information.
I got the feelings that girls are more sensitive than
boys in terms of the media.
Message no. 647
Tuesday, April 1, 2003 6:34pm
Subject problems with our society
I used google as the search engine and typed "feminists
and adolescent girls" and found an article called
"Beyond Choice: Culture, Adolescence, and Feminism"
http://www.digitas.harvard.edu/~perspy/old/issues/1996/mar/alice.html"Because adolescence is viewed as a period of rapid
maturation, girls are aware that they are expected to
undergo a transformation from girls to women, a
transformation which radically alters their conception
of self. Psychologist Mary Pipher writes that,
"adolescent girls experience a conflict between their
autonomous selves and their need to be feminine, between
their status as human beings and their vocation as
females." Femininity is defined for girls by the
surrounding culture. Images of feminine beauty bombard
girls in ads, films, television, and music. Models and
actresses define the desired body size and shape.
Passive women are sexy women. These prescribed and
warped notions of womanhood wreak havoc on adolescent
girls."
Basically, this article is about how the culture a
adolescent girl is a part of, pretty much defines her or
at least tries to mold her into a person to fit into
that society/culture and it doesn't matter what her own
concept of "self" means to her.
Message no. 668
Thursday, April 3, 2003 6:29pm
Subject 'It sucks being a teenage girl'
My searching terms were "teenage, girl, conflict." I had
no problem in finding the following article. This site
is from the Health Report Newsmagazine home page.
http://report.ca/archive/report/20020812/p45i020812f.htmlAccording to the author, Candis McLean, about three
times as many teenage girls as boys attempt suicide.
While 3.8% of young men try to kill themselves, the
corresponding figure for young women is 10.1%, one in
10. Toronto researchers focused on gender-role conflict
as a possible reason. Psychiatrist Leora Pinhas
explains, "Young girls are expected to do three
conflicting full-time jobs: they are supposed to be
caregiving and emotional as well as superwoman, and also
thin and beautiful, exercising all the time. On the flip
side, they are often restricted more than boys."
On the other hand, Retired psychiatrist Ben Wong
believes that although girls have increased freedom
today, it is more difficult to find a role with a sense
of meaning--some reason to survive.
Message no. 826[Branch from no. 668]
Monday, April 14, 2003 8:06pm
Subject Re: 'It sucks being a teenage girl'
It does suck, it seems that being born female
automatically puts us at the disadvantage. We have
multiple roles as mother, wife, employees, etc., that
we're all supposed to balance and be good at. Just
thinking about this reminds me of my boyfriend whose mom
seperated from her husband because she had all these
roles that she was expected to excel at, the pressure
was just too much and she had to get away. I feel like
this and I'm not even married. I hate having to come
home from school, then work and have to cook for my
boyfriend and having to do homework after........it's
just so draining.
Message no. 694
Friday, April 4, 2003 8:52am
Subject Re: Teen girls and society
I did a search on teen girls and the influence of
society. I search under yahoo (under society & culture,
issues and causes)and used the phrases, "teen girls
influenced by society" and "teen girls and society". No
troubles at all.
I found a good article at
www.womensenew.org/article.cfm/dyn/aid/868/context/archieve
It talks about the 'Teen Voices' magazine that was
created by Alison Amoroso. Its a magazine that's
written by and for teens. The content of the magazine
is to try to change the society's view of teenage girls.
The interesting about this magazine is that 95% of the
editors are african american, asian or latino, and
nearly 60% of them have learning disabilities. Not the
typical magazine you will see. Also, every cover
features a racial mix, rather than caucasian.
Some of the recent articles that were published were,
"Being adopted by my family" and Because you're more
than just a pretty face". Not the typical article's
you'll see.
I thought this a good way to start changing the views of
society. By seeing a variety of people in magazines
will not limit teens to stick to the pretty, teen image.
Message no. 703[Branch from no. 694]
Friday, April 4, 2003 8:35pm
Subject Re: Teen girls and society
I'm glad that you pointed out that in one way - having a
magazine that caters to diversity, not the
stereotypical
made-beautiful-through-computer-retouching images and
superficial stories - can start changing society's
views. These magazines that are more "real" can
definitely boost up the confidence in women who do not
possess the looks that are commonly portrayed in the
media. They will also relate more to "serious" stories
that pertain to "real" life.
I remember being a teenager. I was never part of the
"popular" crowd in school, but I always heard girls
talking about magazines, magazines, magazines - whether
it be about a cute guy on TV, quizzes on how to win
over a guy, blah blah blah. Personally, I was never
into it, but I can see how the influence of magazines
persist through the years. It's ridiculous and quite
pitiful that some girls are made to feel they have to
have the body the models in the magazines have. Even
just looking at some of the types of clothing in
magazines makes me wonder what the magazine editors
want girls to think - buy this outfit and you'll look
cool, but of course, you would have to lose weight
first to fit into it or waste your money to buy all
these "in" things? It's ironic that some magazine
editors and the like make a living trying to make us
"lose" something, whether it be weight, money,
un-cool-ness?
Message no. 730
Sunday, April 6, 2003 2:45pm
Subject to sex, or not to sex...
when thinking about one of the things that really
weighed on my mind, as an adolescent male (around 13 or
14)...i find that a common topic of talk at that age was
girls...and more specifically...sex, with girls.
i know it sounds young, but its true. and when looking
at the web site:
http://www.focusas.com/SexualBehavior.html it dawns onme that it must be very difficult for girls at that age
to grow up, and function, with horny little boys like me
running around. i'll be the first to admit, one of the
only things that occupies a little boy's mind around 14
or 15 is "sex." this pressure constantly coming from
boys must be a terrible load for a young girl to endure.
and we don't realize it at the time, until you're in
your early-mid 20s, doing a psychology class and
researching the topic on the internet.
i just hope that i, when i do become a father, can
communicate effectively enough with my son or daughter
about the topic so that they are not pressuring, or
feeling pressured about sex, and being sexually active.
Message no. 751[Branch from no. 730]
Tuesday, April 8, 2003 12:33am
Subject Re: to sex, or not to sex...
This was a very interesting topic. But in response to
your openness and honesty, not all girls have the
pressure of sex. Despite the fact that I knew that most
of the boys that I dated just wanted to have sex, I
never gave in let alone even kissed a guy. I think it
has a lot to do with how your parents raise you. I was
taught to respect myself in all ways especially
sexually. Even without the guidance of my parents, I
would never have let a guy have the best of me unless I
was in love, which would be after high school.
Message no. 775[Branch from no. 730]
Thursday, April 10, 2003 12:21am
Subject Re: to sex, or not to sex...
I never knew that sex was on boys minds at such a young
age, but I'm not surprised. I mean they probably saw
adults having sex on television already.
As for your comment on the pressures of sex, I don't
think, or can't remember facing such a pressure as a
teenager. I personally, think that boys face more
pressures about sex then girls. First of all, men like
to brag and stuff about their sexual encounters to their
friends. So maybe it's like a competion for boys at the
age? --Who can get "laid" first. As for girls, it's
suppose to have meaning so waiting is easy. But I don't
know, everyone is different!
Message no. 779[Branch from no. 730]
Thursday, April 10, 2003 8:54pm
Subject Re: to sex, or not to sex...
I agree with the Gail and Alicia, who have already
posted their comments to your discussion message. I was
never faced with such sexual pressure. I also think
that boys, more often than girls, seem to face more of
that pressure. I remember hearing guys talking about
"scoring" with girls and my Social Studies teacher
asking us why teenagers use the analogy of baseball
(reaching bases, etc.). And I used to hear guys
bragging about having sex, too. For instance, there was
a football player who told his fellow buddies that he
"did it" with so-and-so; he even showed them her
underwear.
Anyway, I think you brought up a good point about
communicating effectively to your children (in the
future, when you are a father) about the pressures of
sex. For a time, wasn't it a controversial issue -
about sex education being taught in schools? Well, I
think that parents should make sure that their kids
know about it and that they shouldn't give in even
though they are being pressured. I mean, I would hate
my children to learn about sex from watching tv; we all
know that tv isn't always credible. Also, their own
peers might mislead them. I know that it might be
difficult to discuss the topic, especially when they
are teenagers, but it's better to have parents express
their concern about the pressures of sex rather than
find out one day that their teenage daughter is
pregnant or that their son impregnated someone.
Message no. 750
Tuesday, April 8, 2003 12:26am
Subject bulimia nervosa
For this research I was searching for anything to do
with teenage girls and self image problems. The search
terms that I used was "conflicts in teenage girls." I
did not encounter any problems with this search because
there was more than enough information. The search
engine that I used was Google. The web address is:
http://www.healthyplace.com/Communities/Eating_Disorders/beat_bulimiaIn this article I found that many young women are
strugling with bulimia nervosa. The symptoms are not
always visible because unlike anorexia, bulimic patients
tend to be of normal weight. The disorder, however, is
deadly. There are many internal symptoms such as:
kidney and liver failure, ruptured esophogus, and loss
of electrolytes.
Message no. 776
Thursday, April 10, 2003 3:06pm
Subject Girls and Sports
I used the search terms "teenage girls, conflicts" at
google.com, I wanted to find examples of problems that
adolescent females experience. I didn't have a hard
time finding this site.
http://www.sportengland.org/active_communities/acf/girlsport.htmThe article talks about Girlsport a new program that
enhances communication and understanding of the issues
that affect teenage girls enjoyment, involvement and
progress in sport and physical activity. One goal is to
increase participation of girls in sports to encourage
teenagers, and the adults that influence them, to share
ideas and problems associated with the conflicts that
often occur as girls approach and experience puberty. By
raising awareness and tackling these issues it is hoped
that less young women will drop out from sport and
physical activity at this crucial time.
The workshop aims to challenge some of the
misconceptions and misunderstandings that often exist
and encourages everyone to find solutions to many of the
challenges that teenage girls face.
I think this is an excellent program for teenagers. I
read somewhere that girls who participate in sports have
higher self-esteem than girls who don't. I can see how
this works because sports teaches individuals about
teamwork, getting along with each other, and also
produces healthy competition. Girls can also feel
competent in their ability to play a sport and keep
their bodies fit.
Message no. 792
Friday, April 11, 2003 4:30pm
Subject Acculturation/Assimilation of immigrant teenagers
I wanted to find out more about acculturation issues for
immigrant teenagers, not necessarily just the
experiences of females per se because it affects both
females and males. I have been working with the ESL
(English as a Second Language) department at a public
high school for four years now and I have seen students
grow and change in many ways throughout the years.
Their clothing style changes; many opt to wear what
they see on TV. They change the way they talk, trying
to use terms they hear other students say, including
swear words. The bottom line is that they face
pressures to "fit in," but sometimes I think some of
them try too hard or change for the worse.
Using the search phrase "acculturation + immigrant" in
Google, I had no problems retrieving relevant articles.
1)
http://members.aol.com/lacillo/immigrant.htmlThere are five stages of adaptation: silent stage,
uprooting stage, culture shock,
acculturation/assimilation and mainstream stage.
2)
http://www.ndol.org/blueprint/2002_jan-feb/33_immigrant.html
In regards to first generation immigrants (the ones who
immigrated to America), the authors state, "It is their
offspring, the second generation, whose successes and
failures will set the mold for their ethnic groups,
determining patterns that will last for generations to
come." They also say that "...rapid acquisition of
English is 'language loss,' what others see as fitting
in is 'premature Americanization,' and the most
effective methods of teaching English and American
values are so much 'forced-march acculturation.'"
Message no. 832
Tuesday, April 15, 2003 11:20am
Subject Is a Happy Teenager a Healthy Teenager?
I used the searching terms, "rebellious stage." I had no
problem in finding the following article with Google
searching engine.
http://www.books-reborn.org/white/articles/1997_happy.htmlThe article written by White presents a four-level
ecplanation of teenage aggressive feelings and behavior.
Level 1: antisocial anger Level 2: Social anger Level
3: passive resistance Level 4: goodness
Adonescent anger can be shown in an antisocial way, in a
passive way, ina healthy way, or not at all. In
addition teenagers, like adults, have a choice in how to
respond to and take care of angry feelings. One of the
advantagees of anger is to provide a way of breaking the
bond with mother and father, thereby allowing a new
sense of independence.
Message no. 864
Saturday, April 19, 2003 6:07pm
Subject In a different culture
I looked up this subject under www.aol.com. I entered
the keywords adolescent girl conflicts. I found an
article at
http://www.ifuw.org/pgwnet/tongan.pdf. Ifound this article very interesting because it gave the
perspective of a different culture. The Tongan's have
not had a lot of American culture until the past few
years. This bombardment of sexual and violent images is
having an impact on their own culture. This poses a
problem for their society as it is influencing and
changing the way they live. Tongan adolescents have
usually ben the quiet ones in society and are now
behaving in more outrageous ways. This is particularly
interesting to the topic because it provides a study
environment where an experimenter can assess the
difference before an after the influence of television.
Message no. 998[Branch from no. 864]
Posted by Marie Shimomura (Marie_S) on Tuesday, May 6, 2003 10:56pm
Subject Re: In a different culture
I liked how you took this topic into the perspective of
another culture. I think this really does proove how
television and the media can greatly affect people.
It's sad how these images are changing the youth in
Tonga. If there were stricter policies on what is shown
in television, movies, etc. then things could be
different. Obviously the invasion of the mass media in
Tonga did influence people. The people who create these
violent programs should realize how influential they can
be.
Message no. 900
Friday, April 25, 2003 2:11pm
Subject Sexual abuse
One of the commonly know conflicts of children and
adolescents is sexual abuse. I wanted to find some
statistics about sexual abuse in adolescents and
children. I found an informative site:
http://www.prevent-abuse-now.com/stats.htm the sitelists many stats. on sexual abuse such as: "67% of
victims of sexual assault were juveniles ( under
age 18); 34% of sexual assault victims were under age
12; 1 of every 7 victims of sexual assault were under
age 6; 40% of offenders who victimized children under
age 6 were juveniles (under age 18).
An average of 5.5 children per 10,000 enrolled in day
care are sexually abused, an average of 8.9 children out
of every 10,000 are abused in the home."
I also wanted to know of any centers that help people
who have been abused locally in Hawaii. Oahu does have a
sex abuse treatment center located in Kapiolani Womens
and childrens hospital. Their site is:
http://www.kapiolani.org/facilities/programs-sex.htmlsome of the servies offered are: 24-hour crisis hotline:
524-7273. Specialized medical examination available 24
hours a day. (Must be done within 72 hours of the
assault.) Legal evidence collection. (Must be done
within 72 hours of the assault.) Pediatric medical
evaluation for non-emergency situations. They also
provied couseling and community outreach programs.
Message no. 966
Sunday, May 4, 2003 10:48pm
Subject girls and drugs
Today I was searching for information about girls and
drugs. I used the seach engine
http://www.google.comtyping in the phase girls and drugs. I found one
article that was very interesting. Here is the
article's site:
http://www.msnbc.com/news/869022.aspWhile I was searching google, I encountered no problems.
I found that there are many issues dealing with
teenagers and drugs.
On this website it says, "young girls and women are more
easily addicted to drugs and alcohol, they have
different reasons than boys for abusing substances and
may need single-sex treatment programs to back their
additions."
Apparently, there are many reason for women to get
"wasted" or "high". These reason moslty consisted of
escaping problems. On this website, they also link to
the national center of addition and substance abuse.
Here is that website:
http://www.casacolumbia.org
4. SEXIST JOKES AND MEN
Message no. 113
Friday, January 31, 2003 11:55am
Subject It's just good (not so clean) fun!
When I began looking for information about why men enjoy
sexist jokes, I didn't find exactly what I thought I
would. I found sooo many sexist jokes that it was
impossible to read them all. The ones that I found
funniest, even though I'm a girl, were too offensive to
print here, so you can just imagine. I searched google
using "reasons + men + sexist" and I found this website:
www.theory.org.uk/mensmags.htm
They discussed a general theory of mens magazines and
the sexist humor that is often found within them. They
claimed that it developed from a reaction to feminism to
regain their lost power. It is an attempt to return to
a "pre-feminist masculine ideal." I think this is a
little extreme, but it is one of the reasons out there
as an explanation of why.
Here is a website made an important distinction in what
society considers sexist.
www.animal-law.org/commentaries/cyberpost10.htm
If a man makes a derrogatory comment towards women, it
is considered sexist. BUT, if a woman makes a similar
comment, it may be viewed as crude or wrong, but not
sexist. If we wonder why men enjoy sexist jokes, it may
be because we consider their jokes sexist on the basis
that they are men. It seems we find sexist jokes in male
magazines because it is considered a popular form of
entertainment. If you just look at how many websites
are dedicated to telling the same sexist jokes over, and
over, it's obvious. Personally, I think the majority of
men and a large percentage of women enjoy sexist jokes
because they are usually so outrageous that you have to
laugh. A person doesn't have to be sexist to enjoy
them, or tell them. One of my male friends often teases
his wife by asking her why she isn't barefoot and
pregnant in the kitchen. Why? Because it's fun.
Message no. 117[Branch from no. 113]
Friday, January 31, 2003 2:36pm
Subject Re: It's just good (not so clean) fun!
i agree that everyone enjoys sexist jokes, some more
than others. in my experiences people use these jokes
as an icebreaker. its great because people who are not
as open can laugh because it affects people in a more
personal manner, especially if it is funny. For some
though they perhaps do not appriciate a good joke or it
is too obscene for their liking. people today are so
concerned with proper attitudes in certain places i say
relax and have a laugh once in a while.
Message no. 139[Branch from no. 117]
Monday, February 3, 2003 4:12pm
Subject Re: It's just good (not so clean) fun!
In response to Stefen--I think your attitude about relax
and have fun is destructive. One thing we really need
to consider about humor is why we laugh at others'
expenses. What is funny to us involves hurting others.
From "Tom and Jerry" when we were kids to today when
sitcoms have husbands and wives pick on each other to
gain a laugh from a fake audience. The real message is
that when there a joke about a person or group of people
and those people say it's not funny, then it's time to
give it up and shut your mouth.
Message no. 671[Branch from no. 139]
Thursday, April 3, 2003 8:49pm
Subject Re: It's just good (not so clean) fun!
i think that what really needs to happen is that
everyone needs to relax. i agree with stefan in that
aspect. however, i also agree that we should be more
conscious about WHY we are saying things. if it is for
a hurtful purpose, then we shouldn't say them. but, at
the same time, if you can't laugh at yourself, or what
you are doing...no matter what that is...then you aren't
living life for what it was meant for...and that is to
enjoy it. its not about "shutting" anyone's mouth, as
it is to "opening" people's minds, and making people
realize that if you take yourself too seriously, you're
going to die of a heart attack, or an ulcer or
something. that would be just a complete shame, wouldnt
it?
Message no. 205[Branch from no. 117]
Friday, February 7, 2003 10:06am
Subject Re: It's just good (not so clean) fun!
After reading this response to sexist jokes and why men
love them, I agree with the author. I, too, think that
most people, male or female, enjoy sexists jokes at one
time or another. This is because they are usually so
ridiculous that both sexes can laugh at them. I know
that many mens' magazines print sexist jokes to
entertain their male readers. Maybe that website that
attempts to explain this is correct. Maybe men like
sexist jokes to keep women down in their equality
movement. Perhaps that is the underlying, unconcious
role of these sexist jokes. However, on the surface, it
seems to me that these jokes are purely for
entertainment for everyone, and we may be looking too
deep into this topic for answers.
Message no. 166[Branch from no. 113]
Tuesday, February 4, 2003 10:28pm
Subject Re: It's just good (not so clean) fun!
I think that sexist jokes are a lot more common among
men than women because men tend to be more graphically
insensitive to these meaningless jokes. Men seem to
love crude sexist jokes. I hear guys on campus make
sexist comments all the time. Personally it doesn't
really bother me, but there is a thin line to draw.
Sometimes sexist jokes can be offensive depending on the
person who is receiving the jokes and how they take it.
Sexist jokes are definitely shocking at times. These
jokes are a form of entertainment and we choose to take
it seriously or not. Men tend to be more direct than
women, so they don't find these jokes shocking. Sexist
jokes are also usually about putting women down. To a
certain extent I agree that sexist jokes are for
repressing increased feminine power. 10 years from now,
men will have the same problem complaining about women
and their "sexist jokes".
Message no. 181[Branch from no. 113]
Wednesday, February 5, 2003 9:03pm
Subject Re: It's just good (not so clean) fun!
I think that it is possibly true that these jokes stem
from a deep down urge to keep "us" on top...look at
jokes about races. As innocent as it seems, portuguese
jokes, asian jokes, caucasian jokes...they all are very
innocent seeming, but perhaps this is just a way to keep
"us" (the race telling the joke) on top.
But...I also have a synical view in that...survival of
the fittest...and...whatever works...works ;)
Message no. 231[Branch from no. 113]
Sunday, February 9, 2003 5:38pm
Subject Re: It's just good (not so clean) fun!
I completely agree with you when you say that most of
the women out there do like some sexist jokes. I think
this is very healthy. We should be able to laugh at
anything. Remember IT IS A JOKE! I think in today's
world people have gone way over board on trying to be
"politically correct". We need to lighten up as a
society. Now days, people get sued over a few comments,
people get sued b/c of hand jestures, and McDonalds get
sued for "making" someone fat. Give me a break. I as a
woman do believe in equality. I think women need to get
paid the same, women need to have the same opportunities
that men are offered, and the responibilities around the
home need to be equal. Because I feel this way does not
mean I can not laugh at a joke. I have jokes about
neanderthal men also. If people would laugh more this
world would be a much healthier place.
Message no. 234[Branch from no. 113]
Sunday, February 9, 2003 9:08pm
Subject Re: It's just good (not so clean) fun!
I too, as a female, would agree that sexist jokes are
funny! I laugh at the jokes about females. And so
what. I laugh at male jokes too. What's the big
problem?
If males use it as a way to put females down that
doesn't mean it really does. It doesn't put me down but
if it did I wouldn't cry about it.
Some people are so uptight about J-O-K-E-S. Maybe they
should just relax.
Message no. 236[Branch from no. 113]
Sunday, February 9, 2003 11:25pm
Subject Re: It's just good (not so clean) fun!
I wish more women had such a healthy attitude towards
jokes regardless of how sexist they may seem because
what it all comes down to is laughter. Granted not all
jokes should be shared in certain circles, but I think
jokes in men's magazines like Maxim are purely for
laughter and never degradation. Society took a turn for
the worst the day someone got slapped with sexual
harassment lawsuit for telling a blonde joke. To me, a
blonde woman who can enjoy a blonde joke has a healthy
perception of herself and realizes that a joke isn't a
personal attack. I commend you for your open mindedness.
Message no. 342[Branch from no. 113]
Wednesday, February 19, 2003 12:05am
Subject Re: It's just good (not so clean) fun!
I agree that you don't have to be sexist to enjoy a
sexist joke, but as they say, there is a shred of truth
in all jokes. There are many parallels between sexism
and racism, and therefore parallels between sexist and
racist jokes. What sexism and racism are about is
putting yourself inherently above another group, thereby
boosting your self-worth. Men enjoy sexist jokes
because it makes them feel better about themselves and
promotes comaraderie. I'd be curious to see if there's
been a study concerning whether repeated exposure to
sexist jokes increases the amount of sexist thoughts and
actions. Citing my own experiences, I'd definitely say
there is a connection. I have very sexist friends, and
I'm definitely more sexist as a result. Even though I
full-heartedly believe women and men are absolutely
equal, it changes thought patterns and gives us less
aversion to shouting at girls on the street or checking
out a girl's ass for entirely too long. This is my
personal experience.
I'm fully aware that this is a complex interface of
thoughts, actions, and emotions, but to me there is
undeniably a link between sexist (and racist)
jokes/comments and sexist and racist behavior.
Message no. 391[Branch from no. 113]
Sunday, February 23, 2003 3:49am
Subject Re: It's just good (not so clean) fun!
I hear a lot of sexist jokes all the time. Although at
times they are offensive, many are just an extreme
exaggeration of how things really are. I realize that
there are a lot of guys that say really offensive jokes,
but many of these guys are just too immature to realize
that what they are saying is not just making people
laugh, but is also hurting others.
Message no. 147
Monday, February 3, 2003 8:56pm
Subject that's so sexist
well, i just had a good laugh. i typed in 'sexist jokes
and men' in yahoo and boy, did i get a lot of sexist
jokes. it wasn't until i typed in 'sexism jokes men'
that i got some actual quality material such as site
europrofem.org/06.actio/wrc_rib/ewrc_en/08wrc_en.htm.
the intent of this page was to teach men to behave in a
pro-equality, anti-sexist, anti-violence manner in a
variety of situations. some of their advice was to stop
supporting magazines depecting women as objects or to
'boo' at a comedy show with sexist jokes. there were
several other ideas as well. actually, what i found most
interesting were the amounts of sites against women's
sexism against men that came up. although it's not as
stereotypical (a big danger, causing us to overlook
actual problems), it does seem to be fairly rampant.
and isn't it just as stereotypical that there is a
discussion forum labeled 'sexist jokes and men' and not
'sexist jokes and women'? or just 'sexist jokes'? this
will hardly be taken care of any time soon. i guess my
question is why? it's generally believed that people
make fun of others to make themselves feel bigger or
better, in a sick way. males, as the socially dominant
species for so long as objectified women FOREVER. now
are women objectifying men as means of retaliation,
equal rights or to make themselves feel better? i don't
know. or, do we use humor to deflect things we don't
understand or don't want to deal with? yes, i think so.
so does that apply in this situation? what do you all
think?
Message no. 284[Branch from no. 147]
Friday, February 14, 2003 10:03am
Subject Re: that's so sexist
I think that you're right. Those sexist jokes are funny.
I had cramps from laughing so hard, then there were the
jokes that were plain out degrading toward women and
just made me sick. I think we use sexist humor when we
need to feel that power over the other sex. We have to
put them down when they hurt us. I think it's all about
having the power and feeling better about ourselves.
This website:
http://www.goodapples.ca/whatcanido.htmlis about sexual harassment and sexist jokes. It explains
that this form of sexual harassment isn't about sex but
about having power.
Message no. 394[Branch from no. 284]
Sunday, February 23, 2003 3:39pm
Subject Re: that's so sexist
i think that people do use humor to make themselves feel
better. I think humor is great no matter what kind of
joke. the problem i have is with the person or context
in which they use the joke in. a profrofessional
comedian can make just about anyone laugh at any joke
becuase the people know that it is all in fun and no one
is being the target. Not everyone are comedians though
and is where the problem lyes. People use these jokes
to put them "above" others. it may work for a little
while but in the end they usually get whats coming to
them
Message no. 632[Branch from no. 394]
Saturday, March 29, 2003 4:00pm
Subject Re: that's so sexist
I agree that people use these jokes to make them feel
better or more powerful over other people, but I also
think there is another side to it. I think that we are
able to laugh at these jokes because there is a grain of
truth to the stereotypes that we sometimes recongize in
ourselves and may be funny when it is blown out of
proportion. It is also disturbing that these can be so
funny when they put women down. I like the point
brought up that the title of the forum is sexist jokes
and men. I think this might be due to the views of the
professor.
Message no. 169
Tuesday, February 4, 2003 10:43pm
Subject Men & Sexist jokes
In this search, I specifically looked for the reasons
why men enjoy sexist jokes. I used the search term
reasons+men and sexist jokes. I didn't encounter any
problems with this search. I used www.google.com for
this search. This was the site I used:
http://www.geocities.com/Wellesley/5819/menstop3.htmlIn this short article, I found that Men who tells sexist
jokes are trying to build themselves up at the women's
expense. Many sexist jokes are targeted to women or in
some situations gay men. Sexist jokes cause pain and
even violence among women and gay men. In this
situation, I don't agree with supporting sexist jokes.
If the sole purpose of sexist jokes was to entertain,
then it would be OK. Unfortunately sexist jokes may give
rapists or sadist men out there inspiration and
motivation to rape women or abuse them. In this
case....quoted from the article: "We don't need a laugh
at that cost."
Message no. 424[Branch from no. 169]
Thursday, February 27, 2003 1:58pm
Subject Re: Men & Sexist jokes
I agree that it is ok to tell jokes if the sole purpose
for it is to make people laugh. But like you said,if it
is directed toward someone or a group of people with the
intent to hurt or discriminate, then it becomes a
problem. When a man tells a sexist joke and it is
intended for entertainment, and a woman or anyone else
for that matter takes offense to it, then I think it is
time for him to think twice before telling it again. I
believe that there are people in the world who are more
sensitive on certain subjects, than are others and we
need to take their feelings into consideration. However,
I also believe that those ultra-sensitive people need to
lighten up a bit and laugh more because life is just too
short to get pissed at people who are ignorant.
Message no. 249
Wednesday, February 12, 2003 12:29am
Subject Is it only men?
I enjoyed this search because i gave in to temptation
and read many of the sexist jokes that were dangling in
front of me on my computer screen. At first I used
Google with the search phrase "sexist jokes and men".
This search resulted in an enormous amount of web sites
dedicated to sexist jokes. I browsed through about five
or so of the pages, but then remembered my task and
changed my search to "sexism and jokes and men". This
was a better search phrase because it yielded many pages
that would help me find out some reasons for sexist
jokes. However, after seeing the frequent web sites
dedicated to women's sexist jokes about men, I wanted to
find a site that would address this issue. I found one:
http://www.backlash.com/book/sexist.html This web
site was written by a man and railed the females who
protest against male jokes about women that they feel
are sexist. He cites the many web pages that are
created by women for jokes about men that are
derogatory. He noted that the online book "The Dumb
Male Jokebook" was selling at an all time high. The
creator also discussed a chain letter he received about
women joking about men in a sxist manner, and a CBS
report about reverse sexism.
Message no. 262[Branch from no. 249]
Thursday, February 13, 2003 12:05pm
Subject Re: Is it only men?
In response to Sean........
Reverse sexism was bound to happen. Women, have been
the butt of jokes for so long, it's about time a whole
book of men jokes came out. Women are capable of
dogging men just the same as when men dog women.
All in all , I think it's done just for the laughs, the
reason why it's so funny to read them is because there's
a bit of truth behind it regradless if it's jokes
towards men or women.
Message no. 323[Branch from no. 262]
Monday, February 17, 2003 12:25pm
Subject Re: Is it only men?
I agree that if a woman does not want a man telling
sexist jokes about her she should not tell them either.
Unfortunately we all usually result to children's
mentality and think "anything he can do I can do better"
or play a form of insulting tag. And then we play the
blame game, "well he/she started it!" For some the
jokes are harmless but to others, mostly women they are
a reflection of stereotypes and insults. But aren't
most jokes a put down of someone or something. You are
laughing at someone else or in some cases yourself.
That is just how jokes are. But granted some are
tasteless and unnecessary but for the most part we all
tell or laugh at jokes aimed at others but when the
laughing arrow is pointed at us we are a lot more likely
to want it pointed somewhere else.
Message no. 290[Branch from no. 249]
Friday, February 14, 2003 2:40pm
Subject Re: Is it only men?
I have to admit that I have received some of those jokes
about me but the difference with those emails was that
both men AND women were the butt of the joke. I did
laugh when I read them and I didn't feel that they took
on a derogatory connotation. I know there are other
jokes that are extreme and I would have to oppose those
types because everyone knows that men and women are
different. Let's just leave it at that.
Message no. 361[Branch from no. 249]
Thursday, February 20, 2003 4:10pm
Subject Re: Is it only men?
Hey Sean wassup man I didn't know you were taking this
class. I haven't checked out any websites concerning
this topic but think that any controversy pertaining to
sexist jokes should be squashed. When people begin to
attack humor you know this world is getting way to
sensitive. It's good that women are coming back with
their own brand of sexist jokes and all of this (both
side of the joke issue) should be taken with a
tongue-in-cheek mentality. People have to able to laugh
and when thinking back to the jokes I've heard in the
past,it is the sexist part of the joke which makes the
joke funny! Men tease women and vice versa, this has
been going on since the hannabadda days so all of these
people with certain ill reactions toward these type of
jokes I got something that will cure your dilemma, it's
a chill pill. Later.
Message no. 742[Branch from no. 361]
Monday, April 7, 2003 12:35pm
Subject Re: Is it only men?
No it is not only men who make sexist jokes. Women to
are just as bad as men. At work, I here women talking
about men and making jokes about them. There is a
stereotype that men are scum, that they only make fun of
the opposite sex, NOOOOOO Way.
Women talk about men all the time like the size of there
you know what, as well as how syupid we are. In times of
sexist jokes, women take these things to court, men do
not. This is why people think only men do it.
Message no. 283
Friday, February 14, 2003 9:55am
Subject Seryt1) on xist jokes about women
Using Yahoo as my search engine and the phrase "sexist
jokes and men", came up was all sexist jokes about
women. I had trouble finding a resource page that didn't
have sexist jokes. Finally I used "sexist jokes against
women" and clicked on the forth option:
http://www.goodapples.ca/whatcanido.htmlAlthough I believe some sexist jokes about women can be
funny, I'm sure not all women would agree and would take
offense. This article called "Challenging men to end
violence against women and children" by the Good Apples
Project had a different perspective on sexist jokes
about women. The article states "Learn to recognize the
signs of sexual harassment in your workplace" and that
sexual harassment can take on less obvious forms (e.g.,
like sexist jokes or sexist language) and that this type
of sexual harassment isn't about sex but about power.
I'm assuming that they are implying that sexist jokes
told by men correlates to violence against women and
that these sexist jokes are all about having feelings of
power over women. I would have to agree that some (not
all) men do sometimes use sexist jokes about women
because they feel inferior to women and that by telling
these types of jokes, they feel better about being a man
and somehow they are the more stronger or better sex.
Message no. 331[Branch from no. 283]
Monday, February 17, 2003 4:03pm
Subject Re: Sexist jokes about women
Regarding Sherry's "Sexist Jokes Against Women",
We all agree that jokes are sexist, but it's all for fun
and humor. That's what makes a joke so funny. There is
always someone that's going to be unhappy or feel
inferior, but that's life. Like Donna was saying, jokes
are jokes--just let them go and ignore it.
Message no. 304
Sunday, February 16, 2003 9:48am
Subject Reply to Lorely's "It's just good (not so clean) fun!"
I always would have thought that jokes directed
towards the female have been around since the caveman
days when our grunts were first given meaning. It does
make sense though that we, as males, can use something
as trivial as a joke to give ourselves a sense of
superiority.
You can't really put all the blame of this
chauvanism on males. It's a vicious cycle of mass media
putting this type of message into our heads and males
enjoying it enough for the media to keep on doing it.
Message no. 327
Monday, February 17, 2003 12:46pm
Subject response
I think that jokes are jokes and while some go out of
the ball park the most of it are fine. I would rather
not have them but, they are there.
Message no. 348
Wednesday, February 19, 2003 4:57pm
Subject Jokes and Sexism
I used google searching the terms "psychology sexist
jokes". I originally was searching for why men like
sexist jokes, but most of the evidence I found was the
mindset of ment who like sexist jokes, and the way women
react to them. I had no problems in my search.
The first site I found was
http://www.shpm.com/articles/wf/harass.html Itpostulated that even mild forms of sexism in the
workplace (e.g. comments and jokes) have negative
effects on female employees, and even "can cause
significant psychological distress".
The second site was
http://www.cord.edu/faculty/tkachuk/scta201/abstractsamples.htmwhich cited a troubling university study. It said that
women were far less likely to enjoy sexist jokes, and
were less likely to tell them than men. By far the most
disturbing finding was the following: "The enjoyment of
sexist humor was positively correlated with rape myth
acceptance, adversarial sexual beliefs, acceptance of
interpersonal violence, and the self-reported likelihood
of forcing sex in men." It also said that the
likelihood of male enjoyment of a sexist joke was
diminished by a disgusted female in the room.
The third site was
http://www.ilstu.edu/~mhemmas/sexual_and_sexist_humor_SHRM-PROP.htmwhich gave a differing view. It stated that joking in
the workplace led to less stress and monotony. However,
the article said sexist jokes could work as a
double-edged sword, lightening the mood in some
situations while offending people in others.
Message no. 649[Branch from no. 348]
Tuesday, April 1, 2003 9:32pm
Subject Re: Jokes and Sexism
You know, i really wonder sometimes...if we put too much
emphasis on this whole sexist thing. is it possible
that we are blowing it up to be worse than it really is?
when i read these articles i think, man, that IS
horrible...but i think it because someone brings it to
my attention. perhaps if we all just stopped with this
"trying to make it all equal" or "politically correct"
stuff...and just had a good laugh, and continued working
that everything would be so much smoother?
ya think?...just an idea
Message no. 352
Thursday, February 20, 2003 8:36am
Subject Men and Sexism
Because I feel that it's unfair to say that men get most
of the heat of sexism jokes, I wanted to research on
sexism against men. I search under Google using the
phrase "sexism jokes and men" and found two good
websites. No problems that stood out.
The first one was www.jokesbyemail.co.uk/c-mu.shtml and
it just has funny sexist jokes. It has different joke
categories and one especially for men and women. If you
like these types of jokes, this is a pretty good site,
however, some are nasty (just to worn you).
The other site was really good
(surreally.net/fullbleed/new archives/000270.php). It
talks about how men claim that they experience
discrimination because they're a MAN and THAT'S SEXISM.
It then goes on to say that men don't experience sexism,
but recieve negative affects by sexism, and gives
examples of them. One example, a man will suffer when
he chooses a women that dosen't fit the "ideal women"
image that's define by sexist society. So men are forced
to stay in a range of what's "sexy" and "attractive". I
totally agree from that only because I have male
friends and the first thing they look for in a girl is
if she's skinny, then looks.
Message no. 392
Sunday, February 23, 2003 1:00pm
Subject Men and Women equals as far as sexism
I decided to research men and sexist jokes. I had no
problems today, I used Yahoo and was successful. I used
the search terms: men, sexist, jokes; sexist jokes. I
was hoping to find some data supporting the idea that
sexist jokes are offensive and are childish. What I
found was interesting. I found that as far as sexist
jokes, there are just as many sexist men jokes as there
ae sexist woman jokes. Here are some of the web sites I
visited:
http://www.day-tripper.net/shopwine-joke.html http://www.maxpages.com/foxyfun/sexist_jokes http://www.excelex.net/~jayssite/Jokes/Dating_and_Sexist_Jokes/dating_and_sexist_jokes.html http://www.geocities.com/donskin/sexistmen.htmMy favorite of the sites, is the last one. I really find
the men jokes not only funny but true. As far as the
jokes that men find funny...well let's just say they're
tasteless and stupid, but what else can you really
expect. Although I don't agree with sexism, the jokes
are equally sexist and are just for a good laugh. The
problem is, that there is a time and a place for jokes
like these. Places like work and school they can be
concidered harassment, and although the jokes are just
for fun you never know who may take offence to it.
Message no. 434
Thursday, February 27, 2003 6:42pm
Subject Ignorance is gettin' pricy
I started with yahoo and ended with google in my search
for what others have said about how men benefit from
telling sexist jokes about women. I used the keywords:
benefit and "sexist jokes" in both searches. I found an
article at
http://members.aol.com/jamesautry/lp-exec.htm. Writtenby a man (James A. Autry), this article discusses
telling sexist jokes specifically in the workplace. He
tells readers about, although men and women usually
always agree on when a sexist joke is being made, that
women should be "flattered" or be able to recognize and
laugh at the derogatory joke because it is, after all,
"just a joke." The most intelligent observation made by
Autry is how men have difficulty, when they see a woman
in a skirt or something (not that it matters what she's
wearing), separating a woman's desire to be attractive
and have a sexual identity with her desire to maintain
sexual privacy. This means no gestures, looks, jokes,
comments--NOTHING. As a woman, I know that it is so
important to be able to go through your day without
men--young and old alike--degrading me in some fashion.
I don't think I've had a day without this since I was 11
or 12 years old. That's a long time people. I think we
need to look at every single joke made and ask ourselves
who is at the expense of the punchline. Autry also
points out that for too many men, a woman's sexuality
can exist only in the context of being a commodity for
men. This article addresses some important issues
about men's power issues and predatorial cores and I
suggest having a look.
Message no. 710[Branch from no. 434]
Saturday, April 5, 2003 7:44pm
Subject Re: Ignorance is gettin' pricy
i couldn't find the page...clicked the link, but nothing
came up.
something i would like to comment on is what it sounded
like you were saying. it seems to me that this site,
and your post, are talking more about the issue of
sexual harrasment. i think that there is a difference
between sexual harrasment, and a sexist joke. sexual
harassment is a comment or "joke" that is directed or
fashioned about a specific person, normally one in the
area. (hooting and hollaring at a female, or male,
joking about someones attractiveness...etc) i agree,
these are not joking matters, especially in a
work/professional environment. they are degrading, and
are not intended to do anything other than that!
however, i still believe that the sexist joke (ie: men
are dumb, watch sports and drink beer....or....women are
moody, and emotional) can have a valuable insight to the
other sex. while they are jokes, and many of them
pretty cruel, they are also based on an exageration of
the truth. no, not all men are dumb, beer drinking,
couch slugs...and not all women are moody and
emotional...however, its funny to hear about the people
who are. and if you aren't one of these people, why
sweat it. even if you are...dont take yourself so
seriously. laugh, relax, and have fun...but
remember...if you're going to joke about others, be
prepared to be the butt of someone else's joke too!!
Message no. 443
Friday, February 28, 2003 7:03am
Subject not a laughing matter?
i found this site through google.com. I had a
relatively easy time finding the site once i got through
the garbage jokes. I used the words Sexism and jokes to
search.
http://www.west.asu.edu/paloverde/Paloverde2001/jokes.The article i found was part of a thesis paper written
by a woman about how sexist jokes may seem funny to some
but the affects of them echo throughout that persons
life. Those jokes begin to affect working conditions,
communications and hurt the persons overall selfworth.
Jokes are for the most part are good things but people
can use and abuse them as with anything else. Jokes are
a powerful part of socialization and can be used to get
groups to believe they are higher or better than others
which can affect peoples perceptions of any one
individual.
Message no. 514[Branch from no. 443]
Sunday, March 9, 2003 2:09pm
Subject Re: not a laughing matter?
Reading your posting I just had to laugh, come on "jokes
can be used to get groups to believe they are higher or
better than others"? Please, that is ridiculous. Jokes
are just that a joke, something that is supposed to be
funny and taken lightly. Maybe those people who seem to
take offence to them should lighten up and discover that
the joke is not a way to make someone feel superior, but
a way to make someone smile. Although I agree that there
is a time and place for every thing, choose wisely!
Message no. 769[Branch from no. 514]
Wednesday, April 9, 2003 9:11pm
Subject Re: not a laughing matter?
yes, jokes are funny becuase that is what they are meant
to do, but the whole reason that they are offensive is
because people don't see how humiliating they can be.
I'm sure that if you had a really good racist joke about
Native Americans, a really dirty one, you wouldn't tell
people that joke if there were any Native Americans
around. The same thing goes for sexist jokes. If you
know a joke but it is so bad that you wouldn't tell
someone, who the joke is aimed at making fun of, that
specific joke, then you know it isn't always just for
fun. Tell all of your friends because they will think
the joke is funny, but not everyone who hears jokes,
especially those who it is about will think that it is
funny at all.
Message no. 468
Sunday, March 2, 2003 8:12pm
Subject The truth behind the laugh
For this research topic I used the search engine google.
I used google because I am always able to find good and
useful information relevant to my topic. The search
phrase that I used was "sexist jokes." I did not have
any problems with this search because I found a good
amount of links on my first attempt. The web address
for the site I used is:
http://www.geocities.com/Wellesley/5819/menstop3.htmlIn this article I found that men who tell sexist jokes
are usually trying to build themselves up at the expense
of women. I was shoked to learn that sexists jokes may
give rapists men more inspiration and motivation to rape
and abuse women. I think that it is pathetic how some
men need to make sexist jokes just to feel better about
themselves. That just goes to show how shallow some men
can be.
Message no. 560[Branch from no. 468]
Tuesday, March 18, 2003 8:25am
Subject Re: The truth behind the laugh
Regarding Gails search:
I don't agree with the article about how men who tell
sexist jokes are trying to build themselves up at womens
expense. Men tell jokes because they are funny AND
women tell jokes for the same reason. Majority of my
male friends who tell sexist jokes are good guys. They
just tell them because they read or hear it from
somewhere and thought it was funny. Infact, my female
friend knows more male sexist jokes than my male friends
knowing female sexist jokes.
Message no. 660[Branch from no. 468]
Wednesday, April 2, 2003 10:14pm
Subject Re: The truth behind the laugh
The kind of men that need to degrade women just to get a
laugh or boost their own self esteem are sick. I think
that some men take it too far. It is shocking to hear
that sexist jokes are reasons why women are abused and
raped out there.
Message no. 692[Branch from no. 468]
Friday, April 4, 2003 7:12am
Subject Re: The truth behind the laugh
lol...did none of your searching turn of sexist jokes
about men, and thus lead to how "shallow" women can be?
This is a great topic to explore both sides of, I'm
willing to bet that sexist jokes are almost as
prevelant, if not equally prevelant, among men as women,
we just tend to be a heck of alot more vocal about them.
Message no. 502
Friday, March 7, 2003 1:22pm
Subject Email Joke
Hey everyone,
I just wanted to share a joke I received on an email.
Enjoy (OR NOT)....
> > A language instructor was explaining to her class that
> > in French, nouns, unlike their English counterparts,
> > are grammatically designated as masculine or feminine.
> >
> > "House," in French, is feminine-"la maison."
> > "Pencil," in French, is masculine-"le crayon."
> >
> > One puzzled student asked, "What gender is computer?"
> > The teacher did not know, and the word wasn't in her French
> > dictionary. So for fun she split the class into two groups,
> > appropriately enough by gender, and asked them to decide whether
> > "computer" should be a masculine or feminine noun. Both groups were
> > required to give four reasons for their recommendation.
> >
> > The men's group decided that computers should definitely be of the
> > feminine gender ("la computer"), because:
> >
> > 1. No one but their creator understands their internal logic. 2. The
> > native language they use to communicate with other computers
> > is incomprehensible to everyone else
> > 3. Even the smallest mistakes are stored in long-term memory for
> > possible later retrieval
> > 4. As soon as you make a commitment to one, you find yourself spending
> > half your pay check on accessories for it.
> >
> > The women's group, however, concluded that computers should be
> > masculine ("le computer"), because:
> >
> > 1. In order to get their attention, you have to turn them on; 2. They
> > have a lot of data but they are still clueless 3. They are supposed to
>
> > help you solve problems, but half the time
> > they ARE the problem
> > 4. As soon as you commit to one, you realize that if you'd waited
> > a little longer, you could have gotten a better model.
> >
> > The Women Won
Message no. 827[Branch from no. 502]
Monday, April 14, 2003 8:31pm
Subject Re: Email Joke
I had read this before and it made me laugh,reading it
the second time around doesn't make it less funny. I
believe that these sexit jokes do have some truth and
that's why they're funny.
Message no. 504
Friday, March 7, 2003 2:34pm
Subject Why are sexist jokes funny?
I used MSN and search words: Why are sexist jokes funny.
The only problem I had was finding the majority of
jokes sites but not enough on why we tell and find
sexist jokes funny. I finally came across a BBC artilce.
The address is
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/special_report/1998/10/98/office_life/206514.stmWhile it touched on the many types of jokes sent the
main focus was on how companies are becoming more strict
with e-mail which will lead to lesser sexist jokes being
rotated. The article also discussed the dangers for
companies and examples of companies being sued. "Oil
giant Chevron had to pay out $2.2m - at £1.3m, three
times the amount Norwich Union paid for libel - after a
female employee complained of sexual harassment when she
found sexist jokes under the heading "why beer is better
than women". There were also plenty of sites that
suppored sexist jokes not only for men but for women
also. Claiming it is harmless fun. Some sexist joke
sites are:
http://www.jokeemail.com/old/sexist.htm http://www.lifeisajoke.com/menvwomen10_html.htmMessage no. 743[Branch from no. 504]
Monday, April 7, 2003 12:38pm
Subject Re: Why are sexist jokes funny?
When I searched this topic I found alot of sites with
sexist jokes. There was know sites that explained why
they were funny. The only information found was hundreds
of sites dealing with male and female jokes.
I think they are funny because society makes them funny.
Men and women like talking about the other sex
Message no. 964[Branch from no. 504]
Sunday, May 4, 2003 10:14pm
Subject Re: Why are sexist jokes funny?
I guess sex is a "touchy" subject in American.
Therefore, I don't want to speak my mind about sex
because someone may find it be offensive and sue me
since people can and are sueing each other for
anything!!! hehe.
Message no. 507
Friday, March 7, 2003 3:49pm
Subject Sexist Humor
I started my search in the American Psychological
Associations Monitor web based publishing databank.
After that I went to Google and typed in jokes+sexual
harrassment. The results were enormous and had to be
sifted through to get rid of sites that were just
composed of jokes. In the APA Monitor,
http://www.apa.org/monitor/jul98/ harass.html, researchhas found that men telling sexist jokes affects them
directly by the influence it has on the whole work
environment.
For a different point of view I found a site that
has a posting board for stories and emails.
http://www.prairielaw.com/messageboards/chnl21/mbrd18/msg136411.asp,contained a story about a woman who encountered
workplace harrassment. It was interesting because even
though she was in the process of pursuing actions, she
sounded like she has already lost.
Message no. 607
Sunday, March 23, 2003 9:22pm
Subject funny or insulting?
My topic is on why men think sexist jokes are amusing.
I began my first search by using
http://www.skworm.com Iused the phrase:why do men like sexist jokes? I found
an article that supports that men tell sexist jokes just
as a form of entertainment. There was no problem in
finding this article.
http://www.bgnews.com/vnews/display.v/ART/2003/02/14/3e4d0186dbc19The title of this is "Don't take sexist jokes so
seriously." The man who wrote this is a humor columnist
and he thinks that women shouldn't be offended by sexist
jokes because it is only a joke. He address that men
don't get worked up when a male sterotype is used
because they don't take it personally. On the other
hand he goes on to state that women are a different
matter. Women do get offended and he thinks it's petty
and meaningless to take jokes about women seriously.
My second search was a contrast to the first. I used
the same search engine above, but this time using the
phrase:men against sexist jokes. No problems occured in
this search as well. I found this site
http://www.undp.org/rblac/gender/mens.htm which is aboutThe White Ribbon Campaign (Men working to end men's
violence against women). Subsection #5 deals with
sexist jokes and men. It encourages men to challenge
other men using sexist language and jokes which are
demaning to women. The site says that sexist jokes and
language could be one of the many catalysts that leads
to violence against women.
Both these articles give their view on this matter.
Although some women won't get offended by these jokes
there are always going to be one's that do. This should
make men become more sensitive with what they say around
women.
Message no. 736[Branch from no. 607]
Monday, April 7, 2003 8:43am
Subject Re: funny or insulting?
Regrading Marie's search:
I would have to agree with the first article. Most
jokes that do happen to be sexist are just for laughs.
Some women do need to relax because the jokes itself is
not directed to any particular women. But of course,
there are some occasions where males do take it a little
far and has nothing to do with what females do.
Message no. 656
Wednesday, April 2, 2003 1:16pm
Subject Morals and Values anyone?
When we speak about Sexist jokes, depending who you
are, you may react differently. Me? I couldn't care
less because it doesn't affect my view of women. Why?
Morals and Values. You might say I was taught well and
had a good upbringing. But it goes beyond that, I make
the conscious choice to stick to my own morals and keep
all of my values in line. For most of those jokes
that piss feminists off all of the time, I laugh. Why
laugh if you know it's wrong, you might ask? I laugh
BECAUSE I know it is wrong! And I understand.
Understanding is the key. Understanding any joke makes
the joke funny. If you have to explain it, then it's
not a joke and not as funny. Understanding what is
right and what is wrong is another thing that should be
required, but this is the issue at hand.
There are things that play against it. You know,
anything bad in our lives. These little things that
keep us in line, keep us going. These things are Morals
and Values and countless other constructs. Fantasy/
simulations, videogame violence, cartoon material, road
rage, naughty jokes-- you name it. The truth lies in
the conscious decision to follow what you were
taught,what you know, and laugh at what you are not.
For those who don't know of what I speak, I don't expect
you to understand.
Morals and values anyone? Oh you don't need to
know how it all pans out statistically. Using logic you
should know that if everyone (or at least the majority
of the population) lacked morals and values then we
would all be dead. Or suffering at the least. The few
rotten apples out there do ruin the bunch, sometimes.
Sometimes some people don't understand.
Message no. 672
Thursday, April 3, 2003 8:53pm
Subject laugh at this...
i mean it...laugh! i'm very interested in why it is
that people cant take a simple joke about themselves, or
a group they belong to, and just laugh. if there's one
thing that we have in hawaii, it is diversity. and with
that diversity comes "generalizations" and jokes about
those "generalizations." fillipinos can't match
clothes, portugese talk too much, and chinese are tight
with their money. we all laugh at these jokes, but when
it comes to the "sexes," everyone seems to get very
touchy. why?...its FUNNY!!!
look at this site:
http://jokeemailer.hypermart.net/sexist/sexist6.htmit is just one of the many sexist jokes it has, against
both men and women. this particular one is against
men...its a training schedule for men, and how to
"domesticate" them. its true, some, if not most, men
don't understand how to do these things. thats why its
funny...but if we cant laugh at ourselves, then our
civilization is on its fast slope towards it end.
laugh...its healthy for you!
Message no. 685
Friday, April 4, 2003 12:19am
Subject understanding each other
this article was both funny and interesting. i found
while searching on google. i used the words meaning of
sexist jokes.
http://www.the-hud.co.uk/sexist.htmI got a site from a womens handbook that helps everyone
understand each other in a creative and humorous way.
This is quite an interesting site. The contents are
mostly jokes but it deciphers them in to how each sex
things about the words they are using. The language we
use is to most of us trying to hide the truth of what we
as men really want to say. this site puts in to comedic
terms which i think is a great way to decipher why men
make these jokes towards women. It also gives woman a
view that may make them understand the base of mens
jokes and help them as well as the men to understand
what each other means when they say silly jokes.
Message no. 704[Branch from no. 685]
Friday, April 4, 2003 8:52pm
Subject Re: understanding each other
Hi Stefan,
I agree with you that the article was "funny and
interesting." It was pretty long, but it was worth it to
go through most of it. I guess it made me laugh because
I could relate to some of the things listed.
I think being able to relate/identify with things makes
these situations/conversations involving males and
females funny. That's why many sexist jokes are funny -
because we can relate to them or think of someone who
does.
Message no. 722
Sunday, April 6, 2003 3:08am
Subject sexism and sexist jokes
I was searching for information on the effects and
prevalance of sexist jokes towards women in our society.
I used Google(suprise!) to search for sexism+joke+men
and was rewarded with multiple results with exactly what
I was looking for(boy im gettin good at this).
http://weblog.burningbird.net/fires/000810.htm The firstsite was an article from a feminists point of view on
sexisst jokes and what steps should be taken by women to
protest these types of jokes.
http://www.kstatecollegian.com/issues/v103/fa/n052/news/cam.derry.cowdrey.htmlThe second discusses the power trip that some men tend
to get around women; rape and sexist jokes are
supposedly part of this.
Personally I think sexist jokes are hilarious,even those
made about men. Its a good way to discover all the
stereo types of both genders, plus a good way for guys
and girls to share a laugh among themselves. The first
article tells that "Sexist jokes are the number one way
to drive women out of any group, and they are more
common than many people realize." This article is
written by a feminist, so it may be a tad more hardcore
than most women."Women keep silent when we see sexist
jokes because if we protest, we will immediately be
attacked for being over-sensitive, uptight, or a
"feminazi." This is not totally true, I for one realize
that some sexist jokes may be quite offensive to certain
women and if a woman asks me not to tell them I am more
than happy to comply The second article says that
"...men could be brought in from all over the world, and
they would have nothing in common, except that they feel
superior to women...This male cultural phenomenon is
taught while men are young..." Some men do feel superior
to women, but I do not believe they think they are
better than women, merely that men are on average
physically stronger than women.
Message no. 724
Sunday, April 6, 2003 2:03pm
Subject sexist jokes and men
I looked up sexist joes on www.yahoo.com. Most of the
websites that came up were jokes for men about women.
There were very few jokes for women about men. This in
itself shows the bias that men find these jokes more
humourous, they seem to be obsessed with them. I found
one website that has an article about not taking sexist
jokes so seriously. It is written by a man, telling
women to not get angry about these jokes, but to throw
out jokes about men in retaliation. You can view this
article at
http://www.bgnews.com/vnews/display.v/ART/2003/02/14/3e4d0186dbc19.Message no. 965
Sunday, May 4, 2003 10:38pm
Subject jokes
I found this article searching the search engine
http://www.findarticles.com typing in the phase: sexistjokes and Google typing in the same phase.
Findarticles.com is a really good website because it
searchs "journals of research" plus they tend to be more
scholarly then the ones you find over google.
I did this search because I wanted to find information
about this topic since it sounded interesting. However,
while I was searching for information on google, all I
could find were numerous pages of sex jokes sites. Here
are a few that I found:
http://www.funnyjokes.com and http://www.lotsofjokes.comWhile I searched findarticles.com. I found this article
http://www.findarticles.com/cf_0/m2294/n5-6_v38/20749201/p1/article.jhtml?Term=sexist+jokesTHis article discusses how age and gender influences
attitudes towards sexist/nonsexist language in sports
and nonsports. This article is 12 pages long and was
written on March 1, 1998.
I found the findarticle.com article very interesting.
It deals with a lot of issues that are present in our
society.
Overall, these search engines caused no problems and
helped me find at least one article that I could use in
my bibliography report.
Message no. 1002
Tuesday, May 6, 2003 11:43pm
Subject sexist jokes used to exclude women
My topic is why men find sexist jokes about women
amusing? I used the search engine:
http://www.google.com with the phrase: why sexist jokesamusing to men? The search went well.
http://www.adelaide.edu.au/equity/reports/archives/MascEng.htmlI found a study done by in the Ausralasian Journal of
Engineering Education. The article is shown on the
University of Adlaide in Australia's website. This
article shows the degree to which masculinity is
involved with male engineering students in Australia.
Under #2 The Rituals of Inclusion and Exclusion there is
a subsection about sexist and sexual jokes. They found
that some of the students interviewed said if women want
to fit in engineering they have to put up with the
joking and join in as well. Using sexist jokes male
students in engineering potentially hinder and exclude
women from full and equal participation.
Message no. 1036
Thursday, May 8, 2003 10:05am
Subject "good fun" or "sexual harassment"
I used Google to search for this topic using keywords
"sexist jokes"+"offensive". I have no problem finding
the research paper below on sexual humor:
below:
http://www.ilstu.edu/~mhemmas/sexual_and_sexist_humor_SHRM-PROP.htmIn this article, Hemmasi and Graf cited Mitchell's
findings which indicated that gender-related differences
in appreciation of humor can be conditioned by the
gender of the joke-teller. Women, for instance, tend to
find rape jokes funny when told by other women. But
when these jokes are told by men, they tend to associate
with the fear of being a rape victim and thus do not
think of the jokes as humorous but offensive.
Another finding which is contrary to many previous
studies is that a survey of college students (Johnson,
1991) reported that men and women did not generally
differ in telling sexual and aggressive jokes.
Humor, as stated by the paper, is a situation-dependent
phenomenon, and is affected by the group setting. Male
college students have been found to augment or totally
suppress their laughter depending on the response of
females present in the group.
All in all, I do not find sexist jokes that offensive,
but if I did and the joke-teller respond by stopping at
once, I think it's okay.
5. COCA-COLA WITH ASPRIN
Message no. 52
Friday, January 24, 2003 2:23pm
Subject A Little bit of truth
I began this search in attempts to find some proof that
disolving aspirin in Coca-Cola will get a person high,
or at least have some effect. I began my search on
Google with the phrase "coca-cola + aspirin + high." I
found a lot of information and almost all of it
concluded that this statement was a false urban legend.
It was very difficult to find any website, no matter how
unscholarly, that tried to claim it was true. I
expected to find many postings on the web claiming its
validity, just for fun, and to preserve the legend.
Another fact that I was surprised I did not find any
information about was the "high-like" effect that
Coca-Cola can give on its own. Some people have an
extremely low caffeine tolerance due to their low intake
of it. When one of these people have a coke (don't even
think about Mountain Dew) their bodily response to the
amount of caffeine can make them act irritable, hyper,
and disorientated, just like some people can be when
they are high. I have had first-hand experience with
this happening to a member of my family.
One website did tell me a small amount of history behind
this urban legend's claim:
www.jiskha.com/health/substance_abuse/aspirin.html
Apparently, ten years ago there were television ads that
claimed the combination of coca-cola and aspirin gave a
"buzz." This led to many fatal over-doses and aspirin
was listed as the drug of choice in suicide attempts in
1985.
I was not satisfied with the lack of proof that I found
so I began to look at health websites. One of which is:
http://jhhs.client.web-health.com/web-health/topics/Medications/aspirinThis is a website that examined the effects of caffiene
with aspirin. Caffeine is a major ingredient in
Coca-cola and it does have an effect on aspirin which is
an analgesic. Caffeine enhances the analgesic
properties of salicylates and possibly speeds their
effects. Therefore, though this combination may not
make a person "high" it can cause the normal effects of
aspirin to occur faster and slightly stronger.
There have been very few studies on the effects of
taking medications with caffeinated drinks, such as
coca-cola, so there was little evidence to prove how
true this urban legend may be. Even so, there seems to
be a small bit of truth to the claim that Coca-Cola and
aspirin will get you high. It won't actually get you
high, but it will affect you in some way beyond what you
might usually expect.
Message no. 148[Branch from no. 52]
Monday, February 3, 2003 9:40pm
Subject Re: A Little bit of truth
I read Renae Mendez's froum discussion on the effects of
Coca-cola mixed with aspirin. I thought that this was a
very informative research effort through the tool of the
internet. I was very doubtful about this 'urban legend'
as she calls it, and my skepticism was not diffused.
From all of her research, it is clear that there is no
proof of a high associated with Coca-cola and aspirin.
I realize that this does not conclusively equate to the
fact that there is no effect, but it substantially backs
my previous hypothesis.
Message no. 328[Branch from no. 52]
Monday, February 17, 2003 1:59pm
Subject Re: A Little bit of truth
Wow this research really made me feel that I am so
uninformed about these things. I have heard of other
urban legends such as eating a Poppy seed bagel will
make you test positive for drugs. I have also heard
that eating those pop crack candies with soda might lead
to death. Other than that, I have never heard of
combining aspirin with coke.
I think it's ridiculous to think that coke with aspirin
might cause death. I do agree that since caffeine is
the main component of coke, the caffeine and aspirin
combination can cause the normal effects of aspirin to
be slightly stronger. Therefore, there might be some
slight truth to this urban legend that coke with aspirin
will make you high, but not realistically for
everyone....maybe just the feeling or belief of being
high, but not actually being "high".
Message no. 333[Branch from no. 328]
Monday, February 17, 2003 9:15pm
Subject Re: A Little bit of truth
I took organic chemistry a few semesters back and my
professor said that poppy seeds will make you test
postive in taking a drug test because morphine and
heroin are derivatives of what they are testing
for...however, I still hear that it is an urban
legend...who knows...maybe you could do some research on
it.
Message no. 376[Branch from no. 52]
Friday, February 21, 2003 1:11pm
Subject Re: A Little bit of truth
So apparently the Media played a major role in
disseminating the "Coca Cola + Aspirin = HIGH"
propaganda. You did not indicate whether it was the Coca
Cola company that sponsored the TV ads or an aspirin
company. I would guess that an aspirin company would be
the likely source; Coca Cola has too much credibility to
lose on obviously illegitimate claims.
Message no. 63
Friday, January 24, 2003 4:56pm
Subject can you get high with coca-cola and aspirin?
I was searching to see if it was true or false about
coca-cola with aspirin can get you high. I used the
search engine google and typed in the words "coca-cola
with aspirin". I didn't encounter any problems while I
was searching. The website I found was
www.snopes.com/cokelore/aspirin.asp
On this website I found out the truth about this urban
legend. Apparently, combining aspirin with coca-cola
does NOT make you high. Nor is it a hang-over cure or
an aprodisiac.
Message no. 103[Branch from no. 63]
Thursday, January 30, 2003 3:20pm
Subject Re: can you get high with coca-cola and aspirin?
Aloha Alicia- I had never heard of this urban legend
until now and it dumbfounds me concerning how it got
started. Next thing you'll hear is that mixing chocolate
milk and banana leaves will make one hallucinate! In my
personal experience no drug like effect held in urban
lore has effected my senses to the extent of what it
claims. Smoking banana leaves only gets you light
headed (which any type of leaf probably would do if you
smoked it), oysters,although extensively delicious, does
not get me horny, and mixing gaurana and friut loops
does not influence me to run all day. These acts of
potion-making should be left to the minority who look
for any conceivable way to alter their minds and/or
moods.Bye.
Message no. 286[Branch from no. 103]
Friday, February 14, 2003 12:23pm
Subject Re: can you get high with coca-cola and aspirin?
I had not heard of this legend either. I wanted to
comment on the oyster thing though because a student in
my ethology class is actually doing an experiment with
sea anemones and how eating oysters affects their
reproductivity. So that might not be such a myth. It
might make you more fertile, not necessearily more horny.
Message no. 350[Branch from no. 286]
Wednesday, February 19, 2003 5:36pm
Subject Re: can you get high with coca-cola and aspirin?
The oyster thing interested me. I agree that it might
not make you horney, but it could very well have
something to do with fertility. There is a flower called
the ilima (I don't know how it is spelled correctly) but
it helps fertility.
Message no. 344[Branch from no. 63]
Wednesday, February 19, 2003 12:17am
Subject Re: can you get high with coca-cola and aspirin?
Of course it's not true. I could see how people who
know nothing about science or chemistry could believe
it, but to most people nowadays it should seem
inherently ludicrous. Or maybe not. In high school I
freaked my stupid girlfriend out by putting pop rocks in
my mouth and then drinking Coke. She literally freaked
out and begged me not to do it. I'm sorry, but man was
she dumb. Maybe it goes to show that some people will
believe anything.
I think what's really interesting about the whole Coke
phenomenon is that it actually used to have cocaine in
it. You may think that I'm retarded as just as dumb as
the people who think Coke and aspirin will get you high,
but look it up. That was back before the media and
government freaked out and outlawed everything.
Message no. 345[Branch from no. 344]
Wednesday, February 19, 2003 11:53am
Subject Re: can you get high with coca-cola and aspirin?
Roderic is right. Coke did have cocaine in it. I
remember learning it from several teachers. Here are
two sites from two different places that you can check
out:
http://www.snopes.com/cokelore/cocaine.asp http://www.foodreference.com/html/fcocacola.htmlIt's good that Roderic pointed it out and I'm just
merely supporting his claim, not posting up a research
topic. Now we see a new side, a side that tells us,
"hey, maybe that's why there was this belief of coke
and aspirin getting you high. Coke had cocaine; cocaine
makes you high. So if you take aspirin and something
that makes you high, then it's likely that you'll get
high anyway."
Message no. 465[Branch from no. 63]
Saturday, March 1, 2003 3:27pm
Subject Re: can you get high with coca-cola and aspirin?
I also used the same web site and found another at
http://www.jiskha.com/health/substance_abuse/aspirin.htmlthis article states that like 10 years ago, by combining
coca cola with aspirin would get people high and that
many "idiotic" people would end up overdosing from
aspirin. Talk about retarded.
Message no. 515[Branch from no. 63]
Sunday, March 9, 2003 5:56pm
Subject Re: can you get high with coca-cola and aspirin?
Although I have never heard about this myth, I really do
not think that by combining these two substances it
would make a person high. Maybe for a person that has a
low tolerance for caffine it might alter their mood a
litlle, but other than that I do not think it would
affect a person very much.
Message no. 69
Friday, January 24, 2003 9:23pm
Subject not so
This is the third time I've tried to post this, so
I'll be rather brief this time around. First I
visited Coke's website. Here I found a myths/rumours
section,
http://www2.coca-cola.com/contactus/myths_rumors/index.htmlbut nothing the rumour that coke and asprin mix to form
a psychoactive substance. This suggests that the rumour
isn't even common enough to warrent a response.
http://www.snopes.com/cokelore/aspirin.asp was somewhatmore helpful. Here I found some background to the myth,
and, more importantly, a refutation of it. I was unable
to find anything that appeared to corroborate the claim
anywhere.
http://www.haematologica.it/e-letters/past/2001_29.htmlThe closest I came was an article concerning a case of
anemia related to high levels of aspirin and coke
intake. There was no reference to any psychoactive
effects, however, so while interesting, this led
nowhere.
It seems that this isn't a very common myth, as there
was not much information to be had. What information
there is, however, was all contrary to the claim. This
suggests the rumour was just that.
Message no. 77
Sunday, January 26, 2003 9:15pm
Subject will it kill you?
The answer is no, drinking down an aspirin with coke
will not kill you and if it was I would be dead a long
time ago. It's a little urban legend that some
highschool kids probably picked up. I went to some
websites and they all confirmed that it is a false myth.
One of the websites are:
http://www.snopes.com/cokelore/aspirin.aspMessage no. 709[Branch from no. 77]
Saturday, April 5, 2003 7:36pm
Subject Re: will it kill you?
thank you donna...now i can drink coke and take asprin
without worrying about any sort of horrible death coming
to me. unless my mother spikes my coke with rat poison
again...i hate it when she does that ;)
Message no. 78
Sunday, January 26, 2003 9:18pm
Subject my response to "a little bit of truth"
I'm surprised at how thorough you were with your
research. I guess some of your findings could be right,
especially dealing with the chemicals and stuff, but I
think for the most of it the claim is false. Maybe it
might make you a little bit more hyper then you usually
would be with the asprin and the caffeine mixed in you
system but, not high.
Message no. 81
Sunday, January 26, 2003 9:51pm
Subject Research topic message: "Is there any validity to combining Coca-Cola and aspirin?"
For this week's research topic I chose to find out
whether or not a "high" can be produced by combining
Coca-Cola with household aspirin. My first search was
through Google.com in which I used the phrase "coke with
aspirin" to find related material. This search produced
7,830 "hits" out of which only one site
(www.snopes.com/cokelore/aspirin.asp)in my opinion was
relavant.
From what I gathered, the whole Coke and aspirin thing
is an urban legend. There wasn't anything really
substantial to lead me to believe otherwise. The actual
process of doing the search went well though. My search
did produce over seven thousand mishits, but the site I
ended up using was first on the list.
For the second search I chose to use Ask Jeeves which is
a search engine that enables you to literally ask a
question. My question was "does combining Coke with
aspirin produce a high?". Again I recieved an excess of
unrelated topics having to do with either just Coke or
just aspirin. There was one site
(
http://getty.net/texts/drugs.txt), however, thatrefuted the notion of a supposed high.
Message no. 108
Thursday, January 30, 2003 11:22pm
Subject Coca-Cola with aspirin
In my opinion, I don't think that combining C0ca-Cola
and aspirin will get you high. In this search, I tried
to look for the evidence against this claim. I used the
terms "Coca-Cola with aspirin." I found some information
using the Google. I had no problem finding them.
I am not sure how reliable this site is, but the person
who wrote this site actually experimented with Coca-Cola
and aspirin himsself. He said it didn't make him high
or faint after all.
http://groups.google.com/groups?q=coca-cola+with+aspirin&hl=en&lr=&ie=UTF-8&selm=6ivvj1%24r2q%247%40nntp1.ba.best.com&rnum=1This site also mentions that there is no evidence that
Cola-Cola with aspirin will make you high.
http://groups.google.com/groups?q=coca-cola+with+aspirin&hl=en&lr=&ie=UTF-8&selm=6ickts%245p6%40examiner.concentric.net&rnum=2Message no. 149
Monday, February 3, 2003 10:04pm
Subject why I'm in college!
call me naive, but i'd never heard of the coke and
aspirin trick until this class. that's why i'm in
college! i typed in 'coke and aspirin' on yahoo and i
got an assortment of good, bad and indifferent sites.
some sites were about people's personal experiences with
C&A, some were about myths and other things and a few
were actually scientific.
a website with actual information is
healthcentral.com/peoplespharmacy/pp_guides/PDF/aspirin.pdf
entitled Key Aspirin Information. this had interesting
facts such as 'humans consume 80 million aspirins
daily.' that's a lot. it also deflated such myths as
coke and aspirin as an aphrodisiac.
all i have to say is how random is this topic?! that,
and i laughed totally hard at some of the personal
stories on the web about when people tried coke and
aspirin. for what it's worth, it's pretty funny.
Message no. 171[Branch from no. 149]
Tuesday, February 4, 2003 11:01pm
Subject Re: why I'm in college!
Don't worry, I have never heard of it either. But, I
heard from somebody that the aspirin will work faster
with coffee (caffein) than without it. I wonder if it
is true. In any case, caffein in coke or coffee can
become addictive and harmful to health if you consume
too much.
Message no. 615[Branch from no. 149]
Wednesday, March 26, 2003 10:04pm
Subject Re: why I'm in college!
You know I never heard of C&A either but God bless the
people that come up with this stuff. Think of all the
stuff that we as a people would have missed out on if
somebody didn't take the time to at least try. Things
like rum and Coke, Coke floats, or even Cherry Coke
would be nonexistent if not for that first guy to try it
all. So I would like to take this time to say thank you
first guy! Even though not everything you came up with
worked we still appreciate the effort.
Message no. 189
Thursday, February 6, 2003 4:28pm
Subject Another Urban Legend
I reseached The topic of Coca-Cola and Aspirin. The search terms I used were just that: Coca-Cola, Aspirin. There were quite a few matches. I chose the first match that included both of the key words. The search engine I used was MSN, and it worked very well. Here are the web sites that I visited on this topic:
http://www.snopes.com/cokelore/aspirin.asp http://www.snopes.com/sources/cokelore/cokelore.htm
The idea of mixing Coca-Cola and Aspirin has been said to make you high. It may also cause instant death or act as an aphrodisiac. Well, according to my research all of these theories are false. Nothing more than an old' wives tale or if you prefere, an urban legend. This silly rumor may have started in the 1930's by a doctor who wrote in a journal about teenagers who were dissolving the pills in their Cokes to make an intoxicating drink. The sites I visited say the doctor had no basis for writing the false rumor in the first place. This urban legend was so popular it made it's way into one of my all time favorite movies... Grease!
Message no. 251[Branch from no. 189]
Wednesday, February 12, 2003 4:51pm
Subject Re: Another Urban Legend
Although it shouldn't come as a surprise to anybody that
coke and aspirin do nothing but maybe simultaneously
cure a headache and caffinate you, I liked the
information on your suggested websites. As long as
people are bored, I guess they'll eternally search for a
cheap and legal high--banana peels...I even heard tree
bark when I was in middle school. I don't know what's
wrong with people, but I'm kind of embarrassed for our
species sometimes.
Message no. 274
Thursday, February 13, 2003 10:05pm
Subject Mixing=Buzz?
I didn't run into much trouble finding relevent
articles concerning this topic. I went to Yahoo.com and
entered: Coca cola, Aspirin and Side effects as my
search words. There were thirty-two articles to choose
from and the only dilemma I ran into was which articles
to pick. I ended up deciding on these two:
www.improvingsex.com/articles/romance/aphrodisiacs.myth.magic.htm
www.jiskha.com/health/substance_abuse/aspirin.html
The overall impression I got from these two articles is
that the rumors of getting high and getting horny are
both unsubstantiated. Completing this search task made
we aware of these rumors for the first time. According
to the first website the rumors began in the 1930's and
was induced by the American Medical Association who
stated that coke and aspirin were similar to hard core
narcotics and that they were very addictive. This was
found to be untrue but led to a wave of teenagers
combining the two with the goal of getting high. There
was also a wide held belief that combining these two
results in a mixture which is an apphrodisiac for young
women. There is no evidence of euphoric sensations but
studies have found that the two combined are good for
hangovers. Seemingly the caffein in the coke increases
the effect of the aspirin. The second website was a
little more depressing. It referred to television ads 20
years ago which stated that if taken together these two
components would lead to a "buzz". This faulty reasoning
led to an abundance of overdoses soon after and by 1985
morphed into the drug of choice for suicide attempts.
This goes to show how misinformation combined with
thought processes and behaviors of immature minds can
lead to lives lost.
Message no. 359[Branch from no. 274]
Thursday, February 20, 2003 11:49am
Subject Re: Mixing=Buzz?
First of all I have to admit that I found the claim that
asprin and coke gets you high was kind of silly. But
then again it is a drug and maybe if taken in large
enough doses with soda it could produce a similar high
effect. I don't know. It was kind of scary to find out
that people have actually died from this combination and
have even used this as a method of suicide.
Message no. 301
Sunday, February 16, 2003 9:15am
Subject Intoxicating Mixture
I'm soo behind!
Message no. 302
Sunday, February 16, 2003 9:32am
Subject Intoxicating Mixture (2)
I just did a basic search for proof of the claim
that Coca-Cola and aspirin will get you "high". The
answer: No people, it dosn't work, there are better
ways to get high! It was suprising to see, when looking
into the website further, how many urban legends have
been engrained into my belief system as being true
during my teen years.
For my first two searches, I used the words
Coca-Cola and aspirin separatly. Results were too broad
to even look for a connection. I entered just,
"coca-cola and aspirin" and I hit on the exact info I
wanted. I used Google and Yahoo and found that they
both came out with similar results almost in the same
order of relevance. The best website was
snopes.com/cokelore/ aspirin.asp.
Message no. 326
Monday, February 17, 2003 12:38pm
Subject Painkiller combination
In this search I looked for the the affects of combining
Coco-Cola with aspirin. I used the search words
Coco-cola + Aspirin. I used www.google.com for my
search. I came upon this website that I thought was
pretty good. I didn't encounter any problems with my
search today.
www.snopes.com/cokelore/aspirin.asp
In this article, combining Coco-cola and aspirin will
not get you high. There are several myths or urban
legends about the effects of coco-cola and aspirin.
Some people believe it's an aphrodisiac, a great way to
get high, could cause instant death, and/or it cures
headaches. No other products will do, it is always
Coco-cola and the aspirin. No other soft drink or
medication will do.
These beliefs have been around for decades. High school
students usually spread these myths. There has been
incidents in which some girls in the U.S. kept an eye on
their coke drinks fearing that someone might slip
aspirin into their drinks making them fall weak and
prey. Other kids believed that downing aspirin and
cokes will make them lightheaded and silly.
The teen years are a time of experimentation. Everything
seems to be a mystery, so they seem to fall for myths.
A teen is enchanted by the notion of getting high from
combining Coke and aspirin.
What is a benefit of combining Coke and aspirin is that
Cok helps rehydrate an alcohol dried body, and aspirin
eases the physical suffering of a pounding head. When
served together, it seems to have a greater pain-killing
effect
Message no. 334
Monday, February 17, 2003 9:26pm
Subject Getting High on Coca Cola and Aspirin
I did a general search for and against the claim about
the coca cola and aspirin high. Here are the places
I've searched and the results I've obtained:
Hawaii Voyager (UHM)
http://uhmanoa.lib.hawaii.edu/ cocacola AND aspirin (no results) "coca cola" AND aspirin
(no results) "coca cola" AND "aspirin" (no results)
Hawaii Medical Library
http://uhmanoa.lib.hawaii.edu/cgi-bin/Pwebrecon.cgi"coca cola" AND "aspirin" (no results)
Alt-PressWatch, a ProQuest® database
http://micro189.lib3.hawaii.edu:2132/ "coca cola" AND"aspirin" (no results) coca cola and aspirin (1 hit)
EBSCOhost (includes TOPICsearch, Newspaper Source, Alt
HealthWatch, Health Source - Consumer Edition, Primary
Search, MAS Ultra - School Edition, Military Library
FullTEXT, Psychology and Behavioral Sciences Collection,
ERIC Health Source: Nursing/Academic Edition, Academic
Search Premier)
http://micro189.lib3.hawaii.edu:2131/search.asp?tb=1&_ug=dbs+0%2C6%2C7%2C9%2C11%2C14%2C15%2C17%2C18%2C21%2C22+ln+en%2Dus+sid+6D6FAE13%2D5164%2D4C20%2D85F7%2D6C7FBBE55CBB%40sessionmgr5+CDF4&_us=dstb+DB+ex+default+hs+0+sm+ES+ss+SO+EAE3&newsrch=1coca cola AND aspirin (no results) coca cola and aspirin
(5 hits:default fields)
www.yahoo.com "coca cola and aspirin will make you high"
(no results) "coca cola and aspirin"+high (12 hits) "get
high on coca cola and aspirin" (no results) "coca cola
and aspirin is an aphrodisiac" (no results)
www.altavista.com "get high on coca cola and aspirin"
(no results) "coca cola and aspirin will make you high"
(no results) "coca cola and aspirin is an aphrodisiac"
(no results)
www.google.com "coca cola and aspirin is an aphrodisiac"
(no results) "coca cola and aspirin will make you high"
(no results) "get high on coca cola and aspirin" (no
results) "coca cola and aspirin" +"get high" (7 results
same as yahoo) "coca cola and aspirin" +"aphrodisiac" (4
results)
I had problems narrowing down the search because I found
many websites that refuted this claim, but I had a very
difficult time finding an argument for this claim.
Here's one article I've run across that is against this
claim:
"Where legends go to die" Toronto Star
http://micro189.lib3.hawaii.edu:2131/citation.asp?tb=1&_ug=dbs+0%2C6%2C7%2C9%2C11%2C14%2C15%2C17%2C18%2C21%2C22+ln+en%2Dus+sid+6D6FAE13%2D5164%2D4C20%2D85F7%2D6C7FBBE55CBB%40sessionmgr5+CDF4&_us=bs+%28%7Bcoca++cola++and++aspirin%7D%29+ds+%28%7Bcoca++cola++and++aspirin%7D%29+dstb+ES+fh+0+hd+0+hs+0+or+Date+ri+KAAACBWB00007619+sm+ES+ss+SO+1212&cf=1&fn=1&rn=3This article talks about most of the tihngs that have
been said to be true but are false and also refers a
site where you can look up any topic on legends called
www.snopes.com ("an online encyclodpedia of urban
legends" also posted by many other people that have
searched on this topic).
Message no. 346
Wednesday, February 19, 2003 2:55pm
Subject coke & aspirin bs
The specific aspect I was searching for was if mixing
coke and aspirin gets you high. I used google with the
search terms "coke aspirin". I had no problems, and the
very first website that popped up answered all my
questions. Here's the link:
http://www.snopes.com/cokelore/aspirin.aspOne thing that I found on Snopes that cracked me up was
that it was in the movie Grease. That's one less reason
for me to ever want to see that movie.
Message no. 351
Wednesday, February 19, 2003 5:45pm
Subject Dear Pharmacist
In this search I looked up 'Coca cola and aspirin makes
you high' under msn.com. It was so simple, the first
information posted was useful.
http://www.naplesnews.com/02/09/marco/d811792a.htmI found a small article in the Marco Island Eagle
magazine that was the question 'Does Coke and Aspirin
make you high?' addressed to a pharmacist, and he says
that it is non-sense. That rumor has been circulating
since 1930's found in a medical journal. Alas- the truth
comes out.
One more thing- I just found another interesting
article that also is against aspirin and coke getting
you high. It also states that when this myth was big,
there were a lot of deaths from overdoses of aspirin as
used when mixing with coke. Then later in 1985 aspirin
was the "drug of choice for suicide attempts." found
at:
http://www.jiskha.com/health/substance_abuse/aspirin.htmlMessage no. 368
Thursday, February 20, 2003 9:45pm
Subject Coke Urban Legends
I used the terms, "Coke and Aspirin" with Google on my
research today. I did not have any problems about
searching.
http://www.grahambrunk.com/coke.htmThere are about twenty interesting rumors (both true and
false)introduced in this site. For instance, it is true
that Coca-Cola used a special formula in there coke made
in Key West. it is not true that Coca-Cola was
originally green. This site mentions that it is not
true that Combining Coca-Cola and aspirin will get you
high. But it's true that Coca-Cola used to contain
cocaine.
Message no. 374
Friday, February 21, 2003 12:04pm
Subject just a myth
I wanted to originally do a search on evidence that
supports the myth that mixing coke with aspirin will get
you high. However, I could not find any sites that
supported it. Using yahoo, I did a search on the words
"coke" and "aspirin."
http://www.ugcs.caltech.edu/~eggplant/feynman/6.htmlI just found this site to be kind of funny. It's about a
college dude who does a lot of lame stunts just for
kicks. He had heard about the myth that if you take
aspirin with coke that you will either fall over dead,
or faint. So just to prove this myth wrong, he took 6
aspirins with coke using different methods (taking the
aspirin before drinking coke, drinking coke then taking
the aspirin, etc.) He did not faint and obviously he did
not die from the combination. He did not mention if he
felt a high because of it, but he did state that he had
trouble sleeping.
Message no. 463[Branch from no. 374]
Saturday, March 1, 2003 2:32pm
Subject Re: just a myth
Did you think that this could be true? There are so
many rumors or urban legends that you hear. I never
know to believe them or not. I found a site that has
1,000's of urban legends and stories that you have
heard. They will tell you if it is true or not. Even
if they do not have your specific story, you can email
them and they will research it for you. It is a great
site. It will tell you about computer viruses and
emails to watch out for. It even has stuff about
september 11th on it.
www.truthorfiction.com
Message no. 382
Friday, February 21, 2003 2:28pm
Subject I beleive it!. . . . (not really...)
Strangly enough, I have never heard of the purported
effects of mixing Coca Cola with aspirin until this
semester. Perhaps I am more immune to outlandish notions
promoted by the media and the ignorant public than I
previously believed!
I searched on Google.com (the trend, so it seems) for
"Coca Cola + Aspirin". I was rewarded with many hits
that were closely aligned with my topic of choice. The
most advantageous site was:
http://www.snopes.com/cokelore/aspirin.aspThere are other phenomenom associated with the ingestion
of this mystical cocktail that range from the
preposterous to the reasonable. A few of these are: 1.
it's an aphrodisiac 2. it causes instant death 3. it
cures headaches
This urban myth was ironically first published in the
Journal of the American Medical Association in the
1930's. A [crackpot] Illinois doctor reported that
teenagers were ingesting this "dangerous" concoction and
often had narcotic-like addictiveness.
The only phenomenom that has some validity is the effect
of the mixture on headaches/hangovers. Dehydration is
often a cause of headaches/hangovers; Cocal Cola is
water based therefore alleviates this dilemma with
consumption of the mixture. Aspirin is known to reduce
pain, especially in the head, so it is no suprise that
it may work to reduce headaches, with or without Coca
Cola. Yet the two ingredients may together provide a
more effective remedy than ingesting either/or.
Perhaps I am likely to synthesize a nice combination of
two consumables that I have readily available,
especially the morning after a severe bout of
inebriation.
Further research in this area is not quite futile;
though there is no empirical evidence that a mixture
Coke and aspirin have any notably benificial or
detrimental consequences.
Message no. 508[Branch from no. 382]
Friday, March 7, 2003 8:17pm
Subject Re: I beleive it!. . . . (not really...)
I have also never heard of this urban legend until this
semester. I liked the site you listed. It's
interesting to see how people may see something occur
and then automatically assume that the other variable
was the cause. I think in the 1930's people believed
almost anything they were told. But in this century
many people are more skeptical to whatever they hear,
and this could be why we've never heard of this urban
legend before, and the fact that it has been proven to
be false.
Message no. 464
Saturday, March 1, 2003 3:25pm
Subject coca cola with aspirin
Using both MSN and Google as the search engines, and the
phrases "combining coca cola and aspirin" and "coca
cola, aspirin and high" I came up with a couple of
articles that explains this myth.
http://www.snopes.com/cokelore/aspirin.asp http://www.jiskha.com/health/substance_abuse/aspirin.htmlIn summary, both articles state that combining coca cola
with aspirin is just a myth and does not get a person
high. This has been used by experimenting teenagers who
are on the look out for a cheap "high".
Message no. 498
Friday, March 7, 2003 11:03am
Subject False urban myth
I searched www.yahoo.com using the keywords 'coca-cola
and aspirin will get you high' I found many websites
that stated that this rumor was false. I found one
particular website that was helpful in explaining the
origins of the myth. You can read about it at
http://www.snopes.com/cokelore/aspirin.asp. This websitealso says that it has been rumored to be an aphrodisiac,
cure for headaches and hangovers, and can cause instant
death. It tells how the idea was started and the
psychology behind why teens might beleive this. Other
websites said that coca-cola used to contain cocaine, so
the truth of this statement may have been more valid
then.
Message no. 547
Friday, March 14, 2003 1:25pm
Subject How did it Start?
I wanted to use this search engine www.skworm.com
because I have never used this site and I saw it upon
reading it on a discussion posting. I was trying to
find sites that said coca cola and aspirin will give you
a high because I had a difficult time looking for this
previously.
Here are my search terms:
"urban legends" +"coca cola"
"coca cola" +"aspirin"
"coca cola" +"aspirin" -"cocaine"
"coca cola and aspirin"
I did not find any articles on:
http://www.nih.gov http://search.intelihealth.com http://www.healthfinder.gov http://www.mayohealth.org http://search.onhealth.webmd.com http://www.healthtouch.comI had problems with some of these links because skworm
provides a host of other search engines and I
experienced a few broken links when I wanted to search.
I did find this article at
http://www.improvingsex.com/articles/romance/aphrodisiacs.myth.or.magic.htmThis article is mostly about aphrodisiacs, but it talks
about how the rumor of coca cola and aspirin came to be.
Here'san excerpt because only part of it pertains to
coca cola and aspirin:
"Another aphrodisical myth that became popular with
teenagers several decades ago is that mixing Coca-Cola
and aspirin make people, particularly girls, more
willing to have sex. The origin of this rumor is
unclear, but it may have come from a mention in the
Journal of the American Medical Association back in the
1930s. It warned that teenagers were consuming the
combination to get high and that it was as addictive as
narcotics. This was a false statement, but it somehow
evolved into a rumor that the mixture also worked as an
aphrodisiac. There has been no evidence that the
concoction does stimulate libido, but it does seem to
help get rid of hangovers. The caffeine in Coca-Cola
apparently increases the effect of the aspirin."
Message no. 556
Sunday, March 16, 2003 8:18pm
Subject The truth about coca-cola and aspirin
For this research topic I was looking for anything to do
with the affects of coca-cola with aspirin. The search
terms that I used was "affects of coca-cola with
aspirin." The only problem that I had with this search
was that there was limited information on this subject.
Most of the sites had the same links or information.
The serch engine that I used was google. The web address
is:
www.snopes.com/cokelore/aspirin.asp
This article basically said that combining aspirin and
coca-cola is a myth. The origin of the "gets you high"
belief began in the 1930's. A doctor wanted to warn
that teenagers were dissolving aspirin in coca-cola to
create an "intoxicating" beverage with additived
properties that were as bad as narcotic habituation.
This rumor eventually died down after realizing that his
claim was baseless.
Message no. 561
Tuesday, March 18, 2003 10:28am
Subject Coke and aspirin
I really want to find some information supporting this
statement about coca-cola and aspirin getting people
high, or some kind of effect. I searched in google
(under news) and found nothing. So I searched in Yahoo
(under health)and found one interesting article. I used
the phrases, "dangerous aspirin and coca-cola",
"dangerous aspirin", and "side effects of aspirin".
The article was at
www.healthcentral.com/peoplespharmacy/pp_guides/PDF/aspirin.pdf.
Unfortunately, once again they said that the combination
of Coca-cola and aspirin is a myth and they have no idea
where it came from. But it did give information about
combining other types of prescriptons and drugs.
Some examples were: alchol and aspirin causes aggravated
stomach irritation, and baking soda and aspirin makes
urine alkaline. There are a lot more listed (but I
never heard of the drugs). It also gives information in
general about aspirin and some side effects.
Message no. 708
Saturday, April 5, 2003 7:34pm
Subject true fictions?
i wanted to discuss not just the coca-cola with asprin
urban legends, but urban legends as a whole genre of
fiction.
i looked up a couple different sites using the MSN
search engine (i'm beginning to like "google" better...)
http://www.snopes.com/ http://www.urbanlegends.com/ andnone of them really gave insight as to where did they
come from...what i did find was a delightful array of
urban legends. these stories covered all aspects of
life...food, travel of all sorts, horror, sex, and even
war. i looked up a few that looked interesting, war,
horror, sex (whoa, that says a lot about my own psyche)
and was extremely amuzed at what these stories
said...and how many of them the sights said had been
proven as true!
it seems that the reason these stories continue is that
they are just plain amuzing. and from what i can tell,
in my limited knowledge of the psychological sciences,
is that humans enjoy two different things...1) things
that amuze them, and 2) things that intrigue/mistify
them...and that is undoubtedly what urban legends do.
they are amuzing to hear (i had fun reading about these
things...but i'm just weird like that) and they are a
mystery. no one really knows where they came from, or
if they are even true.
so, i guess the point is that...yeah, we're not sure
where they came from, or if they are true. but half of
these are just so far-fetched that it doesn't really
matter. enjoy them, and look at it this way...the
person you're reading about...wasn't you...so who
cares..right? :)
Message no. 714
Saturday, April 5, 2003 8:27pm
Subject how true is the myth?
Using the google search engine, I typed in "coca-cola"
and "aspirin" and got quite a lot of results, I then
added one more word, "high" and got even more relevant
results.
I first read the article from
http://www.snopes.com/cokelore/aspirin.asp and it statesin the beginning that it's false to claim that combining
coca-cola and aspirin will make you high. The myth is
probably invented by some adventurous high-school
students. It also suggests that the belief came up in
the movie Grease released in 1978.
Another article that I read was retrieved from
http://www.jiskha.com/health/substance_abuse/aspirin.html.It says that the "faulty reasoning has led to serious
and fatal overdoses by many thrill seekers".
Since I was raised in Hong Kong, and maybe the culture
overthere is different from what it is here, I've never
heard that coca-cola and aspirin will make you high.
Teenagers in Hong Kong are also thrill-seeking, but I
think they might not go as far as teenagers in the US.
Message no. 732
Sunday, April 6, 2003 3:00pm
Subject urban legends...fact or fiction
this is a website that gives more of our favorite
fictional factoids. i'm still trying to find somewhere
that someone explains why it is that we all find these
stories so interesting and entertaining. is it just me,
or is it fun to hear about these...even though we look
at them and think "thats rediculous."
Message no. 770
Wednesday, April 9, 2003 9:16pm
Subject Coke and Coke
I found this sit using the search terms "coke and
aspirin" at Vivisimo.com. I twasn't hard to find at
all.
http://vivisimo.com/search?query=coca-cola+and+aspirin&v%3Asources=AltaVista%2CMSN%2CNetscape%2CLycos%2CLooksmart%2CFindWhatThe site allows readers to send questions to a a chemist
or scientist. The question was: Originally, Coca Cola
had cocaine. The current can claims "original" recipe.
Does this contain cocaine? If not, how can they
advertise original?
Answer: I think they're referring to "original" in the
sense of "the same as it was before 1978 or so, when the
Coca-Cola company tried to change the recipe and
introduced a new drink called "New Coke" or, just plain
"Coke." So many people got angry and demanded that the
company change back that they started selling two kinds
of coke, "Coke" and "Coke Classic." Nobody bought "Coke"
and so they eventually stopped selling it and now "Coke
Classic" is just plain "Coke" again. Coke had cocaine
in it long ago; it is flavored with an extract from the
coca leaf (the plant from which cocaine is extracted).
Back a long time ago cocaine was being touted as "the
new aspirin" and was available from the corner drug
store, just like aspirin.
Then people started getting addicted to it, it was made
illegal in the US, and Coke susbtiuted caffeine for the
cocaine to give the drink a "lift" without the
addiction...but the coca leaf extract is still used in
Coke as far as I know.
Message no. 785
Friday, April 11, 2003 11:38am
Subject history of coca-cola with aspirin
I went into msn.com and found the site
http://www.snopes.com/cokelore/aspirin.asp when I typedin "coca-cola with aspirin". It was easy and not hard
to find at all.
This article talked about the history of the myth and
how the rumor came about. It also talked about how kids
circulate this because it's something kids are curious
about. Teenagers are curious about what can get them
high and feel good and when they hear that coke and
aspirin can give that high, it becomes a mystery for
them. That's how rumors get spread!
Message no. 880
Thursday, April 24, 2003 9:49am
Subject Side Effects of Coke
Because we already know that Coca-Cola and aspirin does
not have any effects, I wanted to search for side
effects of Coca-Cola in general. I searched using yahoo
and used the phrase, ãcoca-cola side effects). A lot of
cool sites came up.
I found an article that has interesting information
about Coke, but Iâm not sure how true it is. Even then
so, it was still interesting. The article is by
ãMapfinä and itâs at
www.mouthshut.com/readreview/7103-1.html. He states that
ãthe average pH of soft drinks, e.g. Coke, Pepsi is pH
3.4. This acidity is strong enough to dissolve teeth and
bones!ä So you might want to limit you Coke intake or
make sure you rinse your mouth out after you drink soda.
He also mentions about a Coke competition held at Delhi
University, ââWho can drink the most Coke?ââ. The winner
drank 8 bottles and died on the spot because too much
carbon dioxide in the blood and not enough oxygen. From
then on, the principal banned all soft drinks from the
university canteen.
The most interesting part of Mapfin's article was that
he lists the benefits from Coke/Pepsi, but like I
mentioned, I don't know if these statements are true.
So, the benefits of Coke/Pepsi are:
1.To clean a toilet: Pour a can of Coca-Cola into the
toilet bowl. Let the ââreal thingââ sit for one hour,
then flush clean. The citric acid in Coke removes stains
from vitreous china.
2.To remove rust spots from chrome car bumpers: Rub the
bumper with a crumpled-up piece of Reynolds Wrap
aluminum foil dipped in Coca-Cola.
3.To clean corrosion from car battery terminals: Pour a
can of Coca-Cola over the terminals to bubble away the
corrosion.
4.To loosen a rusted bolt: Applying a cloth soaked in
Coca-Cola to the rusted bolt for several minutes.
5.To remove grease from clothes: Empty a can of Coke
into a load of greasy clothes, add detergent, and run
through a regular cycle. The Coca-Cola will help loosen
grease stains. It will also clean road haze from your
windshield.
Message no. 941
Thursday, May 1, 2003 9:11pm
Subject rumor
I searched for information on whether coca-cola and
aspirin will make you high. I used the search engine
http://www.skworm.com using the words: coca-cola withaspirin. I found this site
http://www.snopes.com/cokelore/aspirin.aspThere was no problems with this search. This article
tried to refute and explain how all these urban myths
about coca-cola were established. This article says
that coca-cola with aspirin doesn't make you high. A
doctor in the 1930's warned teens not to dissolve
coca-cola with asprin because it can be addictive. This
of course was not true.
6. TALENTS OF SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE
Message no. 43
Thursday, January 23, 2003 8:03pm
Subject Talents of successful people
In the quest of searching articles for the claim "Many
successful people are no more talented than
unsuccessful people," I tried to find out what exactly
differentiates successful people from unsuccessful ones
in terms of their talents. In the back of my mind, I
already thought that what actually differentiates the
two is desire. I do believe that it is the desire or
motivation to be successful that separates successful
people from those unsuccessful, not their capabilities
or talents per se.
I went to Google.com and used phrases like "talents of
successful people" and even "many successful people are
no more talented than unsuccessful people." When using
the latter phrase, I actually got quite a number of
results and they were fairly good ones. However, when I
used more broad terms such as "talents of successful
people" or "unsuccessful people," I recieved many hits,
but a lot of them had a lot to do with success in
businesses or (religious) inspiration.
The actual phrase "Successful people are often not any
more talented than unsuccessful people" was found in a
short article at
http://www.fastfa.com/investing/articles/finishing.aspbut the following two articles are more worthwhile
looking at:
"How to Be a Perfect Failure" by Bill Harris, which can
be found at
http://chetday.com/secretofsuccess.htmIt explains the belief that high achievers have goals
and that failures serve as lessons along the way that
tell them to modify their plan of action. Another
important factor is persistence. You cannot be a
success if let yourself be defeated by failure.
The second article "The 13 Characteristics of
Successful People" by Jeffrey J. Mayer can be found at
http://www.succeedinginbusiness.com/JMArticles/13characteristics.shtml
and it has the same gist. Successful people have a
dream, a plan, specific knowledge or training, are
willing to work hard, and do not take no for an answer.
It even states "When you find you need a skill or
talent you don't have, just go out and look for a
person or group of people with the skills, talents, and
training you need." Then, by following those
"successful" people's plan of action, you too can
replicate their results.
Message no. 51[Branch from no. 43]
Friday, January 24, 2003 1:40pm
Subject Re: Talents of successful people
I agree with your original comment that desire and
motivation are more important to success than specific
talents. What seems to be more important though, is
determination or persistance which was mentioned in Bill
Harris' article. All the motivation in the world will
not attain a goal, or success, if there is not the drive
and determination to actually attain that success.
I think that opportunities and talent also affect a
person's success. If we look at success as a job
position, a person who has had the opportunities to
develop their personal talents may end up with the same
success as a determined person without those talents.
It would probably take more work for an untalented
person to reach that success, but they will reach it
because they are determined. The talented person may
reach success with more ease, but because they have
invested less personal resources in their success, they
may view it differently. Therefore, talent plays a role
in success but it does not determine who can or cannot
be successful.
Everyone has desires, but those with determination see
them through to success.
Message no. 56[Branch from no. 51]
Friday, January 24, 2003 3:31pm
Subject Re: Talents of successful people
This is a comment message for Renae Mendez:
You're right. I forgot to personally mention persistence
but I did say that Bill Harris pointed out that factor.
As your last sentence states "Everyone has desires, but
those with determination see them through to success,"
I suppose we can tweek it to make it more attuned to
the articles- "Everyone has desires, but those with
determination/perseverence and action see them through
to success." There are many things that affect (the
level of) success one can attain. Opportunities and
resources definitely play a part; and I'm sure everyone
else can think of many more factors. As in my reply to
Ana for her research, I brought up the topic of how the
meaning of success is not concrete. The meaning of
success alone could be another research topic all unto
itself.
I liked your sentence "If we look at success as a job
position, a person who has had the opportunities to
develop their personal talents may end up with the same
success as a determined person without those talents."
I went to dictionary.com and looked up the meaning of
talent and there were definitions that included the
words "innate" and "natural ability." I suppose we can
spot and name "talented" people, but then is "talent"
the word to describe them? I say it had a lot to do
with cultivating a skill or particular interest,
practice, etc. for a long period of time.
Message no. 64[Branch from no. 56]
Friday, January 24, 2003 4:59pm
Subject Re: Talents of successful people
I agree that persistence and motivation have a lot to
do with the successfulness of a person I agree that
persistence and motivation have a lot to do with the
successfulness of a person. I also think that it has a
lot to do with a personâs thought processes. If a
person is very negative, it will be hard to see their
failures as an opportunity to grow. I think that
successful people have positive thought processes that
give them the capability to move through hard times and
use them to their advantage. I think that if a person
has a positive thought process, they will be more
persistent anyways because events in life will not get
them down as much.
Message no. 110[Branch from no. 51]
Friday, January 31, 2003 9:51am
Subject Re: Talents of successful people
Desire and motivation are two key factors that help make
talent possible. Everyone has some kind of talent inside
them. Motivation and desire helps bring about a certain
talent that an individual possesses. For example, a
person that can sing has it in them, but they need
practice as well as professional help to develop there
talent to perfection. Determination and persistence
mentioned by Bill Harris is true. You need this to bring
out the best in one's self. Motivation will only get one
so far, but if that individual possesses the drive to do
everything possible to become the best they can be;
there is no stopping them. Success as a job can be any
type of talent. If one possesses the knowledge and works
very hard to become his or her best they can beat
someone with the same talent who did not work as hard or
lacked the drive. Success is held in and individuals
hand. It is what you make of your talents, and how hard
you work at it.
Message no. 91[Branch from no. 43]
Tuesday, January 28, 2003 4:17pm
Subject Re: Talents of successful people
This is a comment message to Michelle Sagucio....
I agree that what seperates successful people from
unsuccessful people is desire or motivaion. Anyone can
achieve their goals if they want it bad enough. Most of
the time people just need direction and a mentor to help
them see their goals more clearly.
I also believe that surrounding yourself with motivated
people can aid in yor success because you can copy their
strategies for success. I personally believe this
because after semester after semester of just partying
and getting mediocre grades I decided to change my
priorities and started hanging out with people who were
motivated and succesful. It really pays of to be around
high achievers who can influence your motivation for
success.
Message no. 101[Branch from no. 43]
Wednesday, January 29, 2003 10:24pm
Subject Re: Talents of successful people
I agree with your statement that it is the desire or
motivation to be successful that separates successful
people from those unsuccessful, not their capabilities
or talents per se. But I wonder...what does it mean by
"successful people"? Are successful people the ones who
acquie the high social status? I feel that successful
people are the ones who know their mission in their life
and strive forward to accomplish it.
Message no. 106[Branch from no. 43]
Thursday, January 30, 2003 9:48pm
Subject Re: Talents of successful people
I think that it is true, what you said, about the
difference between success and failure is realy in
desire. I can use myself as an example of that. Time,
and time again, I have found that the things I am
actually interested in, I excel at. Where as the things
that I am NOT so interested, no matter how easy they may
be, I just don't do so well in. For example, I am NOT
very interested in a particular school subject, chances
are my grades will be far less than stellar. (such is
the case with some of my psych classes...ugh!) However,
in ROTC (Air Force) I am VERY interested in whats going
on, and have even had the honor of being selected as one
of the top cadets in the entire nation. Just
illustrating that when you have the desire to do well in
something, you will...and many times when you do NOT
have the desire, you also won't have the success!
Message no. 135[Branch from no. 43]
Sunday, February 2, 2003 10:31pm
Subject Re: Talents of successful people
I agree that successful people have to have the
persistence and the talent to become successful at what
they do, but I do not think that talent or skill in a
particular field would entirely lead to a person's
success. I believe the persistence and being given the
right opportunities will eventually lead a person to
become successful. Take for example all the people that
are looking for jobs with a college degree in this
state. Yet a friend of mine who dropped out of
highschool and only recently got a GED just got a job at
the Bank of Hawaii. Why was he chosen over the other
applicants who had college degrees and much more
experience in the work force? Simple his mother's good
friend is the person that does the hiring for the bank.
In the game life it's not what you know that makes you a
success, it's who you know.
Message no. 192[Branch from no. 43]
Thursday, February 6, 2003 6:15pm
Subject Re: Talents of successful people
I agree and don't agree with Michelle's message because
having talent doesn't necessarily mean a person is going
to be successful. But on the other hand, having
motivation, determination, and goals doesn't necessarily
mean a person is going to be successful.
I bet there is a lot of talented people in the world who
are not recognized for their talents such as acting,
dancing, singing, playing sports. But, I wouldn't say
they never tried hard enough or weren't determined or
motivated to work hard. Rather maybe they didn't know
the right people or others (scouts, agents, recording
producers) may have seen their talents as normal
compared to others. But, for the average Joe, their
talents can been seen as outstanding or better then
normal. However I do agree that motivation,
perservence and having dreams can make a person
successful. For instance, my friend's Grandpa is a
millionaire. But, he doesn't even know how to read. So
how could someone explain his sucess? Was he really
that motivated?
Message no. 49
Friday, January 24, 2003 2:16am
Subject First search for talents of successful people
Since this was my first search I was not sure what kind
of results I would attain so I focused on the general
aspect of whether there is a difference between
successful and unsuccessful people.
I used a variety of terms to do this search on Google
such as: 1. successful people + talents 2. "talents of
successful people" 3. "what makes people successful" 4.
unsuccessful people +traits
The problems that I had was narrowing the topic because
I was getting stories about a variety of things such as
sports, leadership, spirituality, books on how to be a
successful business owner, etc.
However, I found an article that supports that argument
that successful and unsuccessful people are virtually
the same. It can be found in this link:
http://www.playyourgame.com/butch_11262001.htmland it is actually talking about sports, but I felt it
can be applied to more general terms.
The other article I found was in this link:
http://www.inhymn.com/Articles/Commentary/comment_00000070.htmThis is a short article about what makes a person
successful and it gives polar examples of successful and
unsuccessful people such as: successful people work hard
to get where they are at today while unsuccessful people
just look for the easiest way to do it.
Message no. 54[Branch from no. 49]
Friday, January 24, 2003 3:04pm
Subject Re: First search for talents of successful people
This is a comment message for Ana Inos on "First search
for talents of successful people":
I can agree with what you went through. I wasn't sure
how I could have narrowed the topic; yes, there were a
lot on businesses, sports, and spirituality. Maybe we
could have used the phrase "in general" as a keyword to
add to the other search phrases we used? (I haven't
tried it, but I just thought of it now. I'm not sure if
that would eliminate some of the articles we don't
want.)
There are a number of things that differentiate
successful people from unsuccessful ones. And I think
the meaning of "success" also matters. What is
successful? Is it being rich, being in a top position at
a company, having many children, being able to save $5
a week, etc.? With such a broad topic, I think we can
maybe focus on aspects such as the situation: being
successful in college, in the workplace, etc. and maybe
we will get something more specific to write about.
I plan to revisit this topic and if you do also, maybe
you can give me some tips?
Message no. 70[Branch from no. 54]
Sunday, January 26, 2003 12:14am
Subject Re: First search for talents of successful people
I have to agree with you as well...after my search ended
I was wondering what I would focus on especially the
definition on success so I guess what I was planning on
doing is start with my own definition of success and
then work from there...for example let's say that
success means just having effort or motivation to do
something...then we can define effort or motivation and
then look for examples from there.
It is kinda tough to find sites or topics that would
support and oppose both sides but I think once we get
the hang of searching as well as becoming familiar with
the search engine then it should be okay.
One thing that I did while I was searching was writing
down the search terms that I used and the search engine
I used it in...then I compiled a list of the articles I
found and wrote a short summary of what it was about so
that when I do the report I will have an easier time to
know what sites to use for the opposing arguments....I
hope this helps you =)
Message no. 157[Branch from no. 49]
Tuesday, February 4, 2003 3:31pm
Subject Re: First search for talents of successful people
This is in reply to Ana's first message. You did a good
search first of all. I checked out the second website
that you listed and wanted to paste some of the
information from it on my reply so that others can scan
it:
Successful people tweak the rules...and tend to color
outside the lines. Unsuccessful people play strictly
by the rules & stay contained within guidelines.
Successful people have definite goals/direction for
their lives. Unsuccessful people are more
reactive...sometimes running in circles...always chasing
something...but like peddling a stationary bike, never
getting anywhere.
Successful people are persistent/determined. They know
what they want, and they are terribly stubborn and
focused to attain it. (And by the way, successful
people are not always the easiest people to live with!)
Unsuccessful people "try" things...always experimenting
and they seem to jump on (and off) every bandwagon that
comes down the road.
Successful people work harder, longer, with more focus,
although they don't always know it. They tend to think
more clearly...usually tinkering until they get it
right. Unsuccessful people look for the easiest way
out...doing as little as they can to get by.
Successful people have lots of friends and rich personal
networks. They seek for advice from the best people.
Unsuccessful people, strange as it may seem are more
likely to give advice...and rarely ask for it...and tend
to avoid additional learning beyond college or seminary.
Successful people seem to be naturally generous and
giving. They give away their
ideas...time...energy...humor... creativity...and money
to people and organizations. Unsuccessful people are
afraid of being ripped off...and rarely give or
contribute.
- this was a list of successful people verses
unsuccessful people. I find it amazing that the author
from Stanford University, writing a book on 'Church' can
categorize successful and unsucceful people. What
happened to unity, and helping others? What happened to
equality and striving to be a good person? It expecially
disturbed me that this was coming from an author writing
about pro church. What happened to religion? And we
wonder why the world is at war.
Message no. 447[Branch from no. 49]
Friday, February 28, 2003 12:02pm
Subject Re: First search for talents of successful people
The article you found was interesting and points out a
lot of things that are true. There is a difference
between successful people and unsuccessful people
because of determination and creativity. Those who are
successful in our society do go above and beyond those
who are unsuccessful. We hear success stories and the
main theme is that they kept with what they are after
and they never give up.
Message no. 62
Friday, January 24, 2003 4:52pm
Subject Talents of successful people
I used Yahoo to find this article. I used the
keywords ãsuccessful peopleä. I found this and other
helpful articles on my first try. The article is titled
ãThe Psychology of Successä by Matthew Herper. The
address for this article is:
http://abcnews.go.com/sections/business/DailyNews/forbes_psychology_021113.htmlThis article discusses the possible differences between
entrepreneurs and other people. The researchers who
studied this tried to narrow down key personality traits
characteristic of entrepreneurs. At the beginning of
the article it discusses some of the historical thoughts
about the difference between successful and unsuccessful
people. One idea was that the successful people were
more charismatic which made them excellent salespeople.
Another was that they thought of risk in a different
way. Some researchers thought that risks were
conceptualized differently in that they may be
downplayed or consequences were taken lighter than the
average person. The article then went on to say that
many more recent studies have disproved these
hypotheses. The article points out that they may
actually think differently so that they are not able to
imagine failure as much.
Message no. 229[Branch from no. 62]
Sunday, February 9, 2003 1:44am
Subject Re: Talents of successful people
I agree about the idea that charismatic people are often
more successful than others. Where I work the
salespeople that make the most money are the ones that
know how to persuade customers to spend an additional
$1000 on repairs and maintanence that they do not even
need! Some of these salepeople do not even know what
they are selling, but they know how to size up a person
to see how much they know about a car, and the less the
customer knows the more technical they speak to the
customer, so the customer does not understand what the
salesperson is talking about and thinks that it is
essential to get that job done.
Message no. 329[Branch from no. 62]
Monday, February 17, 2003 2:10pm
Subject Re: Talents of successful people
Success is defined differently in differnt cultures. In
Eastern Asian cultures, they may define success as
someone who is quiet,don't speak much, and someone who
values family. In the U.S.A., we value independence
rather than interdependence. We also place a strong
value for material things such as money, car, house,
etc. We live in a materialistic society, so success is
usually defined as how much money one has.
Success is also in the eyes of the beholder. What one
person might think is successful or envy another for,
another person may not even care. It depends what the
person places emphasis on as to what equals success. As
for me, success is equal to doing well in school, having
no enemies, and making my parents proud. Everyone's
definition of success may be different.
Message no. 337[Branch from no. 62]
Monday, February 17, 2003 10:07pm
Subject Re: Talents of successful people
Success is measured in so many different ways. Many
people define success as being wealthy or how much money
they have in the bank or how many houses they own. Some
people define success by how many degree's they have or
how many businesses they operate. I define success as
being truely happy in one's life. So many people now
days have very busy lives or have to work 3 jobs to
support the unintentional family and seem so incredibly
unhappy. But if that person is truely and deeply happy,
I think there is no greater success in life.
Message no. 92
Tuesday, January 28, 2003 4:46pm
Subject "The Secret to Your Sucess"
For this research topic I wanted to looks for specific
qualities that successful people possess that make them
successul.
I used the search engine Skworm and I used the serach
terms talents - successful- people. I found this
article on the Minority Affairs website at www.minority
affairs.com/articles.htm
It contains a really specific guideline to achieve
success in life and the qualites we need to learn.
Ten keys to success include: Ambition, Focus,
Motivation, Experience Oportunity, Making Decisions,
Accepting Mistakes, Being Self-Reliant, Sending the
Right Message, and Enthusiasm.
Message no. 378[Branch from no. 92]
Friday, February 21, 2003 1:38pm
Subject Re: "The Secret to Your Sucess"
I thought this article was interesting and a little
common sense. Most of us know you have to have
Ambition, Focus, Motivation, Experience Opportunity,
Making Decisions, Accepting Mistakes, Being
Self-Reliant, Sending the Right Message, and Enthusiasm
to be successful; the problem is often applying it to
our lives! In my case the hardest point for me to apply
is accepting mistakes. I often review a situation and
think of many other ways I could have handled myself. A
key point I think is missing is DETERMINATION. If you
are determined to be successful there is nothing that
can stop you. In everyone's life there will be ups and
downs, struggles and successes but it is the way you
choose to learn and move on that can determine if you
are a successful person.
Message no. 137
Monday, February 3, 2003 10:27am
Subject Re: Untalented, Successful People
Knowing that there are many untalented, successful
people out there in the world, I wanted to search
"Untalented, successful people" in the search engine
"yahoo". The only problem I had was that the websites
that came up wasen't the ones I was looking for.
The only good website that specifically addressed my
research was
http://www.bullymag.com/7.26.02/smith-072602.asp. Thewhole article just bashed on Will Smith. It mentions
how Will, as untalented as he is, is so successful and
they don't understand why. It goes on to list his
movies, which they said was bad, such as "Men in Black",
"Wild Wild West", etc.
I don't think he is untalented, but I don't know about
his choice in movies he's chosen to be a part of. I
haven't seen any of his latest movies because I
interested in those type of fictional movies. I only
liked Will in "Fresh Prince" and maybe in "Bad Boys",
nothing else that I can think of. For his music, I'm
really not interested.
Message no. 163[Branch from no. 137]
Tuesday, February 4, 2003 6:16pm
Subject Re: Untalented, Successful People
I think people tend to overlook money when they talk
about success. Many people are capable of obtaining a
PhD, but they just don't have the money. Will Smith has
a lot of money, and whether or not people think he's
funny, I don't think it really matters. If there was a
formula for success, it seems that it would have been
written by now. I think it's dangerous to generalize
why certain people are successful--thin ice. I wonder
what would happen to "talent" or "success" if finances
were distributed equally...
Message no. 430[Branch from no. 137]
Thursday, February 27, 2003 3:48pm
Subject Re: Untalented, Successful People
In reading this, I got to thinking that talent is, like
beauty, often in the eye of the beholder. I haven't
considered carefully whether I Think Will Smith is
particularly talented, certainly, for me, Smith would be
rather low on a large list of successfully untalented
people topped, of course, buy our current president. At
any rate, it is probably not fair to generalise; I'm
sure we can all think of any number of people who are
talented and unsuccessful, or untalented and successful,
or untalented and unsuccessful, or talented and
successful. What does success have to do with then? I
don't know that it's any one thing, but if it is I don't
know what that is either.
Message no. 215
Friday, February 7, 2003 3:50pm
Subject Talents of success
The topic "Many successful people are no more talented
than unsuccessful people", can be interpreted in many
possible ways, I chose a more literal interpretation;
that revolves around the definition of the term "talent"
In researching my topic I used google.com. and
Encarta.msn.com. The first search parameter I used was a
search on Encarta for a definition of talent:
http://encarta.msn.com/encnet/features/dictionary/DictionaryResults.aspx?search=TalentI searched Google.com for the exact phrase "Many
successful people are no more talented than unsuccessful
people", and discovered that this is a fairly well known
quote, by Harvey McKay. Quite a few websites -
http://www.legalnews.net/2002-01.htm http://www.healpastlives.com/pastlf/quote/quworkit.htm-had this quote on their page, attributed to McKay
I then searched for the simpler phrase "successful
people", and was rewarded primarily with numerous offers
to sell me self-help books. However a few useful topics
came up, notably an article by Matthew Herper:
http://abcnews.go.com/sections/business/DailyNews/forbes_psychology_021113.htmlThis article reveals research by psychologists on
successful entreprenuers; that these people possess a
few traits that helped their success. An observation
over years of interviewing successful entreprenuers was
that they tend to be more of a risk-taker; they dont
weigh consequences as much as normal people. Alexander
Zelaznick, a professor emeritus of psychology at Harvard
Business School, made this observation.
My research indicates that talent refers to a natural
ability to do something well. A natural ability is one
that is not so much a product of environmental
influences, but more genetic. Therefore this implies
that successful people have no more genetic
predisposition to be successful than unsuccessful; the
qualities that make a person successful are learned.
Qualities that lead to success such as risk-taking are
perhaps imprinted on individuals through their childhood
or adulthood experiences, but there is no empirical
evidence that this is fact.
To further research this topic, I would want to survey a
large group of successful people and similar group of
unsuccessful people and attempt to discover any notable
differences in personal traits.
Message no. 310[Branch from no. 215]
Sunday, February 16, 2003 8:25pm
Subject Re: Talents of success
I really do think that success has a lot to do with your
past experiences and sometimes a little luck. It does
seem that a lot of successful people take more risks
than the average person. Perhaps successful people are
more ambitious and willing to fail and become someone
than to just be ordinary. Success is something that you
must work hard for, but when you finally achieve your
goal it was well worth the hardships.
Message no. 275
Thursday, February 13, 2003 10:16pm
Subject Search for a Star...
*disclaimer...this is primarily based on oppinion and
observation...reader discression is advised*
While watching American Idol just the other night, it
became evident to me that this topic relates closely to
what is going on there on that show...
We have a large group of young adults (most of them) who
obviously have the desire and drive to accomplish a goal
and become a star. After watching the first season of
American Idols, you'd think that everyone would have
realized that it takes a lot to make it, especially with
the harsh criticizm that the contestants face during the
audition process. So, with that in mind, and seeing the
tens of thousands of auditioners in one town...I think
its safe to assume that these people have the drive and
desire to do what it takes to make it.
With the playing field pretty even on the "disire"
level...what we also have here is a demonstration of raw
talent. We find that the true determining factor is the
MIX of talent and desire. You can not survive a
competition of this level without one or the other. It
is evident of the people who have the drive and desire
because when they are not "invited to Hollywood" in the
initial auditions, they argue back with conviction and
fire. This demonstrates the drive...but what we see is
that with that drive and desire needs to come the raw
talent to work with. We can all agree that Kelly, the
winner from the first season, had MUCHO talent, and for
going that far and even auditioning she demonstrated the
all important drive.
So, after reading many of the posts, and watching them
go back and forth between what is important for success,
I have come to the conclusion that you really can't be
successful without both. While you do need talent to be
successful, if you do not have the drive to push you to
use that talent to its fullest...you won't go anywhere.
Likewise, if you have lots of drive, but no talent to
mold and work with...you are driving a car with no fuel.
Equal amounts of both are key
Talent + Drive/Desire = Success
Message no. 278[Branch from no. 275]
Thursday, February 13, 2003 10:43pm
Subject Re: Search for a Star...
When I read your article, I thought, "hey, he's right."
Yes, to pass the grueling process of American Idol, one
must have both desire and talent. I was just watching
it the other day and it didn't even occur to me that it
would provide good material for posting in this topic.
This was a good post in that you clearly illustrated an
example that showed how talent and desire are connected
with success. It makes sense in that particular
situation - a singing competition.
Nonetheless, it was refreshing to hear your point of
view amidst all this research for talents of successful
people. I think you brought up a good point.
Message no. 297[Branch from no. 278]
Friday, February 14, 2003 4:25pm
Subject Re: Search for a Star...
I agree with both of you about desire and talent, but I
think it shouldn't be limited to just the American Idol.
There are various kinds of competition out there
ranging from acting to educational positions such as
getting into graduate school or competing with
advertising companies about which commercial should be
broadcasted. It seems that as time continues that our
society is nurturing our competitiveness and sometimes
it shouldn't be just about competition, but just having
the desire and effort to follow through (even if you
don't succeed in what you set out to do).
Message no. 363[Branch from no. 275]
Thursday, February 20, 2003 6:14pm
Subject Re: Search for a Star...
Aloha- Drive and desire are so important for being
successful and it is sad when an individual has both of
these qualities but do not achive success. I belive that
many people in Third world countries have these two
characteristics but still live in poverty and
desolation. I wish I had the talent portion of this
formula because if I did I think I could be a performer
also, but lo and behold I was given a voice of a frog
with larengitis. The American idol show is a good one
with some substance but this show they have now, Are You
Hot?, goes in the opposite direction. Psychologists have
been for years trying to subtract the degree of
importance on physical attributes contributing to one's
own self worth and this show seemingly spits in their
face.Some people are going to be emotionally scarred by
criticism from such judges has the ever popular Lorenzo
Lolo Lamas and he should be dealt with by Karma in his
participation of the degredation of individuals merely
by how they appeal to others by shallow, surface
attributes(maybe he'll get warts on his face or
something) Although I'll feel bad about contributing to
the shows Nielson ratings, I'm pretty sure I'll be
watching and so will many others.C-ya.
Message no. 293
Friday, February 14, 2003 3:59pm
Subject equal talent unequal desire
I did my search today on the talents of successful
people. I wanted to find information on the subject of
successful people having the same amount of talent as
unsuccessful people. I used google(again, my favorite),
with the key words "successful people are no more
talented than unsuccessful people". I tried using broad
descriptions such as "successful people talents" and
"unsuccessful as talented", but there were too many hits
and not enough time to go through all of them. I got a
much more specialized search with the enitre phrase. The
web site I used was:
http://www.jackfertig.com/archive-mackay.html The sitewas called Fertig's Notes by Harvey Mackay. It included
many thoughts of wisdom about a variety of fields all of
which were concerned with success. How successful
people act, how unsuccessful people act, and why
successful people are successful (not because of talent)
are all described in Fertig's Notes. Mackay believes
that persistence is the key to success. He gives good
advice throughout his page. For example: "the best way
to help yourself is to help others"; "We can't always be
the best...but we can always be the best we can be"; and
"People remember two things: who kicked you when you
were down, and who helped you up". Mackay goes on
to list many words of wisdom such as this. I think that
these words are profound. They are short and to the
point. Perhaps I'll see them on some inspirational
posters someday.
Message no. 338
Tuesday, February 18, 2003 2:01pm
Subject secret to success
I was searching for the secrets to successful people. I
used talents of successful people as my search words on
www.google.com. I didn't encounter any problems during
my search.
The site I used was:
http://www.minorityaffairs.com/articles.htmIt was a pretty good site. It went over unlocking your
potential for success. Success is about improving the
things you do and always accepting greater challenges
in life. Attitude and persistence will lead to success.
Everyone can be successful, they just need to learn
how to acquire the traits needed to be successful.
There are 10 keys to success: 1. Ambition - Successful
people have pride, commitment, and self-discipline. 2.
Focus - Concentrate on goals and objectives, being
productive and not distracted. 3.
Motivation/accomplishment - Being proactive and
achieving results, not excuses. 4. Experience - Use
skills, talents to the fullest extent possible. Do
things because it needs to be done. 5. Opportunity -
look for opportunities and seize them. 6. Make decisions
- Think about the issues & facts, and the consider to
make a decision. 7. Accepting mistakes - Admit it, fix
it, and move on! 8. Being self-reliant - Successful
people don't let anything slow them down. 9. Sending
the right message - Successful people often cooperate
with others and are positive and out-going. They
surround themselves with supportive people who offer
support and encouragement. 10. Enthusiasm - being
excited and passionate about what you are doing.
Message no. 389[Branch from no. 338]
Saturday, February 22, 2003 7:37pm
Subject Re: secret to success
I liked your 10 secrets to sucess. I think that sucess
is just being yourself. You have to be completely
comfortable with yourself, and do exactly what you want
to do in life to be sucessful with your own goals. There
is no 'way to sucess.' I have my own problems with being
exactly who I am, and many people have the same, that is
why there are known sucessful people and then some
regulars, so to say.
Message no. 396[Branch from no. 338]
Sunday, February 23, 2003 3:50pm
Subject Re: secret to success
Regarding Marissa's research,
I agree with "Everybody can become successful", it just
depends on the individual. Nobody can expect to have
things come to them, they need to do it themselves. If
they have the ambition, self-discipline, and commitment,
then anything is possible. But please people (the one
who are reaching for a high goal), make sure you have
that particular talent. For example, the American Idol,
a lot of the people can't sing and with all the
practice, I don't think they'll ever sing great. But
it's hard to say, your own judgement is completely
different to others.
Thursday, April 3, 2003 10:17pm
Subject Re: secret to success
i think that success can be taught but for most it is
based on how hard the track of getting there was. I
heard a great saying that says good things take a long
time but great things happen all at once. Persistance
allows you the opportunity to become great. striving
for your goals is one thing but most people are not
dreamers and get bogged down by practical issues in
thier lives and never give themselves the opportunity to
be great.
Message no. 697[Branch from no. 338]
Friday, April 4, 2003 1:05pm
Subject Re: secret to success
There are certainly characteristics that set apart the
successful from the unsuccessful. I think the real
question is whether these characteristics are innate or
acquired from a nurturing childhood environment. My
educated guess is that it's an interaction between the
innate and environment. If this is so, it has saddening
implications for those who grow up in hurtful
environments, e.g. in a bad neighborhood with bad
parents and bad friends. Not only do these people lack
the proper education to get out of this situation, but
the skills they perhaps could have acqired to get out
simply aren't passed on to them by an authority figure.
Message no. 349
Wednesday, February 19, 2003 5:29pm
Subject The Successful
I searched google for "psychology successful people". I
was specificly searching for what separates successful
people from the rest. There were no problems.
Site #1,
http://abcnews.go.com/sections/business/DailyNews/forbes_psychology_021113.html, talked about people such as Oprah Winfrey and Bill
Gates. Its findings were ambiguous. It quotes a most
interesting statement: "To understand the entrepreneur,
you first have to understand the psychology of the
juvenile delinquent." But it quotes another expert who
says there is no 'successful type' of personality. It
cites a study of entrepreneurs vs. average people which
found that there is an equal concern about finances,
finding a difference only in that entrepreneurs care
less what others think.
Site 2,
http://www.shpm.com/articles/sports/achizone.html ,concerned sports psychology and the psychological
characteristics of successful athletes. It gives "The
Eight Mind/Body Skills for Success". They are as
follows: action focus, creative thinking, productive
analysis, keeping cool, concentration, emotional power,
energizing, and consistency. While these focus on
sporting performance, I think they're integral tools for
successful people.
What these articles tell us, just as psychology, is that
there is a complex interaction between nature and
nurture that helps set the course of our lives.
Message no. 380
Friday, February 21, 2003 1:48pm
Subject How not to be a successful college student.
The search engine I used was MSN. The search terms I
used were: How not to be successful. I had no
difficulty finding this article on how not to be a
successful college student. The web address is:
http://www.geocities.com/CollegePark/1150/success.htmlThis article gives some important and rather common
sense steps on how not to be successful in college.
They are mainly common sense but yet many of us do these
things daily. For example, arrive late to class, make a
big disruption, never ask questions or offer answers,
ask irrelevant questions and waste class time (one I
have seen many people do!!!), never reading your text
book, and wait until the day before an exam to ask a
professor questions. These are just a few of the ways
the article discusses how to be unsuccessful. I think
this is a good article for college students to review
and double check that they are not doing any of these
steps.
Message no. 411
Monday, February 24, 2003 5:32pm
Subject success shmuccess
I used yahoo to search for information about successful
people--with or without talent. I found an interesting
article at
http://www.positivepath.net/ideasCP3.asp Itsays that people make basic assumptions about what it
takes to be successful but that many of said assumptions
cannot and are not universal (otherwise we'd probably
see much more success). For example, it says that
persistence just isn't enough for many people and that
it usually leads to a headache more than anything.
Also, the author states that any obtacles that a person
faces is self-made (which unfortunatly just isn't true,
but I think it's much more true than we would assume).
The article does stress being incontrol and maintaining
a high level of energy as well as making and keeping
commitments to others. I think this is especially
important because from the time we are children we are
taught that we can do anything we put our minds to,
which was depressing to discover to be untrue. The
truth is--high energy is not going to get a minority a
job necessarily, but affirmative action might. At any
rate, this is a good article and I think makes some good
points.
Message no. 652[Branch from no. 411]
Tuesday, April 1, 2003 9:49pm
Subject Re: success shmuccess
i think that you have a good point in saying that every
one of our mothers (more than likely) told us how
wonderful, goodlooking, smart etc we are...and how we
can do anything we put our mind to. well, thats really
quite a bunch of BS...i'm 5ft 5...i'll NEVER play for
the NBA (yes, spud webb was also around that
height...but he was an exception). likewise...i'll
never make millions as a recording artist. so i CANT do
anything i put my mind to. success is a careful mixture
of natural talent, the drive to nurture that talent into
opportunity...and the LUCK it takes to GET an
opportunity to SHOW that talent off.
if you miss somewhere in that mixture...you'll never be
successful!! (my theory...still working)
Message no. 445
Friday, February 28, 2003 7:18am
Subject what is success
Looking through google i was trying to find talents of
successful people. I had a lot of trouble finding this
site. I began to wonder what makes a successful person.
I found this site of quotes on success that i thought
was relatvant to what i was looking for.
http://www.quotegarden.com/success.htmlThe quotes are about success and how to achieve success.
From what i got from the quotes was that successful
people never give and learn how to live a life of being
successful. Success is all a state of mind those who
believe they can succeed do while leaving all others
with doubt behind them. For the talent of being
successful some people are just born with that drive but
anyone can learn how to be successful. Success in a
persons life works how thier self efficacy works. The
more good points about it the more successful or higher
self efficacy they have.
Message no. 482[Branch from no. 445]
Tuesday, March 4, 2003 4:46pm
Subject Re: what is success
I agree that some people are just born with the inner
motivation and drive to be successful in life. It can
also be one's nurture or environment, whether they have
supportive and motivating parents or people in their
lives. I also agree that although one may not be born
with the inner drive to be successful, one can still
have hope and learn to acquire the skills needed to be a
successful person.
Success is only determined by the person who carries it.
It's like beauty is in the eye of the beholder. We all
have different definitions of what success is, but we
can all learn to be more self-efficient and optomistic
in life.
Message no. 621[Branch from no. 445]
Thursday, March 27, 2003 8:01pm
Subject Re: what is success
I was wondering what sucess is, too. Even though people
are not rich and famous, they can still think of them as
successful. Just as the quate says, "How can they say
my life is not a success? Have I not for more than
sixty years got enough to eat and escaped being eaten?"
In my opinion, you are successful when you are able to
become the way you want to be.
Message no. 478
Tuesday, March 4, 2003 12:00am
Subject the untalented
A. Today's search was about the successful but
untalented people.
B. I typed in the word phrase:
1. successful and untalented 2.
Talented and successful 3. Talent and untalented
success stories
C. There were no problems in today's searching.
Everything went smooth. However, there is a lot of
information about successful people but hardly anything
about the successful yet untalented people.
D. The search engine I used was WebCrawler
E. The address: www.amfm.org.uk/tx/tx17/hype.html
F. The author of this article discusses how real
musical talent is now being destroyed by the "cover ups"
of special effects.
The article seems rather gloomy but I think the author
has a point. Music industries, like any other, want to
make money. So maybe they'll hire someone who will make
$$$ if they have the "american idol" look rather then
someone who can truly sing. Such lacking qualities can
now be covered up with lighting, fireworks, or whatever
they do to make it seem better then it really is.
Message no. 481
Tuesday, March 4, 2003 4:42pm
Subject What makes people successful?
I used www.google.com for my search again. I find this
search engine to be very reliable. I typed in "talents
of successful people as my search words. I didn't
encounter any problems during my search. I came upon
this website:
http://www.highlandsprogram.com/success.htmlIn this site it goes over what makes people successful.
To be successful is to offer your skills and talents to
the betterment of your family, faith, and community, and
society. Success is like beauty, it's in the eye of the
beholder. Success means satisfaction, productivity,
self-expression, connectedness and meaning.
Successful people consistently do two things:
They use their Natural Abilities in their work;
They create a Personal Vision for their lives.
I agree with this idea.
To build a life of success, you must apply effort and
commitment. Success is something that must be discovered
over time.
Message no. 492
Thursday, March 6, 2003 9:41pm
Subject The 13 Characteristics of Successful People
I used Google searching engine. The searching terms
were ãcharacteristics of successful people.ä There was
no problem finding this interesting site.
http://www.davekahle.com/article/people.htmThe author of this site, Jeffrey J. Mayer, states that
successful people have identified the skills, talents,
and characteristics that enable them to succeed. He
suggests the 13 characteristics of successful people.
For instance: 1.Successful People Have a Dream.
2.Successful People Have Ambition. 3.Successful People
Are Strongly Motivated Toward Achievement. 4.Successful
People Take Responsibility for Their Actions.
5.Successful People Are Focused. 6.Successful People
Learn How to Get Things Done. 7.Successful People Look
for Solutions to Problems. 8.Successful People Make
Decisions. 9.Successful People Have the Courage to Admit
Theyâve Made a Mistake. 10.Successful People Are
Self-Reliant. 11.Successful People Have Specific
Knowledge, Training, and/or Skills and Talents.
12.Successful People Work with and Cooperate with Other
People. 13.Successful People Are Enthusiastic.
The author also suggests the tips to those who want to
achieve success.
Message no. 493
Thursday, March 6, 2003 11:42pm
Subject Are successful people more talented?
I wanted to find out if successful people are really
more talented than unsuccessful people? I searched
under google using the phrase, "successful people". No
problems except for A LOT of useless sites.
I found a site(www.jackfertig.com/archive-mackay.html)
that lists alot of quotes/phrases for people, I guess,
to keep in mind. The second phrase happened to be
(exactly), "Many successful people are no more talented
than unsuccessful people. The difference between them is
that successful people do those things that unsuccessful
people don't like to do. Successful people have the
determination, the will, the focus, the drive to
complete the tough jobs."
Interesting, huh? I really agree with the statement.
Message no. 522
Monday, March 10, 2003 12:33am
Subject Talents of successful people
For this specific research I was searching for anything
to do with talents of successful people. The search
terms or phrases that I used was "talents of successful
people." I did not have any problems with this search,
but I did not find a lot of information. Most of the
information and articles were similar. The search
engine that I used was yahoo. The web address of this
site is:
http://www.jackfertig.com/archive-mackay.htmlIn this article I found that many successful people are
no more talented than unsuccessful people. The
difference between them is that successful people do
things that unsuccessful people do not enjoy or like to
do. Another problem with unsuccessful people is that
patience and determination may be lacking.
Message no. 544[Branch from no. 522]
Friday, March 14, 2003 11:46am
Subject Re: Talents of successful people
I agree with you and the article that successful people
do not have anymore talent than unsuccessful people, and
that they do have more determination and are willing to
do what they can to acquire success. But then I thought
about it and success comes in different forms. It all
depends on the person living their own life. For
example, success for a homeless man would be to find a
meal somehow, that would equal success to him because he
was able to survive another day and without hunger
pains. In other words, I think that it is our own
perserverance or lack there of that determines how
successful we will be in life.
Message no. 552
Saturday, March 15, 2003 4:44pm
Subject Research Message: "Talents of Sucessful People"
For this week's research session I wanted to discover if
there was any truth to the claim that "many sucessful
people are no more talented than unsucessful people." I
began the search using Google and was forced to
implement six different search phrases before finally
giving up and trying another engine. The phrases
included "talents of sucessful people", "successful
people talents", "successful people vs unsuccessful
people", "talent and success", "successful people", and
lastly "articles on successful people."
Being the trooper that I am I tried another search
engine called Ask Jeeves. I typed in "Are suceessful
people more talented than unsuccessful people?" and came
up with two relevant sources. One of the sources was a
quotation from motivational speaker Harvey Mackay which
read, "the truth is that many successful people are no
more talented than unsuccessful people, the difference
between them lies in the old axiom that successful
people do the things that unsuccessful people don't like
to do." This can be found at
www.legalnews.net/living/quotes.htm The second source I
found was an article about a motivational book written
also by Harvey Mackay entitled "Pushing the Envelope".
The same quotation was cited in the article and it went
on to discuss what is needed to be successful. This can
be found at www.nysarm.org/marketing_magazinevlnum2.htm
Message no. 610
Monday, March 24, 2003 10:14pm
Subject What's the Real Secret of Successful People?
The objective of today's sesshin is to find the site
about the talent of successful people. The searching
terms are "successful-people-talent." I have no problem
in finding the following site.
http://www.positivepath.net/ideasCP3.asp "What's theReal Secret of Successful People?" By Catherine
Palin-Brinkworth
Some motivational speakers often quote "nothing can take
the place of persistence. Talent will not; nothing is
more common than unsuccessful men with talent...etc."
The author of this site says, however, "persistence is
not enough" to be successful. He writes that what
really holding you back is your "Glass Cage" (the limits
or barriers that are imposed not only by others but
yourself.) Breaking through your "Glass Cage" with
self-disciplined practice is the key to achieve your
sucessful dreams.
Message no. 620
Thursday, March 27, 2003 7:40pm
Subject Wisdom & Life Skills
The objective of my searching sesshin was to find more
about the topic "Talents of successful people." I used
the searching terms, "wisdom of life." I has no
problem in finding the following site.
http://www.4hb.com/08index.html "Wisdom & Life Skills"This site introduces links to various sites in relation
to wisdom and life skill.
http://www.4hb.com/08devwinningattitude.html One of thearticles is "How to Develop a Winning Attitude." The
author says, "Man's ability over all other creatures on
this Earth is the ability to think. All successful
people use this talent to improve their lives and
control their own destiny." In using your true mental
abilities, he refers to the seven triggering mechanisms
to be successful by Anthony Robbins.
Message no. 622[Branch from no. 620]
Thursday, March 27, 2003 9:09pm
Subject Re: Wisdom & Life Skills
The article "How to Develop a Winning Attitude" points
out a few important concepts that have been overlooked
by most of us who have researched this topic so far.
Knowing and evaluating your priorities is definitely
important; so is "bonding" with people. However, I know
that we can't all pinpoint the utmost important concepts
in being successful; I understand that we all have
different opinions and findings. It's good when someone
brings up "new" points. I liked the article - the
listing of Abraham Lincoln's "defeats" was good
supporting evidence for the concept of believing in
yourself.
Emiko, I was wondering how you came up with the search
term "wisdom of life"? Was that the first search term
you used or did you try several before thinking of that
particular phrase? I know that I will probably revisit
this topic again and I was hoping you could help me
gain more insight on what other search phrases to use.
(If you don't get a chance to respond to this post,
don't worry about it.)
Message no. 796[Branch from no. 622]
Friday, April 11, 2003 9:53pm
Subject Re: Wisdom & Life Skills
Hi, Michelle. I am sorry for replying to you so late.
After I was searching for the topics for a while, I came
to realize that I need the different and appropriate
searching terms to expand my search. So I tried to come
up with different kinds of searching terms.
Message no. 681[Branch from no. 620]
Thursday, April 3, 2003 10:19pm
Subject Re: Wisdom & Life Skills
attitude is everything in our lives. If you have found a
winning attitude you will go far. If everything was easy
no one would feel that success is that special. Those
who are successful on thier own had to pay thier dues at
one time or another in their life.
Message no. 623
Friday, March 28, 2003 11:05am
Subject Information Literacy
Information literacy is an important part to many
successful people, but of course you all came to that
conclusion from doing your research reports.
I found my website from the search engine Google:
http://www.ala.org/acrl/ilintro.html#ildefIt had a clear definition of what information literacy
was. I wonder how many of you found this site as well?
I'm guessing a lot.
Successful people need to maximize their success. In
order to do so they need to embrace that success with
open arms. Information literacy is a key ingredient, or
perhaps IS a key in its own right. Depending on the
analogy you want to use. Well anyway, keep an open
mind, look at the site if you have the time (If you are
done with your studies), and stay cool.
Message no. 627[Branch from no. 623]
Friday, March 28, 2003 12:59pm
Subject Re: Information Literacy
Hi Mark,
I came upon the exact same site for the definition of
information literacy! So, I am supposing that many
others did as well.
It's good that you pointed out the importance of
information literacy. Afterall, it does have a lot to do
with being successful; just knowing what you need, how
to find it, and how to use it will lead to an answer to
a question, the completion of a project, the rejection
of a theory, etc.
Message no. 687
Friday, April 4, 2003 12:32am
Subject success is a dream
i found this using google. i used successful people as
my search terms.
http://www.succeedinginbusiness.com/catalog/SuccessfulPeople.shtmlThis article is a promo for a book about successful
people. It is basically a self help book to be a more
successful person and how to do it. Being successful is
something you have to want and think about. doing this
causes one to be motivated to become what they think and
dream about. It helps you to change your perception on
the way you look at situations. You try to mimic what
someone that is successful would do and you copy them.
It brings composure to nervous situations and helps you
to keep control of yourself.
Message no. 706
Saturday, April 5, 2003 6:04pm
Subject Success for those who stick with it
I searched in msn.com under the phrase "talents of
successful people" and was lead to the site
http://www.smithfam.com/news/dec99c.html.This site talked about how successful people make more
mistakes because they try more things. So it doesn't
necessarily mean that successful people are more
talented, but because they are willing to work hard, be
creative and persevere. The author continues to say
that "no one achieves by quitting" which is very true.
I believe that we all have the same chances of being
successful. We just have to take those chances.
Message no. 784
Friday, April 11, 2003 11:13am
Subject Success comes in many forms
Using MSN and the phrase "talents of successful people"
I had no trouble finding an article;
http://www.signmaking.com/academy/13characteristics.htmlThese are the five things youâll find every successful
person has in common:
They have a dream. They have a plan. They have
specific knowledge or training. Theyâre willing to work
hard They donât take no for an answer.
So, in other words, everyone has the potential to be
successful, it is their perserverance and motivation
levels that determines their success.
Also, The following is a list of the skills, talents,
and characteristics youâll find in successful people:
1. Successful people have a dream.
2. Successful people have ambition.
3. Successful people are strongly motivated toward
achievement.
4. Successful people are focused.
5. Successful people learn how to get things done.
6. Successful people take responsibility for their
actions.
7. Successful people look for solutions to problems.
8. Successful people make decisions.
9. Successful people have the courage to admit theyâve
made a mistake.
10. Successful people are self-reliant.
11. Successful people have specific knowledge, training,
and/or skills and talents.
12. Successful people work with and cooperate with other
people.
13. Successful people are enthusiastic.
Message no. 890[Branch from no. 784]
Friday, April 25, 2003 11:25am
Subject Re: Success comes in many forms
6. Successful people take responsibility for their
actions.
7. Successful people look for solutions to problems.
8. Successful people make decisions.
9. Successful people have the courage to admit theyâve
made a mistake. Hi Teruya, it's Mark.
Working on my presentation now. Oh, that's right
back to business.
Ok, so I looked over this list and found that I
have like, only a few of these qualities! And it made
me realize that I could be much more successful had I
done everything on it. So far all I have are the top
end qualities:
10. Successful people are self-reliant.
11. Successful people have specific knowledge, training,
and/or skills and talents.
12. Successful people work with and cooperate with other
people.
13. Successful people are enthusiastic.
I hope that one day I could say that I have all of
these qualities of success. And hopefully, that I'm
also successful as well.
Well anyway, I'll see you around, oh, back to the
book report!
--Mark
Message no. 843
Wednesday, April 16, 2003 11:45pm
Subject an interview, chat forum, and song of the unsuccessful
Today, I was looking for a different perspective of the
talented and unsuccessful to add into my bibliograpy
report.
For this search, I thought i'd try a new search engine.
So I used
http://www.searchbug.com While using thissearch engine I found no problems. The layout and the
designs of this search engine is easy and
understandable. I would use it again.
To find these articles, I first used the phrase
(talented people) but I found many unrelevant articles.
Using this phrase, I mostly found audtions and casting
companies for the talented. So I reworded it (talented
and unsuccessful). This phrase was much better :) I
choose 3 articles that give a differnt perspective about
the talented people.
1. The first was
http://www.psychedonline.org/Articles/Vol2Iss3/HDouglasinterview.htm**This wepage was dedicated to Herb Douglas an olympic
bronze medalist. They conducted this interview to find
out what his opinion was or idea of what seperates the
talented athlete from a talented one but unsuccessful
one.
2.
http://www.pupiline.net/coolstuff/music/0102096251501.cfm**The above address is a kiddy place to talk about your
ideas of famous celebrities/enternainers. The topic on
this site seems to be about Music entertainers and their
talents.
3. The last website,
http://www.daypoems.net/plainpoems/1205.html is aboutsong titled: Song of the unsuccessful by Richard Burton.
I quoted one section of his song: "the men
ten-talented, who still strangley missed the goal, of
them weave: it seems thy will to harrow some in soul."
I'm not soo sure what he means in his poem/song--so take
a look at it.
Message no. 873
Tuesday, April 22, 2003 1:58pm
Subject successful people
I found this article using google.com
http://www.highlandsprogram.com/research2.htmlThis article explains the outcomes of their research on
The Highlands Program on successful people. The
Highlands program regularly assess participants in the
following fields: Ability match,
Stress,Optimism,Internal vs. External Locus of
Control,Connection to Company, Vision, Balance,
Satisfaction Index, and Productivity Index.
Message no. 874
Tuesday, April 22, 2003 2:02pm
Subject Tips for a successful business
I found this article using Google.com
http://www.icbs.com/KB/kb_the-secret-success-principle-for-small-businesses.htmThis article gives tips for businessess to become
successful. Some of the tips that it gives are to spend
the least time on those products that gieve the least
return on sales, establish close relationships with the
best clients and spend more time with them than your
lower profit customers, and simple products reduce
complexity and require less management.
Message no. 1038
Thursday, May 8, 2003 10:19am
Subject "Ingredients" of successful people
I entered ãtalentä and ãsuccessä in the Google Search
Engine, but most of the results pulled up were
advertisements on modeling. I then typed
ãcharacteristics of successful peopleä into the InfoGrid
Search Engine (www.infogrid.com) and found a couple of
useful articles.
ãThe 13 Characteristics of Successful Peopleä by Jeffrey
Mayer is the first article that I looked into. He gave
a list of thirteen characteristics that can be found in
successful people ( please go to
http://www.davekahle.com/article/people.htm).None of the lists above stresses that the ãinnate
abilityä or ãtalentä is what separates successful people
from unsuccessful people, although the eleventh item on
Mayerâs list does mention ãsuccessful people have
talentsä. From the lists, it can be concluded that
being talented is a plus, but not a must to be
successful.
It is, however, not absolutely true that successful
people are no more talented than unsuccessful people.
The emphasis is not on whether they are talented or not,
but on whether they work hard and improve on whatever
they are already good at. Many ingredients, when
combined together, create the special flavor of
successful people, but the ingredient talent is
ãoptionalä.
7. INSTANT GRATIFICATION WITHOUT PATIENCE
Message no. 98
Wednesday, January 29, 2003 6:46pm
Subject Instant Gratification
Sorry this is long, but I found some of the
articles interesting. I started by using the search
engine
http://www.skworm.com/. I donât like this searchengine, though because it does not give the web address
of the articles that you click on. I found an
interesting article called ãInstant Gratification Centre
Found?ä You can find this article at
http://www.nature.com/nsu/010531/010531-3.html. Thisarticle discusses the neuromechanisms involved with
instant gratification. There are actually parts of the
brain called the nucleus accumbens core (AcbC) in the
forebrain. This is because this part of the brain
controls the way an animal reacts to reward and when
damaged the animal will choose the reward now rather
than later even if the reward given later is
bigger/greater. The article also discusses drug
interactions and how they affect this part of the brain
and in turn the behavior of the animal. Behavior of
rats with this area of their brain also resembled ADHD.
I then found a website called Internet Grandfather with
a subjective article on the subject. You can find it
at:
http://www.internetgrandfather.com/archives/instant_gratification.htm.I found this opinion very interesting because the author
talked about how the younger generation is becoming more
geared towards instant gratification. This could be
because of the economics of life now such as the ease of
using credit cards or getting other kinds of loans.
People no longer have to work hard and wait for what
they want, they can get it now and work for it later.
The way our society has evolved also makes it hard for
people to make long-term plans. We are constantly
bombarded with advertising which tries to make us feel
as though we need the satisfaction now. As a younger
generation, we are also accustomed to a fast pace life
and instant information with the ease of internet. The
author then talks about the losses from instant
gratification. A person does not get the same internal
feeling of accomplishment. In the article
ãInstant Gratificationä by Martin Lindstrom, which you
can find at
http://www.linuxtoday.com.au/r/article/jsp/sid/11471,the issue is put into an economic perspective due to
more recent events. This article suggests that teens
will be more likely to behave in this way because of
recent tragedies in the world and that we may not have
long in life, so we need to take advantage of it now.
It also discusses how this consumer attitude may be
leading to companies offering incentives on much more
short-term basis. Or is it that these incentives
offered by companies produce this behavior in people?
Message no. 116[Branch from no. 98]
Friday, January 31, 2003 2:25pm
Subject Re: Instant Gratification
This is a reply to Velvet Voelz research on Instant
Gratification.
That is interesting that gratification delay is based on
a chemical in the brain. I agree that people today
demand for instant gratification because of how today's
technology and economy makes it so easy to get
everything instantly. You don't need to go to the store
anymore; sometimes it's just a click away.
I also agree that the market advertises that it is easy
and fast to get. Most advertisements advertise that
their product is something you need to get "right away"
or for the customer to "don't wait and act now". With
all that is available to us today, we don't have to wait
for something to come to us.
Message no. 134
Sunday, February 2, 2003 9:23pm
Subject A generation without patience
I found this article "Instant Gratification versus
Resilience in Children"
http://abc.net.au/rn/science/ockham/stories/s599369.htm. I found this site using the search engine
searchbug.com.
This article explains how western childern of this
generation are being influenced by major cultural
changes. A lot of emphasis is being placed on
individual wealth and pleasure rather than the
collective good. The excessive love and indulging in
one's personal wants. Many children grow up in
situations where instant gratification is the norm.
Whatever they want they get. These children do not have
to earn it and begin to expect that what they want will
always be given to them. These methods of parenting are
being questioned with a great deal of evidence of the
high rate of mental health problems in young people, and
the very troubling youth suicide rate.
When children experience more challenges toward
attaining something that they want it teaches them to
improvise, to wait, or to work for what they want rather
than just sticking their hands out to their parents. As
a result when they get what they want it makes their
goal more valued and appreciated.
Message no. 203[Branch from no. 134]
Friday, February 7, 2003 9:51am
Subject Re: A generation without patience
this was a good article you found. Perhaps this idea of
self over others is why the divorce rate is so high in
our country. People never learned how to earn or wait
for something and when they do get it after they are
done with it they throw it aside and find something new
to play with. I think that parenting has a huge impact
in this with parents giving their kids everything with
out them earning it or being patient for it.
Message no. 384[Branch from no. 203]
Friday, February 21, 2003 7:58pm
Subject Re: A generation without patience
I agree with ShaneN that instant gratification for yong
children is definitely detrimental to them. They learn
to expect instant rewards for work done. This is not
beneficial to children, as they need to learn more
difficult lessons of hard work and perseverance. These
kids will never learn about patience and waiting for
rewards of long term goals. For example, in school
final grades may come months after much hard work and
effort. However, the satisfaction of attaining long
term goals is much greater than short term instant
gratification. As a high school baseball coach, I am
trying to teach the fact that hard work is rewarded.
However, they must learn patience and perseverance in
order to reach these rewards.
Message no. 212[Branch from no. 134]
Friday, February 7, 2003 1:07pm
Subject Re: A generation without patience
That was a great website. It's important to look at how
instant gratification affects children. A parent who
gives their child a toy they are whining for is
encouraging instant gratification, not just stopping
their screaming. By buying that toy, instead of saying
no and dealing with complaining, they are telling their
child that it is okay to demand whatever they want
whenever they want. They are also setting an example of
making wrong choices in order to avoid inconvenience.
I was raised by the ideology that part of being a kid is
not getting what you want, a lot! "Pigs don't get
nothing," was my dad's favorite saying, which came from
his parents, so whenever I ever asked too often for a
toy he would say that and I stopped. Of course I didn't
like it, but that's part of being a child. The current
generation of parents need to look at what their actions
are teaching children. Parents may feel ineffective
against their child's "gimme gimmies", but they still
have the power of "no" and they can still teach their
children patience.
Message no. 243[Branch from no. 134]
Tuesday, February 11, 2003 12:50am
Subject Re: A generation without patience
This topic really hit home with me because I see it all
the time with my five year old nephew. The reason behind
his expectations to recieve what he wants is ultimately
a parenting issue. Stemming from this parenting flaw are
two factors that I think weigh heavily upon his
development into a spoiled brat. Representing the most
recent link in a long chain of instant gratifiers is my
beloved nephew. One only need witness his mother's
parenting skills for two hours to aptly trace the origin
of his spoiledness. By this I mean that if parents were
brought up a certain way then most likely their children
will inherit the same traits. I think his parents
divorce has a lot to do with his demeanor also. He's
still too young to truely understand the meaning of
divorce but kids aren't stupid. It doesn't take long
before they learn to manipulate divorced parents into
getting what they want. Parents will at times compete
for "favorite parent status" by buying their child's
happiness. I think this produces children who expect too
much and earn too little.
Message no. 161
Tuesday, February 4, 2003 6:10pm
Subject Tools for personal growth
Using www.google.com, I pursued the subject instant
gratification without patience and had a great deal of
difficulty finding useful imformation. Firstly, rather
than recognizing the negative aspect of the subject,
most of the links I found were helping consumers achieve
instant gratification. Anyways, I changed my keywords
to